Marriage Unhindered

Relevant Radio

Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

  1. 8h ago

    Catching a Good Catholic Spouse

    Fr. Rob Ryan and Fr. John LoCoco join Doug to discuss an upcoming singles night at St. Benedict Catholic Church in Chicago. Doug also talks about the challenges of dating and what to look for in a future spouse.   Listener questions and comments: Lisa - If you are a female, go to where the men are: the lakes, the beach and hiking. (21:12) Bobby - It’s hard to tell a spouse you don’t like who they hang around with because you might be suggesting they are similar to that group. They might say 'you don’t trust me?' (39:20) Elma - Is it ok to date a widower of only one month? (42:30) Maureen - I used to be a professional matchmake. For Catholics: what a great time to check out the singles at confession. (46:45)   Resources:   Catholic Catch Singles Trivia Pre-Registration https://forms.cloud.microsoft/pages/responsepage.aspx?id=o-0BRmklpkqOCzBfwpVBLl-LqlRwJghFqZHL9AOb2yNUNDVNSzUzWEdUMzQzRDlTRU5aT0FPSzdFQyQlQCNjPTEu&route=shorturl   20 best ways to find a date in real life Sign Up for a Fitness Class / dance lessons Attend Community Events Take a Class That Interests You Say Yes to Social Invitations Become a Regular Somewhere such as a coffee shop Volunteer for a Cause Join a Sports League Attend Networking Events Explore Bookstores and Libraries Take Part in Group Travel or Tours Attend Live Music Events Join a Hobby Group Take Dance Lessons Attend Faith-Based or Spiritual Events Sign Up for a Public Speaking or Improv Class Explore Outdoor Activities Register for Workshops or Seminars Become an Active Member of Your Neighborhood Attend Friend-of-a-Friend Gatherings Focus on Living a Full Life   4 Things to look for when you are dating Does the person ask questions about you and listen for the answers? Do they treat people of lesser status well? Are they reliable? Are they a person of virtue and trying be a better person?   Ask the right questions What brought you here? Wat sparks your curiosity? Who are the people you like to hang out with? What are your hobbies? What do you spend most of your time thinking about? What is something you believe that most people will disagree with? What does a life well-lived look like to you?

  2. 1d ago

    When Marriage Feels Like A Mistake

    Doug goes to the mailbag. A listener had serious reservations about getting married and is now miserable. What should she do?   Listener questions and comments: Maria Teresa - We enjoy your professional way of speaking so we decided to get your course. My husband was super open to it and I think it was the Holy Spirit. (14:12) Mary - We got married almost 6 years ago and I thought we were under the understanding that it was forever but he just said he's done and he never wanted to marry me. I had no idea. I am going to counseling and he is not talking to me. (36:01)   Resources: Marriage Unhindered https://www.marriageunhindered.com/   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/

  3. 2d ago

    Fostering Deeper Marital Connection

    Adam Lane Smith joins Doug to discuss the importance of forging strong attachment bonds with your spouse.   Listener questions and comments: Bob - What should a man do when his wife says 'he's a good husband and a good dad, but she has no interest in showing physical affection?' (27:08) Michael - I had abnormal attachment to a narcissistic parent and picked a partner like that. How do I fix this? (37:57) Angel - My fiancé asked me if I've had feelings for a fellow film producer, and I told him it was 14 years ago, and it was well before I met him. He went crazy and locked me out of social media. What am I supposed to do? (41:20) Stacy - Maybe communication is the problem in these relationships. (45:40)   Resources: Adam Lane Smith  https://bundle.adamlanesmith.com/private-coaching?utm_source=podcast&utm_content=Unhindered&funnel_source=private-coaching  Emotionally Focused Therapy https://iceeft.com/

  4. 5d ago

    Protecting Your Spouse From Family

    Doug finishes his discussion on how to repair the damage after a fight. He also shares what to do when your family treats your spouse badly. Plus: The Friday Rant!   Listener questions and comment: Ron - My wife tries to take charge of everything, but I believe I am called to lead our home. This has been an ongoing struggle throughout our more than 40 years of marriage. She prefers to have the final say in most situations, and I feel I have not been allowed to fulfill what I believe is my God-given role as the leader of our household. (12:35) Luciano - A friend is refusing to attend our wedding and declined our invitation because we were in a relationship before our annulment. Am I in the right? (23:18)   Resources:   Love Basics for Catholics https://stpaulcenter.com/store/love-basics-for-catholics-illustrating-gods-love-for-us-throughout-the-bible     5 steps to repair the damage after a big fight Discuss your feelings Talk about your realities Share your triggers Accept your responsibility Come up with constructive plans

  5. 6d ago

    Repairing the Damage After a Fight

    Doug shares 5 steps to repair the damage after a big fight or regrettable incident.   Listener questions and comments: Monica - My father doesn’t get enough credit for what he does. What should I do and what is my place in that? (20:50) Teresa - My daughter is going through stuff with her husband and he suggested that maybe he should just kill himself rather than fix things. He has been yelling at her and losing his temper. They have a baby, a dog and a house and are very stressed. (37:18) Elly - My husband and I had an argument and after we came back together, he told me to 'go to hell' and it’s been very hard and it hurts me still. (46:12)   Resources: The 4 Horsemen Criticism Contempt Stonewalling Defensiveness 5 steps to repair the damage after a big fight Discuss your feelings Talk about your realities Share your triggers Accept your responsibility Come up with constructive solutions

  6. Aug 5

    Resources for Faithful Marriages

    Dr. Julia Dezelski joins Doug to discuss USCCB resources available for married and dating couples.    Listener questions and comments: Chris - When I got married there was very little marriage preparation. This needs to be a bigger emphasis. (23:00) Walt - It seems like in modern culture it seems like children are an add on and not the focus. Is this being addressed? (31:38) Margy - There is very little available for people getting remarried in the Church and for those who have annulments. (39:16)   Resources: Catechumenal pathways for married life – Free PDF https://www.laityfamilylife.va/content/dam/laityfamilylife/amoris-laetitia/OrientamentiCatecumenatomatrimoniale/Catechumenal%20Pathways_ENG.pdf   Catechumenal pathways for married life - Book https://www.orderosv.com/product/catechumenal-pathways-for-married-life?ga_ref_list_id=75ga_ref_list_name=Related%20Products   Happy Marriage for Life https://www.happymarriageforlife.com/   For Your Marriage https://www.foryourmarriage.org/   https://www.portumatrimonio.org/   Second marriages https://www.foryourmarriage.org/second-marriages/

  7. Aug 4

    Family Values & Modern Relationships

    How should you handle an out-of-town family reunion when one of your grandchildren wants to share a room with their live-in boyfriend? Why can’t my wife see that I have changed for the better? Doug goes to the mailbag answering these questions and more.   Listener questions and comments: Rosie - I am in a second sacramental marriage and in the eyes of God and the Church, but not the state. Is this uncommon? We don’t live together and he comes to stay with me for a few days a week. (10:17) Ray - How do you respond when a third party intrudes in your marriage? (19:40) Michelle - I was dating someone that was going to Church with me and we broke up and got back together. I kept seeing him with other women. Now he's baptized. What should I do? (38:05)

  8. Aug 3

    Biblical Foundations of Love

    Dr. John Bergsma joins Doug to discuss his book, Love Basics for Catholics.   Listener questions and comments: Sharon - I have two children who are good Catholics but are unmarried. They don’t have good places and ways to meet. (21:52) Bob - My daughter runs speed dating in Arizona. There has been some success with it. (41:22) Ralph - I think these kids should be looking for Christian spouses outside the Church. (44:25)   Resources: Love Basics for Catholics https://stpaulcenter.com/store/love-basics-for-catholics-illustrating-gods-love-for-us-throughout-the-bible   Dr. John Bergsma https://www.johnbergsma.com/#welcome   St. Paul Center https://stpaulcenter.com/events   Altum Young Adults https://altumyoungadults.org/

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Marriage Unhindered is a sincere exploration of the joys and challenges within the realm of marriage. Hosted by the seasoned Doug Hinderer, this one-hour, caller-based show is scheduled to air Monday through Friday at 5PM CT, and will offer listeners an authentic journey into the complexities of marital relationships.

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  • Creator
    Relevant Radio
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    571
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Show Website
    Marriage Unhindered

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