You Will Be OK

Sabrina Bendory
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Join dating and self-worth coach Sabrina Bendory as she dives deep into the journey of personal transformation and finding healthy, lasting love. This podcast is your guide to building self-worth, breaking free from self-sabotaging patterns, and creating the love life you deserve. With insightful advice, real-world strategies, and heart-centered guidance, Sabrina empowers you to overcome limiting beliefs, heal from the past, and attract fulfilling relationships. Whether you’re navigating dating, relationships, or your personal growth journey, this podcast will inspire and equip you to thrive in love and life. Tune in and start your transformation today!

  1. 1d ago

    How to Stop Caring If He Likes You & Start Being the Prize With Serena Kerrigan

    Dating is supposed to be fun… so why does it make so many of us feel completely exhausted, anxious, and miserable? In this episode, I’m joined by Serena Kerrigan, author of the just released book "Let’s F*cking Date". We talk about what it really means to “be the prize,” how to stop letting rejection destroy your confidence, why you need to stop dating someone’s potential, and how to take the pressure off dating and actually make it fun again. If you’re tired of overthinking texts, feeling depleted by situationships, or wondering how to meet and flirt with people in real life again, this episode is your roadmap to taking your power back. In this episode, we cover: - What “being the prize” actually looks like in practice - Why dating yourself first changes the entire dynamic - How safety and inner peace can change who you’re attracted to - The danger of falling for potential instead of reality - The myth of “the one,” soulmates, and perfect timing - How to approach, flirt, and signal interest in real life - How to reframe rejection as redirection and build resilience - Why maintaining your independence matters in a relationship - How to take the pressure off and actually enjoy modern dating again Get the book: "Let's F*cking Date: Become the Prize, Enjoy the Ride, and Never Settle Again" - https://link.amazon/B0cvzuuyI Follow Serena- @serenakerrigan https://www.instagram.com/serenakerrigan/ Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #dating #confidence #rejection #potential #flirting #independence #moderndating See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6ab3a4243558af675040108c Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    How to Stop Caring If He Likes You & Start Being the Prize With Serena Kerrigan

  2. Sep 17

    The Real Reason You Fear Rejection (And How to End It)

    Is the fear of rejection secretly running your life? In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on rejection and exposing it for what it really is: a childhood "boogeyman" that only holds power because of the story we attach to it. Whether you're holding back in your career, walking on eggshells in relationships, or constantly doubting your self-worth, I want to give you a powerful shift in perspective to help you take your power back. I share my own personal stories of overcoming rejection, the exact mental models I use to separate hard facts from emotional fiction, and actionable steps to build real resilience. We’ll break down why a simple "no" feels like a direct attack on your identity, how old wounds amplify modern fears, and how practicing true detachment allows you to take big risks without the fear of falling. It’s time to stop letting a fictional boogeyman cost you years of growth, happiness, and connection. What We Cover: - Why rejection is just a story you tell yourself—not a final verdict on your worth - How old wounds trigger deep rejection sensitivity in your adult life - The hidden cost of self-rejection in love, career, and personal growth - Practical ways to practice detachment and separate facts from feelings - How to stop fearing the "no" so you can finally move forward with trust Join my 8-week You Will Be OK course: https://sabrinabendory.com/you-will-be-ok-8-week-course "Detached"- https://link.amazon/B09vsZ4g5 "The Feminine Code" - https://link.amazon/B0hfTuN6B Follow me0 Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ Tik Tok: @sabrinabendory - https://www.tiktok.com/@sabrinabendory #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #rejection #self-worth #resilience #detachment #fear #growth #career #relationships #mentalmodels #empowerment #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6aabbb1ee44f94d02f8e3fbd Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    The Real Reason You Fear Rejection (And How to End It)

  3. Sep 8

    Financial Red Flags in Dating + The Money Conversations You NEED to Have (Feat. Whitney Hansen)

    Money impacts far more than just our bank accounts—it plays a central role in who we date, our relationship dynamics, and how safe we feel in our own lives. In this episode of You Will Be OK, I’m joined by personal finance coach Whitney Hansen to break down the intersection of money, mindset, and relationships. We dive into how childhood experiences shape your money story, the financial red flags to watch for when dating, and how to navigate saver vs. spender dynamics without ruining your relationship. Whitney also shares why financial compatibility isn't about finding someone with a specific salary, but rather aligning on mindset, habits, and values. In this episode, we cover: - How childhood experiences and financial trauma shape your adult mindset - Crucial financial red flags to look for while dating - How to evaluate a partner’s debt and financial habits logically - Essential money conversations every couple needs to have - Saver vs. spender dynamics, prenups, and joint vs. separate finances in marriage - Why financial literacy and independence are non-negotiable for women - Practical first steps toward building wealth and unlearning financial anxiety Whether you are single, dating, married, working through debt, or ready to build real wealth, this conversation will transform the way you view money and relationships. Connect & Resources: Follow Whitney Hansen: @whitney_hansen_co https://www.instagram.com/whitney_hansen_co/ Grab my latest book, The Feminine Code: https://amzn.to/4heFlWH Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Follow me Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #financialredflags #moneyconversations #financialcompatibility #wealthbuilding #financialliteracy See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6a9fdd932b2ecdd6ec8d6ba5 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Financial Red Flags in Dating + The Money Conversations You NEED to Have (Feat. Whitney Hansen)

  4. Aug 27

    Grieving the Life You Thought You’d Have: How to Make Peace & Move Forward

    If your life doesn’t look the way you thought it would by now, how do you make peace with where you are without giving up on the life you still want? In this episode, I’m talking about grieving the life you thought you’d have, feeling behind in life, and learning how to move forward when your life hasn’t gone according to plan. Maybe you thought you’d be married by now, have children, be further along in your career, have more financial security, or simply feel happier and more settled than you do. This kind of grief is real. And often, the pain isn’t only about your current circumstances—it’s about the collapse of the future you imagined for yourself. I talk about how to grieve that imagined life without getting stuck in it, let go of the timeline you thought you were supposed to follow, and separate what you can control from what you can’t. I also share practical tools for self-compassion, acceptance, detachment, and changing the way you speak to yourself when you feel like you’ve fallen behind. Most importantly, I explain why accepting where you are doesn’t mean giving up. You can make peace with your life as it is today while still wanting more for your future. Your current circumstances are not a verdict on your worth or a prediction of where your life will end up. You can hold your vision like a compass, not a deadline. If you’ve been thinking, This isn’t where I thought I’d be by now, this episode is for you. BOOKS Detached- https://amzn.to/4ix4oW5 The Feminine Code - https://amzn.to/4gzJQd1 Work with me: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #grieving #lifegoals #self-compassion #acceptance #detachment #self-worth #personalgrowth ##DatingAdvice ##RelationshipAdvice See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6a900ba271dc9df720c47556 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Grieving the Life You Thought You’d Have: How to Make Peace & Move Forward

  5. Aug 14

    Soulmates, Ghosting & Dating Apps: The Truth About Modern Love (feat. Alyssa Pettinato)

    Is "the one" actually a myth? In this episode, I’m joined by wedding planner and relationship expert Alyssa Pettinato for a candid, no-BS deep dive into modern love, dating apps, and what it really takes to build a lasting relationship today. Having worked closely with countless couples through the highs and lows of planning their big day, Alyssa brings a unique, behind-the-scenes perspective on what makes love work—and where most of us get it wrong. We break down the toxic fantasies culture sells us about soulmates, why modern dating feels so exhausting, and how to bring the fun, authenticity, and intention back into your search for connection. 🎧 What We Cover: - The Soulmate Myth: Is there really "the one," or can we have multiple soulmates? - Modern Dating Reality Check: How apps, social media, and ghosting culture are rewiring how we connect. - Dating with Intention: Why self-awareness and authenticity are your ultimate superpower in finding healthy love. - Behind the Aisle: What years of working with engaged couples reveal about long-term compatibility. - Making Dating Fun Again: How to ditch the pressure, let go of perfection, and focus on building something real. - Wild Wedding Stories: Unforgettable moments from the altar and the major relationship takeaways behind them. 💬 Connect & Support: Follow Alyssa Pettinato: - https://missjudgedpodcast.com/ Instagram- @https://www.instagram.com/missjudgedpodcast/ Subscribe to the podcast- https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-will-be-ok/id1790223499 https://open.spotify.com/show/3HYK5wbztK0wOpm0Iq62F6 Follow on Instagram: @sabrinabendory https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ #soulmates #ghosting #datingapps #modernlove #relationshipexpert #lastingrelationship #self-awareness #authenticity #compatibility #weddingstories See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6a7ee818c65ac1a49b456ed9 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Soulmates, Ghosting & Dating Apps: The Truth About Modern Love (feat. Alyssa Pettinato)

  6. Aug 6

    Two Things Can Be True at Once

    We want relationships to make sense: He either loved me or he didn’t. The chemistry was real or it was a lie. But the truth is rarely black and white. In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to hold two truths at the same time—and why tolerating emotional complexity is the key to healing and moving on. In this episode, we cover: Why someone can genuinely like you and still not want a relationship. High chemistry vs. real compatibility. How a person can love you and still treat you poorly. Why ghosting says more about their emotional capacity than your worth. How to accept reality in its entirety so you can stop personalizing everything and make clearer decisions. Sometimes the relationship mattered—and it still needed to end. Both can be true. 10 Things Every Woman Needs to Know About Men - https://amzn.to/45PHJwx Detached: How to Let Go, Heal, & Become Irresistible - https://amzn.to/4q1lJs4 Learn more here: https://www.sabrinabendory.com Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #emotionalcomplexity #healing #relationshipdynamics #compatibility #ghosting See show notes: https://inlet.fm/you-will-be-ok/episodes/6a74ccabbc645d747c602b17 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    Two Things Can Be True at Once

  7. Jul 23

    The Truth About Influencer Culture, Success, and Motherhood with Jo Piazza

    In this episode, I sit down with bestselling author, journalist, and podcaster Jo Piazza to dive deep into what it really takes to navigate creative success, modern womanhood, and the publishing world. Jo shares the inspiration behind her prolific writing career, including how she uncovers women historically forgotten by time—like her deep dive into the story of "Joe Van Gogh." Together, we pull back the curtain on the realities of influencer culture, the pressure of social media metrics, and how AI is shifting the creative landscape. Jo also offers candid insights on balancing a high-powered creative career with motherhood, establishing healthy boundaries, and why viewing success as a long-term strategy—rather than chasing short-term viral moments—is the key to lasting fulfillment. Order The Parisian Heist - https://amzn.to/4fub6sH Follow Jo- @jopiazzaauthor Follow me: Instagram: @sabrinabendory @youwillbeokpodcast 00:00: Introduction and Inspiration 03:38: The Journey of Writing and Storytelling 06:38: Women in History and the Art World 09:36: Balancing Career and Motherhood 12:20: Career Milestones and Self-Perception 15:24: The Impact of Influencer Culture 18:17: The Future of AI in Influencer Culture 27:32: Navigating AI Sensitivity in Writing 28:42: The Impact of AI on Authors 29:50: Adapting to Change in the Creative Industry 31:41: The Role of AI in Creative Work 34:06: The Fast-Paced Evolution of Content Creation 37:50: Success vs. Happiness in Creative Careers 40:58: The Influence of Social Media on Perceptions of Success 43:11: The Reality Behind Success Stories 48:03: The Long Game in Publishing #influencerculture #creativesuccess #motherhood #JoPiazza #AI #socialmedia #publishing #womeninhistory See show notes: Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    The Truth About Influencer Culture, Success, and Motherhood with Jo Piazza

  8. Jul 16

    How to Emotionally Detach (Without Becoming Cold or Distant)

    What if detachment has nothing to do with becoming cold, distant, or pretending you don't care? In this episode, I break down one of the most misunderstood concepts in relationships and personal growth: healthy detachment. So many people think detachment means shutting down your emotions or acting like someone doesn't matter. In reality, true detachment is about letting go of control, releasing the need to force outcomes, and learning to stay grounded even when your emotions are intense. I'll show you why detachment actually allows you to love more deeply — not less — and how it helps you become calmer, more confident, and more emotionally resilient in every area of your life. Whether you're struggling to move on after a breakup, feeling anxious in a relationship, or simply want more peace of mind, this episode will give you practical tools you can start using today. In this episode, you'll learn: - Why detachment is not coldness, avoidance, or emotional suppression - The difference between caring deeply and becoming emotionally dependent - How to feel your emotions without acting impulsively - What healthy detachment looks like during conflict - How to stop identifying with every emotion you experience - Practical exercises to build emotional regulation and inner peace If you've ever wondered how to let go without giving up, this episode is for you. Books: Detached - https://amzn.to/3RijVOr The Feminine Code - https://amzn.to/3RBMRRB The Summer of You - https://sabrinabendory.com/summer-of-you-course Instagram: @sabrinabendory - https://www.instagram.com/sabrinabendory/ #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice #detachment #relationships #personalgrowth #emotionalregulation #love #emotionalresilience #peaceofmind #DatingAdvice #RelationshipAdvice Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    How to Emotionally Detach (Without Becoming Cold or Distant)
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Join dating and self-worth coach Sabrina Bendory as she dives deep into the journey of personal transformation and finding healthy, lasting love. This podcast is your guide to building self-worth, breaking free from self-sabotaging patterns, and creating the love life you deserve. With insightful advice, real-world strategies, and heart-centered guidance, Sabrina empowers you to overcome limiting beliefs, heal from the past, and attract fulfilling relationships. Whether you’re navigating dating, relationships, or your personal growth journey, this podcast will inspire and equip you to thrive in love and life. Tune in and start your transformation today!

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  • Creator
    Sabrina Bendory
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    76
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    You Will Be OK

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