Here's the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, & Mindset for People Who Don't Want Life to Suck

Iris, Meri, & Amy

On this show, we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy. Because, here’s the deal: Life shouldn’t suck. And a lot of diet and exercise shenanigans y’all get up to is making it suck. Your relationship with food and your body is making it suck. We’re here to help you change all that. So grab a coffee, go for a walk in the sun or get your lift on, and let’s get into it.

  1. 1D AGO

    Food Isn’t the Problem: Understanding Emotional and Physiological Scarcity with Stefanie Michele

    In today’s episode, we sat down with Stefanie Michele for a deeply honest, compassionate conversation about binge eating, body image, nervous system regulation, and what it really means to heal from the inside out. Stefanie shares her personal journey through 25 years of disordered eating - restriction, bingeing, orthorexia, bulimia, and anorexia - and how she found true recovery at 40. Her story alone is a powerful reminder that healing is possible, even when it feels unimaginable. We go far beyond food rules and willpower and into the nervous system, emotional regulation, trauma, and self-trust. We talk about why binge eating is rooted in scarcity (not lack of discipline), how physiology has to come before mindset work, and why shame keeps people stuck. This episode is for anyone who feels broken, out of control around food, or exhausted from fighting their body - and is ready for a more peaceful, sustainable way forward. If you’ve ever thought, “Why do I do this?” or “What’s wrong with me?” - this conversation will help you see that nothing is wrong with you at all. “Binge eating is not a disorder of gluttony. It’s a disorder of scarcity.” - Stefanie Michele “When we don’t understand why we behave the way we do, we assume we’re broken.” - Stefanie Michele This week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Why binge eating feels like a “hijacking” of the body—and how it differs from overeatingHow chronic dieting, restriction, and food rules disregulate the nervous systemThe role of physiology (adequate food, carbs, movement) in emotional regulationWhy shame and self-criticism actually fuel binge–restrict cyclesHow emotional suppression (like unexpressed anger) can drive binge eatingWhat it really means to have a regulated nervous system (hint: it’s not being calm all the time)How social media imagery impacts body image - and why curating your feed mattersPractical examples of using somatic tools to feel emotions without getting stuck Connect with Stefanie Michele: I am Stefanie Michele WebsiteI am Stefanie Michele InstagramI am Stefanie Michele SubstackFull But Not Finished Podcast - SpotifyFull But Not Finished Podcast - Apple Podcasts Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

    54 min
  2. FEB 9

    Making It Through the Winter Blahs Without Letting It All Go

    We’re heading into February - that stretch of winter where the novelty of the New Year has worn off, it’s still cold and dark, and motivation can feel… thin. In today’s episode, we talk honestly about the winter blahs, why they’re completely normal, and why feeling apathetic or “off” doesn’t mean you’re broken or falling behind. We normalize the slump and remind ourselves that losing steam doesn’t equal losing progress. Together, we dig into practical, sustainable ways to work with this season instead of fighting it. From dialing back expectations without quitting, to leaning on minimum standards of care, to rejecting all-or-nothing mentalities (looking at you, 75 Hard), this conversation is about grit and grace. Forward motion still counts - even when it’s slower, messier, and quieter than usual. “Sixty to seventy percent is way more than zero. And zero is usually where people get stuck.” - Amy Rudolph “Right now is primetime practice for all or something.” - Iris Deadlifts This week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Why challenges like 75 Hard often fuel perfectionism and burnout Why winter blues and motivation slumps are normalThe power of “minimum standards of care” during low-energy seasonsHow to downshift habits without throwing them awayWhy all-or-nothing thinking derails long-term consistencyUsing anchors for food and movement (not just water)How step goals, workouts, and nutrition can flex with real lifeHow consistency is built in the gray areas - not at 100% or zero Connect with Us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

    40 min
  3. FEB 2

    Becoming the Healthier You Requires Sacrifice… and It’s Worth It with Val Lusvardi, IFBB Pro

    In today’s selects episode, Val Lusvardi joins us as we dive into the crucial aspects of fitness and nutrition, emphasizing the importance of dedication, discipline, and the power of habit formation. Val, a mom, wife, coach, and bikini pro athlete, shares her insights on the significance of sticking to her training schedule, and we move beyond training to include the broader scope of self-care, boundary setting, and the mental aspect of maintaining a healthy lifestyle. We discuss the importance of time management and boundary setting for a healthy lifestyle, the necessity of habit building for lasting fitness and weight loss results, the empowerment that comes from understanding and practicing moderation, especially with foods previously considered off limits. And much more… “If It’s something you want to make a priority of, build a habit around, put it on the calendar and do your best to make it a non-negotiable.” - Val Lusvardi “It does require sacrifice. When it comes to habit setting and creating boundaries, oftentimes it’s that sacrifice that makes it hard for people. It’s not as fun, it’s kind of boring. But sometimes that’s what we need to do in order to move forward with our goals.” - Val Lusvardi This week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: The critical importance of scheduling and prioritizing workouts to ensure consistency.The importance of time management and boundary setting for a healthy lifestyle.Understanding hunger as a normal sensation, even in maintenance phases, and not an immediate cue to eat.The significance of mindful eating and enjoying the experience of meals to achieve satisfaction.The role of personalized nutrition plans and the flexibility within them to suit individual lifestyles and goals.The concept of self-improvement and confidence-building through fitness and nutrition practices. Resources Mentioned: Our First Episode with Val: “Feeling Fluffy & Finding Your People”Training Age Podcast with Val Lusvardi & Heather AdamsVal Lusvardi on InstagramVal Lusvardi WebsiteVal Lusvardi: Fluffy is a State of Mind Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

    47 min
  4. JAN 26

    Q&A: Postpartum Depression, Training in Pregnancy, & More

    In today’s episode, we’re diving into a deeply personal and highly requested topic in today’s episode: strength training and pregnancy - what actually changed for Iris, what didn’t, and why so much of what we hear about prenatal fitness is flat-out wrong. We get honest about fatigue, nausea, modifying lifts as the bump grows, why resistance training is not only safe but incredibly beneficial, and how mindset plays a huge role in staying active through every trimester. We also move into a raw and compassionate conversation around postpartum depression - what it felt like when it hit me hard, how my husband helped me recognize I wasn’t okay, and why getting support (including medication) changed everything. We talk about the emotional roller coaster of postpartum life, the importance of advocacy and support systems, and why moms deserve care, strength, and joy - not martyrdom. If you're pregnant, postpartum, or supporting someone who is, this episode is equal parts education, validation, and encouragement. “Pregnancy and birth are hard work - why wouldn’t we want to strengthen our bodies to prepare for something that demanding?” - Amy Rudolph “More is not better. Better is better. It’s not about the length of the workout - it’s the intention, intensity, and progression you bring to it.” - Iris Deadlifts This week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Evidence-based truth about resistance training during pregnancyWhat actually changed in my workouts across trimesters (and what didn’t)How nausea, fatigue, and fueling influenced training decisionsSmart modifications for lifting with a growing bellyCore training that supports pregnancy instead of scaring you away from itThe reality of coning, diastasis, and what “listening to your body” really meansA very real conversation about postpartum depression and getting helpEncouragement, compassion, and support for moms in every phase of the journey Connect with Us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

    56 min
  5. JAN 19

    An honest chat about GLP1-s and Microdosing with Beth Feraco

    In today’s episode, Beth Feraco joins us again for an honest, unfiltered conversation about rapid weight loss, hair loss, and the very real consequences we’re seeing from extreme calorie deficits, GLP-1 misuse, and the explosion of unregulated microdosing. What started as a hairstylist’s concern turned into a much bigger discussion about under-fueling, nutrient deficiencies, muscle and bone loss, and the cultural pressure to be thin at all costs. We break down what peptides actually are, the critical difference between FDA-approved, responsibly prescribed GLP-1 medications and the research chemicals being sold online, and why “boring basics” like eating enough, lifting weights, sleeping, and managing stress still matter - no matter what medication you’re on. This is a grounded, science-forward conversation from coaches who work with real people and care deeply about long-term health, not shortcuts. “You shouldn’t receive a pharmaceutical in the mail, not know how to inject it, not know the dosage, and be DM’ing a random influencer for instructions.” - Beth Feraco “Losing hair is not a flex. That’s not something that should be happening, and you need to do something about it as soon as it starts.” - Beth Feraco This week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: Rapid weight loss from steep calorie deficits often shows up first as hair lossHair loss can be a warning sign of muscle loss, bone loss, and nutrient deficienciesGLP-1 medications can be life-saving when responsibly prescribed and monitoredMicrodosed peptides sold online are unregulated research chemicals, not medicationsInfluencer and MLM peptide marketing is driven by profit, not health or sciencePostpartum and breastfeeding women are often significantly under-fueledHabits, behaviors, and coping skills still matter - even with medicationLong-term health comes from consistency with the boring basics, not shortcutsConnect with Us: Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram, and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

    48 min
  6. JAN 12

    How to Execute a Successful, Kickass Fat Loss Phase

    In today’s episode, we go deep into the real foundations of fat loss, muscle retention, and sustainable health - the stuff that actually works long-term, not the Internet quick fixes that make you miserable. We break down what a moderate, respectful calorie deficit actually looks like, why most people are eating far too little to see progress, and how to calculate a simple, sane starting point you can trust. We dig into the messy mindset stuff too - the catastrophizing, the “I blew it so screw it” spiral, the belief that hunger is an emergency - and we walk you through how to shift into data-gathering, curiosity, and actual lifestyle change. We also cover the unsexy basics people love to skip: walking like you have somewhere to be, building real muscle with progressive overload, and understanding why being under-muscled is a bigger problem today than being “over-fat.” From step goals to protein baselines to the dangers of chronically under-fueling, this episode is your grounded, compassionate reminder that better is better - not less, not perfect, not punishment. Just better, consistently, done with intention. “One meal or one day won’t derail you, but the story you tell yourself about it might.” - Amy Rudolph “Slow down, trust, and be consistent long enough to actually see what your body can do.” - Iris Deadlifts This week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: The simple calorie-deficit formula most people don’t trust - and why they shouldHow diet culture conditions you to think “that’s too many calories” (and why it’s usually dead wrong)Why under-eating backfires: binge-restrict cycles, inconsistency, and metabolic miseryProtein + fiber as your daily anchorsStrength training as the organ-of-longevity builder: muscle mass, metabolism, and long-term healthThe truth about walking: why steps are the most underrated fat-loss lever you havePulling calories should be the last resort - what to look at firstMindset makeovers: hunger isn’t an emergency, perfection isn’t a requirement, and curiosity beats judgment every time Connect with Us: Protein & Fiber: The Magic Macronutrients (Episode)Maintenance Masterclass (Episode)Automating Your Nutrition and Movement (Episode)Iris Deadlifts on InstagramAmy Rudolph on InstagramWork with us at Beth Feraco Fitness Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

    58 min
  7. JAN 5

    Peaceful Striving with Heather Adams

    In today’s episode, Heather Adams, Strength and Nutrition coach and mom of 6, joins us to share her own fitness journey, from a shy, timid kid who was afraid to try anything new… to playing tackle football and qualifying to run the Boston Marathon and becoming a personal trainer and dedicated coach who is helping women achieve “peaceful striving” in their health, nutrition, and fitness goals. We chat all about the importance of approaching life with curiosity and kindness instead of frustration and anger. Heather shares powerful insights on the importance of understanding the "why" behind actions, the challenges of breaking old habits, how “constructive discomfort" can lead to significant personal growth, and the persistence in making small, consistent changes can help snowball into huge lifestyle shifts. "I got brave. That's where all of the magic happens.” - Heather Adams “Embrace the power of maybe—maybe this could work, maybe this could be great. You can always make a choice and then make another choice.” - Heather Adams This week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck: The impact of her older brother’s wrestling and dieting on Heather’s early views of fitnessHeather’s journey from being a timid, reclusive child to discovering her athletic sideHow little moments of bravery can help you achieve great thingsThe concept of “peaceful striving” and its importance in fitness and personal growthThe role of curiosity and kindness in personal growth and evolving identitiesThe importance of understanding the "why" behind actions and patterns to foster long-term change Connect with Heather Adams: Heather Adams on InstagramTraining Age Podcast with Val Lusvardi and Heather AdamsIris on Training Age Podcast: Telling a New Story Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. Apple Podcasts | Spotify Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us! Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram, Meri on Instagram, and Amy Rudolph on Instagram.

    58 min
4.9
out of 5
40 Ratings

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On this show, we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy. Because, here’s the deal: Life shouldn’t suck. And a lot of diet and exercise shenanigans y’all get up to is making it suck. Your relationship with food and your body is making it suck. We’re here to help you change all that. So grab a coffee, go for a walk in the sun or get your lift on, and let’s get into it.

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