Leadership Becomes Her: Simple, Strategic Solutions for Christian Women Who Lead

Becky Burroughs
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The mission of Leadership Becomes Her is to help Christian women who serve in churches as a vocation or a volunteer, or women who work in non-profits or small business by equipping you to lead with faith, confidence, and purpose. You will learn to own your giftedness while identifying areas of growth in your leadership so you can navigate a path for transforming into the leaders God is calling you to be.

  1. 3d ago

    Episode 142: You're Not Too Much (Series: What Nobody Tells You About Women and Leadership)

    Hey, Friend! You’re Not Too Much Have you ever walked out of a meeting and replayed everything you said? Was I too direct? Did I talk too much? Did I come across as controlling? Should I have softened that? Was I too much? Too passionate. Too confident. Too opinionated. Too emotional. Too ambitious. Too strong. So many women in leadership have learned to question themselves this way. In this episode, we begin a new series, What Nobody Tells You About Women and Leadership, with a message every woman leader needs to hear: You’re not too much. Women often receive subtle messages about how much space they are allowed to occupy. And over time, we can begin shrinking ourselves—not because we lack confidence, but because we have learned that being fully ourselves might make someone else uncomfortable. But there is a difference between growth and shrinking. You may need to become more thoughtful, more emotionally mature, more collaborative, or more self-aware. But becoming a better leader does not require you to become a smaller woman. In this episode, we talk about: Why women are so often afraid of being perceived as “too much” The difference between humility and shrinking How confidence can be interpreted differently in women Why having something to work on doesn't mean you are fundamentally wrong How some of your “too much” qualities may actually be leadership strengths What it means to become more whole rather than simply becoming less How women in ministry can stop apologizing for their calling and leadership gifts One of the questions I want you to take with you is: “What part of myself have I been shrinking to make other people comfortable?” And then ask: “Is this something God is asking me to surrender—or something I've been taught to suppress?” Those are very different things. You don't have to become smaller to become better. You are not too much. You are becoming. I pray this blesses you, Becky

  2. Oct 21

    Episode 141: What I Hope You Take With You

    Hey, Friend! In this episode, we explore six things I hope you remember: You Don't Have to Earn Your Place at the Table. You Are Allowed to Say No. Your Work Is Not Your Worth. Someone's Disappointment Is Not an Emergency. You Need to Rest Before You're Empty. Hard Doesn't Mean You're Failing. Leadership isn't about becoming someone who never struggles. It's about becoming someone who knows where to take the struggle. You don't have to lose yourself to lead well. You don't have to become less human to become a better leader. You simply have to become more fully who God created you to be. That's the leader I hope you're becoming. And that's what I hope you take with you. Leadership isn't just about what you accomplish. It's about who you're becoming. With Love, Becky

  3. Oct 14

    Episode 140: Every Strength has a Shadow

    What if your greatest strength has a shadow? Hey, Friend! I have a question. What are you really good at? Maybe you're dependable. You get things done. Maybe you're compassionate. You notice people and care deeply about them. Maybe you're decisive. When everyone else is still talking, you're ready to move. Maybe you're relational. You know how to connect people and make them feel seen. Maybe you're confident, organized, visionary, or a natural problem-solver. Those are strengths. But here's the question I want you to consider: What happens when your strength becomes too much of a good thing? Because every strength has a shadow. The decisive leader can become controlling. The compassionate leader can become a rescuer. The dependable leader can become an overfunctioner. The relational leader can become conflict-avoidant. The confident leader can become unteachable. The visionary leader can become impatient. And the servant leader can slowly disappear herself in the process of serving everyone else. The strength isn't the problem. The lack of self-awareness is. In this week's episode of Leadership Becomes Her, we're talking about Every Strength Has a Shadow. We'll explore how to recognize when your greatest leadership strength is getting out of balance—and what you can do about it. Because leadership maturity isn't about becoming less of who you are. It's about becoming flexible enough to choose what the situation requires instead of automatically relying on your default strength. So here's your question for the week: What is your greatest leadership strength—and when does it become too much? You may discover that the very thing that has helped you succeed is also something you need to learn to hold more lightly. 🎧 Listen to Every Strength Has a Shadow wherever you get your podcasts. I pray this blesses you, Becky

  4. Oct 7

    Episode 139: What are you Tolerating that is Costing You?

    Hey, Friend! What are you tolerating right now that is costing you? Maybe it's a person who consistently oversteps. A team member who isn't carrying their share. A situation you've been hoping will change. A conversation you've been avoiding. A calendar that has no room left in it. A responsibility you've taken on because “it's just easier if I do it myself.” Or maybe it's a pattern in yourself that you've been putting up with for far too long. We all tolerate things. Sometimes that's wisdom. Not everything needs to be confronted or changed. But sometimes we're tolerating something because addressing it feels harder than living with it. And there's a cost. In this week's episode we're taking a closer look at the hidden price of what we allow to continue. Because the cost isn't always obvious. It might be costing you: Time Energy Peace Trust Joy Credibility Your best people Your ability to lead well I call it the tolerance tax. And here's the question I want you to consider: Don't just ask what it will cost you to change. Ask what it will cost you if you don't. I pray this blesses you, Becky

  5. Sep 30

    Episode 138: Instead of asking, "What Should I do?" Ask this.

    Hey, Friend! In this week’s episode, we’re talking about Stop Asking “What Should I Do?” Ask This Instead. We’ll explore what happens when we: Take responsibility for things that belong to other people Confuse caring with fixing Try to make everyone happy with our decisions Carry outcomes we can't control Ask other people to make decisions that are really ours to make And struggle to trust God with the things that aren't ours to carry Here's a question to take with you this week: What is mine to do—and what is mine to release? Because you don't have to fix everything you notice. You don't have to carry everyone you love. You don't have to make everyone happy. And you don't have to solve the whole problem today. Sometimes you simply need to discern the next faithful step. What is mine to do? I pray this blesses you, Becky

  6. Sep 23

    Episode 137: The Courage to Change Your Mind

    Hey, Friend, What if changing your mind isn't a sign of weak leadership? What if it's a sign that you're growing? As leaders, we often celebrate decisiveness, confidence, conviction, and consistency. And those are good qualities. But sometimes we take them too far. We become afraid to reconsider a decision because we don't want people to think we were wrong. We defend a position simply because we've already taken it. We confuse consistency with integrity. And we forget that sometimes the wisest thing a leader can say is: “I've changed my mind.” In this week's episode of Leadership Becomes Her, we're talking about The Courage to Change Your Mind. We'll explore: Why changing our minds can feel like admitting weakness The difference between wisdom and indecisiveness Why secure leaders can admit when they're wrong How refusing to reconsider can damage trust What new information, experience, and perspective can teach us And what our faith has to say about humility, listening, and being willing to grow Here's a question I want you to consider: Am I more committed to being right—or to doing what is right? Because you don't have to defend yesterday's decision simply because you made it yesterday. You are allowed to learn. You are allowed to grow. You are allowed to see something differently. And you are allowed to change course. That's not weak leadership. That's courageous leadership. I pray this blesses you, Becky

  7. Sep 16

    Episode 136: The Art of Saying "I don't know"

    What if “I don’t know” is good leadership? There are three words that can be surprisingly difficult for a leader to say: I don’t know. We often assume that good leaders have answers. We’re supposed to know what to do, what comes next, why something happened, and how to fix it. And for women in leadership, there can be an added pressure to prove that we belong by being competent, prepared, and capable. But what if saying “I don’t know” isn’t a sign of weak leadership? What if it can actually be a sign of confidence? In this week’s episode of Leadership Becomes Her, I’m talking about The Art of Saying “I Don’t Know.” We’ll explore: Why leaders can feel pressured to always have the answer The difference between confidence and certainty How admitting what you don’t know can actually build trust When “I don’t know” is humility—and when it becomes an excuse How to invite others into leadership instead of pretending to have all the answers And what our willingness to not know has to do with faith Because the truth is, you don’t have to know everything to lead well. You can say, “I don’t know yet.” You can say, “Let’s figure it out together.” And sometimes, you can simply say, “I don’t know what God is doing—but I trust Him.” That isn't weakness. It may be one of the most honest—and courageous—things a leader can say. Listen to this week’s episode of Leadership Becomes Her: The Art of Saying “I Don’t Know.” And then ask yourself: Where am I pretending to know because I’m afraid of what people will think if I don’t? Becky

  8. Sep 9

    Episode 135: The Lie: If I Were Better, This Wouldn't be so Hard

    Hey, Friend! Throughout The Lie series, we've exposed six lies that Christian leaders can quietly believe: I have to say yes to everyone. My worth comes from my work. Everyone has to like me. I can rest when everything is finished. More ministry means more faithfulness. If I were better, this wouldn't be so hard. And underneath all of them is a similar message: Try harder. Do more. Be better. Prove yourself. But the gospel offers us something very different. You don't have to prove your worth. You don't have to earn God's love. You don't have to meet every need. You don't have to be liked by everyone. You don't have to do everything. And you don't have to become a better version of yourself before God can work through you. Jesus invites weary and burdened people to come to Him and receive rest. Lie: If I were better, this wouldn't be so hard. Truth: Hard doesn't mean I'm failing. Maybe you're not failing. Maybe you're growing. Maybe you're grieving. Maybe you're learning. Maybe you're carrying something heavy. Maybe you're simply in a hard season. And maybe God isn't asking you to become someone else before you can be faithful. Maybe He's inviting you to bring your whole, imperfect, sometimes-tired, sometimes-confused self to Him. You can be human and faithful at the same time. And remember: Leadership isn't just about what you accomplish. It's about who you're becoming. I pray this blesses you, Becky

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The mission of Leadership Becomes Her is to help Christian women who serve in churches as a vocation or a volunteer, or women who work in non-profits or small business by equipping you to lead with faith, confidence, and purpose. You will learn to own your giftedness while identifying areas of growth in your leadership so you can navigate a path for transforming into the leaders God is calling you to be.

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