Women's health self-advocacy is the heart of this episode, and Dr. Tracy Shevell, a board-certified high-risk OB-GYN with 25 years in academic medicine, is exactly the person to walk us through it. If you have ever been told your symptoms were "just anxiety" while your body kept insisting otherwise, this conversation gives you the language and the permission to be heard. When was the last time you told a doctor the whole truth, not the version you already softened because the appointment was running late and you did not want to be the difficult one? Dr. Tracy Shevell spent 25 years on the front lines of women's medicine. She trained at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, completed her residency at Mount Sinai and her Maternal-Fetal Medicine fellowship at Columbia, and spent 17 years as an attending and Director of Perinatal Ultrasound at Stamford Health. She has cared for the most complex, high-risk pregnancies you can imagine. Then she got sick herself, and her own doctors told her it was anxiety. That experience reshaped everything. After watching women's symptoms get minimized for two decades and then living it firsthand, she founded Blue Moon Perinatal, a concierge practice that helps women navigate the medical, emotional, and psychological weight of their care. Her community knows her as the internet's "doctor best friend," the one who tells the truth and gives you the words for the parts that are hardest to say out loud. Her forthcoming book, Labor & Deliverance: Reclaiming the Healing in Women's Health, comes out January 26, 2027, and argues something radical: that emotional health is clinically equal to the physical symptoms we all carry. Here is why this matters to us. About 80% of people diagnosed with an autoimmune disease are women (NIH), and research consistently shows women wait longer for diagnoses and are more likely to have physical symptoms filed under stress or anxiety. Dr. Tracy names all of it, and then she hands us something we can actually use. Together we talk candidly about: Why "becoming the quarterback of your own care" is not a slogan, it is a survival skill in a system that no longer holds you How to tell the difference between intuition and anxiety when your body is trying to tell you something is off The habit so many of us have of apologizing before we even ask a question, and the one sentence to stop rewriting What it actually means that emotional, physical, and spiritual health are linked, not separate lanes Using AI as a sounding board, never a diagnosis, so you walk into a 7-minute visit already prepared The people-pleasing, high-achieving patterns so many women carry, and what they may be quietly costing us Fatigue at baseline: when "I'm just tired" is worth a second look, and the new symptoms that deserve one Making guilt-free time for yourself when there is genuinely none left, and why it is not optional What the women who walked before us can teach us, and why intergenerational friendship matters more than we think Finding the passion that sustains you, no matter how full the season You will leave this one standing a little taller in the exam room, with a pen, a paper, and the belief that you deserve answers. Not because you are difficult, but because your body has been telling the truth all along. Links & resources: Book: Labor & Deliverance: Reclaiming the Healing in Women's Health (preorder): https://www.tracyshevellmd.com/book-media Website: https://www.tracyshevellmd.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tracyshevellmd LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tracyshevellmd/ Substack, More than Medicine with Dr. Tracy: https://drtracyshevell.substack.com Blue Moon Perinatal: https://www.bluemoonperinatal.com If this episode resonated, subscribe wherever you listen, leave us a review, and share it with a woman who needs to hear this.