Parenting Shrink Wrapped

Samantha Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner

Parenting Shrink Wrapped is your all-access pass to the wild and wonderful journey of raising kids! Hosted by Dr. Melissa Wellner, a double board-certified psychiatrist and child and adolescent psychiatrist, and Samantha Straub, a licensed therapist, educator, and parenting coach, this dynamic duo brings a perfect mix of professional expertise and mom humor. With five kids between them—and thousands more they’ve supported in their professional roles—they’re here to share practical strategies and real-life stories that will help you navigate everything from tantrums to teen drama. Whether you're handling sleepless nights or the chaos of carpool, you'll find relatable advice and a good laugh along the way. Strap in, because parenting is a ride, and we're here to make it a little smoother!

  1. 4d ago ·  Video

    Separation Anxiety in Kids: How to Offer Comfort and Build Confidence

    Send us Fan Mail Separation anxiety doesn’t always look like a young child clinging at drop-off. For teenagers, it may show up as constant texting, repeated requests for reassurance, or difficulty participating in overnight trips and other experiences away from home. In this episode, Sam Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner explore what parents can notice–and why it matters to understand the worry underneath the behavior. The co-hosts discuss pairing validation with confidence, keeping goodbyes warm and predictable, and planning communication before a separation. They also explore the parent’s side of the experience and when additional support can help. IN THIS EPISODE: • Considering intensity, duration, developmental stage, and impact on daily life. • Recognizing possible separation-related worries in teens without jumping to conclusions. • Understanding the repeated-reassurance loop. • Offering comfort while holding appropriate boundaries. • Practicing manageable separations and discussing check-ins. • Knowing when to seek support for your teen—or yourself. This Episode Is Sponsored by Lovebug Probiotics Parenting is complicated enough. Supporting your family’s gut health doesn’t have to be. This episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped is brought to you by Lovebug Probiotics, a family-focused probiotic brand with options for kids and adults. Lovebug was founded by a mom on a mission. After co-founder Ashley Harris received broad-spectrum antibiotics during the birth of her son, Hudson, she began learning more about the gut microbiome and the role it plays in our overall health. That journey ultimately inspired Lovebug and its line of probiotics for the whole family. Lovebug offers several kid-friendly options, including infant and toddler drops and powers, and chewables for older kids, as well as adult formulas including Advanced Strength, Immune Support, Mood Support, and blends made JUST for women.* Whether you’re looking for a probiotic for your kids or want to give your own gut a little more attention, you can explore Lovebug’s different formulas and find the option that best fits your family’s needs. Ready to find your Lovebug? Visit here: https://lovebug.com/ Shop Lovebug Probiotics and use code WRAPPED20 for 20% off your first order. These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. These products are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: Read the companion blog here Follow Parenting Shrink Wrapped so you don’t miss an episode, and share this conversation with a parent who could use some support. Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    Separation Anxiety in Kids: How to Offer Comfort and Build Confidence
  2. Oct 12 ·  Video

    How Your Childhood Shows Up in Your Parenting

    Send us Fan Mail You may know what you want to do differently from your own parents. But what happens when that determination becomes pressure to get everything right? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner welcome Julianna Burmesch, author of Life with Less of Me. Julianna shares how a childhood marked by abuse and neglect shaped her experience of motherhood, including her efforts to be a perfect parent and the self-blame she carried when things went wrong. Together, they explore the relationship patterns we bring into adulthood, the experience of seeing other families respond differently, and the support Julianna sought while writing her memoir. This is a conversation about painful experiences, honest reflection, and the possibility of continuing to learn. INSIDE THIS EPISODE: • How childhood experiences can shape expectations about conflict, mistakes, and parenting. • Why doing things differently doesn’t require becoming a perfect parent. • What Julianna learned from watching a family calmly handle spilled milk. • Recognizing the negative messages we give ourselves when parenting is difficult. • Julianna’s experience of trauma therapy and finding a way to tell her story. About Julianna Julianna Burmesch is a former school principal, speech pathologist, early brain development trainer, parent educator, and child advocate. In writing her memoir, “Life with Less of Me” (Books Fluent, June 23, 2026), she wants to help people understand the effects of adverse childhood experiences and unresolved trauma on one's long-term physical and mental health. Julianna is a mother, grandmother, potter, and occasional jewelry artist. She lives in Wisconsin with her husband, John, and her beautiful dogs, Bella and Ruby.  Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    How Your Childhood Shows Up in Your Parenting
  3. Oct 5 ·  Video

    When Their Hearts Break: Helping Kids Through Social Setbacks, Rejection & Breakups

    Send us Fan Mail Your kid gets dumped. Their best friend stops speaking to them. They aren't invited. Or suddenly they're on the outside of the friend group looking in. What should you do? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner tackle one of the hardest parts of parenting: watching your child experience rejection. Sam and Melissa talk about why social rejection can feel enormous to kids and teens, even when adults know the situation probably won't matter years from now. They explain why minimizing the pain doesn't build resilience and why immediately jumping in to fix the situation can sometimes make things worse. You'll hear practical strategies for helping kids identify and tolerate difficult emotions, navigate school and social situations after a rejection, fill the empty spaces left behind after a breakup, and begin separating "I was rejected" from "I am unworthy." They also discuss when parents should step in and the mental health warning signs that may indicate your child needs additional support. In This Episode: Why rejection hits kids and teens so hardSocial exclusion and friendship dramaTeenage romantic breakupsWhy minimizing their feelings backfiresThe difference between validating and pityingWhy calling the other parent is usually not the answerHelping your child plan for school after rejectionBreakups and the grieving processHelping teens fill the holes left in their routineBuilding emotional resilienceSeparating rejection from self-worthWarning signs that your child may need additional helpHow parents can manage their own emotions when their child is hurtingHave an episode idea or follow-up question? Sam and Melissa would love to hear from you at ParentingShrinkWrapped@gmail.com. We love you. We love your kids. Thank you for raising the next generation of world changers. Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    When Their Hearts Break: Helping Kids Through Social Setbacks, Rejection & Breakups
  4. Sep 28 ·  Video

    When Childhood and Teen Depression Doesn’t Look Like Sadness

    Send us Fan Mail Teen depression doesn’t always look like sadness. Sometimes it looks like anger, irritability, talking back, stomachaches, withdrawal, not doing schoolwork, or a teenager who simply doesn’t seem like themselves. So how can parents tell the difference between typical teenage ups and downs and something that may need more attention? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner are joined by Jennifer Williams, LCPC, PMH-C, licensed therapist and author of If My Depression Had a Name. Jennifer explains why teens may struggle to find the words to describe depression and how emotional distress often shows up through behavior instead. She also shares practical ways parents can create connection without forcing a conversation and why slowing down before reacting can help us see what may be happening underneath a teen’s behavior. We also talk about the very understandable parental urge to fix uncomfortable feelings. Buying something new, planning a fun outing, or reminding your teen about everything they have to be grateful for may provide a temporary boost, but those things don’t treat depression. Sometimes what teens need most is permission to feel what they’re feeling and a parent who can stay present with them while they do. In this episode, we discuss: Signs of teen depression that parents may overlookWhy depression can show up as anger and irritabilityHow behavior can communicate emotional distressWhy parents should slow down before reactingHow to connect when your teen answers every question with “fine”Why you don’t always have to fix sadnessHow a parent’s own emotions can influence their responseHelping teens develop language for difficult feelingsJennifer’s book, If My Depression Had a NameJennifer’s book is available through Amazon and Barnes & Noble. If you read the book, be sure to leave a review! About Jennifer: Jennifer C. Williams is a licensed therapist, perinatal mental health specialist, certified parental leave coach, and mom of two boys in the DC metro area. She helps parents and couples move from stress and disconnection back to calm and closeness through her virtual therapy practice, Pass Go! Therapy and Coaching. She is also the author of the children's book If My Depression Had a Name, which gives kids ages 9 to 15 the words to name hard feelings. Through her family brand, SONshines and Playtime, Jennifer shows parents that family experiences around travel, play, and mental wellness can bring joy and adventure to any home. Jennifer also moderates the Anxious Introverted Moms group on Facebook, to give moms a space to discuss everyday parenting wins and challenges.  Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    When Childhood and Teen Depression Doesn’t Look Like Sadness
  5. Sep 21 ·  Video

    How to Support Your LGBTQ+ Child Without Having All the Answers

    Send us Fan Mail What happens when your child comes out and you're not sure what to say, what to do, or even how you feel yet? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner welcome Heather Hester, author of Parenting with Pride and host of More Human, More Kind, for an honest conversation about supporting LGBTQ+ children while navigating the very real learning process parents may experience themselves. Heather shares how her work began after her son came out as gay at almost 17. After he disappeared from home one freezing Chicago night, he finally called Heather and tearfully told her, "Mom, I'm gay." Her immediate response was, "Thank God, I thought you were dead." That moment began a journey of learning and unlearning that ultimately changed not only her son’s life, but Heather's and her entire family's. Together, Heather, Sam, and Melissa discuss what children may experience before coming out, why parents don't need to understand everything immediately, and how staying curious and connected can preserve the relationship even through uncertainty. In This Episode Heather's son's unforgettable coming-out storyWhat kids may experience before coming outWhy coming out requires tremendous trust and courageHow parents can respond when they're caught off guardSupporting children who are questioning their identityWhy "believe your child" mattersSexual orientation vs. gender identityWhy children shouldn't be responsible for educating their parentsRecognizing when fear is driving your parentingExamining unconscious beliefs and biasesStaying present through uncomfortable conversationsWhy apologizing and trying again strengthens parent-teen relationshipsLetting go of perfect parentingAbout Heather Hester Heather Hester is the author of Parenting with Pride and host of the three-time Women in Podcasting award-winning podcast More Human, More Kind. She is a speaker, writer, coach, and consultant who helps parents, allies, and organizations move from fear toward understanding, connection, and love. Heather lives outside Chicago with her husband, four children, and one very opinionated Bernedoodle. Learn more at HeatherHester.net or listen to More Human, More Kind, where Heather has more than 300 episodes exploring these conversations.  Be sure to grab Heather’s free resource: Panic to Plan Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    How to Support Your LGBTQ+ Child Without Having All the Answers
  6. Sep 14 ·  Video

    Building Confidence in Teens

    Send us Fan Mail What actually builds confidence in teens? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam and Melissa talk with Jasmyne Chandler, trauma-informed life coach and founder of Guided Passages, about why meaningful challenges, mentorship, nature, and rites of passage can be so powerful for teenagers. Jasmyne shares how her wilderness programs give teens opportunities to disconnect from technology, push themselves physically, reflect on who they are becoming, and experience being truly seen and heard by both peers and adults. The conversation also explores why praise alone doesn't create confidence, the self-criticism many teens carry, why adolescents naturally seek novelty and risk, and how parents can give kids safe opportunities to stretch themselves. In This Episode: Why doing hard things helps teens develop real confidenceWhat a modern rite of passage can look likeWhy teens need opportunities to be taken seriouslyHow being heard and witnessed affects teen connectionSelf-hatred, comparison, and negative self-talk among teensWhy successful and high-achieving teens aren't immuneHow nature and time away from devices can create space for reflectionWhy teenagers naturally seek novelty, challenge, and increasing independenceHow safe challenges can provide an alternative to unhealthy risk-takingWays parents can create meaningful growth experiences without a wilderness tripJasmyne offers one-on-one virtual coaching for tweens, teens, and young adults ages 12–24, along with in-person programs and wilderness experiences through Guided Passages. About Jasmyne Jasmyne Chandler is an International Coaching Federation Certified, Trauma-Informed Professional Life Coach for teens, young adults, and parents. She is also the mom of two teens and has spent the past 17 years working with young people as a high school teacher, GED instructor and advisor, life coach, council facilitator, and wilderness rites of passage guide. She is the founder of Guided Passages, which offers youth programs, wilderness rites of passage trips, and life coaching for teens, young adults, and parents in Southern Oregon and beyond. Her work focuses on supporting teens, young adults, and their parents through additional guidance, mentorship, and encouragement to help shift stuck energy, negative self-talk, and disconnection so they can better embrace and accept who they are, move toward positive change, and create the lives and relationships they truly desire. Connect with Guided Passages: guided-passages.com Get Jasmyne’s free resource: 5 Steps to Minimize Teen Anxiety Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    Building Confidence in Teens
  7. Sep 7 ·  Video

    Analog Childhoods, AI Parents, and the Tech Middle Ground

    Send us Fan Mail Parents are being encouraged to give their kids an analog childhood while relying more and more on AI, smartphones, and technology in their own daily lives. Is that hypocrisy, or simply the reality of raising kids in the middle of a massive technology experiment? In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam and Melissa unpack the pressure, guilt, and judgment surrounding screen time and explore a more realistic middle ground. They talk about how online parenting trends can make technology choices seem more extreme than they really are, why too much input may be part of the problem for both overwhelmed parents and developing teen brains, and why warm parenting still requires clear and consistent limits. They also share practical ways to create values- and skills-based tech boundaries, build more boredom, focus, and face-to-face connection into family life, and recognize that teens may still need technology to maintain meaningful social relationships. The conversation also explores where AI might fit into family life, the questions parents should ask before using it, and why kids deserve a voice in the digital footprint adults create for them. Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    Analog Childhoods, AI Parents, and the Tech Middle Ground
  8. Aug 31 ·  Video

    When Drinking Stops Feeling Like a Choice: Understanding Gray Area Drinking

    Send us Fan Mail Do you have to hit rock bottom before you're allowed to question your relationship with alcohol? Absolutely not. In this episode of Parenting Shrink Wrapped, Sam Straub and Dr. Melissa Wellner sit down with gray area drinking coach, Maureen Benkovich, for a shame-free conversation about the space between casual drinking and alcohol dependency. Maureen shares her personal story of how alcohol gradually became intertwined with socializing, infertility, depression, stress, and her identity. From the outside, she was successful, active, and functioning. On the inside, alcohol was taking up more and more mental space. The conversation explores why drinking less isn't simply about willpower. Maureen breaks down how alcohol affects brain chemistry and explains how our brains can learn to associate drinking with relaxation, reward, celebration, socializing, and stress relief. She also walks Sam and Melissa through her 4R Method: Recognize, Replace, Rewire, and Renew, a framework designed to help people understand the role alcohol is playing in their lives and begin building healthier patterns. In This Episode: What "gray area drinking" meansSigns alcohol may no longer be serving youWhy alcohol can become a coping mechanismHow alcohol affects dopamine, stress, anxiety, and sleepWhy drinking less isn't simply about willpowerAbout Maureen Maureen Benkovich is a gray area drinking coach, keynote speaker, host of the Sober Fit Life podcast, and former pharmaceutical sales representative, personal trainer, and competitive figure athlete. Drawing from both her personal experience and science-backed coaching approach, Maureen helps high-achieving adults change their relationship with alcohol without shame, labels, or waiting for rock bottom. Through her signature 4R Method: Recognize, Replace, Rewire, and Renew, she helps clients build new coping strategies and create sustainable change. Connect With Maureen Visit SoberFitChick.com to learn more about Maureen, take her "Am I Drinking Too Much?" quiz, explore her coaching programs, and find the Sober Fit Life podcast. And be sure to listen to Maureen's episode featuring Sam and Melissa, where they continue the conversation by exploring the messages parents may inadvertently send their kids through their own drinking habits. Contact: parentingshrinkwrapped@gmail.com Watch on YouTube: Subscribe to Parenting Shrink Wrapped for the latest episodes. Follow: Sam – Instagram & Facebook Melissa – Facebook Work with Us: Sam – Teen Savvy Coaching Melissa – Annapolis Psychiatry Save your spot in the next FREE Teen Savvy Parenting Masterclass. Free Parenting Resource: Learn the L.O.V.E.D. framework for handling tricky convos. Listen & Review: Follow on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. This podcast is educational in nature and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health care.

    When Drinking Stops Feeling Like a Choice: Understanding Gray Area Drinking
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Parenting Shrink Wrapped is your all-access pass to the wild and wonderful journey of raising kids! Hosted by Dr. Melissa Wellner, a double board-certified psychiatrist and child and adolescent psychiatrist, and Samantha Straub, a licensed therapist, educator, and parenting coach, this dynamic duo brings a perfect mix of professional expertise and mom humor. With five kids between them—and thousands more they’ve supported in their professional roles—they’re here to share practical strategies and real-life stories that will help you navigate everything from tantrums to teen drama. Whether you're handling sleepless nights or the chaos of carpool, you'll find relatable advice and a good laugh along the way. Strap in, because parenting is a ride, and we're here to make it a little smoother!

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