Frankie and Jess

Frankie and Jess
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  1. 3d ago

    Life’s Too Short to Keep Waiting

    (Disclaimer: Strong language and adult content) This week we’re wrapping things up with one of those conversations that goes everywhere… but somehow all comes back to the same lesson. We talk about why healthy habits eventually stop feeling like a chore and become part of who you are, a family considering changing their last name after years of bullying, and a powerful quote from Dutton Ranch about learning more from failure than success. Then the conversation takes a deeper turn as we share the story of a family vacation to Yellowstone that became one daughter’s final memory with her mom—and why it reminded us not to keep putting off the trips, the adventures, and the moments that matter most. Along the way, we laugh about dogs who love car rides, vintage furniture with mysterious histories, an incredible 79-year-old still playing softball, people hiking into their 80s, shark sightings, crocodiles, and even the things we’d never post on social media. We also reflect on mistakes we’ve made, what we’ve learned over the years, and why growth sometimes comes from looking back honestly. It’s funny, heartfelt, thoughtful… and exactly the kind of conversation we’d have if we were all sitting around together. Thanks for spending part of your week with us. @listentofrankieandjess on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listentofrankieandjess?igsh=MXhmam9maWJ5emczdA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr @listentofrankieandjess on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@listentofrankieandjess?_t=ZT-8xrjEduwb6r&_r=1 @Frankieslc on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/frankieslc?igsh=MWl4NjVubHZ0MTN2Zw== @jessfergie14 on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jessfergie14?igsh=dWhnMzBkdWludGVl @frankieslc on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@frankieslc?_t=ZT-8xrjZu12GVB&_r=1 @jessfergie14 on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jessfergie14?_t=ZT-8xrjeo4YzAz&_r=1 Thanks to Salt Lake's own Super Bubble for the music on The Frankie and Jess Podcast! SuperBubbleBand.com Please Support Our Sponsors: Tell them, Frankie and Jess sent you! rigbydental.com kengarffvwsouthtowne.com softminkyblankets.com (FrankieandJess50 for 50 percent off regular priced items) utahfacialplastics.com lifetime.com cottonwoodgarage.net redriverhealthandwellness.com gohebervalley.com fearfactoryslc.com mintmadeskincare.com mintsushiut.com justingredients.com FrankieandJess10 code to save 10% modernandchicboutique.com use our code frankieandjess (all lower case) flydancefitness.com  odysseydance.com https://linktr.ee/snappopparty?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=20cc5532-145f-4781-997b-f40dfc75d353 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    57 min

  2. 4d ago

    The Biggest Threat to Your Relationship Isn’t What You Think

    (Disclaimer: Strong language and adult content) This week we’re joined once again by one of our favorite guests, Dr. Mark Burton from Aspen Grove Counseling. We catch up on his incredible family trip celebrating nearly 50 years of marriage, swap cruise stories (including karaoke, drink packages, and travel mishaps), and then dive into what he sees every day in his counseling practice. Can a therapist really tell within the first 10–20 seconds whether a conversation between a couple is headed in the wrong direction? What are the biggest issues couples are bringing into counseling today? Surprisingly, it usually isn’t politics, money, or even constant fighting. Dr. Burton explains why the biggest challenge for many couples something is much quieter: busy schedules, raising kids, careers, and slowly becoming disconnected from the person they love most. He also shares practical advice for protecting your relationship before it reaches a breaking point and offers encouragement for anyone considering therapy—or even a new career later in life. If you’re married, dating, raising kids, or simply trying to build stronger relationships, this is a conversation you’ll want to hear. Connect with Dr. Mark Burton and Aspen Grove Counseling: 📍 1433 S. 1100 E., Salt Lake City, UT 84105📞 (801) 581-0422 @listentofrankieandjess on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listentofrankieandjess?igsh=MXhmam9maWJ5emczdA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr @listentofrankieandjess on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@listentofrankieandjess?_t=ZT-8xrjEduwb6r&_r=1 @Frankieslc on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/frankieslc?igsh=MWl4NjVubHZ0MTN2Zw== @jessfergie14 on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jessfergie14?igsh=dWhnMzBkdWludGVl @frankieslc on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@frankieslc?_t=ZT-8xrjZu12GVB&_r=1 @jessfergie14 on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jessfergie14?_t=ZT-8xrjeo4YzAz&_r=1 Thanks to Salt Lake's own Super Bubble for the music on The Frankie and Jess Podcast! SuperBubbleBand.com Please Support Our Sponsors: Tell them, Frankie and Jess sent you! rigbydental.com kengarffvwsouthtowne.com softminkyblankets.com (FrankieandJess50 for 50 percent off regular priced items) utahfacialplastics.com lifetime.com cottonwoodgarage.net redriverhealthandwellness.com gohebervalley.com fearfactoryslc.com mintmadeskincare.com mintsushiut.com justingredients.com FrankieandJess10 code to save 10% modernandchicboutique.com use our code frankieandjess (all lower case) flydancefitness.com  odysseydance.com https://linktr.ee/snappopparty?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=20cc5532-145f-4781-997b-f40dfc75d353 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 2m

  3. 5d ago

    Normalize the Reset (And Everything Else We Got Into)

    (Disclaimer: Strong language and adult content) This week we’re catching up on… well… just about everything. We kick things off by talking about something that really hit home: why we need to normalize taking a day to let our nervous systems recover after being around people. From comfort shows and quiet weekends to reflexology and the importance of slowing down, we share what helps us recharge. Then it’s classic catch-up mode. Jess talks summer pool parties, church friends, and finding some incredible local businesses. Frankie shares a weekend at the cabin, a possible new vehicle, and getting ready for Axel’s big 10th birthday. Along the way we get into TV recommendations (Your Friends & Neighbors, Platonic, Shrinking and more), what it’s like raising only children, why kids never outgrow needing love from their parents, Utah’s wildfire danger, fireworks, and a heartbreaking conversation about the way we treat animals. It’s one of those episodes that feels less like a podcast… and more like hanging out with friends. Thanks for spending part of your week with us. @listentofrankieandjess on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listentofrankieandjess?igsh=MXhmam9maWJ5emczdA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr @listentofrankieandjess on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@listentofrankieandjess?_t=ZT-8xrjEduwb6r&_r=1 @Frankieslc on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/frankieslc?igsh=MWl4NjVubHZ0MTN2Zw== @jessfergie14 on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jessfergie14?igsh=dWhnMzBkdWludGVl @frankieslc on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@frankieslc?_t=ZT-8xrjZu12GVB&_r=1 @jessfergie14 on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jessfergie14?_t=ZT-8xrjeo4YzAz&_r=1 Thanks to Salt Lake's own Super Bubble for the music on The Frankie and Jess Podcast! SuperBubbleBand.com Please Support Our Sponsors: Tell them, Frankie and Jess sent you! rigbydental.com kengarffvwsouthtowne.com softminkyblankets.com (FrankieandJess50 for 50 percent off regular priced items) utahfacialplastics.com lifetime.com cottonwoodgarage.net redriverhealthandwellness.com gohebervalley.com fearfactoryslc.com mintmadeskincare.com mintsushiut.com justingredients.com FrankieandJess10 code to save 10% modernandchicboutique.com use our code frankieandjess (all lower case) flydancefitness.com  odysseydance.com https://linktr.ee/snappopparty?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=20cc5532-145f-4781-997b-f40dfc75d353 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    57 min

  4. Jun 25

    People Show You Who They Are

    (Disclaimer: Strong language and adult content) This week on The Frankie & Jess Podcast, we’re talking about boundaries, parenting, intuition and the strange ways life reminds us to pay attention. We kick things off with a conversation about boundaries and why the people who get the most upset about them are often the ones who benefited from you having none. From friendships and family dynamics to raising kids and helping them navigate difficult relationships, we explore the challenge of protecting your peace while still staying connected. We also dive into stories about e-bikes, motorcycles, hiking trails, falling trees and those moments when your gut tells you something isn’t right. Sometimes it’s just intuition. Sometimes it might save your life. Plus: • Watching your kids learn hard lessons • Why people reveal who they really are pretty quickly • The dangers of e-bikes and distracted drivers • Weird neighborhood Facebook drama • DoorDash disasters and KFC confusion • Vintage station wagons and childhood memories • Why social media continues to be the greatest reality show ever created Some episodes are carefully planned. This one started with boundaries and somehow ended with falling trees, Amazon deliveries, Facebook fights, and life lessons. In other words, a pretty normal week around here. Thanks for listening, sharing the show, and being part of our community. @listentofrankieandjess on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listentofrankieandjess?igsh=MXhmam9maWJ5emczdA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr @listentofrankieandjess on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@listentofrankieandjess?_t=ZT-8xrjEduwb6r&_r=1 @Frankieslc on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/frankieslc?igsh=MWl4NjVubHZ0MTN2Zw== @jessfergie14 on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jessfergie14?igsh=dWhnMzBkdWludGVl @frankieslc on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@frankieslc?_t=ZT-8xrjZu12GVB&_r=1 @jessfergie14 on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jessfergie14?_t=ZT-8xrjeo4YzAz&_r=1 Thanks to Salt Lake's own Super Bubble for the music on The Frankie and Jess Podcast! SuperBubbleBand.com Please Support Our Sponsors: Tell them, Frankie and Jess sent you! vwsouthtowne.com softminkyblankets.com (FrankieandJess50 for 50 percent off regular priced items) utahfacialplastics.com lifetime.com cottonwoodgarage.net redriverhealthandwellness.com gohebervalley.com fearfactoryslc.com connecthomeservice.com Mention Frankie and Jess to save 10% mintmadeskincare.com mintsushiut.com justingredients.com FrankieandJess10 code to save 10% modernandchicboutique.com use our code frankieandjess (all lower case) flydancefitness.com  odysseydance.com https://linktr.ee/snappopparty?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=20cc5532-145f-4781-997b-f40dfc75d353 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 4m

  5. Jun 24

    Talking Tony: Spielberg, Hollywood & The Future of Storytelling ⭐

    (Disclaimer: Strong language and adult content) This week we’re catching up with our longtime friend Tony Toscano—film critic, film historian, celebrity interviewer, Emmy-winning host, and the man behind Talking Pictures and Screen Chatter. Tony joins us to talk about Steven Spielberg’s latest film, Emily Blunt’s Oscar-worthy performance, the changing landscape of Hollywood, and why a new generation of creators are finding success without waiting for permission from the traditional gatekeepers. We also dive into Tony’s incredible career, including how he first met Steven Spielberg through legendary Twilight Zone creator Rod Serling, and why some of Hollywood’s biggest names still know Tony by name decades later. Plus: 🎬 Spielberg stories 🎬 The rise of independent filmmakers 🎬 YouTubers disrupting Hollywood 🎬 Influencers vs. journalists 🎬 StoryForge 3000 and mentoring the next generation of storytellers 🎬 Why great storytelling will always matter If you love movies, behind-the-scenes Hollywood stories, or conversations about creativity and chasing your passion, you’ll love this one. Follow Tony: Instagram: @TalkingTony ScreenChatter.com StoryForge3000.com @listentofrankieandjess on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listentofrankieandjess?igsh=MXhmam9maWJ5emczdA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr @listentofrankieandjess on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@listentofrankieandjess?_t=ZT-8xrjEduwb6r&_r=1 @Frankieslc on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/frankieslc?igsh=MWl4NjVubHZ0MTN2Zw== @jessfergie14 on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jessfergie14?igsh=dWhnMzBkdWludGVl @frankieslc on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@frankieslc?_t=ZT-8xrjZu12GVB&_r=1 @jessfergie14 on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jessfergie14?_t=ZT-8xrjeo4YzAz&_r=1 Thanks to Salt Lake's own Super Bubble for the music on The Frankie and Jess Podcast! SuperBubbleBand.com Please Support Our Sponsors: Tell them, Frankie and Jess sent you! vwsouthtowne.com softminkyblankets.com (FrankieandJess50 for 50 percent off regular priced items) utahfacialplastics.com lifetime.com cottonwoodgarage.net redriverhealthandwellness.com gohebervalley.com fearfactoryslc.com connecthomeservice.com Mention Frankie and Jess to save 10% mintmadeskincare.com mintsushiut.com justingredients.com FrankieandJess10 code to save 10% modernandchicboutique.com use our code frankieandjess (all lower case) flydancefitness.com  odysseydance.com https://linktr.ee/snappopparty?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=20cc5532-145f-4781-997b-f40dfc75d353 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    39 min

  6. Jun 23

    The Difference Between Walls and Boundaries

    (Disclaimer: Strong language and adult content) This week on The Frankie & Jess Podcast, we kick things off with a simple but powerful thought: “Walls keep everybody out. Boundaries teach them where the door is.” From there, it’s our usual catch-up episode filled with the stories, observations, and conversations that made up the week. Jess shares her experience spending a day behind the scenes with United Airlines during Take Your Kid to Work Day, while Frankie reflects on Father’s Day, family hikes, Dadhood and why he’s become such a fan of barefoot hiking. We also talk about: • The Forge Through Fire event and the impact Joe Tuia’ana continues to have on so many lives • Why quality matters more than quantity when you’re building a community • The surprising lessons that come from slowing down and being intentional • Summer heat, Arizona memories, and melting street signs • Running into Real Housewives of Salt Lake City cast members around town • Weird phobias, random life moments, and the stories that make us laugh As always, it’s a little bit of everything: family, friendship, personal growth, community, and finding meaning in the everyday moments. Thanks for spending part of your week with us. @listentofrankieandjess on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listentofrankieandjess?igsh=MXhmam9maWJ5emczdA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr @listentofrankieandjess on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@listentofrankieandjess?_t=ZT-8xrjEduwb6r&_r=1 @Frankieslc on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/frankieslc?igsh=MWl4NjVubHZ0MTN2Zw== @jessfergie14 on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jessfergie14?igsh=dWhnMzBkdWludGVl @frankieslc on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@frankieslc?_t=ZT-8xrjZu12GVB&_r=1 @jessfergie14 on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jessfergie14?_t=ZT-8xrjeo4YzAz&_r=1 Thanks to Salt Lake's own Super Bubble for the music on The Frankie and Jess Podcast! SuperBubbleBand.com Please Support Our Sponsors: Tell them, Frankie and Jess sent you! vwsouthtowne.com softminkyblankets.com (FrankieandJess50 for 50 percent off regular priced items) utahfacialplastics.com lifetime.com cottonwoodgarage.net redriverhealthandwellness.com gohebervalley.com fearfactoryslc.com connecthomeservice.com Mention Frankie and Jess to save 10% mintmadeskincare.com mintsushiut.com justingredients.com FrankieandJess10 code to save 10% modernandchicboutique.com use our code frankieandjess (all lower case) flydancefitness.com  odysseydance.com https://linktr.ee/snappopparty?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=20cc5532-145f-4781-997b-f40dfc75d353 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    54 min

  7. Jun 18

    Cats on Counters & Other Mysteries of Life

    (Disclaimer: Strong language and adult content) We kick things off talking about something we all need to pay closer attention to what we’re consuming. From food to content to conversations, everything we take in either feeds us or drains us. We talk about online negativity and why people seem so much harsher behind a screen than they ever would be face-to-face. Why can’t people just scroll on? Why is empathy sometimes in such short supply online? We also revisit the mysterious train crash story and listener experiences involving phone calls and voicemails from loved ones who have passed. Are there signs? Coincidences? Something more? Jess shares a heartbreaking story about meeting a former labor and delivery nurse whose seizures changed the course of her career, while Frankie reflects on Parkinson’s, purpose, and how people reinvent themselves when life forces them onto a different path. We also tackle bare-knuckle boxing, political mailers, cats on kitchen tables, and whether some things just belong off the counter. Thanks for spending part of your week with us. @listentofrankieandjess on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listentofrankieandjess?igsh=MXhmam9maWJ5emczdA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr @listentofrankieandjess on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@listentofrankieandjess?_t=ZT-8xrjEduwb6r&_r=1 @Frankieslc on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/frankieslc?igsh=MWl4NjVubHZ0MTN2Zw== @jessfergie14 on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jessfergie14?igsh=dWhnMzBkdWludGVl @frankieslc on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@frankieslc?_t=ZT-8xrjZu12GVB&_r=1 @jessfergie14 on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jessfergie14?_t=ZT-8xrjeo4YzAz&_r=1 Thanks to Salt Lake's own Super Bubble for the music on The Frankie and Jess Podcast! SuperBubbleBand.com Please Support Our Sponsors: Tell them, Frankie and Jess sent you! vwsouthtowne.com softminkyblankets.com (FrankieandJess50 for 50 percent off regular priced items) utahfacialplastics.com lifetime.com cottonwoodgarage.net redriverhealthandwellness.com gohebervalley.com fearfactoryslc.com connecthomeservice.com Mention Frankie and Jess to save 10% mintmadeskincare.com mintsushiut.com justingredients.com FrankieandJess10 code to save 10% modernandchicboutique.com use our code frankieandjess (all lower case) flydancefitness.com  odysseydance.com https://linktr.ee/snappopparty?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=20cc5532-145f-4781-997b-f40dfc75d353 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 1m

  8. Jun 17

    WHAT AI CAN NEVER REPLACE: A Conversation with Caleb Chapman

    (Disclaimer: Strong language and adult content) What if music isn’t really about music? This week on The Frankie & Jess Podcast, we sit down with Caleb Chapman—founder of Soundhouse, creator of one of the nation’s premier youth music programs and director of the world-renowned Crescent Super Band. From growing up north of Boston to building an internationally recognized music program in Utah, Caleb shares the unlikely moments that changed the course of his life: a Journey cassette on his 10th birthday, a teacher who told him his lips were too big to play saxophone, and a music camp his mom sent him to instead of soccer. But this conversation goes far beyond music. We talk about aging parents, raising kids differently than we were raised, why young people quit music, and how performance may be one of the most important skills for the future. Founded in 1998, Soundhouse has become one of the most decorated youth music programs in the country, with alumni connected to bands like Imagine Dragons and performances at Carnegie Hall and major festivals around the world. This summer, Caleb Chapman’s Crescent Super Band will represent Utah on a national stage as part of America’s 250th birthday celebrations in Washington, D.C. The ensemble has been invited to perform during the America 250 events surrounding our nation’s Semi quincentennial—the 250th anniversary of the signing of the Declaration of Independence. As artificial intelligence rapidly changes the world around us, Caleb argues that the human ability to connect, perform, and be fully present may become our greatest advantage. This isn’t just a conversation about music. It’s a conversation about what makes us human. Learn more: ccsoundhouse.com Instagram: @calebpchapman @ccsoundhouse @listentofrankieandjess on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/listentofrankieandjess?igsh=MXhmam9maWJ5emczdA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr @listentofrankieandjess on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@listentofrankieandjess?_t=ZT-8xrjEduwb6r&_r=1 @Frankieslc on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/frankieslc?igsh=MWl4NjVubHZ0MTN2Zw== @jessfergie14 on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jessfergie14?igsh=dWhnMzBkdWludGVl @frankieslc on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@frankieslc?_t=ZT-8xrjZu12GVB&_r=1 @jessfergie14 on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@jessfergie14?_t=ZT-8xrjeo4YzAz&_r=1 Thanks to Salt Lake's own Super Bubble for the music on The Frankie and Jess Podcast! SuperBubbleBand.com Please Support Our Sponsors: Tell them, Frankie and Jess sent you! vwsouthtowne.com softminkyblankets.com (FrankieandJess50 for 50 percent off regular priced items) utahfacialplastics.com lifetime.com cottonwoodgarage.net redriverhealthandwellness.com gohebervalley.com fearfactoryslc.com connecthomeservice.com Mention Frankie and Jess to save 10% mintmadeskincare.com mintsushiut.com justingredients.com FrankieandJess10 code to save 10% modernandchicboutique.com use our code frankieandjess (all lower case) flydancefitness.com  odysseydance.com https://linktr.ee/snappopparty?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=20cc5532-145f-4781-997b-f40dfc75d353 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    1h 13m
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  • Creator
    Frankie and Jess
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    422
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