Burnt Pancakes: Momversations | Conversations for Imperfect Moms, Chats About Mom Life & Interviews with Real Mamas

Katie Fenske - Mom of 3 | Potty Training Coach | Former Teacher | Mama Mentor | Boy Mom | Imperfect Mom | Lover of Mom Chats

The Burnt Pancakes Podcast is here to remind you that in motherhood, EVERYONE BURNS THEIR FIRST PANCAKE. I’m Katie Fenske, a (not so perfect) mom of 3, and I’m inviting you to join in on my conversations with other moms as we talk about all things motherhood; the good, the bad and everything in between. We're flipping our motherhood mistakes into successes and learning how to just keep flipping. MOTHERHOOD TOPICS I DISCUSS:Child Birth and Postpartum RecoveryAdjusting to MotherhoodRaising BoysToddler Mom TipsBeing a Teen MomSelf Care in MotherhoodManaging Kid Sports and a Busy Family ScheduleEpic Mom FailsPotty Training WoesSurviving Summer VacationAND SO MUCH MORE!To see more of Katie, you can find her... Instagram @burntpancakeswithkatieYouTube: @burnt-pancakesWebsite: burntpancakes.comemail: katie@burntpancakes.com

  1. 1D AGO

    133: You and Me, Baby: Learning Motherhood as We Go with Aisha Saeed

    In this episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I sit down with bestselling children’s book author and mom of three, Aisha Saeed, to talk about her beautiful new picture book You and Me, Baby. This heartfelt story is a love letter to the bond between a parent and their baby and a reminder that we’re all learning how to parent as we go. We talk about the vulnerable Instagram post that sparked the idea for the book, how motherhood has shaped Aisha’s writing, and why it matters to tell stories that reflect real families and real emotions.  This episode is for new moms, seasoned moms, and anyone who needs the reminder that there’s no “perfect” way to parent—just love, growth, and learning together. In this episode, we cover: What inspired You and Me, BabyHow a social media moment turned into a bestselling bookThe emotional side of learning how to parentWhat motherhood has taught AishaWhy representation in children’s books mattersHow our kids teach us just as much as we teach themYou and Me, Baby is out now and makes a perfect baby shower gift, bedtime read, and keepsake for new families. Connect with Aisha Saeed: Book: You And Me, Baby  - get it HERE Website: www.aishasaeed.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aishacs/ 📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K You can find Katie at: website: burntpancakes.com YouTube: @burnt.pancakes Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie Email: katie@burntpancakes.com 🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽 ☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here 💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE 📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE 🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE Instagram: @itspottytime Tiktok: @itspottytime_ Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

    32 min
  2. JAN 23

    132. Flipping the Script on School and Success: Why Our Kids Don’t Need to Wait to Be Entrepreneurs

    What if our kids didn’t have to wait until adulthood to chase their dreams?  In this episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I sit down with Krystal Popov, entrepreneur, founder of Futurepreneur, and the leading voice in America for raising kid entrepreneurs. Krystal has built four businesses, including a seven-figure co-working space, and now she’s on a mission to help kids design, launch, and run real businesses today. We talk about why the traditional education-to-job pipeline is broken, how AI is changing what our kids will need to succeed, and what parents can do to raise confident, creative, problem-solving kids. This is a must-listen for moms who are questioning the “normal” path and wondering how to better prepare their kids for a fast-changing world. In This Episode, We Talk About: Why kids don’t need to wait until adulthood to start businessesThe biggest problems with today’s education-to-career modelHow entrepreneurial thinking builds confidence and independenceThe connection between purpose, creativity, and kids’ mental healthHow to swap doom scrolling for activities that build real skillsWhat Futurepreneur is and how it helps kids launch real venturesSimple ways moms can encourage creativity and problem-solving at homeWhy chasing opportunity matters more than waiting for permissionConnect with  Krystal Popov: Website: https://futurepreneur.com/ Facebook  -  https://www.facebook.com/share/15dhvfn89G/?mibextid=wwXIfr Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/krystalpopov?igsh=MTRrbHRoMDFpZXl3bQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr;  📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K You can find Katie at: website: burntpancakes.com YouTube: @burnt.pancakes Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie Email: katie@burntpancakes.com 🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽 ☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here 💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE 📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE 🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE Instagram: @itspottytime Tiktok: @itspottytime_ Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

    30 min
  3. JAN 16

    131: Healing Infertility Naturally: The Natural Path to Getting Pregnant with Katie Wood

    Today I’m joined by integrative fertility coach and former pharmacist Katie Wood, whose personal fertility journey completely transformed the way she supports women today. After months of not conceiving, feeling dismissed by her OB-GYN, and searching for answers that traditional medicine couldn’t give her, Katie discovered the power of acupuncture, Traditional Chinese Medicine, and whole-body healing. That experience led her to conceiving and ultimately build a career helping women conceive naturally—with real support, not quick fixes. In this episode, we talk about: Katie’s emotional journey through delayed conceptionHow acupuncture and holistic medicine opened her eyes to the root-cause issues behind fertility strugglesThe biggest gaps in how standard OB-GYN care handles early TTC concernsEarly signs your body may be out of alignmentHow trauma, stress, and energy imbalances impact fertilityWhat an integrative, whole-body fertility plan actually looks likeWhy “unexplained infertility” is often a misleading diagnosisHow Katie blends Western medicine, nutrition, TCM, and energetic healingA real-life success story that shows what’s possible when women feel truly supportedConnect with Katie Wood Website: https://happynourishedmotherhood.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_wellness_pharmacist/ Podcast: https://finallygetpregnantnaturally.captivate.fm/listen 📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K You can find Katie at: website: burntpancakes.com YouTube: @burnt.pancakes Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie Email: katie@burntpancakes.com 🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽 ☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here 💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE 📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE 🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE Instagram: @itspottytime Tiktok: @itspottytime_ Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

    1h 1m
  4. JAN 9

    130. Diastasis Recti After Babies: Why It Happens and How to Heal It with Camille Beckstrand

    Mommy Tummy Fix App: HERE Code: MOMMY30 for 30% off In today’s episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I’m sitting down with Camille Beckstrand, certified life coach, mom of four, co-creator of the Mommy Tummy Fix program, and host of the “Moms on the Rise” podcast. If you’ve ever wondered why your stomach still looks or feels “off” after having kids… or why your core feels weak no matter how many workouts you try… this conversation is absolutely for you. Camille and her husband, Dr. Jared Beckstrand, created Mommy Tummy Fix after realizing that most moms are never taught how to rehabilitate their bodies postpartum. Since 2019, their simple, science-backed system has helped more than 11,000 women safely heal diastasis recti and reclaim strength, confidence, and connection to their bodies again. We dive into: ✨ What We Talk About in This Episode What diastasis recti actually is The signs you might have DR—even years after childbirthWhy traditional ab exercises can make things worseWhat safe core healing looks likeHow Camille balances motherhood, marriage, and multiple businessesThe emotional and mental side of postpartum healing that most programs skipWhy it’s never too late to restore your coreQuick tips you can start using today to support healingConncect with Camille:  Website: www.mommytummyfix.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/mommytummyfix/ YT: https://www.youtube.com/@mommytummyfix 📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K You can find Katie at: website: burntpancakes.com YouTube: @burnt.pancakes Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie Email: katie@burntpancakes.com 🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽 ☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here 💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE 📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE 🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE Instagram: @itspottytime Tiktok: @itspottytime_ Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

    35 min
  5. 12/19/2025 · BONUS

    THROWBACK: From Christmas Trees to Santa Claus: The History Behind My Favorite Christmas Traditions

    Get ready to embark on a fascinating journey as I explore the origins and customs of some of our favorite Christmas traditions. Ever wondered why we decorate an evergreen tree, hang giant socks on our fireplace, or plant a mistletoe over our doorways? Or how about the stories behind Santa Claus and his reindeer, or the popularity of candy canes? This episode is packed with facts and stories that reveal the ancient roots and evolution of these beloved holiday symbols and rituals. This week, I'm also taking a closer look at Christmas cards, and sharing our love for this warm and personal way of connecting during the festive season. Whether you're sending them out or receiving them, they're a reminder to pause and reflect amidst the holiday rush. And remember, everyone makes mistakes, even during the holidays - yes, you might burn your first pancake, but that's all part of the festive fun. So, gather around the fireplace, sip on some hot cocoa, and join me for this  episode on Christmas traditions. We promise, it'll add an extra sprinkle of magic to your holiday season. See our Christmas Cards: click HERE Sources: https://www.history.com/news/christmas-traditions-history https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas_stocking https://www.history.com/news/candy-canes-invented-germany https://www.whychristmas.com/customs/christmas-cards#:~:text=The%20custom%20of%20sending%20Christmas,1843%20by%20Sir%20Henry%20Cole. https://www.whychristmas.com/customs/santa-claus https://www.whychristmas.com/customs/nutcrackers 📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K You can find Katie at: website: burntpancakes.com YouTube: @burnt.pancakes Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie Email: katie@burntpancakes.com 🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽 ☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here 💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE 📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE 🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE Instagram: @itspottytime Tiktok: @itspottytime_ Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

    25 min
  6. 12/12/2025

    129: Surviving the Holidays With Teens: Five Strategies That Actually Help

    In today’s episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I'm diving into the world of holiday parenting, but not the toddler nap-time meltdown era. I'm talking about the teen and tween years, where emotions run high, expectations get complicated, and the holiday season suddenly feels like unfamiliar territory. I’m sharing insights inspired by an incredible guide from CultivaTeen Roots called Holiday Harmony: A Parent Quick Guide for the Teen Years. If you’ve ever thought, “Wow… this stage is a whole different ballgame,” you’re not alone. Holidays with big kids require new strategies, new communication, and a whole lot of connection, and this episode breaks down five practical ways to support your tween or teen through the season. In this episode, I cover: Why holiday stress looks different for teens and tweensHow giving them space can prevent overwhelm and conflictThe importance of setting clear expectations before eventsPractical tools to help them manage sensory overloadHow to stay calm and not take their reactions personallyChoosing one meaningful thing to honor their holiday experienceSimple conversation starters for the drive homeMy own experience shifting from “little kid holidays” to “teen territory”Links Mentioned: Check out CultivaTeen Roots and their course Making AdoleSenseHoliday Harmony: A Parent Quick Guide for the Teen YearsWhy this episode matters: Holidays can be a beautiful time of connection but they can also bring stress, overstimulation, and power struggles, especially with older kids who are still figuring themselves out. This episode gives you tools to create more harmony and support your teen or tween with empathy, clarity, and confidence. Perfect for you if: You’re parenting a tween or teenYou feel like holidays are more complicated than they used to beYou want fewer meltdowns and more meaningful momentsYou’re craving practical, real-life strategiesYou want to build deeper connection with your big kid this season 📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K You can find Katie at: website: burntpancakes.com YouTube: @burnt.pancakes Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie Email: katie@burntpancakes.com 🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽 ☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here 💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE 📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE 🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE Instagram: @itspottytime Tiktok: @itspottytime_ Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

    28 min
  7. 12/05/2025

    128. Navigating Your Child’s Rare Disease with Nikki McIntosh

    In this episode of Burnt Pancakes: Momversations, I had the honor of talking with Nikki McIntosh, author of Rare Mamas: Empowering Strategies for Navigating Your Child’s Rare Disease and the incredible woman behind the Rare Mamas community. Nikki’s story begins when her youngest son, Miles, was diagnosed with spinal muscular atrophy and everything in her world shifted. She left her 18-year marketing career and stepped fully into caregiving, advocacy, and creating a place for other rare moms to feel seen and supported. During our conversation, we dive into: ✨ What those first days after a rare disease diagnosis actually feel like ✨ How Nikki found purpose, community, and strength in the middle of fear and uncertainty ✨ The emotional and mental load of caring for a child with a rare or complex condition ✨ Why humor and storytelling matter so much during hard seasons ✨ Practical tools from her book for navigating medical systems, advocating for your child, and protecting your own well-being ✨ The message Nikki hopes every lost or overwhelmed rare mama hears today Even if you’re not walking through a rare disease journey, this conversation is full of encouragement for any mom who’s ever felt exhausted, stretched thin, or alone. Nikki’s honesty and heart are such a gift, and I know so many moms will feel less isolated after listening. Resources I Mentioned: – Her book: Rare Mamas by Nikki McIntosh – The Rare Mamas community + podcast - HERE – Instagram: @rare_mamas If this episode touched you, please share it with a friend who might need the reminder that she’s not the only one, and that hope can live right alongside the hard. 📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K You can find Katie at: website: burntpancakes.com YouTube: @burnt.pancakes Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie Email: katie@burntpancakes.com 🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽 ☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here 💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE 📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE 🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE Instagram: @itspottytime Tiktok: @itspottytime_ Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

    26 min
  8. 11/28/2025

    127. How We Do Santa in Our House

    In today’s episode, I’m spilling the hot cocoa on how we do Santa in our house — the traditions, the magic, and yes… the moment my oldest started to figure it all out. I’m sharing how my parents did Santa when I was growing up, why my husband and I decided to keep the tradition alive with our kids (even though some people say it’s “lying”), and what we’ve done over the years to keep the magic going without being caught red-handed. You’ll also hear the story of when Ronin started asking questions, how we handled “the talk,” and how we’re now bringing him in on the fun for his little brothers.  It’s sweet, it’s sentimental, and a little bit funny — basically a true momversation about growing up, letting go, and keeping the joy of Christmas alive in a new way. If you’ve ever wondered how other families handle Santa — or you’re just trying to figure out how to navigate that “Is Santa real?” conversation — this one’s for you. In This Episode: The Santa traditions I grew up withWhy we decided to continue the Santa magic in our familyHow we balanced Santa with the real meaning of ChristmasThe moment my son started putting the pieces togetherHow we had “the talk” (and why it made me a little sad)What we’re doing now to keep the magic alive for his brothersGET MY SANTA TAGS: https://burntpancakesshop.etsy.com/listing/1129506604 📺 Watch the episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLOpw5ui4uxJHx0tLFVtpnfSkpObfc4d-K You can find Katie at: website: burntpancakes.com YouTube: @burnt.pancakes Instagram: @burntpancakeswithkatie Email: katie@burntpancakes.com 🚽 Did you know Katie is also a Certified Potty Trainer? 🚽 ☎️ Schedule a 1:1 chat today: Schedule Here 💻 Digital Potty Training Course HERE 📖 Potty Training E-Book HERE 🆓 FREE potty training resources HERE Instagram: @itspottytime Tiktok: @itspottytime_ Some episodes include affiliate links at no cost to you.

    23 min

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The Burnt Pancakes Podcast is here to remind you that in motherhood, EVERYONE BURNS THEIR FIRST PANCAKE. I’m Katie Fenske, a (not so perfect) mom of 3, and I’m inviting you to join in on my conversations with other moms as we talk about all things motherhood; the good, the bad and everything in between. We're flipping our motherhood mistakes into successes and learning how to just keep flipping. MOTHERHOOD TOPICS I DISCUSS:Child Birth and Postpartum RecoveryAdjusting to MotherhoodRaising BoysToddler Mom TipsBeing a Teen MomSelf Care in MotherhoodManaging Kid Sports and a Busy Family ScheduleEpic Mom FailsPotty Training WoesSurviving Summer VacationAND SO MUCH MORE!To see more of Katie, you can find her... Instagram @burntpancakeswithkatieYouTube: @burnt-pancakesWebsite: burntpancakes.comemail: katie@burntpancakes.com