The Becoming Her Podcast with Jessica Young

Jessica Young
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Welcome to The Becoming Her Podcast with Jessica Young. I’m so glad you’re here. A little about me — I’m someone who’s deeply passionate about helping women grow into the strongest version of themselves mentally, physically, and spiritually. Faith is the center of everything I do, and through coaching, fitness, and the conversations I’ve had with women over the years, I’ve seen how much our mindset, our habits, and our relationship with God shape the direction of our lives. I’ve also learned that a lot of us feel the same things at different points in life — stuck, overwhelmed, unsure of where we’re going, or feeling like we were made for more but not knowing how to get there. That’s exactly why this podcast exists. Each week we talk about real life — faith, mindset, discipline, relationships, confidence, health, and personal growth — the things that truly shape the woman you’re becoming. Some episodes will feel like encouragement you didn’t know you needed. Some will challenge the way you think. And some will simply remind you that you’re not walking through life alone. Think of this podcast like sitting down with a friend who genuinely wants to see you grow, believes in who you’re becoming, and is here to help you move forward with stronger faith, more confidence, and a clearer sense of purpose. And if you’re a guy who somehow found your way here… welcome and don't worry I will be talking about things that will apply to you too. So, yes, you’re still allowed to listen — you might even learn a thing or two about the women in your life. Becoming the woman (or man) God created you to be doesn’t happen overnight. It happens one decision, one mindset shift, and one step of faith at a time. And day by day… you become her.

  1. 1d ago ·  Bonus

    Hey You - Your Pain Doesn’t Get to Keep You

    Hey you—if you're hurting and you don't know how to let go of what happened, this is for you. I know moving forward isn't as simple as deciding not to hurt anymore. But the longer we hold onto the anger, resentment, bitterness, heartbreak, and pain, the longer we allow what happened to us to have power over who we're becoming. And eventually, we can become so consumed by what hurt us that we stop recognizing ourselves. In this Hey You episode, I'm talking about what it means to finally loosen your grip on the pain you've been carrying, why the enemy would love nothing more than for your hurt to steal your joy and your light, and why letting go doesn't mean pretending what happened didn't matter. I also want us to look at Jesus. Jesus knew what was ahead of Him. He knew the betrayal, rejection, suffering, and ultimately the cross were coming—and yet He still loved. He still served. He still brought hope. He still walked in purpose. He was still a light. Your pain is real. What happened to you matters. And healing may take time. But your hurt doesn't deserve to become your identity. You can acknowledge what happened without allowing it to determine who you become next. Maybe letting go isn't saying, “It didn't hurt.” Maybe it's saying, “It hurt—but it doesn't get to have me anymore.” Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You - Your Pain Doesn’t Get to Keep You

  2. 4d ago

    Let’s Talk About What’s Really Holding You Back

    What do you do when you’re asking God for direction… and He feels silent? And what if the thing you keep calling “waiting on God” is actually fear keeping you from moving? In this episode, we’re talking about both sides of faithfulness—the seasons when God has made the next step clear but we’re afraid to take it, and the seasons when we genuinely have no idea what He’s doing. Because faithfulness doesn’t always look like a huge leap of faith. Sometimes it looks like moving when God says move. Sometimes it looks like staying when He says stay. And sometimes it looks like continuing to show up, seek Him, and steward what He’s already placed in your hands when you can’t hear Him at all. You don’t need a five-year plan to be faithful today. You don’t need to feel God to trust God. And you don’t need to know where He’s taking you to keep walking with Him. Maybe the question isn’t always, “God, what am I supposed to do next?” Maybe it’s: “God, how can I be faithful with what You’ve already given me?” And when He says wait—wait faithfully. When He says move—get your feet wet. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

  3. Aug 29 ·  Bonus

    Hey You - Survival Mode Is Not Your Normal

    Hey you—when did being exhausted, overwhelmed, and barely keeping up become normal? So many of us are living with a performance mindset that tells us we have to get everything done, do everything right, show up for everyone, and somehow hold it all together at the same time. And when we can't? We convince ourselves we're failing. In this Hey You episode, we're talking about perfectionism, the pressure we put on ourselves to constantly perform, and why giving yourself grace doesn't mean lowering your standards. I have conversations with so many people who tell me they're just trying to survive right now. They're burnt out, overwhelmed, running on empty—and they've been living that way for so long that survival mode has started to feel normal. But you were never meant to become comfortable living depleted. You don't have to earn rest. You don't have to accomplish everything today. And doing your best doesn't mean doing everything. Maybe you don't need to push harder. Maybe you need to give yourself enough grace to be human, take care of yourself, and recognize that your worth was never supposed to be measured by how much you can carry. Survival mode may be a season you walk through. It was never meant to become the life you settle for. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You - Survival Mode Is Not Your Normal

  4. Aug 26

    Do You Actually Know Who You Are?

    I've been reflecting a lot lately on the last few years of my life—who I was, what I've walked through, what I've lost, what I've learned, and most importantly, who I've become through all of it. And it led me to a question I think all of us need to ask ourselves: Do you actually know who you are? Not what you do. Not your job title. Not your relationship status. Not who other people expect you to be. Not the version of yourself you've learned to perform for everyone else. Who are you? In this episode, I'm getting personal about seasons of my life when I didn't know who I was or where I was going, and how my relationship with God has completely changed the way I walk through uncertainty now. Because here's what I've realized: Walking through the unknown in darkness is immensely harder than walking through the unknown in the light with the Lord. I still don't have everything figured out. I don't know exactly what the next few years of my life will look like. I don't know every door God is going to open or every direction He's going to take me. But there's a huge difference between not knowing where you're going and not knowing who you are or Who you're walking with. We're talking about identity, uncertainty, outgrowing old versions of yourself, learning who you are outside of your accomplishments and circumstances, and what changes when your identity becomes rooted in God instead of everything around you. Maybe you don't need God to illuminate the entire road ahead. Maybe you just need enough light to take the next step with Him. You don't have to know exactly where you're going to walk confidently in the light. You just need to know Who you're walking with. Reflection Question: If everything you use to describe yourself was stripped away—your job, accomplishments, relationships, appearance, success, failures, and other people's opinions—would you still know who you are? Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

  5. Aug 22 ·  Bonus

    Hey You - Life Isn't Meant to be Easy

    Hey you—maybe the prayer isn't always, “God, make this easier.” Maybe sometimes it's, “God, make me stronger.” In this Hey You episode, I'm getting vulnerable about living with an autoimmune disease, the ways it affects my everyday life, and the perspective I've had to develop through the harder seasons. I don't want you to feel sorry for me. I don't believe God is punishing me, and I don't blame Him for the life I've been given. Have I been angry? Absolutely. Are there things I wish I didn't have to deal with? Of course. But I've never believed my life was supposed to be easy. I've learned to make adjustments, keep moving forward, and trust that God is with me through all of it. Because hard doesn't mean impossible. And sometimes instead of asking God to remove the thing in front of us, we need to ask Him for the strength to walk through it. Maybe you don't need an easier life. Maybe you need to discover just how strong God can help you become. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You - Life Isn't Meant to be Easy

  6. Aug 8 ·  Bonus

    Hey You — Maybe You Went Through It So You Could Help Someone Else Through It

    Hey you… maybe the things you’ve gone through weren’t meaningless after all. In this episode, I share a personal story about being there for a girl after she passed out and how that moment reminded me of something really important: sometimes the very things we’ve struggled through become the reason we’re able to help someone else when they need it most. A lot of us spend so much time questioning why we went through certain seasons, heartbreaks, struggles, failures, anxieties, or painful experiences that we completely miss the possibility that God may use those very moments to strengthen us, shape us, and eventually allow us to show up for other people in ways we never could have otherwise. Your pain may not have felt fair. Your struggle may not have made sense at the time. But maybe your story isn’t just about you. Maybe God allowed you to walk through certain battles because one day someone else would need the version of you that survived them. Nothing is wasted when God is involved. If this episode spoke to you, send it to someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you’re following The Becoming Her Podcast. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You — Maybe You Went Through It So You Could Help Someone Else Through It

  7. Aug 1 ·  Bonus

    Hey You — Boundaries Protect Your Purpose

    Hey you… remember all those promises you made to yourself at the beginning of the year? The habits you wanted to build. The boundaries you said you’d finally set. The version of yourself you were determined to become. Maybe you stuck with it. Maybe you didn’t. But one thing I realized earlier this year is that growth doesn’t happen just because you want it to. Sometimes the reason we keep falling back into old patterns is because we never protected the very things we said mattered to us. In this episode, I’m talking about boundaries, discipline, self-respect, and the reality that if you want to build a different life, you have to start protecting your peace, your time, your mindset, and your purpose differently. Because not everyone deserves unlimited access to you. Not every environment is healthy for you. And not every habit aligns with where God is trying to take you. The only way I was able to start taking my growth seriously was by realizing that my purpose needed protection. And honestly? Yours does too. If this episode spoke to you, send it to someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you’re following The Becoming Her Podcast. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You — Boundaries Protect Your Purpose

  8. Jul 29

    Why Are You Rushing Through What You Prayed For?

    I've been thinking about how quickly the things we once prayed for can become the things we barely notice anymore. We pray for the opportunity, the relationship, the stronger body, the business, the new season, the open door… and then somewhere along the way, it becomes normal. We stop saying, “I get to,” and start saying, “I have to.” And before we know it, we're already asking God for what's next. In this episode, we're having an honest conversation about how easy it is to rush through the life we're currently living because we're so focused on where we're going next. We talk about the ten lepers and the one who came back to thank Jesus, why answered prayers can quietly become expectations, how our phones and constant comparison make it harder to be present, and what Jesus' life teaches us about slowing down enough to actually notice the people and moments in front of us. And we're also talking about ambition—because I don't think wanting more is the problem. You can have big dreams. You can set goals. You can pray for what's next. But you can also learn to be grateful for what's here. Maybe the goal isn't to stop looking forward. Maybe it's to stop looking forward so much that we forget to look around. In this episode, we talk about: • how quickly answered prayers can become normal • why we're constantly rushing toward the next thing • what the ten lepers teach us about gratitude • how Jesus modeled presence instead of hurry • the impact of our phones, comparison, and constant distraction • how gratitude and ambition can coexist • learning to trust God with tomorrow while actually living today Because there may be something in your life right now that a younger version of you begged God for. Don't rush through it. Don't let it become invisible simply because it became familiar. And don't wait until something becomes a memory to recognize that it was a blessing. Reflection Question: What in your life today was once something you prayed for? Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

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Welcome to The Becoming Her Podcast with Jessica Young. I’m so glad you’re here. A little about me — I’m someone who’s deeply passionate about helping women grow into the strongest version of themselves mentally, physically, and spiritually. Faith is the center of everything I do, and through coaching, fitness, and the conversations I’ve had with women over the years, I’ve seen how much our mindset, our habits, and our relationship with God shape the direction of our lives. I’ve also learned that a lot of us feel the same things at different points in life — stuck, overwhelmed, unsure of where we’re going, or feeling like we were made for more but not knowing how to get there. That’s exactly why this podcast exists. Each week we talk about real life — faith, mindset, discipline, relationships, confidence, health, and personal growth — the things that truly shape the woman you’re becoming. Some episodes will feel like encouragement you didn’t know you needed. Some will challenge the way you think. And some will simply remind you that you’re not walking through life alone. Think of this podcast like sitting down with a friend who genuinely wants to see you grow, believes in who you’re becoming, and is here to help you move forward with stronger faith, more confidence, and a clearer sense of purpose. And if you’re a guy who somehow found your way here… welcome and don't worry I will be talking about things that will apply to you too. So, yes, you’re still allowed to listen — you might even learn a thing or two about the women in your life. Becoming the woman (or man) God created you to be doesn’t happen overnight. It happens one decision, one mindset shift, and one step of faith at a time. And day by day… you become her.

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