Steel Roses Podcast

Jenny Benitez
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Steel Roses is a podcast created for women by women. Social pressures for women are constant. Professionals, stay at home moms, working moms, we are here to tell you that you are not alone! This podcasts primary focus is providing real honest content shedding light on the daily struggles of women while also elevating women's voices. All women are experiencing similar pressures and hurdles, and yet, no one is talking out in the open. If these topics continue to only exist as whispered conversations then we further permeate a culture of judgement and shame.  Join Jenny weekly as she discusses topics that effect women in a relatable, honest way. 

  1. 9H AGO

    Flu Week Reality

    Send us Fan Mail I woke up knowing I was getting sick and did what so many working moms do anyway: I tried to outwork it. Two of my kids already had the flu, my body was starting to ache, and a major deadline still didn’t care. So I pushed through the day, got the priority project out, and then hit the wall hard. If you’ve ever felt that mix of pain, responsibility, and “I can’t let anyone down,” you’ll recognize every beat of this story. I also talk about the kind of leadership that makes brutal weeks survivable. I’m incredibly grateful for the women I work with and for a boss who rolls up her sleeves, quality-checks the work, and shows up alongside the team instead of above it. That support doesn’t erase the guilt of taking an unscheduled sick day, but it changes everything about how safe it feels to be human at work. On the practical side, I share what we leaned on at home, including elderberry supplements, Oscillococcinum, and a fresh juice mix with citrus, pineapple, and ginger to support inflammation and recovery. And then I zoom out to the bigger takeaway: sometimes getting sick is a forced full stop when you’ve been run down for too long. What if that pause is information, not just inconvenience? If this resonates, subscribe to Still Roses Podcast, share the episode with a fellow working mom, and leave a quick review so more women can find these honest conversations. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

    7 min

  2. 2D AGO

    Sick Kids, Missed Festival, And Burnout Realizations

    Send us Fan Mail Your weekend plans can be perfect on paper and still get wiped out by a single phone call from school. I went into the week excited for a local spring festival with my kids, friends, and a rare chance to slow down, then a low-grade fever turned into a house-wide crash. Missing the fun wasn’t the hardest part. The harder part was hearing the message underneath it all: it’s time to slow down, stop fighting reality, and just be for a minute. That moment opened the door to a bigger conversation about working mom burnout, mental load, and the pressure to keep everything running while your own energy disappears. I talk honestly about what burnout feels like for me: brain fog, the inability to focus, dreading even the things I normally enjoy, and the constant sense that work is an emergency every day. I also share a story from early in my career when I first learned what burnout really is and why “gutting it out” only works for so long. We get practical too. I walk through simple burnout recovery tools you can try right now: sorting tasks into red, yellow, and white to downgrade false urgency, reducing decision fatigue with repeatable routines, time-blocking your energy so deep work happens when you’re sharp, and setting non-negotiable boundaries like no work after a set time. If you’ve been missing family time, feeling “always on,” or wondering why rest doesn’t feel like it’s fixing anything, you’ll leave with language for what’s happening and a path forward. Subscribe, share this with a friend who’s carrying too much, and leave a review. What’s the clearest burnout sign your body sends you? Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

    12 min

  3. 6D AGO

    Too Many Fart Jokes And One Hard No

    Send us Fan Mail I hit that parenting wall where everything feels too loud, too fast, and too much. After a weekend of my son’s big outbursts, a stressful attempt to do “normal” family plans, and me running on low fuel, I realize I’m not just tired I’m dysregulated. And when I’m dysregulated, my kids don’t get the best of me. They get the snapped tone, the short fuse, and the version of me I don’t feel proud of.  So I do something I’m still learning how to do: I prioritize myself. Even though I already promised the kids they could have friends over, I cancel the playdate and set a boundary. I talk to each child calmly, explain that I’m overwhelmed, and choose a quieter day instead of forcing a situation that would push me into bitterness. The surprising part is what happens next: my kids notice, they pivot, and we find a little pocket of peace that actually feels like the weekend I was hoping for.  We also get practical about what makes overwhelm worse, like skipping protein, not drinking enough water, and trying to power through without a reset. If you’re juggling motherhood, mental health, emotional regulation, and the constant pressure to “show up” no matter what, this conversation is your permission slip to back out when you need to. The support I get from other moms after I cancel is a reminder that women supporting women is real and necessary.  If this resonates, listen now, share it with a friend who needs a breath, and leave a review so more moms can find it. What’s one boundary you wish you’d set sooner? Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

    9 min

  4. MAR 23

    I Am Learning To Parent My Son Without Losing Myself

    Send us Fan Mail A five-minute wait for macaroni shouldn’t feel like a crisis, yet sometimes that’s exactly what ADHD parenting looks like. We’re sharing a raw, honest check-in from a weekend that tested our patience, our nerves, and our ability to stay regulated while our 10-year-old spiraled and then snapped back like nothing happened. We walk through what it takes to advocate for real support, from requesting an IEP (Individualized Education Program) to staying on top of the school system so our child doesn’t drown in mainstream expectations and lose confidence. We also talk about the medical side of getting answers, including neurologist visits, broader testing, and why we chose to add dyslexia screening. If you’re in the middle of an ADHD evaluation, trying to understand behavior outbursts, or wondering whether it’s your parenting, you’ll recognize the emotional whiplash and the second-guessing. We also share a practical pattern we’ve noticed at home: when the food schedule slips, the meltdowns get bigger. It’s not a perfect solution, but it’s one of the few levers that can make the day feel more predictable. Most of all, we make the case for honesty. So many moms stay quiet because they feel ashamed, but isolation makes everything heavier. Talking to other parents, neighbors, and friends can turn survival mode into something closer to community. If this resonates, listen, share it with a parent who needs to feel less alone, and subscribe so you don’t miss what we learn next. After you finish, leave a review and tell us what actually helps in your house when emotions spike. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

    12 min

  5. MAR 20

    Turning Disappointment Into A New Direction

    Send us Fan Mail Bad news hits harder when you were already running on empty, and sometimes it doesn’t just ruin your day, it rewrites your direction. We’re talking about what happens when you’re expecting a big win, you’ve been holding your breath for the confirmation, and then you learn it’s delayed or may not happen at all. That moment can crack you open, especially when you’re the kind of person who keeps emotions private until they spill out anyway.  We get honest about overwhelm, the need for real rest, and why weekends at home can be a mental health reset instead of a guilty pleasure. From there, we walk through the emotional anatomy of disappointment: feeling the sadness, naming the frustration, and letting it out instead of stuffing it down. Then comes the part that changes everything, stepping back and asking what the bigger picture might be. Maybe the closed door is protection. Maybe the detour is the point. Maybe the path you built out of “should” is not the path you actually want.  We also talk about how other people can react in toxic ways that fuel paranoia or anger, and why staying grounded requires choosing your own interpretation before the noise takes over. If you’re navigating a career pivot, delayed goals, rejection, or an unexpected turn, this is a reminder that you can grieve and still move forward. Subscribe to Still Roses Podcast, share this with a friend who needs a reset, and leave a review with the biggest pivot you’ve survived. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

    8 min

  6. MAR 19

    Today’s Productivity Hack: Emotional Breakdown + Dishwasher

    Send us Fan Mail Some weeks don’t feel busy, they feel like a full-blown alarm that never shuts off. I’m in the middle of a “mommest mom” stretch where work fires, family needs, and the constant mental load stack up so fast that I caught myself about to text for prayers again, until a simple thought stopped me: if there’s an emergency every week, then it’s not an emergency. It’s just work, and I can adapt. I walk through a real working-mom day that includes logging on for meetings, pivoting to a long neurologist appointment for my child’s ADHD testing and evaluation, and trying to stay productive on a tiny screen while my brain begs for a break. If you work in communications or any role that requires nonstop talking, you’ll recognize the end-of-day crash, the tight throat, and that internal scream you keep swallowing. Then we get to the part that’s both funny and painfully honest: the dinner moment that shouldn’t matter, but does, because time is valuable and you’re tired. My “hot mom tip” is exactly what it sounds like, crying while cleaning, because sometimes emotional release and getting things done have to happen at the same time. If you’re navigating mom burnout, stress, ADHD parenting logistics, or the never-ending quest for work-life balance, this is your reminder that perfection isn’t the goal. Listen, share it with a working mom who needs a reset, and then subscribe, leave a review, or message me your best survival tip so we can keep each other going. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

    9 min

  7. MAR 16

    The Quiet Power Of Letting Go Of Who You Were

    Send us Fan Mail What if the most powerful pivot in your life is the moment you stop trying to be impressive and start choosing to be rested, regulated, and unavailable to what drains you? That quiet turn can feel radical, especially when you’ve spent years measuring worth by hustle and external praise. We open up about the messy middle—owning toxic patterns from younger years, grieving the loss of a “pre-baby” identity, and realizing that a racing career ladder can steal the small, irreplaceable moments right outside your window. The story moves from freewheeling 20s to focused 30s, when motherhood rewires the brain and priorities lock into place. With one child and then twins, security becomes the mission and work surges to the center—until the cost is too visible to ignore: your kids learning to dive while you’re stuck upstairs on a call. That ache sparks a second shift, away from being a “high achiever in everyone’s face” to redefining success as presence, balance, and choosing what actually matters. The lesson isn’t anti-ambition. It’s pro-alignment. You can do exceptional work without sacrificing the people you love. We also face down comparison culture and the myth that a beautiful life has no rough edges. Real talk about late bills, stretching groceries, and the quiet pride of getting by reframes gratitude as a practice, not a platitude. You’ll hear a simple, repeatable method: track micro-moments of alignment in your phone and on paper the second you feel that tiny spark—an extra shift offered, a small sale that helps, a sliver of calm when you need it. Over time, this list becomes proof that your life is moving with you, not against you. If you’re craving a gentler definition of success, this conversation offers language, tools, and permission. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to tell us about one small moment you’re grateful for today. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

    14 min

  8. MAR 12

    From Burnt Dinner To Better Marriage: Why Small Acts Matter

    Send us Fan Mail A flash of sun, a daydream about roses, and a short video of a mom melting down over a smoking pot — that’s all it took to crack open a conversation about the tiny, everyday acts that keep a family steady. We unpack how a small moment of presence can turn panic into laughter and why the quiet gesture often matters more than any display of flowers or fireworks. Across ten years of marriage and sixteen together, we’ve learned that love deepens when we tune into what our partner actually needs, not what we assume they should need. I share the oddly powerful story of my arch-nemesis — the overflowing laundry basket — and how one unnoticed switch flipped a bigger truth: attention is love made visible. We talk about dividing roles without keeping score, how clutter can spike anxiety, and how a single, thoughtful move can unclench a whole evening. Then we flip the lens and show the mirror gesture: washing and fueling the work car so the next morning starts smooth, and how a simple thank you turns a one-time favor into a shared habit. If you’ve ever felt like a small mistake proved you weren’t enough, this conversation offers a reset. We dig into mindful communication that calms rather than escalates, practical ways to map each other’s stress triggers, and the power of naming and appreciating what works. Forget the polished feeds and grand gestures — the real magic is in kitchens, hallways, and driveways, where tiny acts of care stack up into trust. Listen, reflect, and then tell us the one small thing that makes you feel most seen. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs this reminder, and leave a review to help more listeners find the show. Support the show Love this content? Check out our links below for more! Linktr.ee Content Instagram YouTube Jenny's LinkedIn

    15 min
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About

Steel Roses is a podcast created for women by women. Social pressures for women are constant. Professionals, stay at home moms, working moms, we are here to tell you that you are not alone! This podcasts primary focus is providing real honest content shedding light on the daily struggles of women while also elevating women's voices. All women are experiencing similar pressures and hurdles, and yet, no one is talking out in the open. If these topics continue to only exist as whispered conversations then we further permeate a culture of judgement and shame.  Join Jenny weekly as she discusses topics that effect women in a relatable, honest way. 

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  • Creator
    Jenny Benitez
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    214
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Steel Roses Podcast
  • Show Website
    Steel Roses Podcast

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