What if the best advice you ever get, for a marriage and for a life, is simply to let each other dream? Three years ago, Brew Davis sat down with me for the very first episode of On Adventure. Now he's back for round two, one of the very few guests to come back for more. Brew is a musician, former schoolteacher, and longtime Appalachian Trail section hiker based in western North Carolina. He's also married to Jennifer Pharr Davis, the record-setting Appalachian Trail hiker, author, and professional speaker. Together they've built a life with the outdoors at the center, and they're raising their two kids, Charlie and Gus, to see the world the same way. We start in Fiji, where Brew and his family joined Sawyer Products to visit villages receiving clean water filtration, a trip captured in the short documentary Na Wai. Brew also learned the hard way why you filter your water, after drinking unfiltered kava with village elders. From there it's a father-son trip with nine-year-old Gus to the Narcissa Snake Dens north of Winnipeg, Manitoba, where 70,000 garter snakes come out of their winter dens each spring, and an update on Brew's Appalachian Trail section hike. As of the time of this recording, he was 245 miles from finishing, with a planned last step at Kuwohi, the high point of the trail on the Tennessee and North Carolina line. UPDATE: HE HAS FINISHED THE AT! We also talk about the hardest news of their year. This spring, after a close friend's last request that everyone get screened, Jen was diagnosed with breast cancer, and it was caught early enough that surgery got all of it. Brew says the experience didn't change how they live. It confirmed it: don't wait until retirement for the adventures that matter. Along the way we get into the premarital advice they've held onto for 18 years, why calculated risk beats both recklessness and complacency, how keeping overhead small keeps a family nimble, and why Brew keeps his fitness within striking distance so he can say yes when the next opportunity shows up. It's about as clear a picture as I've heard of what it looks like to live your great life right now. Episode Highlights 00:00 — Brew returns: the first-ever guest, three years and a few gray hairs later 02:00 — Sawyer Products and why Jen chose filtering over chemical water treatment 04:00 — Bringing clean water to Fiji, and getting sick from unfiltered kava 06:00 — The Na Wai documentary and the irony of Fiji bottled water 07:00 — What the kids took away: a five-year-old eating a fish eyeball, and "people are people" 09:00 — Rome with Charlie and learning to travel light, physically and financially 14:00 — Gus, snakes, and talking shop in a UNC Asheville herpetology lab 17:00 — The Narcissa Snake Dens in Manitoba: 70,000 garter snakes in the wild 19:00 — The premarital advice they've kept for 18 years: let each other dream 23:00 — A honeymoon that turned into an Appalachian Trail record attempt 24:00 — 245 miles to go: finishing an AT section hike at Kuwohi 28:00 — Synchronous fireflies, manatees, sandhill cranes, and a summer in Newfoundland and Labrador 32:00 — Trillium, spring beauties, and why the woods feel grounding 37:00 — Jen's breast cancer diagnosis and why it only reinforced "don't wait" 42:00 — Risk, reward, small overhead, and staying nimble 49:00 — Calculated risks, a first album, and keeping the engine primed 53:00 — Rapid fire: favorite art, best trail, and a soaking wet winter night in Shenandoah Memorable Moments Brew and Jen got one piece of advice in premarital counseling that has shaped everything since: "You have to let each other dream. That's life-giving." For them it has meant two weeks a year for each person's own adventure, a yes to an Appalachian Trail record attempt right after the honeymoon, and raising kids who already have permission to chase what lights them up. On how they've kept that freedom over the years, Brew put it simply: "When you have smaller overhead, you're a lot more nimble." About Brew Davis Brew Davis is a musician, former schoolteacher, and Appalachian Trail section hiker based in western North Carolina. He was the guest on the very first episode of the On Adventure Podcast. Brew has been section hiking the Appalachian Trail since his daughter was an infant and now has finished the whole trail. He has completed a rim-to-rim-to-rim crossing of the Grand Canyon, plays in the band Nick & Brew, which is releasing its first album later this year, and is married to Jennifer Pharr Davis, with whom he has two children. Resources Mentioned Sawyer Products — Water filters and outdoor gear, and the clean water program behind the Fiji trip. Na Wai — Short documentary on Sawyer's clean water work in Fiji, available on YouTube. Narcissa Snake Dens — Spring gathering of tens of thousands of garter snakes about an hour and fifteen minutes north of Winnipeg, Manitoba. Becoming Odyssa — Jennifer Pharr Davis's best-known book about her Appalachian Trail thru-hike. Also mentioned: Kuwohi (formerly Clingmans Dome), the South Kaibab Trail, the Long Trail, the Wonderland Trail, the synchronous fireflies of the Great Smoky Mountains, Guy Clark, Doc Watson, and Bono's audiobook memoir. Connect with Brew Davis Nick & Brew - Apple Music Speaker, Author, Hiker and Entrepreneur | Jennifer Pharr Davis The Takeaway Brew and Jen didn't wait for a scare to start living the life they wanted. They built it along the way, one yes at a time, and kept their lives simple enough to keep saying yes. 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