Fiat in the Mess

Annie Muller, Hailey Skinner
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Fiat in the Mess is a Catholic mothers' podcast about saying "yes" to God right in the middle of daily life.  Brought to you by the mothers' ministry Mighty Is Her Call and inspired by Mary's fiat - "let it be done" - we dive into the beauty and chaos of our vocation: the literal messes, the spiritual struggles, and the hidden graces found in both. Through heartfelt and honest conversations, we uplift and dignify the sacred calling of motherhood - without pretending it's easy. Faithful, funny, and deeply real, this podcast is for moms seeking holiness in the mess, not outside of it.

  1. 4d ago

    Resigning from Martyrdom: Asking for Help in Motherhood

    Fiat in the Mess |  Resigning from Martyrdom: Asking for Help in Motherhood (3.15) Why is it so hard for mothers to ask for help, and why do we feel embarrassed when we get it? Annie and Hailey talk about the temptation to power through like martyrs, the guilt, pride, and perfectionism that keep us from reaching out and why God never meant motherhood to be a solo mission.  Your Father who sees in secret will reward you. You are a beloved daughter of the King, and He sees the work of your hands.  Keep giving God your fiat in the mess. In this episode: Mary's pregnancy check-in: week 27, one week from the third trimester. Baby Jesus can recognize Mary and Joseph's voices and perceive light and dark, and Advent is about a month away.Annie's story of the housekeeper her mom and aunt hired when she was pregnant with her seventh, and why she was embarrassed to tell anyoneHailey's "Hot Mess Express" season, and how God the Father answered her tearful prayer within minutes by sending her father-in-law to the doorWe are dependent, rational creatures made for communion. Self-gift is meant to be mutual, not poured out until we're empty.The cleaning and meals support the mission of the family, but they aren't the mission.The power of being seen, and why it helps to tell your husband what you need instead of leaving him guessingPractical ideas: Swap childcare with a trusted friend, including date-night swapsTrade cleaning: bring your mop to her house, and she scrubs your sinkStart a meal train, and be the friend who notices when someone is drowningTake a weekend away and let your husband hold down the fortWrite down everything you do in a day to see what you can let go of, and what's simply too much for one personIf you have the means, hire help such as a housekeeper or meal prep. That's smart delegation, not failure.Start a weekly rosary group with other momsHold a Sunday "powwow" with your spouse. Keep a running list all week, then sit down together once the kids are in bed. Your Father who sees in secret will reward you. You are a beloved daughter of the King, and He sees the work of your hands. Keep giving God your fiat in the mess. Have a question you'd like answered in a future episode? Send it our way — we'd love to hear from you! mightyishercall.com/contact-us Upcoming Events Retreat in Augusta, GA and Wichita, KSSupport the Podcast: mightyishercall.com/podcast-support

    Resigning from Martyrdom: Asking for Help in Motherhood

  2. Sep 16

    September Graces: From Mary's Nativity to the Foot of the Cross

    Mary’s Birthday and Our Lady of SorrowsThis episode reflects on two closely connected Marian feast days in September: the Nativity of Mary and Our Lady of Sorrows. Annie Muller and Hailey Skinner explore why the Church celebrates Mary’s birth, how it points to the beginning of salvation history, and how her sorrows can comfort mothers and anyone carrying suffering.They also connect these feasts to everyday motherhood, hiddenness, surrender, grief, and the hope of Christ’s victory. The conversation blends theology, lived experience, and practical consolation. Key topicsWhy Mary’s birthday is celebrated on September 8, nine months after the Immaculate Conception.The historical roots of the feast, including its early observance in the Eastern Church.Why the Church celebrates only three birthdays in the liturgical calendar: Jesus, Mary, and John the Baptist.Mary’s hidden life and how holiness often unfolds without recognition.The connection between Mary’s fiat, motherhood, surrender, and quiet sacrifice.Our Lady of Sorrows and the seven sorrows traditionally associated with Mary’s life.The seven sorrows: Simeon’s prophecy, the flight into Egypt, losing Jesus in the temple, meeting Jesus on the way to Calvary, the crucifixion, receiving Jesus’ body, and his burial.How Mary’s sorrows resonate with miscarriage, infant loss, and the pain of motherhood.Why devotion to Mary is not worship, but a relationship of intercession, companionship, and imitation.The seven promises associated with devotion to Mary’s sorrows, including peace, consolation, protection, and hope.Timestamps00:00 — Opening the September Marian feast days conversation 02:17 — Mary’s nativity as the beginning of redemption 03:39 — The history of celebrating Mary’s birth 06:29 — Why September 8 follows the Immaculate Conception 08:25 — Mary’s birth as preparation for the Incarnation 09:41 — Hidden holiness and motherhood 12:50 — Why Our Lady of Sorrows belongs beside Mary’s birthday 16:42 — Why sorrow and glory belong together 18:39 — The Seven Sorrows devotion 21:28 — Explaining Marian intercession 24:16 — Sitting with a friend in suffering 29:29 — Annie’s story of losing her son Gabriel 31:29 — The communion of saints and the thin veil at Mass 36:31 — Miscarriage, grief, and eternal hope 41:56 — Which sorrows strike each host most deeply 46:51 — The Seven Promises of the devotion 49:17 — The promise of peace for families 51:21 — Seeing the face of Mary at death 52:51 — Closing encouragement Support the Podcast: mightyishercall.com/podcast-support Contact: annie@mightyishercall.com"Keep giving God your fiat in the mess."

    September Graces: From Mary's Nativity to the Foot of the Cross

  3. Sep 2

    Go Home and Love Your Family: Learning from Mother Teresa

    Annie Muller and Hailey Skinner reflect on Mother Teresa’s life, her fierce trust in divine providence, and the way her witness reshaped how they understand motherhood, vocation, and mercy. They explore why Mother Teresa still matters now, especially for moms carrying the hidden, repetitive work of family life.We discuss Mother Teresa’s biography, the “call within a call,” her love for prayer, and how her example teaches that holiness is found in ordinary acts done with great joy. The conversation ends with Mother Teresa’s Fragrance Prayer, a fitting summary of the episode’s theme: letting Christ shine through the small, faithful work of daily life. Key topicsAnnie and Hailey open with their recent retreat for more than 80 moms in Dallas Hailey gives a brief biography of Mother TeresaHailey highlights Mother Teresa’s radical trust in divine providenceAnnie reflects on how Mother Teresa helped her see young motherhood not as small or boring, but as a real place of mission and sanctification.The two discuss Mother Teresa’s insistence that world peace begins at home, with loving one’s own family first.Hailey shares how Mother Teresa became her confirmation saint and how that decision shaped her sense of vocation and mission before marriage.Annie connects Mother Teresa’s teachings to the corporal and spiritual works of mercy lived out daily in motherhoodThey emphasize kindness and making others feel seen as practical ways of living Christ’s love in the home.Timestamps(00:00) Opening the episode (01:19) Retreat reflections and the gift of gathering with moms(03:23) Why the episode is about Mother Teresa(05:50) Hailey introduces Mother Teresa’s biography(06:56) The “call within a call” and “I thirst”(07:54) Leaving the convent to found the Missionaries of Charity(09:13) Stories of divine providence and unexpected provision(11:17) Prayer before action and Mother Teresa’s insistence on prayer(12:52) Annie on Mother Teresa in the public eye and in her conversion(14:39) Reading No Greater Love in early motherhood(15:53) “How do we promote world peace? You go home and love your family”(16:38) Doing the small things with great joy and great love(18:14) Hailey’s confirmation saint story(23:58) Learning that marriage and motherhood are holy vocations(26:51) No hierarchy of vocations(28:58) The corporal and spiritual works of mercy in motherhood(30:21) Let no one leave without feeling better and happier(34:21) Montessori, eye contact, and greeting children with dignity(40:28) Introducing the Fragrance Prayer(41:13) The quick novena and asking for urgent help Books and Resources Mentioned: Mother Teresa of Calcutta: A Personal Portrait No Greater Love Mother Teresa's Fragrance Prayer Mighty Is Her Call Retreats Support the Podcast annie@mightyishercall.com

    Go Home and Love Your Family: Learning from Mother Teresa

  4. Aug 19

    Ask Us Anything: For Newlyweds, Soon-to-Be-Moms, & Moms in the Mess

    This week on Fiat in the Mess, Annie is joined by Mary for a special listener Q&A covering the honest, sometimes scary questions many of you have sent in about marriage and motherhood. Nothing was off-limits! Mary—one year into marriage and part of the Mighty Is Her Call team—opens up about the surprising anxiety she felt on her wedding day (including the box-breathing trick her dad taught her to get down the aisle), and how she worked through the "what if" thoughts that came with making a lifelong vow. Annie, celebrating 23 years of marriage this week, shares why she loves her husband even more now than on her wedding day, and how grace shows up in the middle of both the joy and the jitters. From there, the conversation moves into some of the biggest questions newlyweds and future moms wrestle with: Do you ever feel trapped after taking your vows? How to tell the difference between a genuine red flag and normal, amoral anxiety.The identity shift into motherhood — what changes, what doesn't have to, and why staying connected to your husband and friends (away from the kids!) matters so much.Is giving birth embarrassing? Annie's honest take on labor, intimacy, and why husbands walk away in awe, not disgust.Wrestling with anger at God—a beautiful analogy about a silversmith refining precious metal, and why bringing your anger to the Lord (not away from Him) is the healthier path.Mom guilt and pregnancy exhaustion—permission to rest, the story of Elijah's "nap and a snack" from God, and practical tips for breaking up household chores into doable pieces.A messy house isn't a moral failure. Annie reflects on raising six kids in a tiny two-bedroom home—and how her adult kids only remember the happy chaos, not the mess.Comparison culture and social media. How to guard your heart against the curated, "constant Christmas card" feel of Instagram and TikTok, and why liturgical living should look different in every home, not like a copy-paste of your favorite influencer.Whether you're newly married, discerning motherhood, or years into the beautiful mess of raising a family, this episode is full of grace, humor, and hard-won wisdom for wherever you are in your vocation. In This Episode: Managing wedding day anxiety and pre-vow jittersNavigating the identity shift into motherhoodHonest talk about labor, birth, and intimacy after babyBringing anger and hard emotions to GodLetting go of mom guilt and household perfectionismComparison, social media, and authentic Catholic motherhoodHave a question you'd like answered on a future episode? Send it our way—we'd love to hear from you! mightyishercall.com/contact-us Keep giving God your fiat in the mess. Upcoming Events Dallas, TX Retreat (August 22)Retreats also coming to Augusta, GA and Wichita, KSSupport the Podcast: mightyishercall.com/podcast-support

    Ask Us Anything: For Newlyweds, Soon-to-Be-Moms, & Moms in the Mess

  5. Aug 5

    Tales from the Trenches: A Mother's Own Mysteries of the Rosary

    In this episode, Annie and Hailey sit down for a story-time episode, sharing personal, funny, humbling, and sacred moments from their own motherhood journeys. Since the podcast is walking with Mary through her pregnancy this season, Annie and Hailey frame their stories in the joyful, sorrowful, luminous, and glorious mysteries of the Rosary, reminding listeners that none of us have motherhood figured out, and that God is present in every moment, even (especially) the messy ones. Here is a taste of what’s in store this episode: Joyful: Hailey's plane-ride diaper disaster in South Padre, Annie's skirt mishap at Mass, and a toddler's potty-training protest in the Target toy aisle.Sweet moments: A three-year-old's "great idea" to eat all the chocolate, a bedtime visit from "the holy family," and the funny phrases ("papamas," "I can't like it") that stick around for good.The sorrowful and luminous: Hailey's Florence pilgrimage and a stunning "coincidence" in a book chapter title; Annie's story of a Scripture verse that came back to her, framed, months after her hysterectomy; Hailey's son losing his front teeth in a park accident, and what it taught her about letting go.The glorious: Annie's daughter giving a heartfelt toast at her 50th birthday, and Hailey's tale of two strangers—one sour, one full of wisdom—reminding her the trenches of motherhood are holy ground.Annie and Hailey close by encouraging listeners to write down and share their own stories: it's a gift to yourself and to others! Have a story of your own? Share it with a friend—you never know how it might bless them. Keep giving God your fiat in the mess. Upcoming Events Dallas, TX Retreat (August 22) — both Annie & Hailey speakingRetreats also coming to Augusta, GA and Wichita, KSDetails: mightyishercall.com/retreatsSupport the Podcast: mightyishercall.com/podcast-support

    Tales from the Trenches: A Mother's Own Mysteries of the Rosary

  6. Jul 22

    Family, Faith, and Vocation with Fr. Thomas Esposito

    This week Annie and Hailey welcome Fr. Thomas Esposito, a Cistercian monk at Our Lady of Dallas Abbey and longtime friend of Mighty Is Her Call, for a warm conversation about vocation, motherhood, and letting go. Fr. Thomas shares the story of how his parents met (a cigarette, a cup of water, and a nurse who wasn't having it) and reflects on growing up in a joy-filled Catholic home in Omaha, Nebraska, where his mother wove faith naturally into everyday life. He talks about the "annoying hunch" toward priesthood he felt from age twelve, discovering the University of Dallas through a Rome campus brochure, and finding his true calling with the Cistercians—a community he never knew existed until he arrived. The conversation turns to one of this season's central themes: how mothers help their children discern their vocations without deciding for them. Fr. Thomas offers a beautiful meditation on motherhood as a vocation defined by letting go. And on finding peace not in clinging to our children out of fear but in relinquishing them to the Lord's care. Hailey asks how families can normalize vocations and build real friendships with priests and religious—practical, heartfelt advice for parents hoping to raise kids who are comfortable and curious about the religious life. They also dig into Fr. Thomas's new novel, Blue Miles, a fictional look at monastic life set in Nebraska, and why he chose storytelling over memoir to explore themes of memory, loss, hope, and faith. Plus: how a monk with a full schedule of prayer, teaching, and community life found five years to actually write it. Fr. Thomas closes with a word of encouragement for weary moms, drawn from Psalm 27, learning to recognize the voice of love over the voice of fear.   In this episode: The delightful story of Fr. Thomas's parents' meet-cuteGrowing up in a joyful, faith-centered home in OmahaHis mother's role in his intellectual and spiritual formationDiscovering UD and the Cistercian orderWhat community life looks like inside the AbbeyMotherhood as a vocation of letting goGrounding identity in Christ as children grow and leaveHow to help kids befriend and normalize priests and religiousBehind the scenes of writing Blue MilesTime, freedom, and finding God in interruptionsEncouragement for moms from Psalm 27 Mentioned in this episode: Blue Miles by Fr. Thomas EspositoUniversity of DallasOur Lady of Dallas Cistercian Abbey in Irving, TXMighty Is Her Call Retreats

    Family, Faith, and Vocation with Fr. Thomas Esposito

  7. Jul 8

    The Five 'P's of a Mother's Rule of Life

    Annie and Hailey dive into the 5 Ps  of a Mother's Rule of Life—a traditional Christian framework for ordering your vocation as a mother. Drawing from Holly Pierlot's book A Mother's Rule of Life: How to Bring Order to Your Home and Peace to Your Soul, they explore how this order can bring greater peace, intentionality, and closeness to Jesus Christ and her family in the midst of everyday motherhood. Pierlot organizes a mother's rule around five P's, each building on the last: 1. Prayer: The foundation of everything. Annie and Hailey discuss the guilt many mothers feel around prayer, the many forms prayer can take, and how the daily work of motherhood itself is a form of prayer. 2. Person: Caring for your own holistic well-being — body, mind, and soul. This comes before marriage and parenting because you can't pour from an empty cup. Pierlot's concept of a monthly "mother's sabbatical" is discussed, along with the idea that sometimes our families are called to sacrifice a little for us too. 3. Partner: Nurturing your marriage. Your vows are to your spouse, not your children, and this relationship is the foundation from which everything else flows. Annie walks through Galatians 5 as a framework for cultivating the fruits of the Holy Spirit in marriage. A note of encouragement is offered to listeners in difficult marriages or who are single/widowed mothers. 4. Parent — Raising children by being a living witness. The best parenting flows from the first three P's. Hailey and Annie discuss discipline as an act of love (drawing a beautiful parallel to the Sacrament of Confession) and close with a simple but convicting question: Are you praying for your children? 5. Provider: Managing the practical details of home life: cooking, cleaning, laundry, finances. This P comes last not because it's the least important, but because it is the "orderly stage upon which all the drama of loving relationships must occur." The encouragement: tackle every task as a direct response to God's will. Books & Resources Mentioned A Mother's Rule of Life by Holly PierlotThe Temperament God Gave YouThe Working Genius assessmentHoly Minute,  https://mightyishercall.com/holy-minute/ Upcoming Events Dallas, TX Retreat (August 22)Augusta, GA and Witchita, KS also are open for registration Details: mightyishercall.com/retreatsSupport the Podcast: mightyishercall.com/podcast-support Contact: annie@mightyishercall.com "Keep giving God your fiat in the mess."

    The Five 'P's of a Mother's Rule of Life

  8. Jun 24

    Faith That Survives Adulthood: The 12 Habits of Families Who Pass on the Faith ft. Lisa Popcak

    Faith That Survives Adulthood: The 12 Habits of Families Who Pass on the Faith ft. Lisa PopcakGuest: Lisa Popcak — author of 20+ books on parenting, marriage, and mental well-being; co-host of More to Life on EWTN Radio; VP of CatholicCounselors.com About the ResearchIn 2019, Lisa and her husband Greg hosted a symposium at Notre Dame with the McGrath Institute, gathering 50+ theologians and Catholic thinkers to study what makes Catholic families thrive across generations. The result: a study of families where all children grew into faithful Catholic adults — and the 12 habits they all shared. The 12 Habits (in 3 Categories)🏠 Relationships (the foundation — "the wood") Schedule family time first — before signing up for activities, protect time together. Aim for at least 3 meals together per week.Generous affection & affirmation — light up when your kids walk in the room; name the virtues you see in them.Attending to each other's needs — mutual self-donation; the whole family serves one another, not just mom.Discipleship discipline — rooted in St. John Bosco; teach and practice skills rather than simply punish.🕯️ Family Rituals ("the spark") Work together — bring kids alongside chores; make it connective, not just efficient.Play together — don't outsource all fun. Even 15 minutes of play daily builds connection and teaches kids how Christians have fun.Talk together — try "thorns and roses": best and hardest part of the day. Go deeper than homework check-ins.Pray together — formal prayers matter, but so does spontaneous prayer. Help kids see God in their everyday moments and talk to Him like a friend.🌍 Reaching Out ("the fire") 9. Serve each other at home — home is where virtue is first practiced, not just performed in public. 10. Be mindful of others while at home — practice hospitality, care for your belongings to pass on to others, look for ways to bless neighbors, and discuss charitable giving as a family. 11. Be a godly family in the world — eye contact, kindness, holding doors, praying before meals. Simple witness wherever you go. 12. Serve in your community together — find ways to serve as a family unit rather than fragmenting into separate groups. Key TakeawaysFaith should be the source of warmth in your home, not just an addition to it.It's NEVER too late — these habits can be applied at any age or stage.You don't need to add hours to your day; these habits can flow through your existing rhythms.Resources Mentioned📱 Catholic HOM App (Households on Mission) — catholicHOM.com — monthly resources, Q&A with Greg & Lisa, podcasts💬 CatholicCounselors.com — faithful Catholic telecounseling, available anywhere📻 More2Life — EWTN Radio, Monday–Friday, 10am ET; also available as a podcast"The faith was the source of the warmth in their home."

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Fiat in the Mess is a Catholic mothers' podcast about saying "yes" to God right in the middle of daily life.  Brought to you by the mothers' ministry Mighty Is Her Call and inspired by Mary's fiat - "let it be done" - we dive into the beauty and chaos of our vocation: the literal messes, the spiritual struggles, and the hidden graces found in both. Through heartfelt and honest conversations, we uplift and dignify the sacred calling of motherhood - without pretending it's easy. Faithful, funny, and deeply real, this podcast is for moms seeking holiness in the mess, not outside of it.

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  • Creator
    Annie Muller, Hailey Skinner
  • Years Active
    2022 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Annie Muller, Hailey Skinner

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