The Dangerous Man Podcast

Rory Lawrence

Where weakness is hunted down and destroyed.  TDMP delivers raw truth, real talk, and ruthless discipline for men who are done being soft, passive, and silent. Through biblical masculinity, brotherhood, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, and spiritual growth, the show equips men to reject passivity, fight for what matters, and become the man God designed them to be. This is not self-help for weak men. This is a war cry for men ready to rise, lead, and build.

  1. THE NEXT HUNDRED BATTLES | 100 Full Episodes, One Mission, and the Next Hundred Battles

    1d ago

    THE NEXT HUNDRED BATTLES | 100 Full Episodes, One Mission, and the Next Hundred Battles

    Send us Fan Mail This is not a victory lap. This is a stone in the ground. In this milestone 100th full episode of The Dangerous Man Podcast, Rory and Matt talk through and remember where TDMP started, celebrate what God has done, and cast vision for the next hundred battles. This episode is built around three questions: Where have we come from? What has God done? Where are we going? Along the way, Rory and Matt talk through the early days of TDMP, the burden behind the mission, the men who helped carry it, the latest podcast reach markers, and the future vision for moving men from listeners to leaders. This one gets personal too, with Rory and Matt interviewing each other about purpose, growth, conviction, and where God is still forging them. The first hundred episodes were never about building a podcast. They were about building men. Support the show TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsSGrab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/newFollow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/Connect with Matt Fortin & Rory LawrenceEmail us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.comRemember men... Stop trying & start training!

    1h 1m
  2. COUNTERFEIT MASCULINITY | Exposing the Scammers Selling Warrior Costumes

    May 21

    COUNTERFEIT MASCULINITY | Exposing the Scammers Selling Warrior Costumes

    Send us Fan Mail There is a fake version of masculinity being sold to men right now. It is loud. Flashy. Ripped. Rich. Angry. Seductive. It calls itself alpha, but a lot of it is just insecurity wearing a costume. In this episode, Rory goes after counterfeit masculinity and exposes the scammers selling warrior costumes to boys who do not want to pay the price of becoming real men. Real masculinity is not body count, bank accounts, online bravado, dominance games, or peacocking for attention. Real masculinity is strength submitted to God. A real man fears God, carries responsibility, controls his appetites, protects women instead of preying on them, loves sacrificially, builds brotherhood, repents fast, and serves before he leads. In this episode, we break down: The difference between real masculinity and counterfeit masculinity Why the manosphere attracts insecure men looking for shortcuts The “Threat Index” of fake masculine personas Why strength without surrender becomes dangerous How biblical masculinity carries both strength and love What it means to stop looking like a man and start becoming one Scripture of the Day 1 Corinthians 16:13–14 ESV “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.” Dangerous Focus Ask yourself: What fake version of masculinity am I most tempted to follow? Name it. Expose it. Kill it. Then take one real masculine action this week: serve, repent, confess, train, lead, apologize, call a brother, or carry what you have been avoiding. Destroy your weakness. Build the man. Deploy the dangerous self. Support the show TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsSGrab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/newFollow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/Connect with Matt Fortin & Rory LawrenceEmail us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.comRemember men... Stop trying & start training!

    45 min
  3. 6 MEN THAT WILL KILL YOUR CIRCLE | How To Train The Discipline Of Circle Control

    Apr 22

    6 MEN THAT WILL KILL YOUR CIRCLE | How To Train The Discipline Of Circle Control

    Send us Fan Mail Not every man in your life deserves access. In this Dangerous Discipline episode, we break down the 6 types of men you need to watch for, avoid, push back, or cut off. The Manipulator. The Parasite. The Firestarter. The Black Cloud. The Ghost. The Boundary Breaker. Bad company does not stay small. It drains your strength, clouds your mind, and sabotages your future. Some men sharpen you, And Some men sabotage you. QOTD: Every man in your circle is either sharpening your edge or he is dulling your blade. THIS IS YOU IF… This is you if you already know there are men in your life you keep making excuses for. SOTD: 1 Corinthians 15:33 - Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” THE 6 TYPES OF CIRCLE KILLERS: THE MANIPULATOR — He uses guilt, pressure, charm, and leverage to steer people toward his preferred outcome.THE PARASITE — He feeds on your strength, time, energy, and resources without giving anything back.THE FIRESTARTER — He creates tension, conflict, and chaos, then stands back and watches it burn.THE BLACK CLOUD — He smothers momentum with complaint, cynicism, doubt, and heaviness.THE GHOST — He talks loyalty when life is easy, then disappears the second things get costly.THE BOUNDARY BREAKER — He keeps pushing past your limits, standards, and convictions until compromise feels normal.FIELD OPS: FIELD OP 1: AUDIT THE CIRCLE Write the names donw so you can see it clearly.FIELD OP 2: CHANGE  ACESS Move the wrong men back. Less access. Less time. Less trust. Less explanation. NIGHT DEBRIEF: Write these lines in your journal: - Who in my circle is costing me the most? - What have I been tolerating? - Who needs to be closer? Love people, yes. Pray for people, yes. Show mercy, yes. But do not confuse mercy with access. Do not confuse love with closeness. Do not confuse history with trust. If a man is one of these patterns, set hard boundaries. If he will not respect them, cut him off. PROTECT BROTHERHOOD, PROTECT YOUR CIRCLE! ACESS DENIED EPISODE LINK: SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/episode/62unkdQPKqbT2VNr3YcWf2?si=d3474640270f4f29 Support the show TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsSGrab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/newFollow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/Connect with Matt Fortin & Rory LawrenceEmail us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.comRemember men... Stop trying & start training!

    38 min
  4. THE PINE TREE RIOT | When Tyranny Takes an Inch, Men Must Draw the Line

    Apr 15

    THE PINE TREE RIOT | When Tyranny Takes an Inch, Men Must Draw the Line

    Send us Fan Mail On April 14, 1772, in Weare, New Hampshire, a group of colonial men violently resisted British officers enforcing the Crown’s pine tree laws. What looked like a fight over timber was really a fight over tyranny, overreach, and the right of free men to draw a line before power takes everything. In this episode, we break down the Pine Tree Riot, what it reveals about human government, and why men must learn the difference between rightful authority and creeping control. Because if you never resist when power takes an inch, do not be shocked when it comes back for your whole city. SOTD: Acts 5:29 (ESV) - “But Peter and the apostles answered, ‘We must obey God rather than men.’” HOW TO DEVELOP IT 1. RULE YOURSELF FIRST If lust, fear, comfort, and appetite rule you, you are already easy to control. 2. KNOW THE BOUNDARIES Know what belongs to God, the state, the church, and the household. If you do not know the lanes, you will surrender ground too easily. 3. BUILD A STRONG HOUSE Weak homes trade conviction for safety. Strong homes can absorb pressure. 4. SPEAK EARLY Most men wait too long. Resist small compromises before they become normal. 5. LOCK ARMS WITH OTHER MEN Tyranny loves isolated men. Brotherhood makes men harder to move. 6. ACCEPT THE COST Real resistance costs comfort, convenience, and approval. If it has to be painless, you are not ready. FIELD OP 1: IDENTIFY THE INCH Where are you tolerating overreach in your thinking, home, speech, or convictions? FIELD OP 2: DRAW THE LINE Take one visible action this week that says, no farther. Do one thing that strengthens your resistance muscle: speak truthset a boundarygather with strong menlead your house clearlycut off one compromiseNIGHT DEBRIEF Where did I tolerate what I should have confronted?What cost am I afraid to pay?What happened when I stood firm? Support the show TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsSGrab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/newFollow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/Connect with Matt Fortin & Rory LawrenceEmail us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.comRemember men... Stop trying & start training!

    25 min
  5. BECOMING GOOD MEN | What It Takes to Build a Man

    Mar 25

    BECOMING GOOD MEN | What It Takes to Build a Man

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, I got to  talk with Donnie Griggs, author of "Becoming Good Men", for a real conversation on what it actually takes to build a man. We get into fatherhood, the gaps many men carry from childhood, the lies culture tells about masculinity, the danger of staying isolated and underbuilt, and why no man becomes good by accident. This is not a book promo disguised as a podcast. This is a challenge to the men listening right now. If you were never built right, built weak, or built with missing pieces, the question is no longer what happened to you. The question is what are you going to do now? If you are tired of excuses, tired of confusion, and ready to become a man your wife can trust, your children can follow, and your brothers can respect then this episode is for you! TDMP PROMO CODE: "Dangerousbrew10" For 10% off your first order at www.confinedspacecoffee.com READ THE BOOK: https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Good-Men-Figuring-Together/dp/B0G56PNMKV FOLLOW DONNIE: https://www.facebook.com/DonnieGriggsMHC/ Support the show TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsSGrab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/newFollow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/Connect with Matt Fortin & Rory LawrenceEmail us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.comRemember men... Stop trying & start training!

    58 min
  6. [FOS 5/5] CREDIBILITY OR NOTHING | Stop Talking Beyond Your Obedience

    Mar 21 ·  Bonus

    [FOS 5/5] CREDIBILITY OR NOTHING | Stop Talking Beyond Your Obedience

    Send us Fan Mail As men we must be credible with our actions or it means nothing coming out of our mouth. Our actions prove what’s really inside us and who’s really in charge. In Episode 5, we close the credibility gap between what we say and how we live. This is the final audit: speech, tone, patterns, and proof. Because real freedom isn’t saying whatever you want, it’s having the restraint to stay clear under pressure and the actions that back up our life.  QOTD:  “Do not explain your philosophy. Embody it.”  Epictetus: Your mouth reveals your inner government. Listen for the tells: Excuse language: You are negotiating responsibility.Victim language: You are avoiding ownership.Flex language: You are hungry for approval.Angry language: You are ruled by emotion.Dirty language: Your heart is sloppy.Gossip language: You are weak and bored.Big promise language: You want credit without cost.SOTD: “The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.” - Luke 6:45  QUESTION: What do your words reveal about you? WHY DOES IT MATTER? Because credibility is leadership currency. When words and actions do not match, we lose: Respect.Trust.Authority.Influence with your kids.Safety with your wife.Integrity before God.TACTICAL APPLICATION: THE TRANSCRIPT TEST For one day, pay attention to what you say most. Complaint, excuse, faith, gratitude, lust, anger, jokes, truth. Your top category is your top battlefield.ONE CLAIM, ONE PROOF Pick one line you say all the time. “I am a man of discipline.” “I am getting in shape.” “I am leading my house.” Then prove it with one concrete action within 24 hours.KILL TWO TELLS Choose two tells to eliminate this week. Gossip. Exaggeration. Sarcasm. Complaining. Excuses. Replace with short, clean language. DANGEROUS FOCUS FOR THE WEEK: Credibility Audit Week. Every night, write three lines: What did my mouth reveal today?Where did my actions contradict my words?What is one move tomorrow that makes my words true?Your mouth will keep telling on you... Make it tell the truth. Support the show TDMP SITE: https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/NEW HERE: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6edYYGXup6pimDwU1kGnsSGrab some DANGEROUS GEAR in our shop https://dangerousmanpodcast.com/shop/Support the show for as little as $3 a month https://www.buzzsprout.com/2080275/supporters/newFollow us on X for more shenanigans https://twitter.com/TDMPodcast603Follow us on Instagram for extra shenanigans https://www.instagram.com/thedangerousmanpodcast/Connect with Matt Fortin & Rory LawrenceEmail us at: thedangerousmanpodcast@gmail.comRemember men... Stop trying & start training!

    19 min
4.4
out of 5
26 Ratings

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Where weakness is hunted down and destroyed.  TDMP delivers raw truth, real talk, and ruthless discipline for men who are done being soft, passive, and silent. Through biblical masculinity, brotherhood, leadership, marriage, fatherhood, and spiritual growth, the show equips men to reject passivity, fight for what matters, and become the man God designed them to be. This is not self-help for weak men. This is a war cry for men ready to rise, lead, and build.

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