What to Say & How to Say It

Charisma Podcast Network
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  • Religion & Spirituality
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Nina Roesner teaches us how to STOP REACTING in conflict situations, and discover how to RESPOND instead! Conquer people-pleasing, establish boundaries - create authentic relationships! This is how we learn "What to Say & How to Say It".

  1. Sep 21

    316: What to Say When You Feel Like Giving Up on Your Marriage

    Get practical Christian marriage advice to help you navigate conflict and build a deeper connection with your spouse. Shai Lewis and Nina Rosner continue their marriage series, focusing on the essential tools needed to work through disagreements. This episode is designed for husbands and wives seeking to improve communication and cultivate a healthy, God-honoring relationship. You will learn how to approach difficult conversations and foster a thriving marriage by keeping your focus on Christ. Whether you are dealing with recurring arguments or simply want to strengthen your marriage connection, these insights provide a path toward restoration and lasting intimacy. Subscribe for weekly relationship advice breakdowns to keep growing your connection, and share one step you are taking to improve communication in your home.

  2. Sep 14

    315: Why Your Arguments Are Getting Worse (And How to Fix It)

    What to Say & How to Say It

  3. Sep 7

    314: What to Say When You're Angry: Communication Secrets for Christian Couples

    Is hidden resentment hurting your marriage? Your words may sound loving, but your facial expressions and body language can reveal unresolved anger, disappointment, and pain to your spouse. In this Christian marriage podcast episode, Shai Lewis and Nina Roesner explain how unhealed wounds affect communication, emotional intimacy, trust, commitment, and forgiveness in marriage. You'll discover why saying the right words is not enough when your heart and facial expressions are communicating something different. In this episode, you'll learn: • How hidden resentment damages marriage • What your facial expressions communicate to your spouse • How to rebuild trust after betrayal or broken promises • Why forgiveness does not eliminate boundaries or consequences • How commitment to God strengthens your marriage • How to stop bringing past wounds into present conflicts • How to encourage your spouse's growth and create emotional safety • Why healing your heart can transform your communication Marriage restoration takes time. Trust is rebuilt through consistent honesty, reliability, integrity, grace, and Christ-centered inner healing. When God heals what is happening inside your heart, the way you speak, respond, and connect with your spouse begins to change. What to Say & How to Say It is a Christian marriage podcast helping husbands and wives navigate conflict, improve communication, rebuild emotional connection, and create a thriving, Christ-centered marriage. Visit greaterimpactcouples.org to download the free guide, 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells, and take the free marriage assessment.

  4. Aug 24

    313: 4 Communication Patterns That Are Destroying Your Christian Marriage (And How to Fix Them)

    Are certain communication patterns quietly damaging your Christian marriage? Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling can slowly break down trust, connection, and intimacy between husband and wife. But these behaviors are often only part of the story. Underneath them may be deeper patterns connected to fear, insecurity, and attachment. In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner unpack the 4 communication patterns that can destroy a marriage, how attachment styles influence the way couples handle conflict, and what it looks like to move toward greater security through your identity in Christ. You'll discover: • The 4 destructive communication patterns to watch for • Why criticism and contempt can be so damaging • What defensiveness and stonewalling may reveal • How anxious and avoidant attachment create a chase-and-withdraw cycle • What secure attachment looks like in marriage • How growing in your identity in Christ can change the way you respond to conflict • Practical steps toward healthier communication and deeper connection   This conversation isn't about diagnosing or blaming your spouse. It's about recognizing unhealthy patterns, taking responsibility for your own growth, and allowing God to transform the way you love and communicate.   If your marriage feels stuck in the same arguments, distance, or communication problems, there is hope. Change can begin with becoming aware of the pattern and choosing a different response.   Visit Greater Impact Couples for Christian marriage resources, coaching, a free marriage assessment, and the free 5 Tools for How to Stop Walking on Eggshells resource.   Subscribe to What to Say & How to Say It for more practical, faith-based conversations on Christian marriage, communication, conflict, and building a stronger relationship.   #ChristianMarriage #MarriageAdvice #MarriageCommunication #ChristianMarriageAdvice #MarriageHelp #AttachmentStyles #HealthyMarriage #ChristianRelationships #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageProblems

  5. Aug 17

    312: What to Say When You're Frustrated with Your Husband

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  6. Aug 10

    311: Why Your Words Are Hurting Your Marriage (and How to Fix It)

    Learn how to navigate marriage conflict with better communication. Discover practical steps to build connection as a couple. In this episode of the Marriage Transformation Series, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner address the specific challenges Christian couples face when trying to resolve arguments. If you often struggle to find the right words during tense moments, this discussion provides a roadmap for healthier interactions. We break down actionable ways to speak to your spouse with clarity and grace, ensuring that your conversations lead to understanding rather than further division. Effective couple communication requires more than just good intentions; it requires a strategy. By applying the principles of healthy marriage habits discussed here, you can lower the tension in your home and foster a deeper emotional bond. Whether you are navigating a current disagreement or simply want to improve your daily interactions, this marriage advice offers a clear path forward for those seeking a stronger, more connected relationship. Subscribe for weekly marriage advice and relationship breakdowns. What is one specific communication challenge you are currently working through with your spouse?

  7. Aug 3

    310: How Healthy Boundaries Can Transform Your Marriage

    Setting marriage boundaries is essential for navigating conflict and building a stronger connection with your spouse. Learn how to protect your relationship and foster a thriving partnership. Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner share practical Christian marriage advice designed to help couples manage disagreements effectively. Whether you are struggling to communicate or simply want to strengthen your bond, this discussion provides actionable steps to implement better marriage boundaries today. This series is built for those looking to apply biblical principles to everyday relationship challenges. By focusing on intentional communication and setting boundaries, you can reduce recurring arguments and create a more peaceful home environment. We break down the specific habits that lead to healthier interactions and long-term stability. If you feel like you are stuck in a cycle of conflict, these insights offer a clear path toward resolution and emotional closeness. Subscribe for weekly marriage advice breakdowns to keep growing your relationship. Leave a comment below sharing one area where you are currently trying to set healthier boundaries in your home.

  8. Jul 27

    309: The Truth About Communication They Won't Tell You | Christian Marrriage Communication

    Nina Roesner and Kyle Hargrove discuss controversial topics on this episode of Out Loud and On Purpose. Gain a fresh perspective. In this session, Nina Roesner sits down with licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove to navigate a subject that frequently sparks debate. If you are looking for nuanced dialogue on complex social issues, this conversation provides the clarity you need to form your own informed opinion. We break down the arguments surrounding these controversial topics to help you understand different viewpoints. Kyle Hardrove applies his background in professional counseling to analyze the discourse, ensuring the talk remains grounded and practical. This episode is essential viewing for anyone tired of surface-level debates and ready for a deeper look at how we communicate about sensitive matters.

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Nina Roesner teaches us how to STOP REACTING in conflict situations, and discover how to RESPOND instead! Conquer people-pleasing, establish boundaries - create authentic relationships! This is how we learn "What to Say & How to Say It".

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  • Creator
    Charisma Podcast Network
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    309
  • Rating
    Clean
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