The Becoming Her Podcast with Jessica Young

Jessica Young
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Welcome to The Becoming Her Podcast with Jessica Young. I’m so glad you’re here. A little about me — I’m someone who’s deeply passionate about helping women grow into the strongest version of themselves mentally, physically, and spiritually. Faith is the center of everything I do, and through coaching, fitness, and the conversations I’ve had with women over the years, I’ve seen how much our mindset, our habits, and our relationship with God shape the direction of our lives. I’ve also learned that a lot of us feel the same things at different points in life — stuck, overwhelmed, unsure of where we’re going, or feeling like we were made for more but not knowing how to get there. That’s exactly why this podcast exists. Each week we talk about real life — faith, mindset, discipline, relationships, confidence, health, and personal growth — the things that truly shape the woman you’re becoming. Some episodes will feel like encouragement you didn’t know you needed. Some will challenge the way you think. And some will simply remind you that you’re not walking through life alone. Think of this podcast like sitting down with a friend who genuinely wants to see you grow, believes in who you’re becoming, and is here to help you move forward with stronger faith, more confidence, and a clearer sense of purpose. And if you’re a guy who somehow found your way here… welcome and don't worry I will be talking about things that will apply to you too. So, yes, you’re still allowed to listen — you might even learn a thing or two about the women in your life. Becoming the woman (or man) God created you to be doesn’t happen overnight. It happens one decision, one mindset shift, and one step of faith at a time. And day by day… you become her.

  1. 1d ago ·  Bonus

    Hey You - Uncomfortable Doesn’t Mean You’re on the Wrong Path

    Hey you—you were never put on this earth to make sure everyone likes you. You weren't called to be understood by everyone, supported by everyone, or to spend your life people-pleasing just to keep the peace. You were called to make peace, not simply keep it. God gave you a purpose. And if that purpose was specifically designed for you, you have to expect that there will be people who don't understand it. People who don't support it. People who question you. Maybe even people who don't like the version of you that obedience requires you to become. That doesn't automatically mean you're doing something wrong. In this Hey You episode, we're talking about people-pleasing, purpose, the difference between being a peacekeeper and a peacemaker, and why following God's direction can sometimes feel incredibly uncomfortable. You have a job to do here. And you can't spend your entire life asking people who weren't given your assignment for permission to fulfill it. So when it gets uncomfortable, don't immediately assume you took a wrong turn. Sometimes obedience is uncomfortable. Sometimes purpose is misunderstood. Keep going anyway. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You - Uncomfortable Doesn’t Mean You’re on the Wrong Path

  2. 4d ago

    I Think We’re Distracting Ourselves From Our Own Lives

    When was the last time you were actually still? No phone. No music. No podcast. No scrolling. No productivity. No constant stream of someone else’s thoughts filling your head. Just… still. In this episode, we’re talking about something I’ve been noticing in my own life: I don’t think we know how to be bored anymore—and I think it’s affecting us more than we realize. We’re constantly consuming, comparing, scrolling, working, listening, watching, and filling every quiet moment with something. Then we wonder why we’re exhausted, why we don’t know what we actually want, and sometimes… why we can’t hear God. But what if God isn’t always being quiet? What if everything else is just really loud? We’re talking about the difference between resting and actually giving your mind rest, why we may use distraction to avoid what comes up in the silence, what Jesus modeled for us about intentionally withdrawing from the noise, and how easy it is to become so consumed with everyone else’s life that we stop being present for our own. Because your life isn’t waiting for you somewhere in the future. It’s happening in the ordinary Tuesday. The drive home. The morning coffee. The conversation with someone you love. The season you’re in right now. Don’t become so distracted waiting for your life to happen that you miss the fact that it already is. Maybe becoming who God created you to be doesn’t always require doing more. Maybe sometimes it requires getting quiet enough to hear Him—and being present enough to actually experience the life He’s already given you. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

  3. Sep 26 ·  Bonus

    Hey You - Don’t Let Impatience Make the Decision for You

    Hey you—just because you're scared it won't happen for you doesn't mean you need to settle for what's available right now. Maybe you're watching everyone else move forward while you feel like you're falling behind. They're getting married, finding their people, building careers, having families, reaching milestones—and you're starting to wonder if you're missing your chance. That fear can make almost anything start looking like an answer to prayer. But not everything that shows up is from God. In this Hey You episode, we're talking about what can happen when impatience starts making our decisions for us, why fear of missing out can convince us to lower our standards, and how the enemy can use a counterfeit that looks almostright to distract us from God's best. I'm also walking you through the five non-negotiables I believe you need to know before you're faced with the decision—because it's a lot easier to recognize what isn't for you when you've already decided what you refuse to compromise. You are not behind. You are not running out of time. And you don't have to grab something simply because you're afraid nothing better is coming. Sometimes waiting requires more faith than saying yes. Don't let your fear of missing out convince you to settle for something God never asked you to choose. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You - Don’t Let Impatience Make the Decision for You

  4. Sep 23

    What If You Make the Wrong Decision?

    What if you make the wrong decision? What if you misunderstand God, choose the wrong door, move somewhere you weren’t supposed to, take the opportunity that doesn’t work out, or make a choice you eventually regret? I think sometimes we put so much pressure on ourselves to perfectly figure out God’s will that following Him becomes less about trust and more about being terrified of getting it wrong. In this episode, we’re talking about decision-making, discernment, our need for certainty, and the fear that one wrong choice could somehow derail the life God has for us. Because maybe you’re not actually afraid of making the wrong decision. Maybe you’re afraid of getting the wrong outcome. You want God to give you direction—but you also want Him to guarantee that it’ll work, you won’t fail, you won’t get hurt, and you won’t regret it. But faith was never supposed to give us control over the future. Sometimes God gives us enough light for the next step without showing us the entire road. And even if you do get something wrong, you are not beyond God’s ability to redirect you. You don’t need enough clarity to control the outcome. You need enough trust to take the next faithful step. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

  5. Sep 19 ·  Bonus

    Hey You - The Long Way Is Not the Wrong Way

    Hey you—are you starting to wonder why it's taking God so long? You've prayed. You've waited. You've watched other people receive the things you've been asking for. And maybe you're starting to wonder if God heard you at all. But what if taking longer doesn't mean you're going the wrong way? In this Hey You episode, I'm reminding you that the long way is not the wrong way. Sometimes the journey is longer because God isn't only preparing the blessing—He's drawing you closer to Him in the process. Think about giving someone you love a birthday present. If you could, wouldn't you rather hand it to them yourself than put it in the mail? That's the picture I want you to think about. Sometimes we're asking God, “Why haven't You given this to me yet?” while He's saying, “Come closer.” Maybe the waiting isn't evidence that God has forgotten you. Maybe there's something He's building in you, teaching you, or drawing you toward before you arrive at the thing you've been praying for. Don't become so consumed with receiving the blessing that you miss the relationship with the One giving it. The long way is not the wrong way—and sometimes the greatest thing God gives you along the way is a deeper relationship with Him. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You - The Long Way Is Not the Wrong Way

  6. Sep 16

    What If the Life You Want Requires a Different Version of You?

    What if the life you keep praying for doesn’t just require different circumstances… what if it requires a different version of you? We pray for peace, purpose, healthier relationships, deeper faith, confidence, discipline, community, and change—but sometimes we’re asking God to change our lives while holding tightly to the same habits, mindsets, patterns, and relationships that are keeping us where we are. In this episode, we’re talking about the uncomfortable side of becoming: pruning, outgrowing old versions of ourselves, letting go of what’s familiar, and recognizing that transformation requires our participation. Because some versions of you were built to survive a season—but they were never meant to lead you into the next one. We’ll talk about what John 15 teaches us about pruning, why the Israelites could leave Egypt while still carrying an “Egypt mindset,” renewing our minds in Romans 12, and what the fruit of the Spirit teaches us about what real growth actually looks like. This isn’t about becoming perfect, earning God’s blessings, or believing everything in your life is your fault. It’s about having enough grace for who you’ve been while still having the courage to ask: Who am I becoming? Maybe becoming her isn’t one giant transformation. Maybe it’s thousands of small, faithful decisions that slowly start agreeing with the woman God created you to be. So before you ask God to change what’s around you, ask yourself: What am I holding onto that can’t come with me where He’s taking me? And what’s one decision you can make today that agrees with the woman you’re becoming? Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

  7. Sep 12 ·  Bonus

    Hey You - What If God Already Answered Your Prayer?

    Hey you—what if God already answered the prayer you keep asking Him for? Maybe you've been praying for patience, so God gave you a situation that requires you to practice it. You prayed for courage, so He gave you something that scares you. You prayed for community, but the people He brought into your life don't look like the people you expected. You prayed for love, and He started teaching you how to receive it—or how to give it. You prayed for a simpler life, and He started removing things you thought you needed. Sometimes we don't recognize God's blessings because we've already decided what they're supposed to look like. In this Hey You episode, we're talking about the prayers God may be answering in unexpected ways and why His provision doesn't always arrive in the package we pictured. Maybe God hasn't been ignoring you. Maybe the answer is already sitting in front of you—and you've been overlooking it because it doesn't look the way you thought it would. Don't become so attached to your version of the answer that you miss God's. Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You - What If God Already Answered Your Prayer?

  8. Sep 5 ·  Bonus

    Hey You - Your Pain Doesn’t Get to Keep You

    Hey you—if you're hurting and you don't know how to let go of what happened, this is for you. I know moving forward isn't as simple as deciding not to hurt anymore. But the longer we hold onto the anger, resentment, bitterness, heartbreak, and pain, the longer we allow what happened to us to have power over who we're becoming. And eventually, we can become so consumed by what hurt us that we stop recognizing ourselves. In this Hey You episode, I'm talking about what it means to finally loosen your grip on the pain you've been carrying, why the enemy would love nothing more than for your hurt to steal your joy and your light, and why letting go doesn't mean pretending what happened didn't matter. I also want us to look at Jesus. Jesus knew what was ahead of Him. He knew the betrayal, rejection, suffering, and ultimately the cross were coming—and yet He still loved. He still served. He still brought hope. He still walked in purpose. He was still a light. Your pain is real. What happened to you matters. And healing may take time. But your hurt doesn't deserve to become your identity. You can acknowledge what happened without allowing it to determine who you become next. Maybe letting go isn't saying, “It didn't hurt.” Maybe it's saying, “It hurt—but it doesn't get to have me anymore.” Support the show If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs it. And if you’re working on your faith, your mindset, and becoming the woman God created you to be, make sure you follow The Becoming Her Podcast so you don’t miss what’s coming next. For more, connect with me on social media @jessica_young09 💡 If you’re ready to go deeper and start building real confidence and discipline in your life, you can apply for coaching here: https://forms.gle/DpeuFgd9pusyYoe58 Join my FREE online Bible Study:  https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-the-word-4259/about

    Hey You - Your Pain Doesn’t Get to Keep You
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Welcome to The Becoming Her Podcast with Jessica Young. I’m so glad you’re here. A little about me — I’m someone who’s deeply passionate about helping women grow into the strongest version of themselves mentally, physically, and spiritually. Faith is the center of everything I do, and through coaching, fitness, and the conversations I’ve had with women over the years, I’ve seen how much our mindset, our habits, and our relationship with God shape the direction of our lives. I’ve also learned that a lot of us feel the same things at different points in life — stuck, overwhelmed, unsure of where we’re going, or feeling like we were made for more but not knowing how to get there. That’s exactly why this podcast exists. Each week we talk about real life — faith, mindset, discipline, relationships, confidence, health, and personal growth — the things that truly shape the woman you’re becoming. Some episodes will feel like encouragement you didn’t know you needed. Some will challenge the way you think. And some will simply remind you that you’re not walking through life alone. Think of this podcast like sitting down with a friend who genuinely wants to see you grow, believes in who you’re becoming, and is here to help you move forward with stronger faith, more confidence, and a clearer sense of purpose. And if you’re a guy who somehow found your way here… welcome and don't worry I will be talking about things that will apply to you too. So, yes, you’re still allowed to listen — you might even learn a thing or two about the women in your life. Becoming the woman (or man) God created you to be doesn’t happen overnight. It happens one decision, one mindset shift, and one step of faith at a time. And day by day… you become her.

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