Embodied Love Lounge

Embodied Love
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EMBODIED LOVE LOUNGE PODCAST Welcome to the Official Spotify Channel for Embodied Love, a collaborative co-created channel where Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael share leading-edge insights on women's & men's health, sensuality, sexuality, & relationships. Join us as we Make Intimacy Simple & Change The Way The World Makes Love. Twice per month, we will release a NEW PODCAST where we share evocative concepts and practical tips you can immediately apply to get instant results.

  1. Sep 26

    EP 72: Out of Africa: Relational Lessons from the WILD

    Walk toward the lions. Read the wind. Trust your senses. Know when to lead. Know when to follow. And NEVER assume you know what happens next. That’s how Big C moves through the African wilderness. Now bring those same instincts into sex, love and relationship. Fresh from 10 days in the wild, Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael sit down with Sicelo “Big C” Mbatha, wilderness guide and author of Black Lion, and discover just how much the wild has to teach us about being human. Why do we stop truly seeing someone we’ve loved for years? Why can trying to recreate great sex get in the way of great sex? And what can lions and elephants teach us about power, protection, cooperation and leadership? As Big C shares how he navigates a world where everything is alive, changing and communicating, Dr. Saida stops him: “Every word you said can be translated to the bedroom.” Lions. Sex. Power. Intuition. Partnership. The wilderness. This conversation goes places you won’t expect. We put it into practice. Aaron Michael had just tried intimate waxing for the first time. He was tender, turned on, and suddenly some of our usual ways of playing were off the table. So what do you do when you want each other... but the usual trail is closed? You’ll listen in as we negotiate new boundaries, read each other’s bodies in real time, adapt when something doesn’t feel the way we expect, and get creative with the pleasure that IS available. The lesson of the wild, made flesh: Stop assuming you know the trail. Pay attention. Adapt. 👉 UPGRADE TO THE MEMBERS EXPERIENCE + HEAR THE EROTIC INSERT: https://learning.embodiedloveuniversity.com/podcasts  GET BIG C’S BOOK → https://www.amazon.com/dp/177619148X EXPERIENCE THE WILD WITH US IN AUGUST 2027 → https://EmbodiedLoveUniversity.com/africa AND IN THE MEMBERS-ONLY EROTIC INSERT...

    EP 72: Out of Africa: Relational Lessons from the WILD

  2. Sep 12

    EP 71: She Doesn’t Want Less Sex. She Wants Better Sex. | One-Night Stands & the Orgasm Gap

    Let’s kill this tired idea that women simply want sex less than men. If a one-night stand offered you a tiny chance of orgasm and a much bigger chance of pregnancy, disease, judgment, shame, pain, or disappointment, would you be excited by the invitation? Exactly. Men and women are not being offered the same meal. One may expect a ”four-star” experience. The other is being handed “cold ravioli” from a can and told she must not be hungry. In this episode, we examine what college sex and the orgasm gap reveal about desire. More importantly, we show you why this problem does not end when college does. The same pattern follows people into long-term relationships, where years of unsatisfying sex can look like a mysterious “death of libido.” Maybe your desire didn’t disappear. Maybe your body simply learned that what comes next isn’t worth getting excited about. We break down the five foundations that can change that: • Understanding your anatomy as a living system of pleasure• Moving your body instead of waiting for someone else to perform pleasure on you• Building relaxed arousal instead of racing toward release• Feeling your yes, your no, and your way through a maybe• Using your mind to intensify pleasure instead of watching yourself perform Then we take the gloves off in the members-only section. Aaron Michael reveals why his early sexual experiences were radically different from the three-minute encounters his college friends described. Dr. Saida shares how she explored one-night stands without surrendering her pleasure, safety, boundaries, or dignity. We talk about choosing someone for an erotic experience without pretending it must become a relationship, and why clear beginnings, middles, and endings make it easier to be fully present. We also share what happened when our own body mechanics failed during sex on an unstable riverbed, and how changing the environment turned a painful experience into pleasure. That’s the point. Good sex is not magic. Bad sex is not destiny. Your body responds to what is actually happening. And in the erotic audio insert, you’ll hear what happens when two people stop performing sex and begin creating it together.

    EP 71: She Doesn’t Want Less Sex. She Wants Better Sex. | One-Night Stands & the Orgasm Gap

  3. Aug 29

    EP 70: What Men Need To Know About "The Change"

    You’re on opposite ends of the couch, and neither of you is going to be the one to close the gap. Episode 70 traces how you got here, the shift from teammates to competitors, the quiet withholding, the honeymoon phase everyone blames instead of the years of small transactions that followed it. •        Learn why “taking one for the team” quietly kills desire for both people •        Learn the difference between being teammates and being competitors in bed •        Learn why the honeymoon phase was never built to last, and what replaces it if you let it •        Learn why your partner doesn’t know what to do when your body changes, and why that’s not a character flaw •        Learn why there’s no expiry date on your sex life, no matter your age And then they took this discussion into the bedroom. Something we can’t share here… is the behind-the-scenes story that reveals the actual touch, breath, and hands-on skill Aaron Michael teaches men one-on-one, the kind that restores blood flow and brings a body back to life. Click here when you’re ready to learn what to do when your partner says no, so the yes can actually arrive – EmbodiedLoveUniversity.com

    EP 70: What Men Need To Know About "The Change"

  4. Aug 15

    EP 69: 69: Love it or Hate It

    She hated it for years. Not "wasn't sure about it." Hated it. This is Dr. Saida telling you exactly why. Two bodies, tangled, mouths where mouths politely shouldn't go, it looks like the peak of intimacy. Then you try it, and your neck aches, and you're choking, and you start wondering what's wrong with you. Nothing is. This episode is Dr. Saida finally telling the whole truth.  As the commercial says, “But wait, there’s more!” Let’s have a peek behind the paywall of the Member’s only episode… Get the exact hip and hand signals that turn 69 from clumsy into electric Learn the standing variation Dr. Saida calls one of her all-time favorites Discover how to solve the height-and-weight mismatch that ruins this position for most couples Get coached through the transitions that keep you from ever feeling stuck or pinned Hear a real, unscripted moment between Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael that closes out the episode, not a performance, just them Open the door to more at EmbodiedLoveUniversity.com

    EP 69: 69: Love it or Hate It

  5. Aug 1

    EP 68: Post Nut Clarity: The Myth of Making Better Sexual Choices

    What if sexual desire could make you clearer instead of more impulsive? “Post nut clarity” has become shorthand for the moment when sexual urgency disappears and supposedly sensible decision-making returns. But what if getting rid of the charge is not the same as developing erotic maturity? Dr. Saida and Aaron Michael challenge the idea that desire itself is the problem. They explore the difference between sympathetic arousal, which can narrow your focus, and relaxed arousal, which can expand your senses, presence, and ability to choose. You’ll discover why horniness is not the same as mate selection, how your self-pleasure habits may influence the partners you choose, and why racing toward release can train your body for disconnection, depletion, and diminishing desire. This conversation offers a different possibility: learning to remain grounded while aroused, enjoy sexual tension without immediately eliminating it, and use erotic energy to support discernment, creativity, intimacy, and long-term romance. Listen free, then continue your exploration inside Embodied Love University, where Playful Explorers can access this episode, more than 60 past episodes, foundational lessons, and freemium content.

    EP 68: Post Nut Clarity: The Myth of Making Better Sexual Choices

  6. Jul 18

    EP 67: Why Crying in Your Men’s Circle Isn’t Getting You Laid

    You can be emotionally open and still be erotically lost. In EP 67, we talk about the pressure men carry to know what to do in bed without ever being taught how to listen, respond, receive feedback, or stay present when the moment changes. Aaron Michael shares what he learned from men around the world, including men inside a maximum-security prison who were moved to tears when they spoke about wanting to better love the women who mattered to them. We explore why technique is not the same as mastery, why pornography creates impossible expectations, why women often stop telling the truth about what their bodies want, and why sexual maturity begins when you can direct your desire instead of being driven by it. This is not only a conversation for men. It is for you if you have ever stayed quiet to protect someone’s ego. It is for you if you have ever pretended to know because asking felt too vulnerable. It is for you if you want intimacy to feel less like performance and more like two people becoming honest, responsive, and alive together. Press play and discover what changes when you stop trying to look confident and start learning how to truly meet the person in front of you. The free episode gives you the conversation. But the moment you really want to hear happens in the Erotic Insert. You hear Dr. Saida’s body wake up in real time. You hear her give Aaron Michael direct feedback. You hear him adjust without pulling away, getting defensive, or breaking the moment. You hear the pauses. The circles. The changes in pressure, rhythm, breath, and movement. Most importantly, you hear what responsive intimacy actually sounds like when two people stop performing and start listening. Step inside as a Curious Explorer for $9.97 per month and hear the part we cannot share publicly, including this Erotic Insert and the full explicit library.  Come hear the how, not just the theory. BECOME A CURIOUS EXPLORER

    EP 67: Why Crying in Your Men’s Circle Isn’t Getting You Laid

  7. Jul 4

    EP 66: Ride Your Own Pleasure

    You've probably heard the statistic. "Most women only orgasm from external stimulation." But what if that's not your body's limit... only your conditioning? Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida unpack one of the most widespread beliefs in modern sexuality and explore how education, culture, commercial interests, and lived experience all shape what women believe is possible. If you've ever wondered whether your body is capable of more, this conversation is your invitation to stop accepting limitations and start listening to your own embodied intelligence. Join us Embodied Love University to hear the Members Episode, practical stories, and the exclusive Erotic Insert.

    EP 66: Ride Your Own Pleasure

  8. Jun 20

    EP 65: Cervical Sex: What's in it for him?

    What if cervical sex is not just about her? In this episode of the Embodied Love® Lounge, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida explore one of the most misunderstood territories in intimacy: the cervix as part of pleasure, not just reproduction, pain, or medical exams. Most men have only been given two terrible options: avoid the cervix completely, or hurt her by going too hard, too fast, too deep. There is another way. In this episode, Aaron Michael and Dr. Saida unpack what cervical sex actually is, why it matters, why “hitting the cervix” is not mastery, and what becomes possible when a man learns how to meet her body with real attunement. This episode is for the man who wants to stop performing and start truly feeling. It is for the woman who wants her body met, not managed. And it is for anyone who knows there is more to sex than friction, pressure, and guessing. If you want to go deeper and learn the HOW: upgrade with a Curious Explorer membership at EmbodiedLove.love You'll learn the breath, leadership, lower-back support, open-front-body positioning, movement, psyche, real-life stories, and get access to an erotic insert where the teaching becomes embodied in real time as Aaron Michael enjoys the joy of Dr. Saida’s cervix.

    EP 65: Cervical Sex: What's in it for him?
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EMBODIED LOVE LOUNGE PODCAST Welcome to the Official Spotify Channel for Embodied Love, a collaborative co-created channel where Dr. Saida Désilets and Aaron Michael share leading-edge insights on women's & men's health, sensuality, sexuality, & relationships. Join us as we Make Intimacy Simple & Change The Way The World Makes Love. Twice per month, we will release a NEW PODCAST where we share evocative concepts and practical tips you can immediately apply to get instant results.

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  • Creator
    Embodied Love
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    72
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Embodied Love
  • Show Website
    Embodied Love Lounge

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