The Black Gay Agenda

Black Gay Agenda
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The Black Gay Agenda is a show where we come together and speak on our experiences as individuals apart of the gay black community. The goal is to share, listen and ask questions in hopes to learn, debunk stereotypes, and challenge thoughts while also creating a safe space within community for community.

  1. The Frolic Agenda (Bonus Episode)

    FEB 2 · BONUS

    The Frolic Agenda (Bonus Episode)

    The Black Gay Agenda is back with another off-season conversation focused on joy, community, and intentional fun. In The Frolic Agenda, Micah B and Alex sit down with Lamb and Ronnie from Frolic to talk about what Frolic is — and what it isn’t. While often labeled as just a party weekend, Frolic is rooted in belonging, care, and Black queer joy. Lamb, CEO and co-founder, shares how Frolic was intentionally built to create spaces where people can fully show up as themselves. Ronnie, executive producer of Frolic Weekend, breaks down the behind-the-scenes work that goes into making the weekend feel safe, fun, and truly magical. Together, they discuss community responsibility, why fun doesn’t have to equal chaos, and the importance of protecting Black queer spaces. The episode also kicks off with a TBGA Twitter Talk, diving into age, reality TV culture, fighting in queer spaces, and the line between entertainment and real-life consequences. Thoughtful, funny, and grounding, this episode is a reminder that joy can be intentional and community can be protected. 🎟️ Get your Frolic tickets at:👉 www.wearefrolic.com Use promo code MICAH for 20% off 🔗 Support our Jack’d partnership:👉 https://jackd.app.link/BlackGayAgenda Follow our guests:Lamb — https://www.instagram.com/lookdeeperRonnie — https://www.instagram.com/ronismith Follow us:Micah — https://instagram.com/itsmicahbAlex — https://instagram.com/xandert82The Show — https://instagram.com/blackgayagendapod Support the Movement:Patreon — https://patreon.com/blackgayagendaWebsite — https://www.blackgayagenda.comWatch on YouTube — https://youtube.com/@blackgayagenda

    1h 39m
  2. We Need That - We Need Black Gay Love with Lamont White aka The Gay Dating Coach (Episode 5)

    JAN 16 · BONUS

    We Need That - We Need Black Gay Love with Lamont White aka The Gay Dating Coach (Episode 5)

    The Black Gay Agenda returns with another episode of We Need That — our limited series centered on honest conversations and community growth. In We Need Black Gay Love, Micah B and Alex are joined by Lamont White, also known as The Gay Dating Coach, for a timely and intentional conversation about dating, emotional availability, and what it really takes to build healthy Black gay relationships. From dating app burnout to communication issues and attachment styles, Lamont breaks down why so many Black gay men want love — but struggle to sustain it. The trio explores vulnerability, masculinity, accountability, and how dating apps shape our expectations of connection. Lamont also shares practical insight on using dating platforms with intention, unlearning harmful patterns, and showing up more honestly in romantic spaces. This episode is reflective, grounded, and necessary — a reminder that Black gay love is real, possible, and worth doing the work for. 🔗 Support our Jack’d partnership here:
👉 https://jackd.app.link/BlackGayAgenda Follow us:
Micah — https://instagram.com/itsmicahb
Alex — https://instagram.com/xandert82
The Show — https://instagram.com/blackgayagendapod
Lamont White — https://instagram.com/thegaydatingcoach Support the Movement:
Patreon — https://patreon.com/blackgayagenda
Website — https://www.blackgayagenda.com
Watch on YouTube — https://youtube.com/@blackgayagenda

    1h 52m
  3. We Need That - We Need That Community with Jamal Perry (Episode 4)

    12/19/2025 · BONUS

    We Need That - We Need That Community with Jamal Perry (Episode 4)

    The Black Gay Agenda is back with another off-season installment of We Need That — our limited series created to keep the conversations flowing between seasons. In this episode, We Need That Community, Micah B and Alex are joined by Jamal Perry for a thoughtful, funny, and deeply affirming conversation about community building, wellness, and connection in the Midwest. From growing up in Gary, Indiana to putting down roots in Milwaukee, Jamal opens up about how travel, relationships, and intentional connection have shaped the way he moves through the world. The conversation dives into Jamal’s work in public health, his role in HIV prevention and education, and the importance of dismantling stigma around sexual health in Black queer communities. They talk candidly about dating, testing, language like “clean” versus “dirty,” and why misinformation continues to harm people who deserve care, clarity, and compassion. Jamal also introduces listeners to Midwest Meetup, his growing grassroots initiative designed to bridge cities, cross state lines, and create intentional spaces for Black and Brown LGBTQIA+ folks to connect, heal, and build community. From wellness retreats to social gatherings, Jamal shares his vision for a Midwest where queer people don’t have to feel isolated or disconnected — no matter the city. This episode is warm, honest, reflective, and full of gems — a reminder that community doesn’t just happen. It’s built with intention, love, and people willing to show up. 🔗 Support our partnership with Jack’d by tapping the link below:👉 https://jackd.app.link/BlackGayAgenda Follow us:Micah — https://instagram.com/itsmicahbAlex — https://instagram.com/xandert82The Show — https://instagram.com/blackgayagendapodJamal Perry — https://instagram.com/perryjkp Support the Movement:Patreon — https://patreon.com/blackgayagendaWebsite — https://www.blackgayagenda.comWatch on YouTube — https://youtube.com/@blackgayagenda

    1h 14m
  4. The Naughty Or Nice Agenda (Jack'd Sponsored Episode)

    12/03/2025 · BONUS

    The Naughty Or Nice Agenda (Jack'd Sponsored Episode)

    The Black Gay Agenda is back with a festive twist for the holidays — and for our second collaboration episode with Jack’d, we brought the whole crew home. Micah B and Alex are joined by returning host Justin and producer Geo for a holiday special that is messy, merry, and just the right amount of chaotic. In The Naughty or Nice Agenda, the boys gather around the mic to talk hookups, holiday traditions, end-of-year reflection, and the real question of the season: are YOU naughty, or are you nice? From chaotic Christmas movie debates to holiday hookup etiquette (including the “should you be douching after a holiday meal?” conversation nobody asked for but everybody needed), this episode is a full sleigh ride. The crew also breaks down gift-giving icks, family dynamics, seasonal dating energy, dating apps during the holidays, and their own winter confessions. And because it wouldn’t be TBGA without a little shade and a little truth, the fellas get into who deserves a place on the Nice List… and who got kicked off. It’s fun, it’s spicy, it’s unhinged, and somehow wholesome — the perfect holiday hangout with your favorite Black queer cousins. 🎄💦 And don’t forget: this episode is powered by our partners at Jack’d.Tap the link to support the show:👉 https://jackd.app.link/BlackGayAgenda Follow us:Micah — https://instagram.com/itsmicahbAlex — https://instagram.com/xandert82Justin — https://instagram.com/thejustinsmithGeo — https://instagram.com/cantfind_geoThe Show — https://instagram.com/blackgayagendapod Support the Movement:Patreon — https://patreon.com/blackgayagendaWebsite — https://www.blackgayagenda.comWatch on YouTube — https://youtube.com/@blackgayagenda

    2h 18m
  5. We Need That - We Need That Pleasure with Mr. PleasureU (Episode 3)

    11/14/2025 · BONUS

    We Need That - We Need That Pleasure with Mr. PleasureU (Episode 3)

    The Black Gay Agenda is back with another drop from our fall and winter limited series, We Need That — dropping on the 1st and 15th to keep the energy high between seasons. In this episode, We Need That Pleasure, Micah sits down with Mr. PleasureU — adult content creator, entrepreneur, fashion lover, and father of the House of Chanel — for a conversation that is raw, unfiltered, and deeply revealing in all the right ways. From the jump, Derrick makes it clear: he doesn’t run from the smoke, and he doesn’t do interviews… but he said yes to this one. Micah and Derrick get into everything — the truth about how he entered the industry (from executive director in finance to “from finances to f*cking”), the real story behind the PleasureU brand, and what it actually means to build a business rooted in sexuality, confidence, and community. They talk side culture, what pleasures surprised him (yes, the nipples), why penetration is overrated, and how putting on a look can instantly make him feel unstoppable. And when the conversation shifts to the critiques and Twitter accusations — from “preying on young gays” to “profiting off others” — Derrick clears every rumor with his whole chest. He breaks down the truth about the 21+ policy, how creators actually get paid, and why so much hate comes from people who secretly want to be in the room. Micah also gets him talking about ballroom influence, dating culture on Jack’d, body biases, and the real gag: the same people yelling “no fats, no femmes” publicly are the ones in his inbox privately. This episode is messy, honest, grown, hilarious, and unexpectedly heart-centered — especially when Derrick opens up about helping models start LLCs, build business credit, open bank accounts, and secure real opportunities beyond adult content. If you’ve ever wanted the unfiltered truth behind PleasureU — the business, the brand, the rumors, the sex, the smoke, and the receipts? Yeah… we get into all of that. 🎧 Tap the link below to connect with Jack’d and support our partnership: 👉 https://jackd.app.link/BlackGayAgenda Host : Micah B Guest : Derrick "Mr. PleasureU" Berry Producer : Geo Oakes Follow us: Micah — https://instagram.com/itsmicahb Alex — https://instagram.com/xandert82 The Show — https://instagram.com/blackgayagendapod Mr. PleasureU (Derrick) — https://instagram.com/ceopleasureu Support the Movement: Patreon — https://patreon.com/blackgayagenda Website — https://www.blackgayagenda.com Watch The Black Gay Agenda on YouTube — https://youtube.com/@blackgayagenda

    1h 21m
  6. We Need That - We Need Cancel Culture with Ernest Owens (Episode 2)

    10/31/2025 · BONUS

    We Need That - We Need Cancel Culture with Ernest Owens (Episode 2)

    The Black Gay Agenda is back with something new — our limited fall and winter series, We Need That — dropping on the 1st and 15th of every month to keep the conversation going between seasons. In this episode, We Need Cancel Culture, Micah and Alex sit down with award-winning journalist, author, and unapologetic cultural critic Ernest Owens to unpack the truth behind cancel culture — what it really means, who it impacts, and why accountability still matters. From Kanye West’s ongoing controversies to Kiki Palmer’s Southern Fried Rice moment, Beyoncé and Jay-Z’s relationship with capitalism, and the blurred lines between critique and cancellation, Ernest holds nothing back. Together, they dive deep into how power, privilege, and perception shape who gets canceled — and who gets a pass. This one’s for the thinkers, the truth-tellers, and the people who believe that calling it out is the first step to change. Because accountability isn’t hate — it’s love in real time. Follow us:Micah — instagram.com/itsmicahbAlex — instagram.com/xandert82The Show — instagram.com/blackgayagendapodErnest Owens — instagram.com/mrernestowens Support the Movement:Patreon — patreon.com/blackgayagendaWebsite — blackgayagenda.comWatch The Black Gay Agenda on YouTube — youtube.com/@blackgayagenda

    2h 39m
  7. We Need That - We Need Black Queer Representation with Ronald Thomas Hinton (Episode 1)

    10/15/2025 · BONUS

    We Need That - We Need Black Queer Representation with Ronald Thomas Hinton (Episode 1)

    The Black Gay Agenda is back with something new — our limited fall and winter series, We Need That — dropping on the 1st and 15th of every month to keep the conversation going between seasons. In our debut episode, We Need Black Queer Representation, Micah and Alex sit down with Ronald Thomas Hinton — the Afro-Puerto Rican actor, writer, and creator of the acclaimed web series Natives. Together, they explore what it truly means to tell our own stories, the realities of growing up queer and creative in public housing, and why authentic representation matters more than ever. Ronald opens up about his journey from New York’s Upper West Side to building Natives from the ground up, the importance of community-driven storytelling, and how his work reflects the joy, resilience, and nuance of Black queer life. Plus, the guys get into everything from the influence of Insecure and POSE, to independent filmmaking, and what it takes to sustain creative projects through community support. This one’s for the dreamers, the disruptors, and everyone pushing the culture forward.Because when we tell our own stories — we shift the narrative. Follow us: Micah — instagram.com/itsmicahb Alex — instagram.com/xandert82 The Show — instagram.comblackgayagendapod Ronald — instagram.com/ronaldthomashinton Natives: The Series — instagram.com/nativestheseries Support the Movement: Patreon patreon.comblackgayagenda Website — blackgayagenda.com Donate to Natives: The Series — nativestheseries.com Watch Black Gay Agenda on YouTube — youtube.com/@blackgayagenda

    1h 30m

  8. 08/14/2025

    The After Dark Agenda | SZN 3 Episode 20

    Micah B and Alex are closing out Season 3 with The After Dark Agenda — and they’ve got special guest Blake Martin in the hot seat for a finale that is equal parts hilarious, unfiltered, and unpredictable. The night kicks off with a high/low check-in as the crew swaps the funniest, wildest, and most unexpected moments from their week. Blake wastes no time bringing his signature charm and “after dark” energy, setting the tone for a conversation that’s just as spicy as it is real. Then, Twitter Talk dives straight into the annual Red Dress Run — the community’s favorite August tradition that always stirs the pot. From playful debates about men in dresses to the blurred line between admiration and attraction, the fellas break down why this event always sparks controversy… and curiosity. 👀 From there, things heat up as the conversation shifts into relationships, desire, and the unspoken boundaries that make or break friendships. Blake, Micah, and Alex get personal, trade shade, and drop some unexpected gems about dating, attraction, and what really happens when the lights go out. And because it’s the finale, the Tens segment is extra wild — covering unexpected turn-ons, petty friendship breakups, accidental nudes, and who they need to see at the table next season. This finale is messy, funny, and just a little reckless — the perfect send-off for Season 3. ✨ JOIN OUR PATREON Support the show & unlock exclusive bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/blackgayagenda 🎧 Listen on Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/64J93J9Cfv9Ng4osr0eJdI 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-black-gay-agenda/id1690270012 📌 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe — and tell us your favorite Season 3 moment in the comments below! #BlackGayAgenda #BlakeMartin #Podcast #SeasonFinale #AfterDarkAgenda #LGBTQPodcast #RelationshipTalk #DatingWhileGay

    2h 10m
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The Black Gay Agenda is a show where we come together and speak on our experiences as individuals apart of the gay black community. The goal is to share, listen and ask questions in hopes to learn, debunk stereotypes, and challenge thoughts while also creating a safe space within community for community.

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  • Creator
    Black Gay Agenda
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2026
  • Episodes
    66
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Black Gay Agenda
  • Show Website
    The Black Gay Agenda

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