Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before

Justin Matters
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Think you've had a bad date? Wait till you listen to our viewer submitted stories on everything from first dates gone wrong to being catfished and all the perils from Tinder, Grindr, Hinge and yes even Bumble. Co-hosts Justin Matters and Chris Northover discuss the theme of the month whether it be anonymous profiles, transphobia, racism and we are joined by sexuality expert Robert Grigor to answer your burning questions! Not to be missed, this podcast will enable you to make smarter, safer choices in the online dating space.

Episodes

  1. 12/24/2025

    #5 - Little Monsters | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before

    Welcome back to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before. In this series, my co-hosts Chris Northover, Robert Grigor and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between. For this episode, I will be discussing my experiences regarding Lady Gaga and my various hook-ups, relationships and flings that have happened indirectly because of the global superstar. I also read out your submitted stories. Robert and Chris unfortunately won't be joining me this episode as I recorded this on a whim. Chapters 00:00 - Lady Gaga 02:31 - Bad Romance 08:17 - LoveGame 14:27 - Vanish Into You 27:36 Thank you for listening and Xmas Tree

    29 min

  2. 10/27/2023

    #4 - Red Flags | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before

    Welcome back to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before. In this series, my co-hosts Chris Northover, Robert Grigor and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between. For this episode, we are discussing the concept of red flags, what concerning behaviour should you look out for and what have our viewers experienced? About the hosts Justin Matters is a Digital Marketing Specialist and Podcaster who also helms The Complete Guide to Horror Movies. Chris Northover is a media extraordinaire co-hosting and co-producing Queer Stories on the Swan. Robert Grigor is a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. CHAPTERS 00:00 Intro 02:14 Red Flags 03:22 Chris's Red Flags 04:50 Robert's Red Flags 06:11 Justin's Red Flags 07:37 Taylor Swift 08:49 Slide in my DMs 09:14 DM 1 Single as a Pringle 11:09 DM 2 TransAction 13:59 DM 3 Don't Ask, Don't Novotel 15:34 DM 4 Gumtree 17:28 DM 5 Coffs Harbour 20:02 DM 6 Dealer Bust 23:14 Which Stories Are Mine 32:35 Unqualified Vs. Sexpert Advice 32:56 Question 1 - Should I date or dump this guy? 36:14 Question 2 - Are there safer ways to do auto-erotic asphyxiation? 39:47 Question 3 - Am I the A*****e? 42:50 Question 4 - My girlfriend leaked our sex tape to her Onlyfans, what should I do? 46:39 Justin's odyssey of being single in 2023 1:03:03 Thank you for tuning in 1:03:35 Queer Stories on the Swan 1:03:41 Gameboy Follow Queer Stories on the Swan below ↪ Instagram ↪ Podcast ↪ YouTube Follow me on social media ↪ TikTok ↪ Instagram ↪ Linktree Want spooky content? Check out The Complete Guide to Horror ↪ YouTube ↪ TikTok #date #sex #heartbreak #revenge #rebound #trans #sydney #onlyfans #bisexual #hookup #problem #grindr #tinder #love #dating #scary #worstdate #bumble #hinge #datingapps #assault #onlinedating #podcast #sexuality #gay #lgbt #sexpert #education #funny #meme #taylorswift #amitheahole #reddit #pearl #drawntogether #orangensw

    1h 4m

  3. 04/21/2023

    #3 - Heartbreak and Revenge | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before

    Welcome back to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before. In this series, my co-hosts Chris Northover, Robert Grigor and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between. For this episode, we are discussing the concept of heartbreak, revenge and rebounds. About the hosts Justin Matters is a Digital Marketing Specialist and Podcaster who also helms The Complete Guide to Horror Movies. Chris Northover is a media extraordinaire co-hosting and co-producing Queer Stories on the Swan. Robert Grigor is a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:30 Introducing Co-Hosts Chris Northover and Robert Grigor 02:46 Heartbreak and Revenge 04:32 Chris's First Heartbreak 08:17 Robert's First Heartbreak 10:12 The Crabs 11:13 Bisexuality and Bi-erasure 16:28 Justin's First Heartbreak 20:30 Justin's Revenge (Part I) 22:46 Have Chris and Robert Exacted Revenge on an Ex? 23:32 Justin's S****y Revenge (Part II) 27:41 Justin Runs Into His Ex in Melbourne 28:40 Slide in my DMs 30:02 DM 1 F**kboy 31:59 DM 2 LesBeLovers 35:41 DM 3 SloppySeconds 41:40 DM 4 QueenB***h 45:39 DM 5 BiBro 48:37 Bragging Vs. Humblebragging 51:12 Who Reported My Photo of Me Kissing Adore Delano? 53:12 Which Stories Are Mine 1:03:30 Unqualified Vs. Sexpert Advice 1:03:53 Question 1 - How Do I Get Over Heartbreak? 1:06:02 Question 2 - Can I Be Friends With an Ex? 1:08:55 Question 3 - How Do I Break the News I've Cheated & How Do I Get Over the Guy I Cheated With? 1:13:44 Question 4 - I Slept With My Ex's New Partner, Do I Tell My Ex? 1:16:33 Question 5 - What are the Best Apps to Explore My Sexuality? 1:26:55 Thank You to Co-Hosts Chris and Robert 1:27:31 My First Date Post-Breakup 1:33:03 Funny Tinder Exchange 1:35:15 Send Us Your Questions and Submissions! 1:35:41 A Tribute to My Ex's Follow Queer Stories on the Swan below ↪ Instagram: https://instagram.com/queerstoriesontheswan ↪ Podcast: https://linktr.ee/queerstoriesontheswan ↪ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@QSSStudios Follow me on social media ↪ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@justinmatters.mp4 ↪ Instagram: https://instagram.com/justinmatters.mp4 ↪ Linktree: https://linktr.ee/justinmatters Want spooky content? Check out The Complete Guide to Horror ↪ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@completeguidetohorror ↪ TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@completeguidetohorror Send in your stories! You can choose to remain anonymous #date #sex #hookup #allhookedup #catfish #catfishmtv #anonymous #discreet #grindr #tinder #theveronicas #love #dating #scary #worstdate #bumble #hinge #datingapps #lolita #dahmer #assault #onlinedating #podcast #sexuality #gay #lgbt #sexpert #education #funny #meme

    1h 36m

  4. 03/24/2023

    #2 - Boundaries and the Beast | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before

    Welcome to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before.In this series, my co-host Chris Northover and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.For this episode, we are discussing the concept of boundaries.I also share my own horrifying experiences including both my best and worst experiences from 2022 that are strong examples of how respecting boundaries can go incredible and how breaking boundaries can be awful.We are also lucky to be joined by Robert Grigor, a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Robert joins us to answer your burning questions on everything from love, sex, hook-ups and more! Chapters 00:00 Intro 02:42 What Are Boundaries? 10:00 The Guy Who Always Wanted to Sleep with a Podcaster 20:30 Slide In My DM's 21:20 DM 1 Blonde Bombshell 29:48 DM 2 VersKing 40:13 DM 3 BartenderLove 54:26 DM 4 Nambucca Heads High School Musical 1:02:04 DM 5 SpeedDater 1:16:05 Justin's story 1:24:27 Unqualified vs. Sexpert Advice 1:24:57 Question 1 1:31:52 Question 2 1:36:41 Question 3 1:42:04 Question 4 1:47:49 How I Nearly Got Date Raped By a Mark Latham Lookalike 2:01:11 My Best Hookup of All Time 2:07:36 PSA to Str8 Men 2:09:51 Thank You & Send Us Your Stories! 2:11:12 A Delusional Encounter I Had With a Twink Follow Queer Stories on the Swan below ↪ ⁠Instagram⁠ ↪ ⁠Podcast⁠ ↪ ⁠YouTube⁠ Follow me on social media ↪ ⁠TikTok⁠ ↪ ⁠Instagram⁠ ↪ ⁠Linktree⁠ Want spooky content? Check out ⁠The Complete Guide to Horror⁠ ↪ ⁠YouTube⁠ ↪ ⁠TikTok Send in your stories! You can choose to remain anonymous #date #sex #hookup #allhookedup #catfish #catfishmtv #anonymous #discreet #grindr #tinder #theveronicas #love #dating #scary #worstdate #bumble #hinge #datingapps #lolita #dahmer #assault #onlinedating #podcast #sexuality #gay #lgbt #sexpert #education #funny #meme

    2h 12m

  5. 02/10/2023

    #1 - Catfishing and Anonymous Profiles | The Worst Dating / Hookup / Sex / Love Stories You've Never Heard Before

    Welcome to Date or Disaster: The Worst Dating/Hookup/Sex/Love Stories You've Never Heard Before. In this series, my co-host Chris Northover and I read out your submitted stories on your worst experiences when it comes to love, dating, sex, hook-ups, relationships and everything in between.   For this episode, we are discussing the concepts of catfishing and anonymous/discreet profiles.   I also share my own horrifying experiences including exposing my on-going catfish stalker who has assaulted me over the past 10 years.   We are also lucky to be joined by Robert Grigor, a sexuality expert who has undergraduate degrees in sociology and psychology, a Masters in Sexual Health and currently works as a community health educator in clinical settings. Robert joins us to answer your burning questions on everything from love, sex, hook-ups and more!   Chapters  00:00 Intro  00:48 The Backstory  01:56 Introducing Co-host Chris Northover  03:24 Queer Stories on the Swan 03:48 What is Catfishing?  05:01 What is 'Anonymous/Discreet Profiles'?  09:03 How Justin Caught His Ex via Catfishing Him  12:06 Slide In My DM's  12:43 Story 1 - The Shed  16:23 Story 2 - Bi-Curiosity Killed the Cat  22:23 Story 3 - WetNWild  31:37 Story 4 - Secret Santa  40:20 Story 5 - Teenage Catfish Mutant Turds  50:09 Justin's story  1:02:44 Unqualified vs. Sexpert Advice  1:03:33 Introducing Sexpert Robert Grigor  1:04:23 Question  1 1:09:44 Question 2  1:16:20 Question 3  1:25:55 Question 4  1:37:55 Justin's Catfish Stalker  1:49:54 Thank You & Send Us Your Stories!  1:50:34 Exposing My Catfish Stalker Lachlan Meng & His Weird Messages   Follow Queer Stories on the Swan below ↪ ⁠Instagram⁠ ↪ ⁠Podcast⁠ ↪ ⁠YouTube⁠ Follow me on social media ↪ ⁠TikTok⁠ ↪ ⁠Instagram⁠ ↪ ⁠Linktree⁠ Want spooky content? Check out ⁠The Complete Guide to Horror⁠ ↪ ⁠YouTube⁠ ↪ ⁠TikTok Send in your stories! You can choose to remain anonymous   #date #sex #hookup #allhookedup #catfish #catfishmtv #anonymous #discreet #grindr #tinder #allsaints #love #dating #scary #worstdate #bumble #hinge #datingapps #onlinedating #podcast #sexuality #gay #lgbt #sexpert #education #funny #meme

    1h 52m
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Think you've had a bad date? Wait till you listen to our viewer submitted stories on everything from first dates gone wrong to being catfished and all the perils from Tinder, Grindr, Hinge and yes even Bumble. Co-hosts Justin Matters and Chris Northover discuss the theme of the month whether it be anonymous profiles, transphobia, racism and we are joined by sexuality expert Robert Grigor to answer your burning questions! Not to be missed, this podcast will enable you to make smarter, safer choices in the online dating space.

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