The Inner Compass Podcast with Vanessa Bennett

Gamut Podcast Network

NEW PODCAST SERIES HOSTED BY VANESSA BENNETT: COMING SOON Vanessa Bennett, LMFT, is a licensed depth psychotherapist, author, and facilitator known for her no-nonsense yet compassionate approach to healing. She’s the author of The Motherhood Myth and coauthor of It’s Not Me, It’s You, and the founder of Inner Compass Academy. She hosts the Inner Compass Podcast, where she explores the intersection of depth psychology, relationships, and cultural conditioning to support personal and collective liberation.

  1. 09/15/2025

    Ep 246 THE EGO DEATHS ARE INEVITABLE

    ..the growth that comes from them is optional. In this week’s episode, Vanessa and Dené  talk about the extent to which 2025 has felt like - to many - one enormous ego death, what that means, and why this is a crucial aspect of our collective healing process.  we talk about: how life is changing pushing us to separate our essence from our adapted survival strategies or what we’ve been calling our personality why it becomes important to honor other people’s process - even if we experience them as bypassing the ‘truth’ of where we believe they should be how we can start to view life’s difficult moments and relationships as an invitation to expand through what might actually be an initiatory cycle or ego death the extent to which we are experiencing an collective ego death as human race  ..and so much more!  Don’t forget to follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode. You can also follow along on Instagram and YouTube! Connect with Vanessa: Instagram: @vanessasbennettWebsite: vanessabennett.comTikTok: @itsvanessabennett Connect with Dené: Instagram: @dene.loganWebsite: denelogan.comTikTok: @denelogan Again, don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!  If you're interested in being one of our live anonymous coaching episodes, you can apply at the link in the show notes. And follow or subscribe to our IG, TT or YouTube. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    51 min
  2. 09/08/2025

    Ep 245: The Lie We Were Sold: Motherhood, Partnership, and the Cost of Performing

    In the first installment of one of our new solo series, Vanessa kicks off with a core theme from her new book The Motherhood Myth: The Lie We Were Sold—the cultural script that says partnership and motherhood should be inherently easy and endlessly fulfilling…and if they aren’t, you must be doing it wrong. Vanessa traces how that story keeps us isolated, ashamed, and over-functioning, and why naming it is the first step to reclaiming a solid sense of Self. We discuss: How a shared season of overstimulation, depletion, and “Who am I anymore?” sparked this bookThe lie itself—and how it feeds codependency, self-abandonment, and the “performing for belonging” loopDominator systems 101: patriarchy, capitalism, and why shame is such an effective control mechanismWhat changes when you build from capital-S Self: less personalization, more ownership, real agencyTwo journal prompts to begin untangling your inherited myths (about “good mother / partner / woman / person”)An invitation to help name this solo mini-series + what’s coming next (“Ego Explosion”) We would love to hear from you: What is the lie you were sold about partnership, motherhood, womanhood—or being a “good” person?How was shame used to keep you performing that role? Don’t forget to follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode. You can also follow along on Instagram and YouTube! Connect with Vanessa: Instagram: @vanessasbennettWebsite: vanessabennett.comTikTok: @itsvanessabennett Connect with Dené: Instagram: @dene.loganWebsite: denelogan.comTikTok: @denelogan Again, don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!  If you're interested in being one of our live anonymous coaching episodes, you can apply at the link in the show notes. And follow or subscribe to our IG, TT or YouTube. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    21 min
  3. 08/18/2025

    Ep 242: AI and the Invitation Inward

    We’re back and so excited to share with you all some of the conversations we’ve been having offline. This week, we explore some of the current conversations we’ve heard coming up around AI, the tie it will play in how we meet one another relationally, and what the larger invitation may be for all of us in this rapidly changing world.   we discuss: the uptick of people replacing a therapeutic relationship with their use of chat GPT how we might see the rise in technology as being a catalyst for cultivating a more intimate relationship with the human capabilities that cannot be outsourced what it will look like to balance the reality that AI is here and something we will have to negotiate a personal relationship with, to continuing to prioritize connecting with other humans..and so much more!  Don’t forget to follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode. You can also follow along with the show on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube! And look out for all new episodes of Cheaper than Therapy on August 11!  Connect with Vanessa: Instagram: @vanessasbennettWebsite: vanessabennett.comTikTok: @itsvanessabennett Connect with Dené: Instagram: @dene.loganWebsite: denelogan.comTikTok: @deneloganAgain, don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!  If you're interested in being one of our live anonymous coaching episodes, you can apply at the link in the show notes. And follow or subscribe to our IG, TT or YouTube. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    34 min
  4. 08/11/2025

    Ep 241: The Deeper Layers with Dads | Cheaper Than Therapy Podcast with Vanessa Bennett and Dene Logan

    Cheaper than Therapy is back for season 4!! And we couldn’t be more excited to kick things off with a live recording (and celebration of the launch of Vanessa’s new book, The Motherhood Myth) we did with two of our favorite dads - and friends - Dr. Adi Jaffe and Nicholas Gonzalez. Adi is an addiction & mental health expert, and founder of IGNTD. Nick is an actor, father, and advocate for conscious masculinity. They are also two dads doing the work of taking so much personal responsibility for their growth as men and fathers. We sat down to talk with Adi and Nick about: finding self-compassion and what it looks like to do the conscious work of repairing as a parent how to avoid the trap of parentified dynamics with your partner the often unaddressed desire to feel valued as men and whether or not that equates to ‘needing’ the women in their lives reimagining privilege in a society where we’ve lost track of what it means to support one another in community ..and so much more! Connect with Adi: https://www.adijaffe.com/ (Website) Connect with Nick on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/eltexmex/ Instagram We are so excited to be back! Don’t forget to follow and subscribe so you never miss an episode. You can also follow along with the show on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube! And look out for all new episodes of Cheaper than Therapy on August 11! This podcast is, for sure, Cheaper Than Therapy. Connect with Vanessa:     •    Instagram: @vanessasbennett (https://www.instagram.com/vanessasbennett/)     •    Website: vanessabennett.com     •    TikTok: @ (https://www.tiktok.com/@thecodayoda)itsvanessabennett Connect with Dené:     •    Instagram: @dene.logan (https://www.instagram.com/dene.logan/)     •    Website: denelogan.com     •    TikTok: @denelogan (https://www.tiktok.com/@denelogan) Again, don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!  If you're interested in being one of our live anonymous coaching episodes, you can apply at the link in the show notes. And follow or subscribe to our IG, TT or YouTube. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1h 11m

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NEW PODCAST SERIES HOSTED BY VANESSA BENNETT: COMING SOON Vanessa Bennett, LMFT, is a licensed depth psychotherapist, author, and facilitator known for her no-nonsense yet compassionate approach to healing. She’s the author of The Motherhood Myth and coauthor of It’s Not Me, It’s You, and the founder of Inner Compass Academy. She hosts the Inner Compass Podcast, where she explores the intersection of depth psychology, relationships, and cultural conditioning to support personal and collective liberation.