The Blueprint

Jason Smith

Welcome to The Blueprint Podcast — where we throw out the old blueprint so you can become who you were always meant to be. I’m Jason Smith — podcaster, coach, and storyteller. I help people reclaim their sense of self, rebuild confidence, and move through life with more direction and purpose. This podcast is about the work of becoming — what it really takes to rebuild after loss, heartbreak, or major transition. You’ll hear raw conversations, honest insights, and stories from people who’ve had to start over and build something stronger. Listeners describe the show as direct, grounded, and real — the kind of perspective that helps you make sense of where you are and reminds you of what’s still possible. Follow @jbirdfit on all platforms or visit https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/ to connect, ask a question, or take your next step. Subscribe wherever you listen — and start taking your power back now.

  1. “I Became a Robot” | Kevin Rice on Success, Fatherhood & Burnout

    5D AGO

    “I Became a Robot” | Kevin Rice on Success, Fatherhood & Burnout

    Send us Fan Mail Kevin Rice is an entrepreneur, investor, and the host of the CEOs and ABCs podcast. After building and scaling a multi-million dollar company through years of pressure, performance, and nonstop growth, Kevin found himself emotionally disconnected from his life, his relationships, and even his own children. In this episode, Kevin shares the reality behind high performance, entrepreneurship, emotional shutdown, burnout, fatherhood, and the hidden cost of success. The conversation explores identity, resilience, nervous system regulation, presence, emotional disconnection, leadership, and what it means to rebuild your life after realizing achievement alone isn’t enough. This is a grounded conversation about ambition, fulfillment, masculinity, emotional awareness, and learning how to reconnect with yourself after years of surviving in “robot mode.” Connect with Kevin Rice: Website: https://www.ceosandabcs.com/  Podcast: https://www.ceosandabcs.com/episodes/  Takeaways • Success without fulfillment can still leave you feeling empty • Many high performers disconnect emotionally to survive pressure • Entrepreneurship often requires resilience through uncertainty and rejection • Working harder is not always the same as working strategically • Burnout can quietly damage relationships, presence, and identity • Emotional shutdown often happens gradually over time • Children remember presence more than productivity • Personal growth sometimes begins after external success is achieved • Coaching and mentorship can accelerate both business and personal growth • Intentionality matters in parenting, leadership, and relationships • You can rebuild connection with yourself at any stage of life Connect with Jason Smith TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jbirdfit Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jbirdfit YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jbirdfit Substack: https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jbirdfit Relational Intelligence Newsletter Subscribe here: https://jasonsmithri.com/ Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching https://jasonsmithri.com/work-with-me Ask a Question for the Podcast https://stan.store/Jbirdfit For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries: 📧 hello@jasonsmithri.com Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit https://988lifeline.org. You are not alone. Support the show

    40 min
  2. Addiction, Burnout, and Reinvention with Dr. Cali Estes

    APR 4

    Addiction, Burnout, and Reinvention with Dr. Cali Estes

    Send us Fan Mail Dr. Cali Estes is a global leader in addiction recovery, mental health, and performance optimization. Known as "The Female Dr. Drew" and "The Battery Recharger," she empowers high-performing professionals — from CEOs and celebrities to athletes and creatives — to reset, recharge, and reclaim their lives. She is the founder of Sober On Demand® and CEO of The Addictions Academy, which has certified over 60,000 professionals across 40 countries. In this episode, Dr. Cali shares the personal experiences that shaped her work and her approach to addiction, recovery, and behavioral change. The conversation explores addiction beyond substances, lifestyle and behavioral patterns, reinvention, identity, and practical ways to begin creating meaningful change. Connect with Dr. Cali Estes: Website: https://caliestes.com/ Sober On Demand: https://soberondemand.com/ The Addictions Academy: https://theaddictionsacademy.com/ Takeaways  Addiction often begins as an attempt to solve emotional pain  Small daily changes can create long-term transformation  Many people lose their identity through routine and responsibility  Midlife transitions are often awakenings, not crises  Lifestyle factors like nutrition and exercise impact mental health  Social media can reinforce comparison and dissatisfaction  Building momentum starts with one small habit  Personal agency is key to long-term change  Resilience is built through adversity and experience  You can redesign your life at any stage Connect with Jason Smith TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jbirdfit Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Jbirdfit YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Jbirdfit Substack: https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jbirdfit Relational Intelligence Newsletter Subscribe here! Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching https://jasonsmithri.com/work-with-me Ask a Question for the Podcast https://stan.store/Jbirdfit For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries: 📧 hello@jasonsmithri.com Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone. Support the show

    1h 2m
  3. The Childish Heart: Moving Beyond Emotional Immaturity with Bri Larson

    FEB 20

    The Childish Heart: Moving Beyond Emotional Immaturity with Bri Larson

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of The Blueprint Podcast, Jason Smith welcomes back Bri Larson, MPCC, CCATP, CCTP-II a therapist and author, to discuss her new books and the themes of self-esteem, emotional maturity, and relational trauma. They explore the writing process, the importance of hope in healing, and the challenges of emotional dysregulation and immaturity. Brie shares insights on disorganized attachment, practical tools for healing, and the impact of social media on emotional health. The conversation emphasizes the significance of personal power, agency, and the role of witnessing others in their struggles. Connect with Bri and get her new books: https://thecorekelowna.com/users/bri-larson  Takeaways Brie's first book is about rebuilding self-esteem after trauma.Writing the book was a therapeutic process for Brie.Hope is essential for change and healing.Awareness is crucial for personal growth.Emotional dysregulation is a common issue.Emotional immaturity is prevalent in relationships today.Disorganized attachment can lead to confusion in relationships.Practical tools for healing include DBT techniques.People often misunderstand disorganized attachment as emotional immaturity.Breakups can trigger intense emotional responses.Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: This is where the work begins. Move from applications and emails into a focused, real-time conversation where you’ll understand what needs attention and how to move forward with intention. 6-Week Container. 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/ Join the Community Newsletter on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉  https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast  Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit Leave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries:  📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone. Support the show

    52 min
  4. JAN 29

    ACTIVATED: Emotional Regulation and The S.O.U.R.C.E. Protocol

    Send us Fan Mail On this episode of the Blueprint Podcast, Jason Smith explores the profound difference between being "triggered" and being "activated." Drawing from years of experience in law enforcement and a deep study of the human condition, Jason shares the concept of Chronic Resilience—the hard-earned wisdom that allows you to power through life's most difficult moments without falling back into old survival patterns. If you’ve ever felt like you’re meandering through time, living the same day over and over, or struggling to get out of your own way in tense conversations, this episode is the architecture for your change. What We Discuss: The Language of Agency: Why the word "triggered" feels permanent and how shifting to the concept of "Activation" gives you your power back.Chronic Resilience: Building the ability to thrive despite your coping mechanisms of avoidance or withdrawal.The Operational Standard: Moving away from being a casualty of the moment and toward showing up with intentionality and purpose.The S.O.U.R.C.E. Protocol: A first look at the tactical field kit designed to help you regain clarity in under sixty seconds.Secure the Protocol: Stop reacting from your past and start creating your future. Get the full 55-page Tactical Manual and Ebook here: Link: Secure The S.O.U.R.C.E. Protocol Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/ Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉  https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast  Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit Leave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries:  📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone. Support the show

    5 min
  5. Moving from "Triggered" to Emotional Activation, Kati Morton, LMFT

    JAN 23

    Moving from "Triggered" to Emotional Activation, Kati Morton, LMFT

    Send us Fan Mail In this engaging conversation, Jason Smith and Kati Morton, LMFT explore the complexities of mental health, the power of language, and the importance of uncomfortable conversations. They discuss the impact of social media on perceptions of mental health, the rise of influencer therapists, and the journey of self-discovery through journaling. The dialogue emphasizes the need for self-validation, compassion, and understanding in relationships, while also addressing the effects of trauma and the illusion of control. Ultimately, the conversation encourages listeners to embrace their journey of becoming and to cultivate a deeper connection with themselves and others. Connect with Kati and get her new book: https://katimorton.com/    Takeaways Language shapes our understanding of mental health.Emotional activation is a more accurate term than being triggered.Uncomfortable conversations are essential for growth.Generational differences impact our perspectives.Social media can create echo chambers of thought.Influencer therapists may oversimplify complex issues.Journaling can facilitate self-discovery and growth.Self-validation is crucial for emotional health.Reframing relationships can empower individuals.Trauma can lead to dissociation and altered time perception.Compassion is key in understanding differing viewpoints.Values guide our relationships and decisions.The illusion of control can hinder personal growth.Intentional isolation can lead to self-discovery.Post-COVID, many struggle with time perception and trauma.Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: This is where the work begins. Move from applications and emails into a focused, real-time conversation where you’ll understand what needs attention and how to move forward with intention.: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/ Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉  https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast  Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit Leave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries:  📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone. : 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/ Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉  https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast  Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit Leave a Question for the Sho Support the show

    1h 2m
  6. The Crisis of Connection: Reclaiming Our Voice in 2026, Nick Pollard

    JAN 19

    The Crisis of Connection: Reclaiming Our Voice in 2026, Nick Pollard

    Send us Fan Mail In this conversation, Nick Pollard and Jason Smith explore the impact of AI on authenticity in content creation, the challenges faced in the coaching landscape, and the importance of in-person connections. They discuss the shift from social media to more meaningful interactions, the repetitive nature of content creation, and the need for integration over mere consumption of knowledge. The conversation emphasizes the value of storytelling, community feedback, and the evolution of personal branding in the coaching industry. Connect with Nick: Nick's Website   Takeaways AI is impacting the authenticity of content creation.Creativity is being outsourced to AI tools.The coaching landscape is becoming saturated and competitive.In-person connections are becoming more valuable than online interactions.Content creation can feel repetitive and uninspired.The personal growth industry is often seen as a cash grab.Integration of knowledge is more important than consumption.Workshops and in-person events may be the future of coaching.Storytelling is essential for building connections.Feedback from the community is crucial for growth.Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/ Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉  https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast  Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit Leave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries:  📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone. Support the show

    1h 5m
  7. Anxious Attachment and the "Power of One": Reclaiming Your Emotional Freedom

    JAN 15

    Anxious Attachment and the "Power of One": Reclaiming Your Emotional Freedom

    Send us Fan Mail People are so eager to change others that they forget a critical question: Does the other person even want to change? In this episode, Jason Smith explores the concept of "relational blindness" and why anxiously attached individuals get stuck trying to fix their partners instead of mastering their own inner world. We discuss the sobering reality of Sonder, the grief of letting go of someone's "potential," and why change always starts "By the One." Key Topics: Why "fixing" others is a survival strategy for the anxiously attached.Learning to love people for who they are today, not who they could be.Shifting from a "survival state" to a state of flow and emotional freedom.How to reclaim your authority and clean up your side of the street.Apply for 1:1 Relational Intelligence Coaching: If you’re ready to stop managing other people's resistance and start mastering your own mechanics, apply for 1:1 coaching here: 👉 https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/ Join the Community on Substack: Read the full articles and get deeper insights into Relational Intelligence: 👉  https://substack.com/@theblueprintpodcast  Connect with Jason: Instagram: @jbirdfit YouTube: youtube.com/@Jbirdfit Leave a Question for the Show: Submit your questions here: https://stan.store/Jbirdfit For coaching, media, or collaboration inquiries:  📧 info.jbirdfit@gmail.com Disclaimer: The content of this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or therapy. Always consult a qualified healthcare provider with any questions regarding your physical or mental health. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org. You are not alone. Support the show

    7 min
5
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108 Ratings

About

Welcome to The Blueprint Podcast — where we throw out the old blueprint so you can become who you were always meant to be. I’m Jason Smith — podcaster, coach, and storyteller. I help people reclaim their sense of self, rebuild confidence, and move through life with more direction and purpose. This podcast is about the work of becoming — what it really takes to rebuild after loss, heartbreak, or major transition. You’ll hear raw conversations, honest insights, and stories from people who’ve had to start over and build something stronger. Listeners describe the show as direct, grounded, and real — the kind of perspective that helps you make sense of where you are and reminds you of what’s still possible. Follow @jbirdfit on all platforms or visit https://real-jasonsmith.carrd.co/ to connect, ask a question, or take your next step. Subscribe wherever you listen — and start taking your power back now.

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