DADHOOD

Thomas McMinn

DADHOOD is a global conversation about what it really means to become a dad, a man, a friend, and partner in today’s ever changing world. Hosted by Thomas McMinn and Frankie Corrigan each episode explores the stories, struggles, and breakthroughs that shape the journey of modern fatherhood. Through honest conversations with fathers, creators, and thinkers from around the world, we unpack the lessons behind love, growth, identity, and legacy.No filters. No perfection. Just presence. Because DADHOOD isn’t a parenting podcast — it’s a becoming podcast. It’s for the men rewriting the story of what fatherhood can look like — with vulnerability, purpose, and heart. Join the movement. Listen. Reflect. Evolve. New episodes every week.Follow @DADHOOD.co for stories, reflections, and community.

  1. MAR 6

    Presence Over Pressure: Tipping, Parenting & Real Conversations

    Send a text In this honest and wide-ranging conversation, Frankie and Thomas get deep about the everyday moments that reveal who we really are. From the tension around tipping culture to navigating pet behavior, parenting challenges, and personal growth, this episode unpacks the subtle decisions that shape our character. What does it mean to stand up for your values in small social moments? How do we model empathy for our kids? And how do we stay present in a world that constantly pulls us toward distraction? Frankie and Thomas share candid stories, real-life reflections, and vulnerable insights about fatherhood, integrity, and growth. This is a conversation about being intentional — about choosing presence over autopilot, empathy over ego, and values over convenience. If you’ve ever questioned how to lead your family with strength and compassion in today’s world, this episode is for you. Because DADHOOD isn’t just about raising kids — it’s about raising yourself. key topics Tipping culture and its evolutionParenting strategies and emotional intelligencePet behavior and training insightsChapters 00:00 Introduction and Coffee Tipping Trends 01:24 The Hidden Costs of Tipping and Service Quality 03:11 Automatic Gratuity and Transparency in Restaurants 04:19 Cultural Differences in Tipping Practices 05:44 Margins in the Coffee Industry and Business Opportunities 07:22 The Impact of Screen Payments and Digital Tipping 08:53 Pet Behavior, Crate Training, and Sleeping Arrangements 10:40 Dogs and Their Connection to Our Roots 12:50 Managing Pets on the Couch and Boundaries 14:37 Weather, Snow, and Pet Safety 16:38 Dog Running Away and Safety Concerns 18:28 Understanding Kids' Behavior and Emotional Triggers 20:24 Parenting with Patience and Empathy 22:23 The Value of Presence and Quality Time with Kids 24:29 Reflecting on Childhood and Parental Relationships 26:07 Hugging Kids and Emotional Connection 28:02 Expressing Love and Emotional Openness 29:09 Balancing Communication and Space with Teens 31:06 Questions and Curiosity in Parenting 32:16 Handling Bullying and Empathy in Kids 34:00 Teaching Kids to Stand Up for Themselves 36:05 Dealing with Siblings and Family Dynamics 38:00 The Impact of Childhood Experiences on Adult Life 39:53 Standing Up for Values and Character 41:38 Final Thoughts and Personal Growth Insights

    45 min
  2. FEB 6

    Sibling Dynamics and Emotional Awareness

    Send a text In this engaging conversation, Thomas and Frankie reconnect after a break, sharing personal stories about parenting, sibling dynamics, and the challenges of communication. They reflect on a humorous yet insightful incident involving tinsel and bunk beds, exploring the emotional triggers that arise in family interactions. The discussion emphasizes the importance of awareness in parenting, the need for open communication, and the value of allowing children to navigate their own relationships. Through their anecdotes, they highlight the lessons learned from both successes and mistakes in their parenting journeys. Takeaways It's important to create memories with your children.Sibling dynamics can be complex and require patience.Recognizing emotional triggers can help in parenting.Taking a moment to cool off can prevent escalation.Children need space to navigate their own relationships.Communication is key in resolving conflicts.Calmness can influence children's behavior positively.Parents often mirror their children's behaviors and emotions.Effort in learning is crucial for children's growth.Reflecting on past experiences can inform better parenting. Chapters 00:00 Reconnecting After a Break 02:41 The Tinsel Town Incident 05:47 Navigating Sibling Dynamics 08:40 Reflections on Parenting Patterns 11:24 The Bunk Bed Decision 14:37 Sibling Relationships and Growth 17:33 Lessons in Communication 20:13 The Power of Calmness 23:23 Observations and Realizations 26:06 The Importance of Effort in Learning 29:12 Final Thoughts and Reflections 🎧 Whether you’re a new dad or deep into the journey, this episode offers practical insight and honest encouragement for becoming the father your kids need — not the flawless one you think you should be.

    33 min
  3. JAN 30

    Houston Merrill: Balancing Fatherhood, Music, and Life as a Single DadUntitled Episode

    Send a text In this episode of the Dadhood podcast, host Thomas McMinn engages with Houston Merrill, a single dad and musician, discussing the intertwining of fatherhood and personal growth. They explore the challenges of balancing a music career with parenting, the importance of quality time with children, and the necessity of owning up to mistakes as a parent. Houston shares his journey through divorce, the lessons learned, and how he aims to leave a legacy of resilience and connection for his daughters. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-care for dads and the impact of relationships on parenting. Takeaways Being a dad is central to my identity.Quality time with kids is more valuable than quantity.Apologizing to your kids is crucial for healthy relationships.Navigating divorce can be challenging but offers growth opportunities.It's important to model healthy relationships for your children.Legacy is built through deep connections with your kids.Self-care is essential for being a good parent.You can still be a good dad while pursuing your passions.Every experience, good or bad, contributes to your growth.It's okay to feel lonely during tough times, but keep pushing forward. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dadhood and Music 02:30 The Journey of a Single Dad 05:11 Balancing Career and Fatherhood 07:50 Quality Time vs. Quantity of Time 10:15 The Importance of Apologies in Parenting 13:06 Navigating Relationships as a Dad 15:47 Legacy Building Through Connection 18:20 The Impact of Divorce on Parenting 21:12 Creating Music from Life Experiences 23:37 Advice for Dads Going Through Divorce Make sure to check out more episode and visit the website for more dad resources. https://www.dadhood.co/

    48 min
  4. JAN 2

    The Conversations That Build Community

    Send a text In this engaging roundtable discussion on the Dadhood podcast, the hosts and guests explore the importance of community, relationships, and vulnerability. They share personal experiences and insights on building connections, empowering women, and the evolution of media in fostering local engagement. The conversation highlights the challenges of introversion, the significance of tangible interactions, and the necessity of setting boundaries for self-respect. Ultimately, the group emphasizes the power of authenticity and the need for deeper connections in today's fast-paced world. Takeaways Community engagement is essential for building relationships. Vulnerability is a strength that fosters deeper connections. Tangible interactions are increasingly important in a digital age. Empowering women through platforms like Ember Women is crucial. Introversion can be a barrier, but it can be overcome. Setting boundaries is vital for self-respect and healthy relationships. Friendships require effort and cultivation over time. Men often struggle with vulnerability and forming deep connections. Authenticity is key to building meaningful relationships. The importance of belonging to a community cannot be overstated. Chapters 00:00 Welcome to Dadhood: A Roundtable Introduction 02:47 Community Engagement and Building Relationships 05:57 The Evolution of Media and Local Connections 08:36 Empowering Women Through Ember Women 11:27 The Importance of Tangible Connections 14:37 Navigating Male Friendships and Vulnerability 17:17 The Challenge of Building Deeper Connections 20:17 Overcoming Introversion and Social Anxiety 23:00 The Role of Vulnerability in Friendships 26:10 Setting Boundaries and Self-Respect 29:02 The Power of Community and Authenticity Check out our website DADHOOD and YouTube channel for more insights on showing up as a stronger dad.

    52 min
  5. 12/26/2025

    Words That Outlive You: Writing Legacy Letters for Your Children

    Send a text In this episode, Thomas McMinn discusses the concept of legacy letters, emphasizing their importance in sharing personal values and beliefs with children. He highlights the significance of writing personalized letters to each child, fostering deeper connections and passing down wisdom through generations. The conversation also touches on the unique value of handwritten letters in a digital age, encouraging parents to embrace this meaningful form of communication as a way to build their family legacy. Takeaways Legacy letters are a way to share personal values with children.Writing down what you value can create a lasting impact.Personalized letters foster deeper connections with each child.Handwritten letters are unique in today's digital world.Sharing your beliefs helps build a family legacy.The way we make people feel is part of our legacy.Take time to reflect on what you appreciate about your children.Nostalgia plays a role in the value of physical letters.Legacy letters can be a meaningful gift during holidays.Encouraging personal communication strengthens family bonds. Sound bites "Imagine what that would mean to them." "It's all part of building this legacy." "Be the dads you're meant to be." Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Legacy Letters 00:34 The Importance of Values in Legacy Letters 03:54 Personalizing Legacy Letters for Each Child 06:44 The Impact of Handwritten Letters in a Digital Age If you want to learn more about Legacy Letters check out our blog article and YouTube short

    8 min
5
out of 5
3 Ratings

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DADHOOD is a global conversation about what it really means to become a dad, a man, a friend, and partner in today’s ever changing world. Hosted by Thomas McMinn and Frankie Corrigan each episode explores the stories, struggles, and breakthroughs that shape the journey of modern fatherhood. Through honest conversations with fathers, creators, and thinkers from around the world, we unpack the lessons behind love, growth, identity, and legacy.No filters. No perfection. Just presence. Because DADHOOD isn’t a parenting podcast — it’s a becoming podcast. It’s for the men rewriting the story of what fatherhood can look like — with vulnerability, purpose, and heart. Join the movement. Listen. Reflect. Evolve. New episodes every week.Follow @DADHOOD.co for stories, reflections, and community.