Steel Roses Podcast

Jenny Benitez
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Steel Roses is a podcast created for women by women. Social pressures for women are constant. Professionals, stay at home moms, working moms, we are here to tell you that you are not alone! This podcasts primary focus is providing real honest content shedding light on the daily struggles of women while also elevating women's voices. All women are experiencing similar pressures and hurdles, and yet, no one is talking out in the open. If these topics continue to only exist as whispered conversations then we further permeate a culture of judgement and shame.  Join Jenny weekly as she discusses topics that effect women in a relatable, honest way. 

  1. Aug 7

    The Dangerous Myth of “Building Tolerance” to Food Allergies

    Send us Fan Mail "Just eat a little every day and your body will get used to it” is common advice given to people with food allergies and sensitivities—but repeating something often does not make it safe or scientifically sound. In this episode, we explore the complicated intersection of parenting, food allergies, health myths, and internet misinformation. As always, we approach the conversation through personal experience, honest opinions, and a commitment to understanding the facts behind the advice families receive. We begin with a personal story from our home. Frequent baby spit-up, vomiting, diarrhea, bloating, and skin problems led us to question whether dairy was contributing to our children’s symptoms. Removing milk was not a health trend or a casual parenting decision. It was an attempt to improve their quality of life, and the changes we observed were difficult to ignore. From there, we discuss why parents are often pressured by relatives, friends, and even well-meaning acquaintances to reintroduce foods for calcium, nutrition, or supposed “tolerance.” We examine why that advice may be especially risky when someone has a true food allergy rather than a digestive intolerance. We also break down several conditions that are frequently confused online, including IgE-mediated food allergies, lactose intolerance, non-IgE reactions, and autoimmune diseases such as celiac disease. These conditions can cause overlapping symptoms, but they involve different biological processes and require different approaches to diagnosis and management. The conversation also covers why allergic reactions can be unpredictable and why casually consuming small amounts of a suspected allergen at home is not the same as oral immunotherapy, or OIT. Medically supervised food-allergy treatment involves structured dosing, careful monitoring, and guidance from qualified allergy specialists—not simply “pushing through” symptoms on your own. We also talk about the possibility that repeated exposure may continue triggering digestive, skin, or inflammatory symptoms rather than helping the body become stronger. Most importantly, this episode is about personal agency: recognizing patterns, taking symptoms seriously, asking better questions, and making informed healthcare decisions for yourself and your children. If you have ever second-guessed what you were seeing because someone told you to ignore your instincts or “just keep trying,” this conversation is for you. Subscribe to Steel Roses, share this episode with a parent or friend who needs a fact-checked perspective, and leave a review answering this question: What food or health myth have you heard so often that it started to sound true? Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

  2. Aug 5

    Is Strength Training Safe for Kids? Exercise Facts Every Parent Should Know

    Send us Fan Mail The fastest way to get kids moving usually isn’t a lecture about health—it’s turning exercise into a game they actually want to play. In this episode, I’m sharing how our family made children’s fitness a normal and enjoyable part of everyday life, starting when my kids were toddlers and we lived in a tiny apartment with almost no extra space. From supervised “hang time” on a securely installed pull-up bar to wheelbarrow-style bear walks, we explore simple activities that help children build strength, coordination, balance, body awareness, and confidence without making exercise feel like a chore. We also talk about how to create a simple home gym for kids as they grow. You don’t need expensive equipment or a large workout space. A mat, light dumbbells, and a few basic movement lessons can be enough to introduce children to exercise safely while emphasizing proper technique, control, and consistency—not heavy weights. If you’ve ever wondered whether strength training is safe for kids, when children can begin using light weights, or how to create family workouts that actually stick, this conversation offers a practical and realistic approach. We discuss how parents can encourage active kids even when they’re tired, busy, or not interested in completing a full workout themselves. Then we take a closer look at common health myths that continue to spread because they sound believable. We address the long-standing fear that lifting weights will stunt a child’s growth and discuss why age-appropriate, properly supervised strength training is different from unsafe or excessive lifting. We also connect this conversation to another deeply rooted health belief: the idea that everyone must eat a large breakfast. How much of what we consider basic nutrition advice comes from science, and how much has been shaped by culture, advertising, and food marketing? This episode is for parents looking for realistic kids’ exercise ideas, safe youth strength-training guidance, simple family fitness routines, and a more thoughtful way to evaluate everyday health claims. Subscribe to Steel Roses, share this episode with a parent who wants to make movement more enjoyable, and leave a review telling us: What health or parenting myth should we unpack next? Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

  3. Aug 3

    The Overscheduled Family: Having the courage to slow down

    Send us Fan Mail Does your family calendar feel like a game of Tetris you can never win? Between practices, games, lessons, fees, weekend travel, and endless driving, kids’ extracurricular activities can quickly turn parenting into a second full-time job. In this episode, I’m talking honestly about the pressure parents feel to keep their children constantly busy—and why I made the decision to stop signing my kids up for everything. This isn’t about being anti-sports, anti-activities, or anti-growth. It’s about protecting our family’s bandwidth, creating sustainable routines, and recognizing the mental load that builds when every hour of the week is scheduled. I also share a personal story about competitive gymnastics and the enormous commitment that intensive youth sports can require. What happens when a child decides they’re finished after years of practices, competitions, expenses, sacrifices, and identity tied to a team? And how can parents support their children without becoming emotionally or financially trapped by the time they have already invested? We also explore the deeper side of busy mom culture: why being constantly on the go can become a source of pride, why downtime can feel uncomfortable, and why silence Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

  4. Jul 27

    How to Learn Any New Skill: A Simple Process for Working Smarter

    Send us Fan Mail One hour in the sun. No sunscreen. One brutal chest sunburn—and a perfectly protected face and neck. SUPERGOOP! We start with this painful but very relatable mistake because it reveals a bigger pattern: when something does not feel serious, we often skip the basic steps and pay for it later. I share the tinted facial sunscreen I use, why daily sun protection matters, and the simple reminder many of us still need to hear: wear sunscreen whenever you leave the house. Then we move into the heart of the episode: competence is not about knowing everything. It is about knowing how to approach something unfamiliar. I break down a simple, repeatable process you can use to learn a new skill, complete an unfamiliar task, or manage an overwhelming project: Clarify the goal, gather the right information, break the work into manageable steps, create a first draft, review what worked, improve it, and repeat. When you rely on a proven framework instead of panic, procrastination, or perfectionism, you no longer have to start from zero every time the topic changes. This mindset can reduce anxiety, improve productivity, strengthen problem-solving skills, and make new challenges feel much more manageable. We put the process into practice with real-life examples, including my system for planning kids’ birthday parties, why morning birthday parties are an underrated win for parents, and how individually packaged snacks can simplify food safety, allergy concerns, serving, and cleanup. I also share practical podcasting tips, ways to simplify your workflow, and how AI productivity tools such as Microsoft Copilot can help you write professional emails faster—without losing your voice or replacing the foundational skills you already have. This episode is for anyone who feels overwhelmed by unfamiliar work, struggles with perfectionism, or wants to become more confident and productive without making life more complicated. Listen now, subscribe to the podcast, share the episode with a friend, and leave a review so more women can discover the show. What area of your life would become easier if you created a repeatable process for it? Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

  5. Jul 22

    How Your Dieting Habits Affect Your Kids: Body Image, Disordered Eating, and Breaking the Cycle

    Send us Fan Mail Your kids are always watching—and sometimes they reflect the habits, fears, and behaviors you are still trying to change in yourself. In this episode, we have an honest conversation about parenting, restrictive dieting, body image, and the subtle ways children absorb our relationship with food. After my daughter begins getting emotional around meals—saying she is hungry but that food is “grossing her out”—I recognize language that could potentially signal a growing struggle with food, anxiety, or body image. That moment forces me to examine my own history with disordered eating, restrictive diets, and intermittent fasting. We explore how dieting can become a slippery slope, particularly for people with a personal or family susceptibility to eating disorders, and why children learn as much from our routines as they do from our words. I share why I decided to stop fasting and move away from punishing food rules in favor of consistent meals, balanced nutrition, and a calmer family environment around eating. We also discuss strength training, metabolism, muscle loss, and healthy aging for women in their 40s. As I begin lifting weights to feel stronger and support my long-term health, I notice an unexpected benefit: my children begin viewing exercise as something positive, empowering, and worth doing—not as punishment for eating. This episode is for parents who want to create a healthier family culture around food, movement, body image, and self-respect while breaking cycles they may have inherited themselves. Subscribe to the podcast, share this episode with a parent who needs to hear it, and leave a review answering this question: What is one healthy habit you are intentionally modeling for your children? Topics discussed: parenting and body image, children and eating disorders, signs of disordered eating, intermittent fasting risks, restrictive dieting, breaking generational cycles, healthy relationships with food, strength training for women over 40, metabolism and muscle health, and modeling healthy habits for children. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

  6. Jul 20

    Why Women Feel Resentful in Marriage: The Invisible Labor No One Sees

    Send us Fan Mail The hardest part of marriage is not always the big arguments. Sometimes, it is the quiet, exhausting reality of being the person who remembers everything, notices everything, plans everything, and fixes everything—only to hear “What’s for dinner?” when you are already running on empty. In this episode of Steel Roses, we have an honest conversation about the invisible labor and mental load many women carry in marriage, motherhood, and the household. We explore why seemingly small moments—towels left in the hallway, repeated dinner questions, unfinished chores, or having to constantly delegate—can feel like evidence that your effort is not being noticed or appreciated. I also unpack the complicated tension between holding strong feminist and independent beliefs while still valuing aspects of a traditional family structure. When expectations, roles, and appreciation are not openly discussed, that internal conflict can quickly turn into frustration, loneliness, and resentment in marriage. Then, we move into the realities of being a work-from-home mom during the summer: children constantly interrupting, professional responsibilities competing with family needs, and the guilt that hits when your child asks why you are always working. We discuss what it means to become the emotional and logistical “lifeline” of your family—and why that role can feel like both a privilege and an overwhelming burden. You will also hear how taking a simple 10-minute pause can help regulate stress, interrupt resentment, and give you space to reset before the pressure becomes too much. This episode is for working moms, overwhelmed wives, and women carrying the invisible mental load who are tired of feeling unseen, underappreciated, and responsible for keeping everything together. Listen now, subscribe to Steel Roses, share this episode with a woman who needs to feel understood, and leave a review to help more women find these honest conversations about marriage, motherhood, mental load, and working mom burnout. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

  7. Jul 15

    Motherhood Makes Women Better Leaders: What the 2026 Maternal Strengths Report Reveals

    Send us Fan Mail Download the maternal strengths report What if motherhood doesn’t make women less effective at work—but actually strengthens the skills that make them exceptional leaders? In this episode of the Steel Roses Podcast, we explore the findings from the 2026 Maternal Strengths Report and examine how working mothers rate their professional capabilities before and after having children. The results challenge the outdated belief that motherhood reduces a woman’s focus, ambition, productivity, or leadership potential. We break down the most significant skills mothers report developing, including time management, prioritization, communication, negotiation, conflict resolution, trust-building, and leadership. When time and energy are limited, working moms often become highly skilled at identifying what matters most, completing high-impact work, setting boundaries, and navigating competing demands. I also share a personal salary negotiation experience that changed the way I advocate for compensation, flexibility, and professional value. But if motherhood strengthens so many valuable workplace skills, why are mothers still viewed through a professional deficit lens? We discuss how workplace culture often confuses visibility with productivity, availability with leadership, and flexibility with a lack of commitment. We also explore practical ways employers can better support working mothers, retain experienced talent, strengthen leadership pipelines, and evaluate performance based on outcomes rather than hours spent in the office. This episode is for working moms, women leaders, managers, HR professionals, and anyone interested in maternal leadership, career development, workplace equity, flexible work, employee retention, and creating healthier workplace cultures. Subscribe to the Steel Roses Podcast, share this episode with a leader who needs to hear it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

  8. Jul 10

    ADHD in Women: Late Diagnosis, Medication Rules, and Real-Life Coping

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Steel Roses Podcast, I’m sharing my adult ADHD diagnosis journey and what it felt like to connect the dots after my kids began the ADHD evaluation process for school support. We talk about what ADHD can look like in women, the gap between doing well in school and still struggling, and the coping strategies I used growing up, including flashcards, memorization tricks, and working twice as hard to keep up. I also get honest about the frustrating barriers to ADHD medication, including in-person appointment requirements, long drives, work conflicts, and the admin burden that can make treatment feel overwhelming before it even starts. Then I share what is helping me right now: short daily morning workouts with my husband. Keeping exercise to 20 minutes has made it sustainable, and I’m noticing better focus during the day while I continue to navigate hormones, weight gain, diet, and women’s health. If you are weighing ADHD medication, exercise, lifestyle changes, or a mix of supports, this episode is an honest look at building something that actually fits real life. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

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Steel Roses is a podcast created for women by women. Social pressures for women are constant. Professionals, stay at home moms, working moms, we are here to tell you that you are not alone! This podcasts primary focus is providing real honest content shedding light on the daily struggles of women while also elevating women's voices. All women are experiencing similar pressures and hurdles, and yet, no one is talking out in the open. If these topics continue to only exist as whispered conversations then we further permeate a culture of judgement and shame.  Join Jenny weekly as she discusses topics that effect women in a relatable, honest way. 

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  • Creator
    Jenny Benitez
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    242
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Steel Roses Podcast
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