The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast

Kris Rocha & Jenn Howie
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Welcome to " The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast," where hosts Kris Rocha and Jenn Howie explore the complexities of betrayal and offer guidance on how to recover and transform from its aftermath. Through candid conversations and interviews with experts in the field, Kris and Jenn delve into topics such as healing from betrayal trauma, rebuilding trust, and helping individuals uncover their unique identities. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and transformation as we provide a safe and supportive space for listeners to heal, grow, and learn how to turn trauma into triumph. If you'd like to support our podcast, you can find our Patreon here: https://patreon.com/TheBetrayalRecoveryTransformationPodcast

  1. AUG 14

    The Gifts of Betrayal Healing with Gigi Hopkins

    Gigi Hopkins, Professional Certified Coach (PCC) and Director of Wives Care at Be Broken Ministries, joins us for a candid conversation about how healing from betrayal can produce unexpected gifts. With over 24 years of ministry experience and a passion for walking alongside women in the midst of betrayal trauma, Gigi offers both professional insight and deep personal compassion. She shares her “Gifts of Betrayal” list, encouraging us to see how God can transform pain into growth, maturity, and stronger relationships. From growing in faith to developing healthier boundaries, Gigi helps us recognize the ways God uses even the most devastating experiences to shape us into who we were created to be. Whether your marriage has ended or become stronger through healing, this conversation will remind you that hope and wholeness are possible. Key Takeaways from the Episode: Healing from betrayal can strengthen faith and transform character.Betrayal can teach us to be better stewards of what God entrusts to us.True friendship often grows deeper through shared vulnerability.Self-awareness is a critical part of the healing process.Healthy boundaries lead to healthier relationships.Healing shifts our perspective toward eternity and lasting hope.Some marriages end, while others become stronger than before—both can lead to growth.Connect with Gigi Hopkins: Wives Care at Be Broken Ministries: www.bebroken.org/wivescareLifter of My Head Coaching: www.lifterofmyhead.orgConnect with Us: www.watermarkcoach.com@watermarkcoachingThank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes and help others find the hope and support they deserve. Sponsored by and produced with the support of www.purelifealliance.com

    56 min
  2. Integrity Driven Healing with Dr. Jake Porter

    JUL 18

    Integrity Driven Healing with Dr. Jake Porter

    In this special episode, we’re joined by Dr. Jake Porter, renowned relational trauma expert, coach, and founder of Daring Ventures. Known for his groundbreaking work helping individuals and couples heal from betrayal and rebuild trust, Jake brings deep insight and compassion to the recovery journey. Together, we explore the transformative power of integrity-centered healing and learning to be comfortable being uncomfortable. Jake shares his personal experience participating in a program called Men and Women of Discomfort, and how its lessons have shaped his understanding of growth, resilience, and the human capacity to endure and overcome. It was truly an honor to have Jake on the show. His heart for helping others heal, combined with the impactful work of Daring Ventures, continues to bring hope and clarity to those navigating some of life’s most painful chapters. Key Takeaways: Get to know Dr. Jake Porter and the story behind Daring VenturesWhy integrity is central to long-term recoveryWhat Jake learned from the Men and Women of Discomfort programHow embracing discomfort can lead to emotional, spiritual, and relational growthEncouragement for those walking through betrayal and rebuilding trustConnect with Dr. Jake Porter & Daring Ventures: 🌐 www.daringventures.com 📸 Instagram: @daringventures Connect with Watermark Coaching: 🌐 www.watermarkcoach.com 📸 Instagram: @watermarkcoaching 🌟 Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Your feedback helps us grow and ensures more people can find the hope and support they deserve. This podcast is sponsored by and produced with the support of Pure Life Alliance.

    1h 12m
  3. Therapeutic Disclosure 101 with Dan Drake

    MAY 21

    Therapeutic Disclosure 101 with Dan Drake

    How much truth is too much truth? What if you feel ready for disclosure, but your partner doesn't? What’s the actual goal of a therapeutic disclosure—and how do you know when you’re ready? In this episode, we sit down with Dan Drake, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and expert in betrayal trauma and sex addiction recovery. Dan unpacks the basics of therapeutic disclosure, a structured process where the full truth of sexual betrayal is disclosed in a safe, supported setting. He shares the potential risks and profound benefits of doing disclosure correctly, and clears up common misconceptions, especially among the men preparing to disclose and the women bracing for impact. Whether you’re just beginning the recovery process or preparing for a formal disclosure, this conversation offers compassionate guidance, clinical insight, and hope for deeper healing on the other side of the truth. About Our Guest: Dan Drake, LMFT, LPCC, CCPS-S, CSAT-S, is the founder of The Banyan Group, a therapy and coaching practice specializing in betrayal trauma, compulsive sexual behavior, and couples recovery. With over 20 years of clinical experience, Dan is widely respected for his work helping couples rebuild trust through the process of therapeutic disclosure and long-term recovery. Learn more about Dan’s work at www.thebanyangroup.org. Key Topics Discussed: What is therapeutic disclosure, and why does it matter?How do you know if you're ready for a disclosure (as the betrayed or the betrayer)?What role does the polygraph play in disclosure, and when is it helpful?Why disclosure isn't just a one-time confession but a step toward rebuilding trustCommon misunderstandings men and women bring into the processTips for doing disclosure remotely, safely, and with good aftercareA powerful final encouragement from Dan for both spouses on the healing pathConnect with Us: 🌐 www.watermarkcoach.com🎙️ Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast📸 Instagram: @watermarkcoaching🔍 Looking for a trained guide to walk you through disclosure? Visit Kintsugi Recovery Partners and explore the Find a Guide section for professionals trained in Dan and Dr. Janice Caudill’s disclosure process. Sponsored by Pure Life Alliance

    1h 8m
  4. How Our Voice Can Help Us Heal with Amy Elysse

    APR 24

    How Our Voice Can Help Us Heal with Amy Elysse

    This week on The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast, we’re joined by Amy Elysse—vocal coach, faith-filled encourager, and a radiant light in her community. Amy opens up about her own betrayal story and shares how the human voice, primarily through singing, can become a powerful tool for healing. Whether you’re musically inclined or simply longing to express yourself more fully, Amy brings warmth, insight, and practical wisdom to the conversation. And she's created a free recording to guide you through a healing exercise. As a mom and coach, Amy helps women reclaim their voices and step into confidence through song and self-expression. She reminds us that healing doesn’t have to be heavy; it can be joyful, playful, and freeing. Key Takeaways from the Episode: How Amy’s betrayal story shaped her understanding of healingWhy the voice is such a powerful vehicle for recoveryParallels between singing and the process of emotional healingWhat it really means to “find your voice” after betrayalEasy, fun ways to bring music and singing into your daily healing practicesEncouragement for anyone on the journey of rebuildingConnect with Amy: Follow Amy on Instagram at @tunedintograce Connect with Us: Visit our website: Watermark Coach Follow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoaching Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review our podcast to stay updated on future episodes and help others find the hope and support they deserve. Produced and edited by Kris Rocha & Cory Gonzalez. Sponsored by Pure Life Alliance

    54 min
  5. Breaking Free: Accountability and The Healing Church with Sam Black

    APR 2

    Breaking Free: Accountability and The Healing Church with Sam Black

    Pornography addiction is one of the most misunderstood struggles in the church today, often shrouded in shame and secrecy. Sam Black, Director of Recovery Education at Covenant Eyes and author of The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It, joins us to share how real freedom comes through accountability, grace, and informed support. Drawing from his journalism background and over 70 interviews with pastors, counselors, and people in recovery, Sam offers practical wisdom for churches, couples, and individuals navigating the path to healing. Key Takeaways: How Covenant Eyes Works – Sam explains how the software uses screen accountability and ally relationships to help individuals break free from pornography.What Makes Accountability Effective – Data shows accountability is most potent when allies are engaged, supportive, and focused on deeper heart change—not just behavior monitoring.Support for Spouses—Sam offers compassionate advice for wives who hope software will cure them, emphasizing that while it's a helpful tool, healing requires a broader process of trust-building and recovery.What Churches Get Wrong – Drawing from The Healing Church, Sam reveals common missteps ministry leaders make—like placing blame on spouses or assuming more sex will “fix” the problem—and how to shift toward grace-filled support.The Power of Collaboration: Sam shares why he invited Dr. Sheri Keffer to author a chapter in his book, emphasizing the importance of including voices from the betrayal trauma community in the healing process.Resources Mentioned: Covenant EyesThe Healing Church by Sam BlackAllied: Fighting Porn with Accountability, Faith, and Friends – Free eBookConnect with Sam Black: LinkedInRead Sam’s Articles at Covenant EyesConnect with Us! 👉 Watermark Coaching 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoaching 🌟 Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Your feedback helps us grow and ensures more people can find the hope and support they deserve. This podcast is sponsored by and produced with the support of Pure Life Alliance.

    1h 9m
  6. Helping Men Build Empathy After Betrayal with Dr. Anthony Walker

    FEB 19

    Helping Men Build Empathy After Betrayal with Dr. Anthony Walker

    Dr. Anthony Walker joins us to share how he helps men navigate the healing process after betrayal. He provides insights from Help Her Heal, a workbook by Carol Jergensen Sheets, and discusses how men can develop emotional attunement, overcome resistance, and strengthen their relationships. Key Talking Points: What led Dr. Anthony Walker to Help Her Heal and how he incorporates its strategies in his coaching.The importance of emotional attunement in repairing relational trust and how men can develop this skill.Common misconceptions men have about betrayal trauma and how Help Her Heal addresses them.How men can work through shame and defensiveness to focus on healing both themselves and their relationships.The role of spiritual warfare in marriage and how couples can recognize and combat these challenges.Encouragement for men who are resistant to engaging in the healing process and practical steps to begin.Resources Mentioned: Help Her Heal by Carol Jergensen Sheets – Amazon LinkLearn more about Dr. Anthony Walker at www.coachanthonywalker.comIntensive Hope Coaching – www.intensivehope.com/pages/services/coaching.htmlConnect with Us! 👉 Watermark Coaching 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoaching 🌟 Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Your feedback helps us grow and ensures more people can find the hope and support they deserve. This podcast is sponsored by and produced with the support of Pure Life Alliance.

    48 min
  7. Reality Collapse & Betrayal Violence with Hope Ray

    FEB 6

    Reality Collapse & Betrayal Violence with Hope Ray

    In this episode, we welcome Hope Ray, a Licensed Professional Counselor who coined Betrayal Violence. Hope is a leader in the field of betrayal trauma, offering deep insights into the effects of secrecy, deception, and relational power imbalances. She is also the creator of Complex Partner Trauma magazine, available on Amazon, which provides resources and support for betrayed partners. Throughout our conversation, we dive into Reality Collapse, the disorientation that betrayed partners experience, and explore how betrayal violence impacts healing and recovery. Hope shares her expertise on recognizing and navigating these complex emotional experiences, helping listeners regain clarity and reclaim their sense of reality. Key Takeaways from the Episode: 🔹 Understanding Reality Collapse – Hope explains what Reality Collapse is, why it occurs, and how often a betrayed partner might experience it. 🔹 Identifying Reality Collapse – We discuss the key signs that indicate someone is experiencing a Reality Collapse and how it can distort their perception of past and present experiences. 🔹 Betrayal Violence and Its Effects – Hope unpacks how betrayal violence exacerbates trauma and why it’s essential to recognize its impact. 🔹 Endangerment in Betrayal Trauma – What does endangerment mean in the context of betrayal trauma? Hope explains how betrayed partners can assess and safeguard their emotional and physical well-being. 🔹 Processing Betrayal and Reality Collapse – Hope shares how Reality Collapse affects a betrayed partner's ability to process their experiences and the symptoms that indicate they may be struggling. 🔹 Steps Toward Healing and Reclaiming Reality – Practical strategies for those who have experienced Reality Collapse, including steps to rebuild trust in themselves and their perceptions. Connect with Us: 👉 Website: hoperay.com 👉 Watermark Coaching 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoaching 🌟 Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Your feedback helps us grow and ensures more people can find the hope and support they deserve. This podcast is sponsored by and produced with the support of Pure Life Alliance.

    1h 9m
  8. The Intimacy Pyramid with Joanna & Matthew Raabsmith

    JAN 14

    The Intimacy Pyramid with Joanna & Matthew Raabsmith

    We had the privilege of sitting down with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith to discuss the transformative power of the Intimacy Pyramid. With their personal story of betrayal, addiction, and healing as the backdrop, the Raabsmiths shared actionable insights and hope for couples looking to rebuild trust, connection, and relational intimacy. The Raabsmiths are passionate leaders in the field of marriage and relationship restoration. Combining their expertise with their lived experience, they empower couples to overcome the challenges of betrayal and relational trauma. As creators of the Intimacy Pyramid, they provide a structured and compassionate approach to help couples rediscover trust, deepen connection, and cultivate true intimacy. Learn more about their groundbreaking work at https://intimacypyramid.com/. Key Takeaways from the Episode: How They Got Started: Matthew and Joanna share their journey into this field, driven by a deep desire to support couples in navigating the complexities of betrayal and healing.Joy in the Work: They reveal the most rewarding aspects of working with couples, including witnessing the transformation and renewed hope in relationships.Challenges in the Healing Process: The Raabsmiths identify key hurdles couples face, emphasizing the importance of patience, vulnerability, and perseverance.The Intimacy Pyramid: This is an amazing tool for guiding couples step-by-step toward thriving intimacy, fostering trust, safety, and mutual understanding.Keys to Success for Both Partners: Insights into what the betraying spouse, the betrayed partner, and the couple as a whole can do to move forward successfully.Personal Story: Matthew and Joanna’s candid sharing of their own struggles and triumphs offers hope and relatability for listeners.Connect with Us: 👉 Visit Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith’s website 👉 Free Resource from the Raabsmiths! 👉 Watermark Coaching 👉 Follow us on Instagram: @WatermarkCoaching 🌟 Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast. Your feedback helps us grow and ensures more people can find the hope and support they deserve. This podcast is sponsored by and produced with the support of Pure Life Alliance.

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Welcome to " The Betrayal Recovery Transformation Podcast," where hosts Kris Rocha and Jenn Howie explore the complexities of betrayal and offer guidance on how to recover and transform from its aftermath. Through candid conversations and interviews with experts in the field, Kris and Jenn delve into topics such as healing from betrayal trauma, rebuilding trust, and helping individuals uncover their unique identities. Join us on this journey of self-discovery and transformation as we provide a safe and supportive space for listeners to heal, grow, and learn how to turn trauma into triumph. If you'd like to support our podcast, you can find our Patreon here: https://patreon.com/TheBetrayalRecoveryTransformationPodcast

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