Diaries of a Domme + Questions Answered, by Chastity Queen

Chastity Queen

Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub. Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share. It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes. I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed. BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community. I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book! If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure. BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be. There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"Chastity Queen xoxo

  1. The Power of Chastity

    EPISODE 1

    The Power of Chastity

    Chastity is not about torture or deprivation but rather a transformative practice that elevates men's sexual awareness and creates profound power exchange. Through controlling urges and transmuting sexual energy, men can discover deeper forms of pleasure and submission that honor their dominant partners. • Understanding why chastity is fundamentally about control and power exchange • Transmuting sexual energy into something more elevated and illuminated • Breaking free from patterns of instant gratification and masturbation • Working through intensified urges rather than immediately relieving them • Discovering the "gift" that comes from denying immediate pleasure • Honoring female dominants through restraint and self-control • Pushing beyond your comfort zone to reach new levels of submission • Using denial as a pathway to becoming your higher sexual self Stay caged, get caged, push yourself for me. Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE15% OFF Shoe Freaks-PROMO%CHASTITYQUEEN GET your 15% OFF ANYTHING when you buy SEXY Shoes, heels & Stripper Boots at Shoe Freaks Canada!www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show https://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN

    13 min
  2. Your Penis Will Shrink Under My Hypnotic Control

    EPISODE 3

    Your Penis Will Shrink Under My Hypnotic Control

    It is time to lay back, relax and listen as I tell you how small your penis really is!  In fact, it will begin shrinking for Me, if you listen to this over and over again! I love to tell men that they are small and I could do this daily!  So, get relaxed, open you mind and body to Me, and accept what I have to tell you! • Special 15% discount at LockedInLust.com with promo code CHASTITYQUEEN for chastity devices and other kinky products • Follow on FetLife at chastity-queen for updates, polls, pictures, and videos For more hypnosis sessions and to connect with me, visit my FetLife profile and send friend requests. I always welcome new followers and community engagement! Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREETHRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show https://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN

    17 min
  3. Surrendering Control: Hypnotic Journey into Chastity

    EPISODE 4

    Surrendering Control: Hypnotic Journey into Chastity

    Dive into a guided hypnotic journey exploring dominance, submission, and the psychological aspects of chastity and power exchange. • Consent and boundaries established for safe hypnotic practice • Progressive relaxation techniques to enter a receptive mental state • Exploration of chastity as both physical and psychological control • Sensory play and bondage incorporated through hypnotic suggestion • Power dynamics and ownership as central themes in dominance relationships • Psychological aspects of pleasure denial and how it increases devotion • Careful awakening process ensuring wellbeing after hypnotic experience Follow on FetLife under Chastity-Queen and welcome friend requests and followers. Get 15% off at LockedInLust.com for chastity devices using discount code CHASTITYQUEEN. Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE15% OFF Shoe Freaks-PROMO%CHASTITYQUEEN GET your 15% OFF ANYTHING when you buy SEXY Shoes, heels & Stripper Boots at Shoe Freaks Canada!www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show https://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN

    39 min
  4. Chastity Hypno: Celebrating International Male Chastity Day!

    EPISODE 6

    Chastity Hypno: Celebrating International Male Chastity Day!

    Hello caged sub! Ready to submit?  I will guide a consent-first hypnosis that uses breath and movement to quiet the mind, then step into a ritual of chastity, ownership, and daily devotion while returning you to wakeful energy. Clear rules, vivid cues, and a calm re-entry help focus grow beyond the session. • consent and memory affirmed before hypnosis • breathwork and muscle release to ground attention • ritual framing of International Male Chastity Day • keys, clicks, and symbols as daily anchors • obedience and non-penetrative service reframed as purpose • count-up re-entry to wakeful, balanced energy • gear tips and a promo for reliable devices Don't forget to subscribe to my podcast And if you want a fantastic chastity device or a high quality strap-on or any other kinky items, go to www.lockedinlust.com and you can sign up for the latest MACH 2 Vice, which is absolutely a game changer, no hinges! And you can use my PROMO code CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% off and that is stackable, so it's fabulous! You can use that in tandem with other discounts. Chastity IS freedom! Chastity Queen  Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show https://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN

    20 min
  5. Sissy Wardrobe Diaries

    EPISODE 8

    Sissy Wardrobe Diaries

    A quiet ritual can change everything. We invite you into Violetta’s Sissy Wardrobe Diary, a tender, detailed look at how task obedience from Chastity Queen, clothing, and daily routines can reshape identity with grace. What starts as a simple day at home unfolds into a fully embodied practice: a floral dress chosen with care, pink tights and fishnets layered with intention, and a six-hoop petticoat that turns each step into music. As heels click and fabric swishes, chores become choreography and the apartment becomes a sanctuary for self-mastery. If this resonated, follow the show, share it with a friend, and leave a review. Your support helps us bring more stories like Violetta’s to life—and we’d love to hear about the rituals that shape yours. Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE15% OFF Shoe Freaks-PROMO%CHASTITYQUEEN GET your 15% OFF ANYTHING when you buy SEXY Shoes, heels & Stripper Boots at Shoe Freaks Canada!www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show https://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN

    12 min
  6. How Visualizing Your Outfits Can Change Your Life

    EPISODE 9

    How Visualizing Your Outfits Can Change Your Life

    A packed suitcase can be a love letter to your future self. We open Violetta’s travel diary and follow every deliberate choice—panties in soft colours, stockings with texture, clear pleasers, a red lace blouse—while honouring her commitment to stay locked with clarity and care. What begins as a packing list becomes a blueprint for courage, showing how outfits, accessories, and small travel hacks help move private desire into public life. From airport realities to creative layering, we share simple ways to make fashion practical and affirming: sunglasses that pass in any mode, wigs chosen for length and mood, purses that match purpose. Then we go deeper. Clothes aren’t props; they’re ritual. We talk about manifestation grounded in sensation—the ruffle at your wrist, the click of a heel—and how that embodied visualization turns a fantasy into a memory your body can use. If you’ve ever bought something beautiful and then hid it in the closet, this conversation offers a kinder path. We challenge the urge to purge and replace it with a living catalogue. Name your pieces. Journal short scenes about where they want to go. Let those entries guide small, safe steps beyond the bedroom: a café, a quiet bookstore, a hotel lobby at twilight. The goal isn’t to perform for others. It’s to align your inner voice with your outer expression, one outfit at a time, with rules and consent that keep your dynamic strong. If this resonates, listen now, share it with a friend who needs the nudge. Subscribe for more Diaries of a Domme, leave a review to help others find the show, and keep your wardrobe alive with intention. Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It’s a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE15% OFF Shoe Freaks-PROMO%CHASTITYQUEEN GET your 15% OFF ANYTHING when you buy SEXY Shoes, heels & Stripper Boots at Shoe Freaks Canada!www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show https://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN

    10 min
4.7
out of 5
27 Ratings

About

Strap yourself in for lots of kinky and open dialogue from a Woman who has experience with Pro-Domming and the BDSM Lifestyle. Her live-in chaste sissy sub joins in on some of the open discussions involving kink, chastity, BDSM and what it means to be a good Domme and sub. Are you are drawn to BDSM & wondered why? Do the dynamics in a D/s relationship, intrigue you? Do you feel the submissive cravings, but cannot express that in your current relationship, or as a single person? Or, are you a female dominant and want to explore that powerful side of yourself? Does the concept of control & mental power exchange, wet your intellectual interest? Maybe you are currently in the BDSM scene and fighting to find joy. Do you have a D/s relationship but need to understand how to successfully satisfy your partner? I have the answers and many stories to share. It is high time that I share My enriching journey, as a proud Female Dominant. I have been a Lifestyle Domme, for 10+ years & have met 100s of submissives. These, have served Me, looked up to Me & TAUGHT ME so many things about the human mind & its willingness to obey. In those thrilling years, I have learnt the delicate balance between a submissive mind and his/her body and the role I play. My knowledge + personal stories are rich with secrets, for submissives & Dommes. I specialize in chastity, Femdom, crossdressers, humiliation play, emasculation and have experience in ABDL/DL, E-stimulation, urethral sounds, the mind games that make a Sadist so powerful and the vast Dungeon tools + tricks, that make up a High Protocol, BDSM Dungeon. Consent & physical safety will be discussed. The psychological and mental health aspects of BDSM will be discussed. BDSM scratches so many mental itches & there are always reasons for those cravings. There will be cautionary tales, that you can learn from. There will also be much to realize, from the beauty that overflows, within the BDSM Community. I will take your hand in Mine & we will navigate through the problems, questions & curiosities. Even if your day-to-day is vanilla, you deserve to explore your desires.Maybe you want to understand someone who lives in the BDSM world or unearth your own curiosity? When you harness your creativity & mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. This is discussed, in Napoleon Hill’s book “Think and Grow Rich”. In Chapter 11, “The Mystery of Sex Transmutation” he says, “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and use of sex, love, and romance. “ Yes, this info-gem, is in a “get rich” book! If you do not have a Mentor, Goddess, Domme or Queen, you have found One now! Let Me be your Teacher, disciplinarian, mentor and queen! If you learn anything from My stories and knowledge, know that what I say, is about loving yourself and that you can do anything. My purpose is to take the misunderstanding OUT of BDSM and those who enjoy fetishes that others may not understand. I want submissives and Dommes, to succeed with ease and pleasure. BDSM is becoming more mainstream. People are realizing their sexual potential, beyond simple sex. Power Exchange in relationships is such a satisfying way to engage. Any variety of D/s relationships can provide stimulation that surpasses Society's idea of how it should look or be. You will learn with Me, as I take you through the journeys of the mind and soul of the submissives that I control/led and what methods I use, to become the best Domme, that I can be. There is no limit, to success. As I said, in the beginning, if you can harness your creativity and mental release in the bedroom, you will succeed in many other areas of your life. Enjoy and rate the episodes, if you have a moment. Sincerely, Chastity Queen "Chastity is freedom!"Chastity Queen xoxo

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