The Rebuilt Man

Coach Frank Rich

Welcome to The Rebuilt Man, I'm Coach Frank, founder of Rebuilt Recovery and we exist here to help you become a better man, by quitting porn, and rebuilding your life. My life changed in 2019 when I finally found freedom from a 20+ year addiction to pornography, and I've made it my mission since that day to help other men, just like me & you, find the freedom you deserve. Join us and jump onboard as we provide daily tips and insights to build the necessary mindset to achieve greatness, as well as practical steps to get to the root of our addiction and build a life where pornography is no longer an option. I believe men are called to greatness in this life, and it starts with learning to control our sexual desires. Gentlemen, let's get ready to Rebuild Your LIfe and become the man God has called you to be. Welcome to The Rebuilt Man Let's get in to today's episode

  1. 5h ago

    Why You Keep Going Back To Porn When You're Bored | Ep. 446

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   When was the last time you were genuinely bored?   No phone. No television. No music. No distractions. Just you, alone with your thoughts.   Most men have become so accustomed to constant stimulation that they've forgotten how to sit with themselves. But what if this inability to tolerate boredom is also contributing to the very patterns keeping you trapped in pornography?   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich reveals the overlooked connection between boredom, dopamine, emotional avoidance, and compulsive porn use.   Because here's the truth: Just because you stopped watching porn doesn't mean you've stopped escaping.   You might have simply replaced one form of stimulation with another.   Frank explains why real freedom isn't just about eliminating pornography. It's about learning to experience stress, loneliness, boredom, and uncomfortable emotions without automatically looking for something to numb or escape them.   In this episode, you'll discover: Why constant stimulation can make ordinary boredom increasingly difficult to tolerate.   How pornography can become an automatic response to stress, loneliness, and discomfort.   The critical difference between healthy rest and emotional escape.   Why quitting porn doesn't automatically change the underlying patterns keeping you stuck.   The simple Notice → Allow → Choose framework for responding to unwanted urges.   A powerful five-minute challenge to begin reclaiming control of your attention and decisions.     If you've been trying to quit porn but keep finding yourself stuck in the same cycle, this episode will challenge you to look beyond the behavior and start rebuilding the man behind it.   Real freedom isn't about never feeling uncomfortable. It's about no longer allowing your discomfort to control your life.   🔥 Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood Stop fighting this battle alone. Join Coach Frank Rich and a brotherhood of men committed to quitting porn, rebuilding their marriages, strengthening their faith, and becoming the men they were created to be.   Daily Freedom Calls. Weekly coaching Q&As. Brotherhood accountability. A proven path to rebuilding your life.   👉 https://www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   Stop counting days. Start rebuilding your life.   About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and one of the leading voices helping Christian men break free from pornography through identity transformation.   After overcoming his own 20-year struggle with pornography, Frank dedicated his life to helping high-performing men rebuild their minds, marriages, faith, and purpose. Today, The Rebuilt Man has helped more than 1,800 men experience lasting freedom through a proven framework centered on identity, discipline, brotherhood, and faith.   –   Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

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    Introducing Niecy Nash: The Power of Loving Yourself Out Loud from The Oprah Podcast. Follow the show: The Oprah Podcast The two-time Emmy award-winning actress and star of Hulu’s all women divorce drama All’s Fair - Ms. Niecy Nash-Betts - joins the Podcast. Nicknamed “The Range” in Hollywood for her extraordinary ability to transcend both comedic and dramatic roles on television and in the movies. Oprah talks to Niecy about how from a young age she manifested her acting career. The two discuss Niecy’s marriage to her ‘’hersband,” Jessica Betts, after being married twice in the past to men. Niecy shares why she didn’t feel the need “to come out” and the mistakes she’s made as a mother to her three adult children. Niecy also takes questions from listeners about her fan-favorite show, All’s Fair on Hulu - now in its second season - and reveals what it’s like working on and off the set with her powerhouse co-stars Kim Kardashian, Sarah Paulson, Naomi Watts, Teyana Taylor and the legendary Glenn Close. And caregivers take note, Niecy talks about the challenges she faces providing care for her elderly father. 00:00:00 - Welcome Niecy Nash 00:02:30 - Niecy knew she was a performer 00:03:15 - Her nickname “The Range” 00:08:00 - Niecy’s Emmy speech 00:10:40 - Has fame changed her? 00:12:45 - Niecy’s greatest luxury 00:14:30 - All’s Fair role 00:19:00 - Favorite outfit from All’s Fair 00:20:20 - Fatal Attraction with Glenn Close 00:22:20 - Niecy’s wig obsession 00:24:00 - Niecy on motherhood 00:26:30 - 6 year wedding anniversary 00:28:30 - On wife Jessica Betts 00:33:45 - Going public on their relationship 00:41:30 - Caretaking her father 00:46:00 - Niecy’s ideal role 00:48:40 - What she would not share 00:49:24 - Rapid fire questions Follow Oprah Winfrey on Social: https://www.instagram.com/oprahpodcast/ https://www.facebook.com/oprahpodcast/ https://www.instagram.com/oprah/?hl=en https://www.facebook.com/oprahwinfrey/ DISCLAIMER: Please note, this is an independent podcast episode not affiliated with, endorsed by, or produced in conjunction with the host podcast feed or any of its media entities. The views and opinions expressed in this episode are solely those of the creators and guests. For any concerns, please reach out to team@podroll.fm.

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  3. 3d ago

    Is Masturbating Without Porn Keeping You Addicted? (Q&A Episode) | Ep. 445

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   Can You M********e Without Porn and Still Be Setting Yourself Up for Relapse?   You've stopped watching porn. But you're still masturbating.   And every time you do, something happens.   The cravings come back. The temptation gets stronger. And before you know it, you're fighting the same battle you thought you'd already escaped.   So what's actually going on?   In this Q&A episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich and Coach Arnold answer a question that many men struggling to quit pornography are afraid to ask:   If I'm masturbating without porn, am I still keeping my addiction alive?   Together, they unpack the connection between pornography, masturbation, and learned behavioral patterns, why certain habits can reactivate old cravings, and how men unknowingly negotiate with themselves to justify behaviors that may be holding them back.   But the conversation goes much deeper than masturbation.   Frank and Arnold challenge you to examine the real reasons behind your behaviors. Are you acting out of genuine desire, or are you still using sexual gratification to escape stress, loneliness, boredom, and difficult emotions?   Because removing porn from your life doesn't automatically mean you've changed the patterns that brought you to it in the first place.   In this episode, you'll discover: Why masturbating without pornography may still intensify your cravings   How pornography and masturbation can become connected through learned habits   The hidden danger of justifying behaviors because they aren't technically porn   Why Instagram, sexualized imagery, and fantasy can become substitutes for old patterns   How to identify whether you're using masturbation as a form of emotional escape   The questions you need to start asking yourself if you want to break the cycle for good   The goal isn't just to stop watching porn. It's to become the kind of man who no longer needs it.   If you're tired of negotiating with yourself, fighting the same urges, and wondering why you keep returning to old habits, this conversation will challenge you to look beyond the behavior and start addressing what's underneath it.   Ready to stop fighting this battle alone?   Join Coach Frank, Coach Arnold, and the men inside The Rebuilt Man community for coaching, accountability, daily Freedom Calls, and the Reboot Your Life system.   Join the Brotherhood: https://www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   Stop counting days. Start rebuilding your life.     About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and one of the leading voices helping Christian men break free from pornography through identity transformation.   After overcoming his own 20-year struggle with pornography, Frank dedicated his life to helping high-performing men rebuild their minds, marriages, faith, and purpose. Today, The Rebuilt Man has helped more than 1,800 men experience lasting freedom through a proven framework centered on identity, discipline, brotherhood, and faith.   –   Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

  4. Oct 16

    The Hidden Cost Of Saying "I'll Never Watch Porn Again" | Ep. 444

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   How many times have you promised yourself you were going to quit porn… only to find yourself right back where you started?   "I'm done." "This is the last time." "Tomorrow, everything changes."   But what happens when you repeatedly make promises to yourself and fail to follow through?   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich reveals the hidden cost of broken promises, how they can destroy your self-trust, weaken your confidence, and reinforce the very identity you're trying to escape.   After helping nearly 1,900 men overcome porn addiction and rebuild their lives, Frank explains why lasting freedom requires more than motivation, willpower, or another emotional commitment to change.     In this episode, you'll discover: The 3 hidden costs of repeatedly breaking promises to yourself.   Why years of failed attempts to quit P*rn can leave you doubting your ability to change.   How your daily actions reinforce your identity and shape the man you're becoming.   4 practical strategies for rebuilding self-trust, discipline, and personal integrity.   Why learning to recover from setbacks matters more than chasing perfection.   The Self-Trust Audit and a simple 7-day challenge to start rebuilding confidence in yourself.   The truth? You don't build confidence by promising yourself you'll change. You build it by giving yourself evidence that you already are.   🔥 Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood   Tired of making the same promises and fighting the same battles alone?   Join Coach Frank Rich and a brotherhood of men committed to quitting porn, rebuilding their confidence, strengthening their faith, and becoming the men God created them to be.   Get access to daily Freedom Calls, weekly Q&As, coaching, accountability, and a proven identity-based approach to lasting freedom.   Start your FREE 7-day trial today: 👉 https://www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   Stop counting days. Start becoming The Rebuilt Man.     About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and one of the leading voices helping Christian men break free from pornography through identity transformation.   After overcoming his own 20-year struggle with pornography, Frank dedicated his life to helping high-performing men rebuild their minds, marriages, faith, and purpose. Today, The Rebuilt Man has helped more than 1,800 men experience lasting freedom through a proven framework centered on identity, discipline, brotherhood, and faith.   –   Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

  5. Oct 14

    Child Exploitation Expert: The Dark Side Of Porn Nobody Talks About w/ Natasha Nascimento | Ep. 443

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   What if the most dangerous thing porn is doing to you isn't what it's doing to your brain but what it's teaching you about other people?   In this powerful conversation, Coach Frank Rich sits down with Natasha Nascimento, founder of Redefining Refuge and a child sexual exploitation advocate with over 16 years of experience, to explore a side of pornography addiction that rarely gets discussed.   Most men focus on quitting porn by changing their habits, controlling their urges, and rewiring their brains.   But what about changing their hearts?   Frank and Natasha examine how pornography can reinforce patterns of objectification, entitlement, and distorted expectations around sex and intimacy and why real freedom requires more than simply stopping a behavior.   They also confront the damaging messages being promoted by parts of the modern manosphere, including the influence of Andrew Tate, and explore the dangerous confusion between masculine strength, sexual entitlement, and power over others.   Drawing from Natasha's work with exploited children and Frank's experience helping nearly 1,900 men overcome pornography struggles, they discuss the relationship between early sexual exposure, shame, control, and the beliefs that can follow men into adulthood.   In this episode, you'll discover: Why quitting porn requires more than rewiring your brain.   How pornography can reinforce objectification and entitlement in relationships.   The difference between healthy masculine leadership and the pursuit of power and control.   Why success, money, and status don't automatically make you a better man.   How early sexual experiences and shame may influence patterns later in life.   Why understanding your past is important without allowing it to excuse your behavior.   What it means to reshape your heart and develop a healthier understanding of intimacy.   Why real freedom is about becoming a different man, not just breaking a habit.     Natasha also shares a powerful exercise to help men confront the shame they've been carrying since childhood and begin developing compassion for the younger versions of themselves.   The goal isn't simply to become a man who no longer watches porn. It's to become a man who sees himself, women, relationships, and the world differently.   About Natasha Nascimento Natasha Nascimento is the founder of Redefining Refuge, a Florida-based nonprofit dedicated to protecting and supporting children affected by sexual exploitation and trafficking.   For over 16 years, Natasha has worked to advocate for vulnerable children, challenge misconceptions surrounding exploitation, and improve systems of protection and survivor support.   Her experience brings a unique perspective to the conversation about pornography, power, sexual entitlement, and the importance of developing healthier relationships.   Learn more about Natasha's work: https://redefiningrefuge.org/   Ready to stop fighting porn alone? Join Coach Frank Rich and The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for coaching, accountability, community, and a proven identity-based approach to building a life of freedom.   👉 Join The Rebuilt Man community: https://www.skool.com/rebuiltman   Stop counting days. Start becoming The Rebuilt Man.   About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and one of the leading voices helping Christian men break free from pornography through identity transformation. After overcoming his own 20-year struggle with pornography, Frank dedicated his life to helping high-performing men rebuild their minds, marriages, faith, and purpose. Today, The Rebuilt Man has helped more than 1,800 men experience lasting freedom through a proven framework centered on identity, discipline, brotherhood, and faith.   –   Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

  6. Oct 12

    Dopamine Expert: Why Quitting Porn Requires More Than Willpower w/ Dr. Daniel Z. Lieberman | Ep. 442

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   What if everything you've been taught about quitting porn is focused on the wrong thing?   Most men trying to overcome porn addiction focus on changing their behavior. They install blockers, download accountability apps, avoid triggers, and attempt dopamine resets.   But what if removing the behavior isn't enough to create lasting freedom?   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich shares a powerful clip from his conversation with psychiatrist, neuroscience expert, and The Molecule of More co-author Dr. Daniel Z. Lieberman, originally featured on Episode 318 of The Super Human Life podcast.   Together, they explore the neuroscience of addiction recovery, why dopamine resets alone don't create lasting change, and what it actually means to rewire your brain.   Dr. Lieberman explains that overcoming addiction requires more than temporarily reducing stimulation. It involves changing deeply established patterns, developing healthier sources of gratification, and ultimately transforming your identity.   This leads to one of the most important moments in the conversation: Dr. Lieberman directly affirms Frank's belief that real freedom isn't simply becoming a man who doesn't watch porn, it's becoming the man who no longer wants to.   Frank and Dr. Lieberman also examine the powerful roles of community, belonging, spirituality, faith, and meaningful life experiences in creating lasting personal transformation.   In this episode, you'll discover: Why dopamine resets and behavioral modification aren't enough for lasting freedom   The difference between suppressing addictive behaviors and transforming your identity   What neuroscience can tell us about rewiring deeply established patterns   Why accountability apps and blockers are useful tools, but not complete solutions   How community, connection, and belonging support addiction recovery   The potential role of serotonin 2A receptors in brain flexibility and adaptation   Why meaningful change often involves discomfort, uncertainty, and confronting fear   How faith, spirituality, and a renewed sense of purpose can support transformation   Why lasting recovery involves changing what you find rewarding—not just what you avoid   You don't overcome porn addiction simply by becoming better at resisting temptation.   You create lasting freedom by rebuilding your identity, your desires, your relationships, and the life you're living.   Because real freedom isn't about spending the rest of your life fighting the man you used to be.   It's about becoming The Rebuilt Man.     About Dr. Daniel Z. Lieberman Dr. Daniel Z. Lieberman is a psychiatrist, professor, and co-author of the bestselling book The Molecule of More. His work explores the neuroscience of dopamine, motivation, addiction, human behavior, and the unconscious mind. He is also the author of Spellbound.   Listen to the full conversation: Episode 348 of The Super Human Life podcast.   Ready to stop fighting porn alone?   Join Coach Frank Rich and The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for coaching, accountability, community, and a proven identity-based approach to building a life of freedom.   👉 Join The Rebuilt Man community: https://www.skool.com/rebuiltman   Stop counting days. Start becoming The Rebuilt Man.   About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and one of the leading voices helping Christian men break free from pornography through identity transformation.   After overcoming his own 20-year struggle with pornography, Frank dedicated his life to helping high-performing men rebuild their minds, marriages, faith, and purpose. Today, The Rebuilt Man has helped more than 1,800 men experience lasting freedom through a proven framework centered on identity, discipline, brotherhood, and faith.   –   Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

  7. Oct 9

    The 12 Biggest Lies Keeping Christian Men Trapped In Porn Addiction | Ep. 441

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   Why do so many Christian men continue struggling with pornography, even when they know it's wrong, pray for freedom, and genuinely want to change?   Research suggests that approximately 75% of Christian men report some level of pornography consumption. But the real issue isn't simply a lack of faith, discipline, or willpower. It's the shame, secrecy, isolation, and deeply rooted beliefs that can keep men trapped in the same cycle for years.   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man, Coach Frank Rich exposes 12 lies Christian men believe about porn addiction, temptation, repentance, marriage, and recovery—and reveals why these beliefs can actually prevent lasting freedom.   Drawing from his personal journey of overcoming nearly 30 years of pornography use and his experience helping nearly 1,900 men, Frank challenges the traditional approach of simply praying harder, trying harder, and counting days.   You'll discover why shame isn't the same as conviction, why prayer must be accompanied by action, why marriage won't automatically solve a pornography problem, and why true freedom requires more than simply stopping a behavior.   Frank also breaks down The Rebuilt Man's 5-step framework—ESCAPE, REWIRE, REBUILD, RESTORE, and LEAD—and explains how to transform your identity, rebuild your relationships, strengthen your faith, and create a life where pornography no longer has control.   In this episode, you'll learn: Why Christian men can remain trapped in pornography despite strong faith and a desire to quit   The 12 lies that keep Christian men stuck in cycles of shame, secrecy, and relapse   Why prayer, repentance, and willpower alone may not change deeply ingrained habits   The difference between conviction and destructive shame   Why pornography is often an escape from deeper emotional struggles   How pornography affects marriage, trust, intimacy, and spiritual leadership   Why accountability, brotherhood, and community are essential to lasting change   How to stop identifying as a porn addict and start becoming a new man   The 5-step Rebuilt Man framework for creating lasting freedom     The bottom line: Real freedom isn't found in becoming better at resisting pornography. It's found in becoming the man who no longer looks at pornography.   Ready to stop fighting this battle alone?   Join Coach Frank Rich and a brotherhood of men committed to quitting porn, rebuilding their lives, restoring their marriages, and becoming the men God has called them to be.   Inside The Rebuilt Man community, you'll find daily Freedom Calls, weekly Q&As, coaching, accountability, and the support you need to create lasting change.   Join The Rebuilt Man Community: https://www.skool.com/therebuiltman   Stop counting days. Start becoming The Rebuilt Man.     About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and one of the leading voices helping Christian men break free from pornography through identity transformation.   After overcoming his own 20-year struggle with pornography, Frank dedicated his life to helping high-performing men rebuild their minds, marriages, faith, and purpose. Today, The Rebuilt Man has helped more than 1,800 men experience lasting freedom through a proven framework centered on identity, discipline, brotherhood, and faith.   –   Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage

  8. Oct 7

    You'll Never Quit Porn If You Believe You CAN'T Watch It | Ep. 440

    Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   What if believing you can't watch porn is actually keeping you stuck?   In this episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich challenges one of the most common beliefs about quitting porn: that freedom means spending the rest of your life avoiding, blocking, and resisting it.   Real freedom isn't saying, "I can't watch porn."   It's knowing you could—and choosing not to because it no longer aligns with the man you've become.   Frank shares a recent conversation with his fiancée that revealed just how dramatically his relationship with porn has changed, why relying solely on blockers can create a "forbidden fruit" mentality, and how identity transformation changes the entire recovery process.   He also breaks down the five areas men need to address to create lasting freedom:   Understand the root cause driving the behavior   Develop healthier emotional regulation   Build real brotherhood and connection   Take control of your physical health   Create a clear vision for the man you're becoming     If you've spent years trying to fight harder, resist longer, or build more walls between yourself and porn, this episode will challenge you to approach freedom differently.   The goal isn't to become a man who is better at resisting porn.   The goal is to become a man who no longer wants, needs, or desires it in his life.   Ready to stop fighting this alone?   If you want support, accountability, and a community of men committed to doing this work alongside you, join Coach Frank and The Rebuilt Man community and start your 7-day free trial.   👉 Join The Rebuilt Man -  www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   Get your copy of Porn Free Man If this episode resonated with you, Porn Free Man is the next step.   Inside the book, Coach Frank Rich walks you through the exact identity-based framework that's helped more than 1,800 men break free from porn and rebuild every area of their lives.   Learn how to stop managing addiction and start becoming the man who no longer wants, needs, or desires porn.   👉 www.therebuiltman.com/pornfree   Included With The Book 7 Day Porn Reset Rebuilt By The Word (12-Week Bible Study) The Rebuilt Man Daily Meditations Reboot Your Life After Action Review Frank Rich Fitness Bundle & Training Library     Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood - www.skool.com/rebootyourlife   About Coach Frank Rich Coach Frank Rich is the founder of The Rebuilt Man and one of the leading voices helping Christian men break free from pornography through identity transformation.   After overcoming his own 20-year struggle with pornography, Frank dedicated his life to helping high-performing men rebuild their minds, marriages, faith, and purpose. Today, The Rebuilt Man has helped more than 1,800 men experience lasting freedom through a proven framework centered on identity, discipline, brotherhood, and faith.   –   Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich   YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich   Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepag

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Welcome to The Rebuilt Man, I'm Coach Frank, founder of Rebuilt Recovery and we exist here to help you become a better man, by quitting porn, and rebuilding your life. My life changed in 2019 when I finally found freedom from a 20+ year addiction to pornography, and I've made it my mission since that day to help other men, just like me & you, find the freedom you deserve. Join us and jump onboard as we provide daily tips and insights to build the necessary mindset to achieve greatness, as well as practical steps to get to the root of our addiction and build a life where pornography is no longer an option. I believe men are called to greatness in this life, and it starts with learning to control our sexual desires. Gentlemen, let's get ready to Rebuild Your LIfe and become the man God has called you to be. Welcome to The Rebuilt Man Let's get in to today's episode

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