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  1. 17h ago

    Desire Needs Direction // Table Talks // Rodney Hobbs

    Sex was never meant to be hidden or hyped — God designed it for a place, a purpose, and a person. This week's discussion guide walks through 1 Corinthians 6-7 and Genesis 2, helping you and your group process what the Bible actually says about sex, brokenness, and grace. Includes reflection questions, table talk prompts for families, and a companion article for parents navigating this conversation with their kids. August 16, 2026 · 1 Corinthians 6:9-11, 7:2-5, Genesis 2:24 Keep the Fire in Its Place Download & Print Guide Parenting Conversations #1: Talking To Your Kids About Sex 01 Key Takeaways God designed sex for a place. In marriage, one man and one woman become one flesh — a covenant of complete, exclusive, and permanent love. Outside that place, the same fire that warms a home can burn it down.Genesis 2:24 God designed sex with a purpose. Scripture points to procreation, pleasure, and a pledge that renews the marriage covenant. None of it embarrasses God — he's the one who designed it.1 Corinthians 7:2-5 Sin has broken all of us sexually. Every person in the room has either sinned or been sinned against in this area. Naming that honestly is the first step toward healing, not shame.1 Corinthians 6:18 Sex is a signpost, not a destination. Even at its best, sex points beyond itself — to the joy we'll know forever with Jesus, face to face. It was never meant to carry that weight alone.Ephesians 5:32 Grace puts broken people back together. Whatever you've done or had done to you, you're not defined by it. Jesus washes, sets free, and welcomes sexually broken people into a new identity — his own.1 Corinthians 6:9-11 02 Community Group Prep Before your group meets, take a few minutes with these: Read 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 and 7:2-5 slowly. Notice where your view of sex has been shaped more by culture or past hurt than by God's design.Sit with one question honestly: which lie about sex — casual, essential, or merely physical — do you find easiest to believe?Pray Paul's words over yourself: 'I am not my own, but belong to God.' Ask him to make your group a place of surrender, not shame. 03 Reflection Questions Where have you seen sex pulled out of its place — in your own story or in the culture around you?Scripture calls us to flee sexual immorality. Where do you need to flee — and what would that look like practically this week?Is there a next step of obedience in this area you've been putting off — a conversation, a boundary, a decision?You've been washed, sanctified, and justified (1 Corinthians 6:11). Which is hardest to believe about yourself — and how would believing it change this week? 04 Table Talk Don't let the conversation stop at the door. What's one gift God has given our family that's easy to take for granted?Where do you see our culture telling a different story than God does about love and marriage?A little boy once asked his mom, 'What does God do all day?' She said, 'He fixes broken things.' What's one broken thing you'd love for God to fix? Memory verse this week — read it, say it, learn it together: You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body. — 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 05 Prep for Sunday Our whole church family will be together for Enjoy Weekend, August 20-22. It all culminates on Sunday with baptisms all day, in every service. Come celebrate what Jesus has done in people's lives, and see what he might be inviting you into next. Companion Resource Parenting Conversations #1: Talking To Your Kids About Sex A pastoral guide for parents on talking with your kids about sex. READ THE ARTICLE ONLY JESUS SATISFIES · stonegate.church · Midlothian, TX

    Desire Needs Direction // Table Talks // Rodney Hobbs
  2. Aug 9

    Marriage: It's Bigger Than You // Table Talks // Rodney Hobbs

    Marriage isn't something we invented — it's something we were given. Genesis 2 shows a God who designed marriage before sin ever touched the world. Ephesians 5 shows why: every marriage is a picture of something bigger than the two people in it. This week we ask what marriage is actually for, and why we were never meant to carry it alone. Marriage: It's Bigger Than You | Stonegate Church August 9, 2026 · Genesis 2:18–25, Ephesians 5:31–32 Marriage: It's Bigger Than You Marriage isn't our invention to redefine — it's God's gift, designed to point past itself to Jesus giving his life for his bride. This week's guide walks through Genesis 2 and Ephesians 5, with questions to carry the conversation home. Download & Print Guide 10 Diagnostic Questions August 9, 2026 · Genesis 2:18-25, Ephesians 5:31-32 Marriage: It's Bigger Than You SG 01 Key Takeaways Marriage is a gift, not our invention. God designed marriage before sin ever entered the world. It's his idea to define, not ours to redefine. Genesis 2:18-24 One flesh means a life fully shared. Marriage is a comprehensive oneness — two lives, one story, held together without shame or hiding. Genesis 2:24-25 Earthly marriage points past itself. Every marriage exists to be seen through, not just seen — a living picture of Jesus giving his life for his bride. Ephesians 5:31-32 Don't fight for your marriage alone. When your marriage is struggling, slow down before it becomes a crisis. Let your pastors and your community in — you were never meant to carry this by yourself. Galatians 6:2 Loving well starts with being loved first. We can't manufacture sacrificial love on our own. We love our spouse only after we've been loved by Jesus. 1 John 4:19 02 Reflection Questions What stands out to you about God's design for marriage in Genesis 2:18-25? Is there a person you need to forgive, or a wrong you need to own and confess, before you can move forward? Go on a date this week and talk through the 10 Diagnostic Questions together. Which one are you both willing to answer honestly? 03 Community Group Prep Before your group meets, take a few minutes with these: Read Genesis 2:18-25 slowly. Notice what God calls "not good," and what he does about it. Marriage is a gift, but it's not ultimately about us. On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate your marriage right now? Pray through the sermon's three questions: your love for Jesus, your pursuit of your spouse, any bitterness you're carrying. 04 Table Talk — Carry the Convo Don't let the conversation stop at the door. What's one thing you've seen modeled — in your family or someone else's — about what a good marriage looks like? Why do you think weddings still make people emotional, even strangers at a wedding they don't know well? Who's one couple you look up to, and what do you notice about how they treat each other? Memory verse this week — read it, say it, learn it together: We love because he first loved us. — 1 John 4:19 05 Prep for Sunday We're continuing our new series called Table Talks: honest conversations about marriage, sex, community, money, and what it looks like to enjoy Jesus in the middle of life. A Note for Parents Our Sunday message on August 16 is covering the conversation around sex. We'd encourage parents to use discernment for any kids under the age of 10. This sermon will create great discipleship discussion for your older children. Download & Print Guide Companion Resource 10 Diagnostic Questions for Marriage A car's dashboard shows you what's going on before a small issue becomes a big one. These questions work the same way for your marriage — not a scorecard, not ammunition for an argument. Answer honestly, and ask God to show you one next step. Download the 10 Questions (PDF) Only Jesus Satisfies · stonegate.church · Midlothian, TX

    Marriage: It's Bigger Than You // Table Talks // Rodney Hobbs
  3. Aug 2

    The God Contradiction // Exodus // Jimmy Needham

    After the golden calf, Moses asks God for one thing: let me see Your glory. God says no — but He gives something better. He tells Moses exactly who He is: merciful, gracious, slow to anger, abounding in steadfast love. It's God's own definition of Himself, and it's still how He wants to be known today. But hidden inside that definition is a contradiction. God forgives sin. God will not clear the guilty. Both are true — and both can't be, unless something makes a way. Exodus asks the question. The cross answers it. DOWNLOAD & PRINT GUIDE August 2, 2026 · Exodus 34:6-7, Romans 3:21-26 The God Contradiction 01 Key Takeaways God defines Himself as merciful first. When God finally tells Moses who He is, mercy leads the list — not anger or judgment. Exodus 34:6 His compassion is like a mother's love. The word for mercy comes from the word for womb. God isn't just sympathetic — He's bound to us. Exodus 34:6 God is patient, not passive. Slow to anger means God doesn't rush to punish, even when we deserve it. His steadfast love — hesed — is loyal, "not going anywhere" love. Exodus 34:6 Justice and forgiveness meet at the cross. God forgives sin, and will not clear the guilty — both are true. Jesus is how. He was punished so we could be forgiven. Romans 3:25-26 02 Reflection Questions Before this message, what three words would you have used for God? How do they compare with Exodus 34:6? Which attribute—compassionate, gracious, slow to anger, or abounding in love—most encourages you this season? What do you sometimes do to try to earn God's blessing or pay Him back for your sin? How does the cross free you both from minimizing your sin and from being crushed by guilt? What would it look like to actually rest in Jesus' finished work and enjoy Him this week? 03 Community Group Prep Before your group meets, take a few minutes with these: What's one way this message either challenged or encouraged your view of God? Reread Exodus 34:6-7 and Romans 3:21-26. What stands out to you now? What's something you've been carrying alone that your group could carry with you? 04 Table Talk Don't let the conversation stop at the door. Why can't doing more good things make up for our sin? What did Jesus do for us at the cross? Why is it good that God is both forgiving and just? What would be missing if He were only one? Read this line from the Jesus Storybook Bible: "Never Stopping, Never Giving Up, Unbreaking, Always and Forever Love." What does that mean to you? Memory verse this week — read it, say it, learn it together: "A God merciful and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in steadfast love." — Exodus 34:6 05 Prep for Sunday This fall, We're starting a new series called Table Talks: honest conversations about marriage, sex, community, money, and what it looks like to enjoy Jesus in the middle of life. Until We're satisfied in Jesus, we'll keep looking for security in the wrong places, in relationships, in bank accounts, in belonging. Scripture speaks directly into all of it, and we want to sit down and talk about it together, as a church family. A note for parents Our Sunday message on August 16 is covering the conversation around sex. We'd encourage parents to use discernment for any kids under the age of 10. This sermon will create great discipleship discussion for your older children. Also starting August 9 We're moving to three services — 8, 9:45, and 11:30. Pick one and we'll see you there. DOWNLOAD & PRINT GUIDE Only Jesus Satisfies · stonegate.church · Midlothian, TX

    The God Contradiction // Exodus // Jimmy Needham
  4. Jul 26

    Gifts or God // Exodus // Rodney Hobbs

    God offered Israel everything He promised — the land, the victory, the future — but told them He wouldn't go with them. And they mourned. They were learning what we're still learning: God is not the way to the blessing. God is the blessing. Exodus 33 puts two questions in front of us. Do you really want God, or do you just want what He gives? And if sin separates us from Him, how could we possibly have Him at all? Moses answers the first. Jesus answers the second. DOWNLOAD & PRINT GUIDE Do I Want God? — Weekly Discussion Guide | Stonegate Church July 26, 2026  ·  Exodus 33:1-17 Do I Want God? Set Free to Be Satisfied  ·  Part 14 01Key Takeaways God is the gift, not just the giver. When God offered Israel the land without His presence, they mourned. They were learning Bible math: GOD + NOTHING = EVERYTHING. God Himself was always the point. Exodus 33:1-4 Our hearts drift toward gifts over God. Demas walked away from Paul “in love with this present world.” Every day, remaining sin pulls us toward God's blessings and away from God Himself. 2 Timothy 4:10 Jesus brings us back to God. Moses interceded for an unfavored people from his favored position — a shadow of Jesus. Christ suffered, the righteous for the unrighteous, to bring us to God. 1 Peter 3:18 The best day is still ahead. One day we will see His face. Every longing we've ever had will find its home right there. What makes heaven heaven is not the absence of pain — it's the presence of God. Revelation 22:4 02Reflection Questions God offered Israel the promised land without His presence. Why would getting everything you've ever wanted — without God — actually be the worst deal imaginable? Where in your own life do you find yourself believing the wrong math — that God's gifts are the real prize and God is just the means to get them? When God withholds or removes something you love, what does that reveal about what you love most? Has a hard season ever uncovered a hidden idol? Moses asked God to stay with people who didn't deserve His presence. Jesus intercedes for us the same way, right now. How does that change how you pray? Piper asked: could you be satisfied in heaven if Christ were not there? What's your honest answer — and what does it reveal about your heart? 03Community Group Prep Before your group meets, take a few minutes with these: Read Exodus 33:1-17 and Habakkuk 3:17-18. Sit with this: Could you rejoice in God if He removed every gift He's given you? Journal on Piper's question: “If you could have heaven with no sickness, all the friends, all the food — could you be satisfied if Christ were not there?” Write honestly. Come ready to share: one area of life where you're tempted to want what God gives more than God Himself. 04Table Talk — Carry the Convo Don't let the conversation stop at the door. Pastor Rodney talked about a girl who left the guy at the Grand Canyon to call her friends about the ring. How are we sometimes like that with God? Why did the people mourn when God said He wouldn't go with them — even though they were still getting the promised land? What's one thing in your life right now that you'd have a hard time giving up, even for more of God? Memory verse this week — read it, say it, learn it together: “In your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.” — Psalm 16:11 05Prep for Sunday Exodus has shown us the truth: God sets His people free so they can have Him. We've been set free to be satisfied. Pray for our church this week. Ask God to keep our hearts hungry for Him. Then come next Sunday ready to hear what He wants to say to us. Only Jesus Satisfies  ·  stonegate.church  ·  Midlothian, TX

    Gifts or God // Exodus // Rodney Hobbs

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