Sharing My Truth

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Hi Babes! Hello Darling! Sharing My Truth is a weekly conversation with Mel and Suzie. Unlikely best friends, we are two women from different generations, sharing our uncensored truths. We talk about life, love, relationships, sex and what we have learnt and want to learn. Each week we sit down for a chat about the good, the bad, the ugly, the embarrassing moments, the drama and the down right wild and crazy stuff that happens in life.The truth is we’re all searching for answers, solutions and to make life better, but how do we get there? How do we learn to speak to each other so we can have better relationships with each other and with ourselves? By sharing our truth with you, we hope it helps you get a little closer to your truth.

  1. 2D AGO

    First Date Red Flag Or Not? What Men And Women Shouldn’t Ignore

    What questions should you really be asking when you’re dating someone new? And more importantly, what answers should make you pause? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie dive into the dating questions that quietly reveal red flags. These are the questions that can tell you a lot about someone’s character, emotional maturity, and intentions long before you get too invested. From how someone talks about their ex to their views on commitment, honesty, money, and responsibility, the answers can reveal more than people realize. The problem is many of us hear the red flags and still convince ourselves they don’t matter. Why do people ignore obvious warning signs? Are women sometimes telling themselves they’re in control when they’re not? Are men overlooking behaviours that later become relationship disasters? Mel and Suzie break down the red flag dating questions everyone should be asking early on, what certain answers might really mean, and how to tell the difference between a harmless quirk and a real relationship warning sign. If you’ve ever looked back at a relationship and thought, I should have paid attention to that, this episode will hit home. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    31 min
  2. MAR 4

    Modern Women VS Modern Men: Who’s Really Struggling?

    Dating has never been more talked about, yet more people feel confused, frustrated, and disconnected than ever before. So what’s actually going on? In this episode, we unpack the growing tension between modern women and modern men. Are men feeling pushed aside? Are women overwhelmed by expectations they helped create? And here’s the harder question: are some women self-sabotaging while believing they’re fully in control? We explore whether independence has strengthened relationships or quietly complicated them. Do women think they have more control in dating than they actually do? Are men stepping back because the rules feel unclear, stacked, or constantly shifting? This conversation was sparked by a write-in from a listener that made us question who really holds the power in modern dating, and who might be struggling more than they admit. We talk about shifting gender roles, financial pressure, dating apps, emotional expectations, standards, loneliness, and the uncomfortable truths on both sides. This isn’t about blame. It’s about clarity. If you’re a man trying to understand where you stand in today’s dating world, this episode will hit home. And if you’ve ever wondered whether modern dating has quietly created winners and losers, you’ll want to listen. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    36 min
  3. FEB 18

    Nice Guy vs Dream Man: She Heard Our Advice And Wrote Back

    She wrote in asking the question so many women quietly wrestle with: Am I settling for the nice guy or holding out for the dream man? We answered her story in a full episode, breaking down chemistry versus comfort, safety versus passion, and the pressure women feel to be grateful for “good enough.” She listened, and now she’s writing back. In this follow-up episode to Settling For The Nice Guy Or Waiting For The Dream Man: The Truth Women Don’t Say Out Loud, we share her honest reaction to our advice and how it made her rethink her dating patterns. Did she realize she was choosing safe over desire? Did our take change how she sees her relationship? Or did she disagree with us completely? This is the real-time aftermath of dating advice. The part no one talks about. What happens after you hear the truth and it actually applies to you. If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re being realistic or quietly settling, this conversation will hit close to home. Want more Sharing My Truth? Join our Patreon for exclusive episodes, behind-the-scenes conversations, and bonus content you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    25 min
  4. FEB 11

    Are Men Choosing Porn Over Real Relationships? The Effects on Sex, Dating, And Intimacy

    In this episode of Sharing My Truth, we dig into how porn is shaping modern dating, sex, and emotional intimacy. From delayed commitment and unrealistic expectations to performance anxiety and emotional disconnection, w explore why more men are opting out of real relationships and what that means for women trying to date in today’s landscape. We talk honestly about how easy access to porn affects desire, attraction, and motivation to pursue real connection. Is porn rewiring intimacy? Is it changing how men view women, sex, and relationships? And where does this leave long-term partnership, trust, and emotional closeness? This episode breaks down the psychological, emotional, and relational impact of how it is used, how it shows up in dating behavior, and why so many people feel frustrated, rejected, or disconnected in modern relationships. Whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or trying to understand shifting sexual dynamics, this conversation sheds light on what’s really going on beneath the surface. If you’ve ever wondered why dating feels harder, intimacy feels off, or connection feels shallow, this episode will help you make sense of it. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, behind-the-scenes conversations,  you won’t hear anywhere else.  Meet our partner guybrator.com premium products for confidence, comfort, and discretion. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    37 min
  5. FEB 4

    I’m 32, A Successful Woman, And Exhausted By Dating. Am I The Problem?

    Dating in your 30s can feel exhausting, especially when you’re a successful woman who has done the work, built a full life, and still keeps ending up in the same dating patterns. This episode is inspired by a write-in from a 32-year-old woman who is financially stable, emotionally aware, and completely burned out by dating and is quietly wondering if she’s the problem. We read her message and talk openly about dating burnout for women in their 30s, why modern dating feels harder for successful women, and how repeated disappointments can start to feel personal. We unpack the pressure to stay positive, question your standards, or wonder if being too independent is working against you. This is not an episode about self-blame or surface-level dating advice. It’s an honest conversation about dating fatigue, self-reflection without self-criticism, and what actually needs to shift when you’re doing everything “right” but dating keeps going the same way. If you’re a woman in your 30s who feels tired, frustrated, or stuck in dating, this write-in will feel uncomfortably familiar. Want more unfiltered conversations? Join us on Patreon for bonus episodes, deeper dives, and the real Meet our partner guybrator.com Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod FSign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com

    34 min
  6. JAN 28

    What You Should Never Say On A Date: Shocking Truths From Our Listeners

    We asked our listeners one simple question: what is the one thing someone said on a date that instantly killed the vibe? The answers were brutal. From oversharing ex drama and financial confessions no one asked for, to “jokes” that were anything but funny, this episode dives into the real-life comments that turned promising dates into absolute no’s. Some were awkward, some were shocking, and a few were so bad we had to pause and ask, did they really say that out loud? We break down why certain phrases are instant dealbreakers, what these comments actually signal underneath, and how to avoid sabotaging a date before the appetizers even arrive. If you’re dating, thinking about dating, or just love secondhand cringe, this one will make you laugh, wince, and rethink your go-to date stories. Listen before your next date.  Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    39 min
  7. JAN 21

    AITA For Wanting My Girlfriend To Quit Her Job Because I Can Afford it

    He hasn’t asked her. He’s just thinking about it and wondering if even thinking this makes him the a*****e. In this episode, we break down a relationship dilemma that’s more internal than confrontational. A man earns enough to comfortably support both himself and his girlfriend, and he’s debating whether it’s wrong to want her to quit her job. Not because she asked. Not because there’s a problem. Simply because he can afford it, and believes it might make their life easier. We unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface: money, power, intention, and fear of how this question might land. Is wanting to provide a loving instinct, or does the thought itself cross into control before the conversation even starts? This episode dives into financial roles in modern relationships, independence versus partnership, and why money conversations can feel so loaded before a single word is spoken. If you’ve ever hesitated to bring up a sensitive topic because you were worried about how it would sound, this one’s for you. Got a story to share with us? Leave us a voicemail by clicking here. Email us: stories@sharingmytruth.com or DM us on Instagram Follow us on Instagram @sharingmytruthpod, TikTok @sharingmytruthpod Facebook @sharingmytruthpod , YouTube @sharingmytruthpod Follow Mel @melanyklondon and Suzie @suzsheckter Sign up to our weekly newsletter and join the Sharing My Truth Community sharingmytruth.com Visit our website sharingmytruth.com and share your truths with us; check out our latest merch, promo codes from our partners, and much more.

    31 min

Ratings & Reviews

4.6
out of 5
7 Ratings

About

Hi Babes! Hello Darling! Sharing My Truth is a weekly conversation with Mel and Suzie. Unlikely best friends, we are two women from different generations, sharing our uncensored truths. We talk about life, love, relationships, sex and what we have learnt and want to learn. Each week we sit down for a chat about the good, the bad, the ugly, the embarrassing moments, the drama and the down right wild and crazy stuff that happens in life.The truth is we’re all searching for answers, solutions and to make life better, but how do we get there? How do we learn to speak to each other so we can have better relationships with each other and with ourselves? By sharing our truth with you, we hope it helps you get a little closer to your truth.

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