Beyond the Facade with Choose Recovery Services

Luke Gordon with Choose Recovery Services
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Beyond the Facade explores authenticity, healing, and recovery from betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity. Host Luke Gordon, cofounder of Choose Recovery Services, and his guests share tools for addiction recovery, relationship repair, and emotional healing. Learn to rebuild trust, live with integrity, and create authentic connections as you heal from pain and go Beyond the Facade.

  1. 4d ago

    99: How to Spot an Emotionally Shut-Down Man Part 2

    Why does an emotionally shut down man struggle to change—even when he genuinely wants to? In this follow-up episode, Luke and Alana respond to listener questions about emotional shutdown, nervous system healing, and what recovery actually looks like for men who have spent years disconnecting from their emotions. ***Listen to Part 1 HERE.*** Together they explore: Why insight alone doesn't create change What emotional shutdown is really protecting How attachment wounds shape adult relationships Why some men become more emotional after starting recovery What somatic work actually is How nervous system healing creates lasting transformation What emotional reconnection looks like in real life Chapters 01:45 Why Insight Isn’t Enough 08:01 What Shutdown Protects 12:12 Control and Safety 16:17 Predictability Over Vulnerability 20:05 Reconnecting Emotionally 28:43 Somatic Work Explained 30:04 Healing Takes Time Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now! ***Use code PODCAST150 to get $150 off any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!*** 🌴NEW: Couples Retreat in Costa Rica! - If you are in a stable place in your relationship and want to reconnect, regulate, and rediscover each other, we invite you to our couples breathwork retreat. Retreat is July 30-August 3. Courage to Thrive - Join us for this healing retreat for women who have experienced betrayal trauma. It offers a safe, supportive space to process pain, reconnect with yourself, and begin moving forward with strength and hope. Through guided workshops, therapeutic support, and restorative experiences, women leave feeling seen, empowered, and less alone. August 25-28, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Making Sense of His Behavior - NEW group designed for anyone who is trying to make sense of confusing, painful, and hurtful behaviors in their relationship. Know Your Story is a group for men who are ready to move beyond surface-level recovery and explore the experiences, beliefs, and patterns that have shaped their lives. Through guided writing exercises, reflection, and group discussion, participants create a personal narrative that helps them uncover the roots of shame, self-protection, and unhealthy behaviors. Group starts June 22nd and runs for 14 weeks.Get our FREE eBook - Healing From Betrayal Trauma: A Compassionate Guide to Reclaiming Your Life Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    35 min

  2. May 28

    98: Are All CSAT Therapists the Same? What Actually Matters in Addiction Recovery - with Jacob Fletcher

    What actually makes a good CSAT therapist? In this episode, Luke Gordon and Jacob Fletcher (CSAT and fellow Choose Recovery Services coach), unpack the major differences between recovery approaches in pornography addiction and compulsive sexual behavior treatment. Many people spend years in recovery focused only on behavior and sobriety — yet still feel emotionally disconnected, ashamed, and unable to build intimacy. This conversation explores: Behavior-focused vs trauma-focused therapy Why emotional regulation matters The role of attachment wounds and shame How relapse should actually be approached Questions to ask when choosing a therapist If you’ve struggled to feel real transformation in recovery, this episode may help you understand why. Chapters 02:04 Meet Jacob Fletcher 04:27 Different CSAT Styles 07:31 Behavior vs Somatic 09:44 Questions to Ask 14:32 Relapse Approach 18:29 Dopamine Reset 21:46 Balancing Both Models Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now! ***Use code PODCAST150 to get $150 off any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!*** 🌴NEW: Couples Retreat in Costa Rica! - If you are in a stable place in your relationship and want to reconnect, regulate, and rediscover each other, we invite you to our couples breathwork retreat. Register by May 31st to get our early-bird pricing - $600 OFF! Courage to Thrive - Join us for this healing retreat for women who have experienced betrayal trauma. It offers a safe, supportive space to process pain, reconnect with yourself, and begin moving forward with strength and hope. Through guided workshops, therapeutic support, and restorative experiences, women leave feeling seen, empowered, and less alone. August 25-28, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah.  Making Sense of His Behavior - NEW 8-week group designed for anyone who is trying to make sense of confusing, painful, and hurtful behaviors in their relationship. Start the group at any time and stay for eight weeks. Get our FREE eBook - Healing From Betrayal Trauma: A Compassionate Guide to Reclaiming Your Life 💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    29 min

  3. May 21

    97: How to Stay Connected to Your Kids After Betrayal

    When betrayal enters a family, children often carry invisible pain. This week Luke joins Amie and Alana on their podcast (Choose To Be) to talk about his personal experience with how to repair after betrayal. Listen in as he shares what his experience was like trying to reconnect with his children and rebuild trust. Listen to learn: Why kids react strongly (and sometimes unexpectedly) How betrayal trauma affects attachment and trust What parents can do to rebuild safety and connection The difference between supporting vs. overwhelming your child If you want to learn more about helping children and teens heal after betrayal, listen to more episodes about this topic on the Choose To Be podcast: Part 1,  Part 2, and Part 3.  Want a podcast dedicated to helping teens and children with betrayal? Tune in to Morgan Ellsworth’s podcast: Healing Betrayed Families Chapters: 04:11 Staying Grounded  09:43 Attunement and Vulnerability Goals 13:20 Vulnerability Without Dumping 19:01 Make It About the Kids 23:07 When Kids Blame Mom 27:31 Attachment and Love Bombing 31:27 Validate Kids’ Reality 37:06 Keep Showing Up Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now! ***Use code PODCAST150 to get $150 off any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!*** 🌴NEW: Couples Retreat in Costa Rica! - If you are in a stable place in your relationship and want to reconnect, regulate, and rediscover each other, we invite you to our couples breathwork retreat. Register by May 31st to get our early-bird pricing - $600 OFF! Making Sense of His Behavior - NEW 8-week group designed for anyone who is trying to make sense of confusing, painful, and hurtful behaviors in their relationship. Start the group at any time and stay for eight weeks. Get our FREE eBook - Healing From Betrayal Trauma: A Compassionate Guide to Reclaiming Your Life 💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    44 min

  4. May 14

    96: How to Spot an Emotionally Shut-Down Man

    What does an emotionally shut down man actually look like? Spoiler: Usually not what people think. In this powerful conversation, Luke and Alana explore the hidden reality of emotional shutdown in men—especially the high-performing, successful men who appear “fine” on the outside but are deeply disconnected on the inside. From avoidant attachment to compulsive behavior, emotional numbness, and relational loneliness, this episode helps both men and betrayed partners understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. Healing is possible. Deeper connection is possible. But first—you have to feel. Chapters 02:08 What Being Emotionally Shut Down Looks Like 04:21 High Performing Shut down 09:33 Inside the Shutdown 12:59 Signs and Logic 17:14 Learning Emotional Safety 19:55 Tears and the Body 22:21 Busy vs Stillness 24:08 Chasing Intensity 29:53 Numbness and Dissociation 38:28 Individuation and Reconnection Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now! ***Use code PODCAST150 to get $150 off any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!*** 🌴NEW: Couples Retreat in Costa Rica! - If you are in a stable place in your relationship and want to reconnect, regulate, and rediscover each other, we invite you to our couples breathwork retreat. Register by May 31st to get our early-bird pricing - $600 OFF! 💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    44 min

  5. May 7

    95: Humility in Recovery: Why Men Protect Their Identity After Betrayal - with Ryan Collins

    What keeps men hiding — even after they’ve been caught? In this powerful conversation, Luke Gordon and Ryan Collins, a peer mentor for Choose Recovery support groups, unpack the role humility plays in recovery from betrayal, addiction, shame, and relational disconnection. Ryan vulnerably shares how fear, image protection, and shame kept him stuck in trickle truth for months — and how surrender and authenticity ultimately became the very thing that saved his marriage. Together they explore: The difference between humiliation and humility Why men protect their identity after getting caught How shame fuels defensiveness and trickle truth Why accountability creates connection How honesty became the very thing that saved Ryan’s marriage The role of vulnerability, empathy, and surrender in healing Chapters 01:31 Meet Ryan 03:49 Pillar One: Self Honesty 07:59 Trickle Truth and Surrender 12:25 Pillar Two: Being Influenced 18:48 Accountability in Conflict 22:24 Pillar Three: Identity Release 29: 59 Freedom and Daily Practice 32:45 Encouragement Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now! ***Use code PODCAST150 to get $150 off any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!*** 🌴NEW: Couples Retreat in Costa Rica! - If you are in a stable place in your relationship and want to reconnect, regulate, and rediscover each other, we invite you to our couples breathwork retreat. Register by May 31st to get our early-bird pricing - $600 OFF! 🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    36 min

  6. Apr 30

    94: Why You Feel Stuck: The Difference Between Sobriety and Real Change

    Most men in recovery aren’t failing because they aren’t trying hard enough. They’re failing because they’re aiming at the wrong target. In this episode, Luke sits down with Matt Wenger, MA, LPC, CCPS, CSAT and Executive Clinical Director at Begin Again Institute, to break down one of the biggest misunderstandings in sex addiction recovery: the difference between staying busy and actually healing. They discuss: What intensive treatment really does Inpatient vs outpatient recovery Why resentment quietly grows in early recovery Why betrayed partners still don’t feel safe How men move from sobriety into true recovery If recovery feels like a hamster wheel, this conversation may explain why. Chapters 01:21 Introducing Matt Wenger 04:43 Why Hard Work Stalls 09:11 What Intensives Actually Do 12:24 Two Weeks vs Longer Rehab 17:02 Partner Expectations After Intensive 21:54 Gym Metaphor for Recovery 27:02 Choosing Quality Treatment Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE NEW at Choose Recovery Services! Register Now! ***Use code PODCAST150 to get $150 off any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!*** 🌴NEW: Couples Retreat in Costa Rica! - If you are in a stable place in your relationship and want to reconnect, regulate, and rediscover each other, we invite you to our couples breathwork retreat. Register by May 31st to get our early-bird pricing - $600 OFF! 🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  🧘Revive and Thrive Somatic Intensive for Women - Join us for a transformative four-day somatic healing intensive for women carrying trauma and tension in their bodies. Experience gentle release through expert-guided breathwork, brainspotting, energy healing, and nature immersion as you reclaim your body. Intensive is May 5th-8th, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    37 min

  7. Apr 23

    93: Emotional Maturity in Recovery: How to Stop Reacting and Start Responding

    You don’t need more information—you need a new response. In this episode, Luke Gordon breaks down one of the most critical (and overlooked) skills in recovery: emotional maturity under pressure. You’ll learn: Why your body reacts before your mind can catch up The real definition of emotional maturity (it’s not what you think) How to create “the pause” that prevents damage in relationships What responsibility actually looks like in real-time conflict If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, defensive, or out of control during hard conversations—this episode gives you a practical path forward. Chapters 02:46 What Emotional Maturity Is 04:02 Reactivity to Responsibility 07:08 The Power of the Pause 09:40 Communicate the Pause 11:54 Return and Repair 14:26 Practice and Next Steps Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE NEW at Choose Recovery Services! Wired for Pain - Join us April 26th for a FREE webinar for couples. Discover how your brain and body may be “wired” by past pain—and why that wiring keeps you stuck in patterns you can’t seem to break. This free webinar reveals the hidden connection between trauma, behavior, and healing, giving you practical tools to finally move from survival mode into lasting change. Register Now! ***Use code PODCAST150 to get $150 off any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!*** 🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  🧘Revive and Thrive Somatic Intensive for Women - Join us for a transformative four-day somatic healing intensive for women carrying trauma and tension in their bodies. Experience gentle release through expert-guided breathwork, brainspotting, energy healing, and nature immersion as you reclaim your body. Intensive is May 5th-8th, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    18 min

  8. Apr 9

    92: Breathwork and Somatic Healing: How to Reconnect With Your Body - with Steven Roccazzella

    Why do so many men understand recovery…but still don’t feel better? In this episode of Beyond the Facade, Luke Gordon sits down with breathwork practitioner Steven Roccazzella to explore the missing piece in healing: your body. You’ll learn: Why talk therapy alone isn’t enough How breathwork regulates your nervous system The surprising role of cold exposure in healing What it actually means to feel “safe in your body” Ready to go deeper? Learn more about Reclaimed - our men’s somatic intensive coming up in August, and register now to secure your spot!  Chapters 02:56 Steven’s Backstory 06:12 What Is Breathwork? 08:26 Cold Exposure Therapy 15:16 Wim Hof Method 21:55 Breathwork Basics 26:37 Stress Responses Explained 30:44 Somatic Trust 32:56 What Healing Looks Like Connect with Steven Website Instagram @steven_roccazzella Email stevenroccazzella@gmail.com Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now! ***Use code PODCAST150 to get $150 off any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!*** LAST CHANCE! ❤️‍🩹Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us April 14th-17th in Spanish Fork, UT. Also explore attending our Help Her Heal men’s support group. A new group starts in April! 🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  🧘Revive and Thrive Somatic Intensive for Women - Join us for a transformative four-day somatic healing intensive for women carrying trauma and tension in their bodies. Experience gentle release through expert-guided breathwork, brainspotting, energy healing, and nature immersion as you reclaim your body. Intensive is May 5th-8th, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

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Beyond the Facade explores authenticity, healing, and recovery from betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity. Host Luke Gordon, cofounder of Choose Recovery Services, and his guests share tools for addiction recovery, relationship repair, and emotional healing. Learn to rebuild trust, live with integrity, and create authentic connections as you heal from pain and go Beyond the Facade.

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