This week, Sonia and Jess are both deep in the luteal phase, going to bed at elderly hours, blaming their hormones for basically everything, and trying to understand why being a woman requires this much administrative work. Sonia also says goodbye to her little man Cheech after 18 years, and discovers that AI has apparently decided she can no longer be trusted to answer Jess’s texts herself. Then things get slightly more serious. The girls talk postpartum mental health, why telling a struggling new mom “it’s just hormones” is technically true and also deeply unhelpful, and the complicated reality of loving your baby more than anything while simultaneously wondering what happened to the person you were before becoming responsible for keeping another human alive. They share their own postpartum experiences—from the emotional overwhelm to lactating through stained T-shirts, wearing whatever still fits, and discovering that ankles are apparently a privilege. This week’s story is Australian broadcaster Erin Holland’s extraordinary road to motherhood: years of fertility treatment, 20 rounds of IVF, five egg retrievals, seven embryo transfers, four miscarriages, an ectopic pregnancy, and eventually, her long-awaited miracle baby. Sonia and Jess talk about the part of infertility people don’t always understand—when you’ve experienced enough disappointment, even good news can feel suspicious, and sometimes you’re so busy trying to make it to the next blood test, ultrasound, heartbeat, or milestone that you’re afraid to picture the baby at the end of it. Connect with the Geriatric Mamas: Instagram Facebook Email us at hello@geriatricmamas.com Want to be a guest? Fill out our Be a Guest Form and share your motherhood, pregnancy, or fertility journey. We’d love to feature your story! And remember: We’re committed to sharing raw, honest experiences, so stay tuned for more heartwarming, hilarious, and relatable episodes. Thanks for listening, and we’re so glad to be back! What we're reaching for: 🍋 Sati Soda’s lemon-lime blend is one of those things that just makes our routine feel more elevated without trying too hard. It has this really calming, clear energy from the CBD and adaptogens like lion’s mane and ashwagandha, so we feel relaxed but still present. 🤍 A space for women fully in it—IVF, pregnancy after loss, high-anxiety pregnancies—the emotional roller coaster no one warned us about. It’s everything the “just relax” crowd doesn’t understand. 🧳 The packing cubes that make life feel curated and calm—with everything tucked into its spot, we’re actually able to see what we packed, and suddenly the whole day vibes… a touch more peaceful and under control. 🌿 We’ve been using these and the difference in our face and ankle swelling is actually noticeable. It’s this blend of herbal ingredients that supports lymphatic drainage and helps your body move things along (which, honestly, we all need), and somehow it just works. 🍷 When we wanted something to take the edge off without drinking—whether it was preconception, during any trimester, or honestly through this whole motherhood journey—we’ve reached for a calmer, cleaner option. This tincture was the one that worked. 🍊 Feeling bloated and just... off lately? Same. This is one of those tiny daily things that actually makes a difference—just a few drops and you feel like you’re at least trying to have your life together. We use it, our kids use it, and it’s officially part of the routine. 👖 Fertility hormones and bloating are literally the worst—getting dressed some days feels like your own body is sabotaging your vibe. So here’s our comfort-first guide to what actually feels good during fertility treatments—because if you’re already injecting hormones, the absolute bare minimum is pants that aren’t emotionally aggressive.
