Beyond the Facade with Choose Recovery Services

Luke Gordon with Choose Recovery Services
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Beyond the Facade explores authenticity, healing, and recovery from betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity. Host Luke Gordon, cofounder of Choose Recovery Services, and his guests share tools for addiction recovery, relationship repair, and emotional healing. Learn to rebuild trust, live with integrity, and create authentic connections as you heal from pain and go Beyond the Facade.

  1. 12H AGO

    Why Empathy Breaks Down After Betrayal (And How to Fix It)

    Healing after betrayal is one of the hardest journeys a couple can face — especially when both partners want the relationship to work but feel stuck in the same painful patterns. This week Luke and Alana dive into one of the biggest challenges in betrayal recovery: Why progress in personal recovery doesn’t always translate into relational healing. You’ll learn: Why many men struggle to show empathy after betrayal The difference between individual recovery and relational repair What betrayed partners truly need to feel safe again How emotional regulation impacts healing Why healing after betrayal is often “Olympic-level emotional work” If you’re trying to rebuild trust, understand your partner’s pain, or move forward after betrayal, this conversation will help you see the process more clearly — and remind you that healing is possible. Don’t Miss Out! If you connected with this conversation, we invite you to learn more about our Help Her Heal men’s intensive and support groups. Reach out to find out which option may be right for you! (702) 277-9145 | info@chooserecoveryservices.com Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now!  ❤️‍🩹Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us April 14th-17th in Spanish Fork, UT. Also explore attending our Help Her Heal men’s support group. A new group starts in April! 🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  🧘Revive and Thrive Somatic  Intensive for Women - Join us for a transformative four-day somatic healing intensive for women carrying trauma and tension in their bodies. Experience gentle release through expert-guided breathwork, brainspotting, energy healing, and nature immersion as you reclaim your body. Intensive is May 5th-8th, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    44 min

  2. MAR 12

    90: The Truth About Conflict in Relationships (Especially After Betrayal)

    Most people think conflict damages relationships, but avoiding conflict may be doing more harm than the conflict itself. In this episode, Luke Gordon explains why healthy conflict is a critical part of recovery, connection, and emotional maturity—especially after betrayal. You’ll learn: Why conflict triggers the fight-flight-freeze response How childhood patterns shape how we handle disagreements Why your partner’s triggers may actually be an attempt to connect How boundaries help regulate difficult conversations Conflict doesn't have to destroy relationships. When handled intentionally, it can become the very thing that builds deeper trust and intimacy. Go deeper into this healing work by joining one of our Phase 2 Beyond the Facade Men’s groups.  Chapters 03:17 Conflict Avoidance 05:48 Triggers As Connection 07:18 Defining Conflict 10:31 Nervous System Cycle 15:54 Healthy Conflict Skills 19:07 Rupture and Repair Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now!  ❤️‍🩹Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us April 14th-17th in Spanish Fork, UT.  🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  🧘Revive and Thrive Somatic  Intensive for Women - Join us for a transformative four-day somatic healing intensive for women carrying trauma and tension in their bodies. Experience gentle release through expert-guided breathwork, brainspotting, energy healing, and nature immersion as you reclaim your body. Intensive is May 5th-8th, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    26 min

  3. MAR 6

    89: Betrayal Violence: Destructive Patterns That Can Continue After Infidelity

    Apologies don’t automatically heal betrayal. In fact, many people in recovery unknowingly continue hurting their partner through subtle defensive reactions, shutdown patterns, and attempts to control the healing process. In this episode, Luke explores betrayal violence — a concept from Hope Ray that explains how relational harm can continue long after the original betrayal. You’ll learn: Why saying “I’m sorry” often isn’t enough The destructive communication patterns that deepen betrayal trauma The ABC pattern behind reactive behavior Why shame and defensiveness sabotage repair How awareness and accountability help rebuild safety Go deeper into this healing work by joining one of our Phase 2 Beyond the Facade Men’s groups.  Chapters 01:04 When Sorry Isn’t Enough 02:31 Betrayal Violence 04:55 Why These Patterns Form 07:19 Common Harmful Responses 10:53 The ABC Pattern 12:01 The Floating Saint 13:55 Accountability Without Shame Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now!  ❤️‍🩹Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us April 14th-17th in Spanish Fork, UT.  🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  🧘Revive and Thrive Somatic  Intensive for Women - Join us for a transformative four-day somatic healing intensive for women carrying trauma and tension in their bodies. Experience gentle release through expert-guided breathwork, brainspotting, energy healing, and nature immersion as you reclaim your body. Intensive is May 5th-8th, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    19 min

  4. FEB 26

    88: Why You Don’t Trust Yourself (And How to Rebuild Trust in Recovery)

    Do you trust yourself? In this episode, Luke dives into the erosion of self-trust that happens through years of secrecy, compulsive behavior, and shame—and how to rebuild it. We unpack: What self-trust actually means (hint: it’s not confidence) The difference between shame and guilt in recovery Why external validation won’t rebuild inner worth How consistency—not perfection—restores alignment Why betrayed partners can sense when self-trust is missing If you’ve ever promised yourself “This time will be different”… this episode is for you. Go deeper into this healing work by joining one of our Phase 2 Beyond the Facade Men’s groups.  Chapters: 02:32 Defining Self-Trust Alignment 05:26 Shame Guilt and Fragmentation 06:10 Validation vs Inner Worth 08:20 Honesty Builds Integration 09:12 Betrayed Partners and Safety 11:15 How Self Trust Grows 12:15 Phase Two Curriculum Path Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now!  ❤️‍🩹Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us April 14th-17th in Spanish Fork, UT.  🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  ✨Courage to Thrive - This intensive brings together expert trauma specialists in the serene Utah mountains for a transformative experience that goes beyond healing—it's about getting your power back. Join other courageous women March 17th-20th, and leave with proven strategies, unshakeable boundaries, and renewed hope…because your story doesn't end with betrayal—it transforms into something powerful.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

    15 min

  5. FEB 19

    87: How Powerlessness and Entitlement Sabotage Healing

    Resentment doesn’t always look like anger. Sometimes it hides behind effort, silence, or “doing everything right.” This week Luke joins Alana Gordon on her podcast, Choose To Be, to explore how powerlessness and entitlement quietly fuel resentment, especially in recovery after betrayal or compulsive sexual behavior. Together they unpack: Why resentment often goes unnoticed until it causes damage How silent scorekeeping creates emotional distance The link between resentment, entitlement, and relapse risk Why awareness alone isn’t enough–and what actually leads to healing Chapters 04:05 Personal Experiences with Resentment 07:22 Silent Scorekeeping 09:45 Entitlement and Passive Aggressiveness 12:00 Processing Resentment and Finding Power 16:35 Practical Steps to Address Resentment 23:49 T-ball Analogy Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now!  ❤️‍🩹Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us April 14th-17th in Spanish Fork, UT.  🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  ✨Courage to Thrive - This intensive brings together expert trauma specialists in the serene Utah mountains for a transformative experience that goes beyond healing—it's about getting your power back. Join other courageous women March 17th-20th, and leave with proven strategies, unshakeable boundaries, and renewed hope…because your story doesn't end with betrayal—it transforms into something powerful.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at http://chooserecoveryservices.com

    30 min

  6. FEB 12

    86: Unlocking the Power of Embodied Healing in Recovery

    Why does recovery still feel out of control—even when you know what to do? This week Luke and Alana Gordon break down somatic work and why healing the nervous system is the missing layer in addiction recovery, betrayal repair, and emotional regulation. Many people can explain recovery concepts perfectly—yet still react automatically under stress. That’s because insight alone can’t override a dysregulated nervous system.  Listen to learn: What somatic work actually is (and what it’s not) Why your body reacts before your brain can catch up How trauma and addiction live in the nervous system Why embodiment allows recovery tools to work under stress How nervous system regulation creates felt safety in relationships Go deeper into this healing work by joining one of our Phase 2 Beyond the Facade Men’s groups.  Chapters 00:24 Understanding Somatic Work 03:41 The Importance of Embodied Healing 06:18 The Role of the Nervous System in Recovery 08:58 Challenges and Benefits of Somatic Work 13:04 What Somatic Work is Not 15:43 Relational Impact of Somatic Work Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now!  ❤️‍🩹Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us April 14th-17th in Spanish Fork, UT.  🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  ✨Courage to Thrive - This intensive brings together expert trauma specialists in the serene Utah mountains for a transformative experience that goes beyond healing—it's about getting your power back. Join other courageous women March 17th-20th, and leave with proven strategies, unshakeable boundaries, and renewed hope…because your story doesn't end with betrayal—it transforms into something powerful.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at http://chooserecoveryservices.com

    22 min

  7. FEB 5

    85: The Addictive System: Why Stopping Behavior Isn't Enough

    Stopping the behavior isn’t the same as healing. This week Luke breaks down why addiction is not a willpower problem—but a self-perpetuating system. Drawing from Patrick Carnes’ addictive system framework, this episode explains why sincere motivation often isn’t enough, why relapse happens even when behavior stops, and what true recovery actually requires. You’ll learn: Why addiction operates as a closed-loop system How shame and secrecy fuel relapse The hidden role of core beliefs and impaired thinking Why partners often feel unsafe even after behavior stops What it means to interrupt addiction upstream This episode is essential for anyone stuck in the cycle—or who loves someone who is. Go deeper into this healing work by joining one of our Phase 2 Beyond the Facade Men’s groups.  Chapters 01:11 Understanding Addiction as a System 04:14 The Role of Core Beliefs in Addiction 05:29 Impaired Thinking and Its Impact 07:12 The Addictive Cycle Explained 10:07 The Importance of Addressing Secrecy 11:24 Partner's Perspective and System-Level Work Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now!  ❤️‍🩹Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us April 14th-17th in Spanish Fork, UT.  🦋Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women. ✨Courage to Thrive - This intensive brings together expert trauma specialists in the Utah mountains for a transformative experience that goes beyond healing—it's about getting your power back. Join other courageous women March 17th-20th, and leave with proven strategies, unshakeable boundaries, and renewed hope…because your story doesn't end with betrayal—it transforms into something powerful.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for our intensives.  Connect With Us: Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Our intensives foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal.  Learn more and register for courses at http://chooserecoveryservices.com

    18 min

  8. JAN 29

    84: How Attachment Shapes Relationships, Addiction, and Intimacy

    Why do we keep choosing relationships that feel familiar—even when they hurt? This week, Luke and Alana dive into how attachment shapes relationships, addiction, and intimacy at the nervous system level. Attachment isn’t about willpower or insight—it’s about survival patterns learned long before we had words. You’ll learn: How attachment patterns form in early childhood Why anxious, avoidant, and fearful attachment styles repeat in adulthood How attachment wounds drive compulsive behaviors and addiction Why real healing requires nervous system regulation—not just insight What it actually takes to move toward secure attachment Chapters 00:29 Understanding Attachment Theory 02:18 Attachment in Early Relationships 05:01 Attachment Styles and Their Impact 12:19 Healing and Changing Attachment Styles 15:02 Attachment Patterns in Adult Relationships 21:51 Nervous System and Attachment Explore this topic (and so many more!) in our Beyond the Facade men's groups. Register online or contact our office to learn more: info@chooserecoveryservices.com | 702.277.9145 Watch the episode on YouTube ⁠HERE Register Now!  Help Her Heal Men’s Intensive - This immersive intensive is designed specifically for men to learn how to support their partners as they heal from betrayal trauma. You will participate in experiential workshops, receive personalized feedback, and learn practical tools to develop the emotional capacity needed for relationship repair. Join us April 14th-17th in Spanish Fork, UT.  Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey.  Courage to Thrive - This intensive brings together expert trauma specialists in the serene Utah mountains for a transformative experience that goes beyond healing—it's about getting your power back. Join other courageous women March 17th-20th, and leave with proven strategies, unshakeable boundaries, and renewed hope…because your story doesn't end with betrayal—it transforms into something powerful.  💵We don’t want finances to get in the way of your healing. Scholarships and payment plans (including buy now, pay later options) are available for all of our intensives.  Connect With Us: Learn more about Luke here.  Schedule a complimentary consultation here. Don’t miss an episode! Join our email list and get notified when new episodes air!  Follow us on Instagram @choose_recovery_services    Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men: Beyond the Facade: Men’s Healing Group - This group helps men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You’ll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect. Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.  Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services: Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives, available year-round for individuals, couples, and professionals. Road to Recovery Webinar - Join us on the second Sunday of each month for a FREE interactive discussion that explores tools and strategies to support individuals and couples navigating the challenges of recovery following betrayal.  Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma. Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma.  Learn more and register for courses at http://chooserecoveryservices.com

    33 min
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Beyond the Facade explores authenticity, healing, and recovery from betrayal trauma, sexual addiction, and infidelity. Host Luke Gordon, cofounder of Choose Recovery Services, and his guests share tools for addiction recovery, relationship repair, and emotional healing. Learn to rebuild trust, live with integrity, and create authentic connections as you heal from pain and go Beyond the Facade.

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