What to Say & How to Say It

Charisma Podcast Network
  • 5.0 (3)
  • Religion & Spirituality
  • Semiweekly

Nina Roesner teaches us how to STOP REACTING in conflict situations, and discover how to RESPOND instead! Conquer people-pleasing, establish boundaries - create authentic relationships! This is how we learn "What to Say & How to Say It".

  1. Oct 26

    321: How Your Childhood Affects Your Marriage | Break Unhealthy Patterns

    Are you repeatedly arguing about money, housework, family, or communication, but the conflict feels much bigger than the issue itself? Your childhood experiences may have created beliefs and emotional reactions that are still shaping your marriage today. Even small moments from your past can influence how you handle criticism, conflict, perfectionism, approval, and connection with your spouse. In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner discuss: - How childhood experiences affect adult relationships - Why couples repeat unhealthy marriage patterns - How hidden beliefs create emotional triggers - Why small childhood memories can carry lasting weight - How Christian couples can invite God into the healing process - Practical steps for replacing false beliefs with biblical truth You do not have to keep repeating what you learned growing up. With awareness, prayer, and intentional action, you can break unhealthy patterns and build a stronger, healthier marriage. Visit GreaterImpactCouples.org for the free marriage assessment and 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells.

  2. Oct 19

    320: Why You Keep Chasing the Wrong Things in Your Marriage!

    Why do you still feel empty, unseen, or disconnected in your marriage—even when you're trying everything to feel better? In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove reveal four common counterfeits we reach for: - Pleasure that pretends to be peace - Distraction that looks like rest - Validation that tries to become worth - Control that imitates safety Discover how these substitutes quietly affect your emotional health, communication, and connection with your spouse—and learn how to pursue the peace, rest, identity, and security you truly need.

  3. Oct 12

    319: Your Marriage Will Never Grow Until You Know Who God Made You To Be

    Are you clear about who God is calling you to become, or are you simply reacting to life and marriage as it happens? In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner explain how writing a personal vision statement can strengthen your identity in Christ and begin transforming your marriage from the inside out. This is not another New Year's resolution or wish list. You'll learn how to create a present-tense declaration rooted in Scripture that clearly describes the person you are becoming spiritually, emotionally, relationally, and physically. In this episode: - Why writing your vision matters - How identity in Christ affects your marriage - How to create a biblical personal vision statement - Why positive, present-tense language is important - How visualization and repeated language influence your thinking - Why small, sustainable changes produce lasting growth - How personal transformation can change your family culture - Where to begin when you no longer know who you are Your marriage cannot develop a clear family vision until you begin understanding who God created you to be. Start small, write it down, and invite God to shape your character one decision at a time. Visit GreaterImpactCouples.org to download 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells and take the free marriage assessment. #IdentityInChrist #ChristianMarriage #MarriageTransformation

  4. Oct 5

    318: Emotional Abuse in Marriage: Recognize the Signs, Set Boundaries & Heal

    Are you walking on eggshells in your marriage, questioning your own reactions, or wondering whether conflict has become emotionally harmful? In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shai Lewis and Nina Roesner discuss emotional abuse and harmful patterns in Christian marriage. They explore verbal aggression, contempt, controlling behavior, stonewalling, emotional withdrawal, and using silence or affection as punishment. Through the "Look in Both Directions" exercise, you'll learn how to recognize the behavior affecting you while also honestly examining how your own words and reactions may be hurting your spouse. This conversation is not about condemnation or assigning permanent labels. It is about clarity, accountability, healthy boundaries, healing, and allowing God to transform the way you respond to conflict. In this episode: • How harmful marriage patterns develop and escalate • Why both spouses must examine their behavior honestly • The emotional effects of living in a harsh environment • How to set boundaries without creating more conflict • Why healing must happen before healthy communication • How identity in Christ changes your response • What it means to take responsibility and go first Download the free PDF, "5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells," and take the free marriage assessment at GreaterImpactCouples.org. Important: This episode is intended for couples who both want to grow and change. It is not a substitute for a professional safety assessment. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, contact emergency services. In the United States, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), text START to 88788, or visit TheHotline.org. #EmotionalAbuse #ChristianMarriage #MarriageConflict

  5. Sep 28

    317: Speaking Your Truth: Why Your Voice Matters More Than You Think

    Discover how to live with intention as Nina Roesner interviews author Kyle Hargrove about his new book, Out Loud and On Purpose. In this episode, Nina sits down with Kyle Hardrove, a licensed professional counselor, to discuss the principles found in Out Loud and On Purpose. They explore the intersection of faith and mental health, offering viewers insights into how to navigate life's challenges with clarity and conviction. If you are seeking practical Christian counseling to help you align your daily actions with your values, this interview is for you. Kyle shares wisdom on overcoming obstacles and fostering personal growth, helping you move forward with confidence in your walk with God. Whether you need relationship advice or encouragement for your own journey, these tools will help you live more intentionally. Subscribe for weekly relationship advice breakdowns to keep growing your connection, and share one step you are taking to live on purpose today.

  6. Sep 21

    316: What to Say When You Feel Like Giving Up on Your Marriage

    Get practical Christian marriage advice to help you navigate conflict and build a deeper connection with your spouse. Shai Lewis and Nina Rosner continue their marriage series, focusing on the essential tools needed to work through disagreements. This episode is designed for husbands and wives seeking to improve communication and cultivate a healthy, God-honoring relationship. You will learn how to approach difficult conversations and foster a thriving marriage by keeping your focus on Christ. Whether you are dealing with recurring arguments or simply want to strengthen your marriage connection, these insights provide a path toward restoration and lasting intimacy. Subscribe for weekly relationship advice breakdowns to keep growing your connection, and share one step you are taking to improve communication in your home.

  7. Sep 14

    315: Why Your Arguments Are Getting Worse (And How to Fix It)

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  8. Sep 7

    314: What to Say When You're Angry: Communication Secrets for Christian Couples

    Is hidden resentment hurting your marriage? Your words may sound loving, but your facial expressions and body language can reveal unresolved anger, disappointment, and pain to your spouse. In this Christian marriage podcast episode, Shai Lewis and Nina Roesner explain how unhealed wounds affect communication, emotional intimacy, trust, commitment, and forgiveness in marriage. You'll discover why saying the right words is not enough when your heart and facial expressions are communicating something different. In this episode, you'll learn: • How hidden resentment damages marriage • What your facial expressions communicate to your spouse • How to rebuild trust after betrayal or broken promises • Why forgiveness does not eliminate boundaries or consequences • How commitment to God strengthens your marriage • How to stop bringing past wounds into present conflicts • How to encourage your spouse's growth and create emotional safety • Why healing your heart can transform your communication Marriage restoration takes time. Trust is rebuilt through consistent honesty, reliability, integrity, grace, and Christ-centered inner healing. When God heals what is happening inside your heart, the way you speak, respond, and connect with your spouse begins to change. What to Say & How to Say It is a Christian marriage podcast helping husbands and wives navigate conflict, improve communication, rebuild emotional connection, and create a thriving, Christ-centered marriage. Visit greaterimpactcouples.org to download the free guide, 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells, and take the free marriage assessment.

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Nina Roesner teaches us how to STOP REACTING in conflict situations, and discover how to RESPOND instead! Conquer people-pleasing, establish boundaries - create authentic relationships! This is how we learn "What to Say & How to Say It".

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  • Creator
    Charisma Podcast Network
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    314
  • Rating
    Clean
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