The Black Gay Agenda

Black Gay Agenda
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The Black Gay Agenda is a show where we come together and speak on our experiences as individuals apart of the gay black community. The goal is to share, listen and ask questions in hopes to learn, debunk stereotypes, and challenge thoughts while also creating a safe space within community for community.

  1. 20h ago

    The Pick Me Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 17

    This week on The Black Gay Agenda, Micah B, Dupree and AP are getting into pick-me culture in the Black gay community and the ways we sometimes change ourselves to be accepted, desired or chosen. What does being a “pick me” actually look like for Black gay men? The fellas unpack gay men who distance themselves from other gay men, the pressure to perform masculinity, internalized homophobia, masc-for-masc culture, femininity, dating and desirability, and the idea that staying home, having less sex or avoiding queer spaces somehow makes someone more relationship-worthy. Then the conversation gets personal: Have you ever wanted somebody to pick you so badly that you stopped picking yourself? Dupree opens up about toning down his femininity, AP reflects on changing parts of himself while dating, and Micah shares how seeking his father’s approval affected the way he lived his life and approached relationships. Plus, AP drops a VERY interesting take about gay men who love sports that the Pushers are definitely going to have something to say about. Ultimately, The Pick Me Agenda is about what happens when you stop performing for everybody else, embrace who you actually are and finally choose yourself. This Week: Micah B, Dupree & AP
Producer: Justin B. Smith 40 FOR 40: HELP US TAKE SEASON 5 INTO THE STUDIO We want Season 5 of The Black Gay Agenda to be fully in studio, and we need the Pushers to help us get there. We’re asking 40 Pushers to give $40 toward making that goal a reality. Can’t give $40? Give $4, $10, $14 or whatever you can. Every contribution helps, and you can also support us by sharing the campaign with someone who believes in independent Black queer media. Cash App:
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  2. Aug 7

    The Linkup Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 16

    What does it really mean to “link up”? This week on The Black Gay Agenda, Micah B, AP, and Dupree explore one of the biggest conversations happening in the Black queer community: why meaningful connections can feel so difficult to build. From dating and friendships to networking and community, the hosts unpack the challenges of forming genuine relationships in a world that often prioritizes quick interactions over lasting connections. They discuss dating apps, communication, vulnerability, exclusivity, relationship expectations, and the importance of intentionally creating space for the people we say we want in our lives. Whether you’re looking for love, building stronger friendships, expanding your network, or simply searching for community, this episode is a reminder that meaningful relationships don’t happen by accident—they require intention, vulnerability, and showing up. In this episode: • Dating versus building genuine community • Loneliness in the Black gay community • Friendship and emotional vulnerability • Dating apps and modern dating culture • Green flags and red flags in relationships • Communication, exclusivity, and expectations • Building healthier relationships and stronger community • Why connection matters now more than ever ⸻ Presented by Jack’d MEET THEM HERE: Jack’d App Your next crush is one download away. Download Jack’d today: https://jackd.app.link/BlackGayAgenda ⸻ Support The Black Gay Agenda Help us continue creating independent Black queer media through our 40 for 40 Campaign. Cash App $BlackGayAgenda PayPal https://paypal.me/blackgayagenda Every donation helps us continue telling Black queer stories, producing more in-studio episodes, and creating a platform where our community can see itself reflected. ⸻ Submit a Letter Have a question, situation, or story you’d like us to discuss on a future Mailbag episode? 📧 contact@theblackgayagenda.com Anonymous submissions are always welcome. ⸻ Follow The Black Gay Agenda Instagram https://instagram.com/theblackgayagenda TikTok https://tiktok.com/@theblackgayagenda Threads https://threads.net/@theblackgayagenda YouTube https://youtube.com/@blackgayagenda ⸻ Follow the Hosts Micah B https://instagram.com/itsmicahb AP https://instagram.com/whereisalexpin Dupree https://instagram.com/dupreetheartist ⸻ Executive Producer: Micah Butler Producer: Ellie Turk

    The Linkup Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 16

  3. Jul 31

    The Mailbag Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 15

    Are we too hard on Black artists? Are dating apps helping or hurting Black gay relationships? And how do you rebuild after heartbreak? On this episode of The Black Gay Agenda, Micah B, AP, Dupree, and Justin B. Smith unpack some of the biggest conversations happening in Black queer culture before opening the Mailbag for an honest discussion about dating, friendship, healing, and self-worth. This week’s episode covers: • The Victoria Monét discourse and why Black artists are often held to impossible standards • Dating apps, online dating, and how they impact Black gay relationships • Public displays of affection and affection in Black queer relationships • Friendship boundaries, cheating, and trust • Healing after heartbreak and rebuilding your confidence • Learning to love yourself before looking for love • Supporting the “strong friend” who always shows up for everyone else • Black queer culture, relationships, and community Whether you’re single, dating, in a relationship, or healing from one, this episode offers an honest conversation about love, identity, friendship, and growth in the Black LGBTQ+ community. If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow The Black Gay Agenda on Spotify and Apple Podcasts, leave a five-star review, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. ⸻ Presented by TRXDE Apparel Confidence starts underneath it all. Shop premium boxer briefs, briefs, and jockstraps at: https://trxdeapparel.com Use code BLACKGAYAGENDA for 10% OFF your order. ⸻ Help Us Bring Season 5 to the Studio Support our 40 for 40 Challenge and help us continue creating authentic conversations for the Black queer community. Cash App: $BlackGayAgenda PayPal: https://paypal.me/blackgayagenda ⸻ Submit a Letter Want your story featured on a future Mailbag Agenda? Email: contact@theblackgayagenda.com Anonymous submissions are always welcome. ⸻ Follow The Black Gay Agenda Instagram https://instagram.com/theblackgayagenda TikTok https://tiktok.com/@theblackgayagenda YouTube https://youtube.com/@blackgayagenda ⸻ Follow the Hosts Micah B https://instagram.com/itsmicahb AP https://instagram.com/whereisalexpin Dupree https://instagram.com/dupreetheartist Justin B. Smith https://instagram.com/thejustinbsmith ⸻ Executive Producer: Micah Butler Producer: Justin B. Smith

  4. Jul 17

    The R&B Rundown Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 14

    Is R&B really dead, or has the genre simply evolved? This week, Micah B and Dupree are joined by guest host Michael Anthony for a full celebration of R&B music, culture, and the artists who continue to shape it. The conversation covers Lauryn Hill’s legacy, Frank Ocean’s Blonde, Usher’s recent music, the artists carrying modern R&B forward, and why so many listeners believe the genre has lost its way. The crew also plays R&B This or That, builds the ultimate bedroom playlist, highlights underrated artists who deserve more attention, and reveals their personal Mount Rushmore of R&B albums. From ’90s classics and 2000s favorites to today’s new generation, this episode is for anyone who has ever debated the greatest R&B artists, albums, songs, and eras. Listen to The Black Gay Agenda Bedroom Playlist on Spotify: https://bit.ly/4gJI4YA Presented by Jack’d MEET THEM HERE: Jack’d App Your next crush is one download away. Download Jack’d Now: https://jackd.app.link/BlackGayAgenda Follow The Black Gay Agenda: https://www.instagram.com/theblackgayagenda Follow Micah B: https://www.instagram.com/itsmicahb Follow Dupree: https://www.instagram.com/dupreetheartist Follow Michael Anthony: https://www.instagram.com/themike.onfire Executive Producer: Micah Butler Producer: Justin B. Smith

    The R&B Rundown Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 14

  5. Jul 3

    The Community Check-In Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 13

    This week, Micah B, Dupree, and Justin take a step back after another Pride season to ask one important question: What happens after Pride? The conversation begins with a Letter From the Pushers that revisits the ongoing debate around Pride, sexuality, and respectability politics. The hosts reflect on the backlash from a previous conversation and explore why Pride can celebrate sexual freedom while remaining rooted in protest, visibility, advocacy, and community care. From there, the crew checks in on the state of the Black LGBTQ+ community. They discuss supporting Black queer artists beyond Pride Month, the responsibility of creators and organizations, the impact of reality television and media exploitation, and why civic engagement, voting, and year-round community building matter just as much as showing up to Pride. The episode also celebrates Black queer joy, entrepreneurship, local organizers, and the people creating meaningful spaces for our community every day. Honest, reflective, and rooted in love, this conversation is a reminder that Pride doesn’t end on June 30. The work, the joy, and the community continue all year long. ⸻ Executive Producer Micah Butler Producer Justin B. Smith ⸻ Presented by TRXDE Apparel Shop TRXDE Apparel https://trxdeapparel.com Use promo code BLACKGAYAGENDA for 10% off your order. ⸻ Watch our latest Another Conversation interview with Keiynan Lonsdale https://youtu.be/JicS6Au_-0M?si=71VNpNuPAS20d3TQ ⸻ Support The Black Gay Agenda PayPal https://paypal.me/blackgayagenda Cash App $BlackGayAgenda ⸻ Follow The Black Gay Agenda https://instagram.com/theblackgayagenda Follow the Hosts Micah https://instagram.com/itsmicahb Justin https://instagram.com/thejustinbsmith Dupree https://instagram.com/dupreetheartist

  6. Jun 19

    The Hot Seat Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 12

    This week, Justin B. Smith, AP, and Dupree are in the hot seat, and nothing is off limits. Presented by Jack’d, the crew kicks off Pride season with a conversation about dating apps, Pride weekends, friendship, relationships, self-sabotage, attraction, masculinity, and the lessons they’ve learned while navigating life as Black queer men. From building the perfect Black Pride starter pack to discussing what catches their attention on dating apps, the conversation quickly turns into something deeper. The hosts open up about friendship evaluations, showing up for the people you love, the realities of dating, and the ways ego, fear, and past experiences can get in the way of meaningful connections. They also tackle bigger conversations around the Black gay community, respectability politics, anti-femininity, dating preferences, activism, and the responsibility we have to show up for one another. Funny, vulnerable, messy, and surprisingly heartfelt, this episode reminds us that sometimes the hottest conversations happen when you’re willing to be honest. Special thanks to our sponsor, Jack’d. Meet them here: Jack’d App https://jackd.app.link/BlackGayAgenda Your next crush is one download away. Download Jack’d today. Executive Producer: Micah Butler Producer: Justin B. Smith Follow The Black Gay Agenda https://instagram.com/theblackgayagenda Follow the Hosts Justin B. Smith https://www.instagram.com/thejustinbsmith AP https://www.instagram.com/whereisalexpin Dupree https://www.instagram.com/dupreetheartist Shop TRXDE Apparel https://trxdeapparel.com Use promo code BlackGayAgenda for 10% off your order.

    The Hot Seat Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 12

  7. Jun 5

    The Pride & Joy Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 11

    This week, Micah B, AP, and Dupree celebrate Pride Month with a conversation about joy, community, chosen family, and what Pride really means beyond the stereotypes. After a listener asks whether Pride has become too focused on sex, the crew gets into respectability politics, queer liberation, and why Pride has always been about much more than parties and hookups. They discuss the freedom that comes with living authentically, the importance of finding community, and the moments that make Pride feel meaningful beyond the nightlife. The conversation also explores chosen family, coming out, navigating relationships with parents and siblings, Black queer representation, and the responsibility we all have to protect our joy while uplifting one another. Funny, heartfelt, and affirming, this is a reminder that Pride is about more than celebration. It’s about community, resistance, visibility, and joy. ⸻ Executive Producer Micah Butler ⸻ Shop TRXDE Apparel https://trxdeapparel.com Use promo code BLACKGAYAGENDA for 10% off your order. ⸻ Watch our latest Another Conversation interview with Keiynan Lonsdale https://youtu.be/JicS6Au_-0M?si=71VNpNuPAS20d3TQ ⸻ Follow The Black Gay Agenda https://instagram.com/theblackgayagenda Follow the Hosts Micah https://instagram.com/itsmicahb AP https://www.instagram.com/whereisalexpin Dupree https://www.instagram.com/dupreetheartist

    The Pride & Joy Agenda | SZN 4 Episode 11

  8. May 15

    The Wildcard Agenda Pt. 3 | SZN 4 Episode 10

    This week, Micah B, AP, and Dupree close out the midseason with another Wildcard episode, where every topic is on the table and the conversation can go literally anywhere. The episode opens with conversations around internet outrage, fan loyalty, and whether audiences actually allow artists to grow. From Chris Brown and Tyler Perry to Teyana Taylor and award season discourse, the crew gets into why certain celebrities receive endless criticism while others are protected no matter what. From there, the conversation gets even messier. The crew debates petty behavior versus justified reactions, dating age gaps, sugar daddy stories, financial struggles as creatives, and the emotional reality of trying to grow while still carrying other people with you. They also get into the pressure Black creatives face online, why Black audiences sometimes struggle to give grace to Black artists, and the difference between accountability and performative hate. Funny, shady, reflective, chaotic, and unexpectedly deep, this is The Black Gay Agenda exactly the way the Pushers love it. ⸻ Executive Producer Micah Butler Producer Justin B. Smith ⸻ Shop Trade Apparel https://trxdeapparel.com Use promo code BLACKGAYAGENDA for 10% off your order. ⸻ Watch our latest Another Conversation interview with The Icon Kidd https://youtu.be/fjfE3tm0Zio?si=t-juQd8oMp7OX9Wn ⸻ Follow The Black Gay Agenda https://instagram.com/theblackgayagenda Follow the Hosts Micah https://instagram.com/itsmicahb AP https://www.instagram.com/whereisalexpin Dupree https://www.instagram.com/dupreetheartist

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The Black Gay Agenda is a show where we come together and speak on our experiences as individuals apart of the gay black community. The goal is to share, listen and ask questions in hopes to learn, debunk stereotypes, and challenge thoughts while also creating a safe space within community for community.

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  • Creator
    Black Gay Agenda
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    84
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Black Gay Agenda
  • Show Website
    The Black Gay Agenda

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