F*CK Trauma Podcast

Candice Tamara
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The podcast your inner child wishes you heard sooner. Hosted by trauma and mindset coach Candice Tamara, F*CK TRAUMA* is where cycle-breakers come to heal, rewire their identity, and build relationships that feel safe, secure, and soul-deep. This is your space to stop chasing love, break anxious patterns, and become the version of you who feels chosen—by you first. It’s the show that turns your triggers into triumph—and your pain into personal power. Expect raw stories, powerful mindset shifts, and no-BS truth bombs that hit deeper than therapy. You’re not broken. You’re becoming.

  1. May 29

    Ep 62: Money Manifestation: Heal Your Relationship With Money To Attract More

    In this episode of the F*CK Trauma Podcast, we’re diving into your relationship with money, scarcity, abundance and the subconscious beliefs that may be blocking you from manifesting more. . If you grew up around financial stress, lack, instability or fear around money, those beliefs don’t just disappear as an adult. They shape the way you attract, hold, spend and receive money now. . In this episode, I share: ​How childhood money wounds affect your ability to manifest abundance​Why your nervous system may not feel safe with money​The link between anxious attachment and scarcity​Why lack is a state (and how to shift it)​How to feel safe receiving and holding more money​The beliefs that keep people stuck in financial struggle​Practical mindset shifts to move from scarcity to abundance​My personal journey with money, lack and manifestation.I also share simple practices that helped me transform my relationship with money and begin attracting more abundance into my life. . Plus, I’ve created a free EFT tapping session to help you release scarcity, shift your money beliefs and feel safer receiving abundance. . TAP WITH ME HERE TO ATTRACT MORE MONEY . If you’ve been struggling to manifest more money, hold onto money, or feel constantly stuck in lack, this episode is for you. . My program ⁠⁠⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ shows you exactly how to reprogram your self-concept and nervous system so you naturally attract and sustain the relationship & desires you actually want. . Join here: ⁠⁠⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠⁠ Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Series: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠7 Manifestation Mistakes⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch on ⁠Youtube⁠ Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you so much!

    25 min

  2. May 8

    Ep 61: How to Actually Change Your Self-Concept (So Your Relationships Change Too) | Law of Assumption

    Anxious attachment, self-concept work, manifestation, subconscious reprogramming and nervous system healing all go hand in hand… and in this episode, I’m breaking down exactly how to actually change your self-concept so your relationships and reality can finally change too. . If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people, avoidants, hot and cold behaviour, rejection, abandonment or relationships where you never fully feel chosen, this episode will help you understand WHY. . I explain: what self-concept really ishow your beliefs and assumptions create your relationship patternswhy anxious attachment is an identity/statehow subconscious beliefs are formedwhy you keep repeating the same experiences in lovehow to identify your triggers and core beliefshow to start reprogramming your self-conceptwhy affirmations alone sometimes don’t workhow the nervous system impacts manifestation and relationshipswhy EFT tapping helps you feel safe being chosen, loved and secure. I also share my own journey from anxious attachment, chasing emotionally unavailable relationships and feeling unchosen… to becoming secure, loved, engaged and pregnant through changing my self-concept and nervous system. . This episode will help you start shifting the identity that is creating your current reality so you can stop recreating painful relationship patterns and finally feel secure, chosen and deeply loved. . My program ⁠⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠⁠⁠ shows you exactly how to reprogram your self-concept and nervous system so you naturally attract and sustain the relationship & desires you actually want. . Join here: ⁠⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠ Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Series: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠7 Manifestation Mistakes⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Watch on Youtube Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you so much!

    30 min

  3. May 1

    Ep 60: How I Manifested My Pregnancy (But I Had to Shift This First)

    In this episode, I’m sharing something really personal - how I manifested my pregnancy, and the deeper shifts that had to happen for me to actually receive it. . Because the truth is, it wasn’t about “trying harder” or doing more. It was about what I was still holding onto underneath -fears around responsibility, subconscious beliefs from my childhood, and patterns in my nervous system that didn’t feel safe to hold what I truly desired. . I talk about: The hidden beliefs that were blocking me without me realisingHow anxious attachment and hyper-independence were showing upWhy your nervous system has to feel safe to receive what you wantThe identity shifts I had to make around responsibility, trust, and motherhoodHow I used my Secure Method EFT tapping to reprogram these patternsLetting go of timelines and fully accepting it as done.Whether you desire a baby, a relationship, or any manifestation - this episode will help you see what might still be sitting underneath the surface. . Because it’s not always about what you’re doing… it’s about who you’re being and what your body believes is safe to receive. . If this resonates, share it with someone who needs to hear it . ✨ Ready to receive all of your desires? My program ⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠⁠ shows you exactly how to reprogram your self-concept and nervous system so you naturally attract and sustain the relationship & desires you actually want. . Join here: ⁠Create Your Secure Relationship⁠ Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Series: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠7 Manifestation Mistakes⁠⁠⁠ . Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you so much!

    22 min

  4. Apr 10

    Ep 59: How to Attract a New Secure Partner Using the Law of Assumption (Anxious Attachment)

    Anxious attachment: If you keep attracting the same type of person -emotionally unavailable, inconsistent, or “not ready” - this episode will show you why it’s happening and how to finally change it. . In this episode, I break down how to attract a new partner using the law of assumption and why your relationships keep repeating the same patterns (even with different people). . This isn’t about luck, timing, or “meeting the right person.” . It’s about your self-concept. . I share exactly how I intentionally manifested my fiancé, the shifts I made to stop attracting avoidant and inconsistent partners, and how you can do the same to create a secure, committed relationship. . Inside, we cover: Why you keep attracting the same relationship patternsHow your self-concept shapes who you attractWhat it actually means to “manifest a partner”The identity shift that changes everythingHow to stop settling for situationships or inconsistencyThe 3 stages of manifestation (reprogramming, response, reflection)How to take aligned action without chasing. If you’re ready to stop repeating the past and finally experience a secure, consistent, loving relationship - this is for you. . ✨ Ready to change your relationship patterns fast? My program Create Your Secure Relationship⁠⁠ shows you exactly how to reprogram your self-concept and nervous system so you naturally attract and sustain the relationship you actually want. . Includes a pathway specifically for: Shifting a current relationship Reconnecting with someone from the past Attracting a completely new partner . Join here: Create Your Secure Relationship . ⏳ Limited time: Join now to get access to the bonus live coaching call with me. . Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Series: ⁠⁠⁠⁠7 Manifestation Mistakes⁠⁠ Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!

    32 min

  5. Mar 20

    Ep 58: How to Change the Way Someone Treats You in a Relationship Without Chasing Using the Law of Assumption (Anxious Attachment)

    If you have an anxious attachment style, you’ve probably found yourself chasing, overgiving, and trying to get someone to change only to feel more drained, more confused, and more disconnected. . In this episode, I’m showing you how to change the way someone treats you in a relationship without chasing, using the law of assumption and self-concept work. . Because here’s the truth:You don’t need to have the same conversation over and over again.You don’t need to beg or your needs to be met.And you don’t need to wait for someone else to change. . 👉 You change and the dynamic changes. . Inside this episode, I break down: Why your relationships keep repeating the same patterns How your self-concept is shaping how people treat you The truth about avoidant behaviour (and what it’s really reflecting) How to shift inconsistency, lack of effort, and emotional unavailability Why you’re not being prioritised (and how to change that) How to stop feeling unsupported in relationships The real reason you’re chasing commitment — and how to become chosen instead How to stabilise your nervous system so you stop reacting and start creating Practical steps to shift your relationship without chasing, begging, or over-explaining This is the work that changes everything. When you shift your identity, your beliefs, and your nervous system…people naturally show up differently. . My program Create Your Secure Relationship shows you exactly how to rewire your self-concept, regulate your nervous system, and shift your relationship dynamic in as little as 8 weeks. . Includes a pathway specifically for: Shifting a current relationship Reconnecting with someone from the past Attracting a completely new partner Plus if you join now, you'll get a live group call with me to personalise the work to your situation. . 👉 Join Create Your Secure Relationship Here . Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Series: ⁠⁠⁠7 Manifestation Mistakes⁠ Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!

    44 min

  6. Mar 6

    Ep 57: How to Reconnect With Someone From Your Past Using the Law of Assumption (Anxious Attachment)

    Anxious attachment can make it feel impossible to reconnect with someone from your past - especially when you’re stuck in no contact, obsessing over what happened, or wondering if your anxiety pushed them away. In this episode, I’m breaking down how to reconnect with someone from your past using the Law of Assumption, self-concept work, nervous system regulation, and my Secure Method approach. . I share the exact shifts I would make if I wanted to reconnect with someone from the past, including how to change the old story, stop focusing on the 3D, regulate an anxious nervous system, and start embodying the version of you who feels chosen, secure, and deeply loved. . Inside this episode, we cover: how anxious attachment patterns recreate abandonment, ghosting, and inconsistency why your self-concept affects how people show up for you how the Law of Assumption applies to reconnecting with someone from your past why no contact, being blocked, or what they said does not have to be the end the role of EFT tapping and nervous system rewiring in manifesting love why holding on to the old story keeps people from coming back what it really means to “live in the end” when manifesting a relationship how to stop chasing, checking, and looking for validation outside of yourself . If you’ve been asking questions like: Can I manifest someone back? Can I reconnect with someone from my past? How do I use the Law of Assumption when I have anxious attachment? How do I stop abandonment patterns from repeating in love? . This episode is for you. . If you want to go deeper, my programme Create Your Secure Relationship is designed to help you rewire anxious survival patterns, shift your self-concept, and apply this work to one of three outcomes: reconnect with someone from your past, attract a new secure relationship, or transform your current relationship. View & Join Create Your Secure Relationship Here . Listen now if you’re ready to stop repeating the same painful cycle in love and start becoming secure, chosen, and deeply loved from the inside out. . Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Series: ⁠⁠7 Manifestation Mistakes Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!

    37 min

  7. Feb 13

    Ep 56: Why Anxious Attachment Struggles to Manifest Love (Law of Assumption & Self-Concept)

    If you have anxious attachment and you’re trying to manifest love, this episode will explain exactly why it can feel harder for you - especially when using the Law of Assumption. . You’ve been told to “just assume you have it.” . To “live in the end.” . To “stop checking the 3D.” . But when you’re in no contact… when you’re trying to manifest your SP back… when you’re shifting a current relationship… or when you’ve never experienced healthy love before - it doesn’t feel simple. . In this episode, I break down: . • Why anxious attachment makes it harder to stay in the state of the wish fulfilled. . • How hypervigilance and checking the 3D delays your manifestation. . • Why your nervous system is wired for loss (and how that affects manifesting an ex back or new love). . • The real meaning of “feeling is the secret”. . • How self-concept and safety within yourself changes everything . I share my own journey from severe anxious attachment to manifesting my fiancé, shifting past relationships, and helping clients reconnect with someone from the past, attract secure love, or transform their current dynamic... . If you’ve been doing the affirmations, the techniques, the Law of Assumption work - but still feel anxious, triggered, or stuck - this will give you the clarity you’ve been missing. . You’re not failing at manifestation.You just need it explained in a way that understands your nervous system. . And if this resonates, join my free 7-day series: Seven Manifestation Mistakes Anxious Attachment Makes When Manifesting Love - where I break down the patterns that could be blocking you without you even realising. . Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Quiz: ⁠ Take the free Chasing to Chosen Quiz here⁠⁠ Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!

    16 min

  8. Feb 6

    Ep 55: 6 Ways You’re Still Chasing Love (Without Realising It)

    If you have anxious attachment, this episode is for you. . You might not be double-texting. You might not be chasing in obvious ways. You might even look secure on the outside. . And yet… you’re still not being chosen. . In this episode, I’m breaking down the subtle, unconscious ways people with anxious attachment are still chasing love without realising it - and why simply “acting secure” doesn’t change your relationship outcomes. . I share my own personal stories, client patterns, and the six chasing archetypes I see over and over again in people who want love, stability, and commitment - but keep recreating the same painful dynamics. . We cover: • The difference between secure behaviour and anxious survival strategies • How anxious attachment shows up as fixing, proving, pleasing, performing, waiting, or hyper-independence • Why you can stop chasing on the surface and still sabotage love underneath • How self-concept and subconscious beliefs determine who chooses you • Why being “low maintenance”, overly understanding, or hyper-independent is still chasing • How these patterns keep recreating partners who don’t fully choose you . If you’ve ever thought: “Why am I still not chosen even though I’m doing everything right?” . This episode will help you see exactly what’s happening - clearly, honestly, and without blame. . Find out your dominant chasing archetype Most people don’t just have one - but there is usually one that runs the show underneath. . 👉 Take the free Chasing to Chosen Quiz here . When you know how you’re chasing, it becomes much easier to stop sabotaging love without realising it. . Ready to shift from chasing to being chosen? If you recognise yourself in this episode, the work to change these patterns is inside my Chasing to Chosen Masterclass. . 👉 Watch the Chasing to Chosen Masterclass here And if you’re trying to manifest love, shift a current relationship, or attract someone new - make sure you listen to next week’s episode. Hit FOLLOW so you don't miss it! . If you’re ready to experience this work directly, explore my masterclasses or my signature program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love ⁠⁠⁠⁠where The Candice Tamara Secure Method™ is taught in full. . Free Masterclass: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Stop Sabotaging Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Signature Program: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Connect with me on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@candicetamara_⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Ways to work with me: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ . Enjoying the podcast? Follow for more episodes & please rate your experience on your streaming platform so others can find it! Thank you!

    30 min
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The podcast your inner child wishes you heard sooner. Hosted by trauma and mindset coach Candice Tamara, F*CK TRAUMA* is where cycle-breakers come to heal, rewire their identity, and build relationships that feel safe, secure, and soul-deep. This is your space to stop chasing love, break anxious patterns, and become the version of you who feels chosen—by you first. It’s the show that turns your triggers into triumph—and your pain into personal power. Expect raw stories, powerful mindset shifts, and no-BS truth bombs that hit deeper than therapy. You’re not broken. You’re becoming.

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  • Creator
    Candice Tamara
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    67
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Candice Tamara
  • Show Website
    F*CK Trauma Podcast

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