The Black Belt in Leadership

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Welcome to The Black Belt in Leadership Podcast, hosted by Aslak de Silva. Tune in to discover how martial arts principles like discipline, resilience, and continuous learning can transform your leadership skills. Each episode will delve into real-life examples, practical advice, and inspirational stories to help you become a black belt in leadership. Join Aslak as he explores the path to peak performance and success in both personal and professional arenas.

  1. 3d ago

    Are You Resilient or Just Staying Operational? With Eric “LG” Longoria

    What does it really mean to build resilience before life puts you under pressure? In this episode of The Black Belt in Leadership, Aslak de Silva speaks with Eric “LG” Longoria, a United States Army veteran, two-time international bestselling author, public speaker, and Breakthrough Strategist. Eric shares how his transition from military service forced him to rethink what it means to stay “mission-ready.” They discuss the difference between surviving pressure and truly adapting to it, recognizing the signals your mind and body are sending you, and strengthening your internal operating system before difficult moments arrive. The conversation also explores Eric’s experience with controlled discomfort through an ice plunge, the loss of his younger brother and how grief changed his direction, and why returning to speak in his hometown brought old patterns back to the surface. You will hear practical ideas around resilience, self-leadership, adaptation, personal growth, pressure, identity, and after-action reflection, including how difficult experiences can become useful data for your next step rather than simply something to endure. Key topics: resilience under pressure, leadership resilience, self-leadership, personal operating systems, adaptation, military leadership, grief and growth, nervous system awareness, mental resilience, and personal development. About Eric LongoriaAfter serving in the United States Army, Eric “LG” Longoria transitioned into the roles of husband, father, and civilian, beginning a personal transformation that reshaped how he understood himself, human behavior, and the patterns influencing our lives. Eric is a two-time international bestselling author, public speaker, and Breakthrough Strategist who shares his journey from survival to self-knowing. As founder of Breakthrough Global, he works with professionals ready to INNERstand their personal operating systems, recalibrate their direction, and make more deliberate decisions. To learn more, visit:https://www.theblackbeltinleadership.com/ Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:https://missionmatters.com/author/aslak-de-silva/

  2. Aug 4

    AI, Cognitive Overload and the Future of Work with Shashidhar Sharma

    In this episode of The Black Belt in Leadership, Aslak de Silva speaks with Shashidhar Sharma, Country Head of AWA India, workplace strategist, change management expert, and author of Work and Workplace at the Edge of Intelligence. Shashidhar brings more than three decades of experience in helping organizations rethink how people work, how workplaces support performance, and how leaders should respond when technology, human behavior, and organizational change are moving at the same time. This conversation explores the future of work from a different angle. Instead of focusing only on AI tools, productivity hacks, or hybrid work policies, Shashidhar explains why leaders need to think about the workplace as a cognitive environment. He challenges the old logic of open offices and explains how constant interruptions make deep work and concentration harder. Aslak and Shashidhar discuss why the next stage of workplace strategy is not only about physical wellbeing, office design, or technology, but about making the human brain more productive, creative, intuitive, and empathetic. Shashidhar shares his “four-cylinder” view of the brain: intelligence, physicality, intuition, and empathy, and explains why organizations that focus only on intelligence risk burnout and underperformance. The episode also covers one of the most important leadership questions in the AI era: how can leaders use AI without outsourcing their own judgment, memory, and critical thinking? Shashidhar argues that leaders and professionals need to become deeply skilled in their core area, then use AI as a partner rather than becoming dependent on it. Listeners will learn why companies should redesign work before adding AI, what leaders often misunderstand about productivity, how cognitive overload affects decision-making, and why human capabilities such as empathy, intuition, focus, and deep expertise may become even more valuable in the future of work. To learn more, visit:https://www.theblackbeltinleadership.com/ Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:https://missionmatters.com/author/aslak-de-silva/

  3. Jul 21

    Leading Through Adversity Without Spreading Anxiety with Denley McIntosh

    How can leaders guide people through uncertainty without transferring their own anxiety to the team? Aslak de Silva speaks with executive coach Denley McIntosh, host of The Coach’s Corner, about leadership under pressure, emotional intelligence, servant leadership, workplace culture, and supporting employees through stress without becoming their therapist. They explore how to balance empathy with accountability, protect people without sacrificing performance, and build a culture where high standards and humanity can coexist. About the Guest: Denley McIntosh is an executive coach, leadership educator, and host of The Coach’s Corner. With a background spanning electrical engineering, theology, HR, sales, and organizational leadership, he helps leaders strengthen emotional intelligence, resilience, workplace culture, and purpose. He is also passionate about supporting young people as they navigate stress and mental health challenges. Learn more about Denley at: The Coach's Corner Podcasthttps://open.spotify.com/show/2RBKawTPG7bMrR0Lk8AyGU?si=a2a495962c9643d1 LinkedInDenley McIntosh, MTS The Coach's Corner Traininghttps://www.mindmarker.com/leading-under-pressure-the-renewiq-master-journey/ IGhttps://www.instagram.com/thecoachescornerpod/ To learn more, visit:https://www.theblackbeltinleadership.com/ Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:https://missionmatters.com/author/aslak-de-silva/

  4. Jun 9

    The Future Has No Patience: Melissa Rosenthal on AI, Hiring, and High-Performance Teams

    Melissa Rosenthal has helped build some of the most recognizable growth stories in modern business, from BuzzFeed and Cheddar to ClickUp and now Outlever. In this episode of The Black Belt in Leadership, we explore what leadership looks like when technology, expectations, and competition are changing faster than ever before. Melissa shares her perspective on building high-performing teams, why creativity often disappears under pressure, how she identifies exceptional talent, and why she believes many traditional organizational structures are becoming obsolete. We also discuss the rise of AI-native employees, what separates people who thrive during periods of rapid change, and why curiosity may be the most valuable career skill of the next decade. In this episode: Why creativity needs structure, not just freedomHow great leaders protect teams from unnecessary pressureWhy middle management may be disappearingThe traits Melissa looks for when hiring top talentWhy passion projects reveal more than a CVHow AI is changing expectations for employeesWhat makes someone "dangerous" in their roleWhy waiting to adapt may be the biggest career risk todayWhether you lead a team, run a company, or are trying to stay relevant in a rapidly changing world, this conversation offers a candid look at the future of work and leadership. About Melissa Rosenthal: Melissa Rosenthal is an entrepreneur, marketing executive, and growth strategist known for helping build and scale some of the most recognized media and technology brands of the past decade. She has held leadership roles at BuzzFeed, Cheddar, and ClickUp, where she led brand, content, and growth initiatives during periods of rapid expansion. Today, she is the Co-Founder and CEO of Outlever, a company focused on helping organizations navigate growth and transformation in the AI era. Melissa is widely recognized for her insights on brand building, talent, leadership, and the future of work, and she regularly shares her perspectives with a large audience on LinkedIn and through her publications. Connect with Melissa RosenthalLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/melissarosenthal/ To learn more, visit:https://www.theblackbeltinleadership.com/ Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:https://missionmatters.com/author/aslak-de-silva/

  5. May 26

    How Leaders Build Learning Organizations with Ilkka Mäkitalo

    In this episode of The Black Belt in Leadership, Ilkka Mäkitalo, co-founder and Chief Evangelist of Howspace, joins the conversation to explore how people really learn, how organizations make sense of change, and why leaders need to rethink the way they communicate strategy, transformation and AI adoption. Ilkka brings a unique perspective from his background as a teacher, facilitator, consultant, entrepreneur and conductor. The discussion explores why meaningful learning often happens through dialogue, reflection and peer-to-peer conversations, not only through formal training sessions, presentations or traditional e-learning. The episode also looks at why leaders cannot assume that people have understood a strategy just because it has been presented to them. Real understanding requires sensemaking. People need the opportunity to connect strategic goals to their own daily work, their teams and their decisions. A key theme in the conversation is participation. Ilkka shares how organizations can involve people at scale, how digital tools and AI can support collective intelligence, and why the real challenge is often not technology, but leadership mindset and organizational culture. The discussion also goes deeper into learning in the age of AI. If companies want people to adopt new tools and new ways of working, learning cannot be treated as a one-off training session. It needs to become a continuous part of how the organization works. Toward the end of the episode, the conversation turns to music and conducting. Ilkka shares what leadership can learn from working with professional musicians, and how leaders can keep talented people motivated by creating meaningful challenges, fresh experiences and a stronger sense of purpose. This episode is for leaders who want to move beyond one-way communication and build organizations where people learn, adapt and perform together. About the Guest: Ilkka Mäkitalo is the co-founder and Chief Evangelist of Howspace, a company focused on helping organizations create more engaging, participatory and collaborative ways of working, learning and developing. His background combines education, facilitation, consulting, entrepreneurship and music, including his long experience as a teacher and conductor. Through his work, Ilkka has spent decades exploring how people learn, how organizations make sense of change, and how technology can support dialogue, participation and collective intelligence Connect with Ilkka Mäkitalo on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ilkkamakitalo/ Learn more about Howspace: https://howspace.com/ To learn more, visit:https://www.theblackbeltinleadership.com/ Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:https://missionmatters.com/author/aslak-de-silva/

  6. Apr 21

    How to Create Luck in Business: Resilience, Opportunity & Leadership with Stephanie Melodia

    Some people seem to get lucky. The right timing, the right connections, the right opportunities appearing at the right moment. But when you look closer, it rarely is just luck. There is usually something underneath it. A way of operating, a way of thinking, and a willingness to stay in the game long enough for those moments to happen. In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Melodia to explore what luck really means in business, and how leaders can actively create the conditions for opportunity. Stephanie shares her thinking around “hacking luck,” combining mindset and action, and we go deeper into topics that are often overlooked. What actually separates those who create opportunities from those who wait for them? How much of success is within our control, and what happens when things don’t go our way? We also explore the role of resilience, the impact of mindset, and how subtle shifts in behavior and thinking can either open doors or quietly close them. This is a conversation about leadership beyond strategy. It is about how you show up, how you think, and how you operate when the outcome is not yet clear. More info on Stephania Melody: https://www.stephaniemelodia.com/ Podcasts: Strategy & Tragedy: CEO Stories: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strategy-tragedy-ceo-stories-with-steph-melodia/id1711083280Instagram: @stephmelodiaLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stephmelodia-keynotespeaker/ About the Guest Stephanie Melodia, a British entrepreneur, startup marketing strategist, and keynote speaker known for her work in growth marketing, brand building, and entrepreneurship. She’s the founder of the award-winning marketing agency Bloom, has been recognized as one of the Top 20 Most Influential Female Founders, and also hosts Strategy & Tragedy: CEO Stories, a UK Top 20 business podcast. To learn more, visit:https://www.theblackbeltinleadership.com/ Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:https://missionmatters.com/author/aslak-de-silva/

  7. Mar 31

    Leading Under Pressure: Calm, Chaos, and Leadership Presence with M.K. Palmore

    What happens to leadership when pressure rises and situations start to feel chaotic? In this episode of The Black Belt in Leadership, Aslak de Silva speaks with M.K. Palmore, former U.S. Marine Corps officer, former FBI leader, and founder of Apogee Global. The discussion focuses on how experienced leaders stay calm, make decisions, and guide teams when uncertainty is high. Drawing from more than 30 years in high stakes environments, M.K. shares how preparation, experience, and discipline shape the way leaders respond when the pressure is real. The conversation explores the difference between complexity and chaos, why leadership presence matters when teams feel anxious, and how resilience develops through experience rather than theory. Aslak also connects the discussion to lessons from martial arts and high pressure situations, highlighting how leaders can train their minds to respond calmly even when circumstances are unpredictable. This is a practical conversation about leadership judgment, communication, and responsibility. It also explores why the best leaders slow down and think clearly when everyone else begins to rush. In this episode we discuss: What pressure reveals about leaders The difference between complexity and chaos in leadershipHow leaders develop calm decision making under pressureWhy communication and briefings matter when stakes are highLeadership presence and owning the roomHow resilience is built through real experienceWhy leadership should be treated as a discipline that must be studied About the Guest M.K. Palmore is the Founder and Principal Advisor of Apogee Global. His career spans more than three decades of leadership experience across the U.S. Marine Corps, the FBI, and senior roles in the private sector. Today he advises executives and boards on leadership, risk, and organizational resilience, and regularly speaks on leadership and decision-making in complex environments. To learn more, visit:https://www.theblackbeltinleadership.com/ Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:https://missionmatters.com/author/aslak-de-silva/

  8. Mar 17

    From Doubt to Clarity: The Real Leadership Journey with Marc A. Pitman

    Leadership is rarely something people are formally trained for.Most leaders grow into the role through performance, promotion, and responsibility only to discover that leadership becomes more complex over time, not easier.In this episode of The Black Belt in Leadership, host Aslak de Silva speaks with leadership coach, executive advisor, and author Marc A. Pitman about the hidden challenges leaders face as they progress in their careers.Drawing from more than two decades of coaching founders, executives, and mission-driven organizations, Marc shares why many high-performing leaders experience uncertainty, exhaustion, or loss of clarity — even when they appear successful from the outside.Together, they explore: Why leadership often feels harder after successThe reality of becoming a leader without formal trainingHow leaders move from imitation to authentic leadershipThe role of self-awareness and leadership assessmentsHow continuous reflection — and emerging AI-supported feedback — may change leadership developmentWhy burnout often comes from leading against your natural strengthsHow experienced leaders regain clarity, energy, and focusMarc introduces his Quadrant Leadership framework, explaining how leaders evolve through different stages of confidence, learning, and self-understanding — and why leadership growth is rarely linear.Throughout the conversation, Aslak connects leadership development with lessons from martial arts, showing how recovery, reflection, and disciplined pauses help leaders make better decisions under pressure.This episode is especially relevant for executives, founders, managers, and aspiring leaders navigating uncertainty, growth, and increasing responsibility.If leadership sometimes feels heavier than expected, you’re not alone — and you may be closer to leadership mastery than you think. About the Guest Marc A. Pitman is the founder of Concord Leadership Group and co-founder of EWTS Coaching. He has served as its CEO for 20 years leadership. He is a coach, executive advisor, and bestselling author. To learn more, visit:https://www.theblackbeltinleadership.com/ Listen to more episodes on Mission Matters:https://missionmatters.com/author/aslak-de-silva/

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Welcome to The Black Belt in Leadership Podcast, hosted by Aslak de Silva. Tune in to discover how martial arts principles like discipline, resilience, and continuous learning can transform your leadership skills. Each episode will delve into real-life examples, practical advice, and inspirational stories to help you become a black belt in leadership. Join Aslak as he explores the path to peak performance and success in both personal and professional arenas.

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