Surviving Lifes Pickles

Navigating Lifes Challenges Together

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Navigating Lifes Challenges Together! On our podcast we share our stories along with our guests stories to help the community with the everyday sweet and sour pickles (challenges) we go through in life. We want to connect with everyone on a very real and human level by turning our pain into purpose and sharing our knowledge we have gained along the way! scottrxperformance.substack.com

Sep 16

Turning the Mess Into a Message with Blu Robinson

Scott and Hillary Martin sit down with Blu Robinson, the founder of Addict to Athlete, to talk about recovery, identity, movement, and how purpose can be built from pain. Blue shares the personal story behind his work, including family trauma, addiction, therapy, education, and the moment exercise became a recovery tool.This episode is about more than sobriety. It explores how labels shape people, why movement can support healing, and how community can help someone show up at the starting line of change. Key topics * Blu shares how his early life was shaped by severe instability, abuse, poverty, and frequent moves, including 22 different homes before age 18. * He explains how addiction took root in his teens as a way to cope with abandonment, trauma, and the need to belong. * Blu describes the rock-bottom moment in 1996 that pushed him to leave addiction behind and begin rebuilding his life. * Mountain biking became an early positive identity shift and later inspired Addict to Athlete. * Blu discusses his education journey, from adult high school to becoming a therapist. * The conversation covers the limits of one-size-fits-all recovery and the value of movement-based approaches. * Hillary shares how negative labels can make recovery more difficult. * Blu explains the “erase and replace” philosophy: replacing harmful patterns with movement, service, and a new identity. * Addict to Athlete uses running, biking, races, and community events to build confidence and connection. * The episode explores grief, relapse, loss, and how service can honor people who have died from addiction. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit scottrxperformance.substack.com
Sep 2

Mental Health in the Workplace and the Importance of Focusing on it When Building a Safety Culture.

In this episode of Surviving Life’s Pickles, the conversation centers on suicide prevention, mental health awareness, and how those conversations belong in workplace safety culture—especially in construction, manufacturing, and other high-risk industries.Sarah Galvez shares the personal story that led her into this work: the loss of her ex-husband and the father of her youngest son to suicide. From that pain, she found purpose in speaking, training, and helping organizations strengthen their approach to mental wellness and de-escalation.The discussion explores how companies can do more than check safety boxes. It covers practical tools like active listening, the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding method, box breathing, and bringing in backup support when someone needs more help than one person can give. The episode also highlights why mental health should be treated as part of safety, not separate from it. The conversation touches on: * Why mental health and physical safety should go hand in hand * How to respond when an employee is in crisis * Why consistent training matters for employees, temps, and contractors * The importance of follow-up, support groups, and checking in long after the initial crisis * How managers and coworkers can reduce stigma by making mental health a normal part of workplace conversations The episode closes with a powerful reminder: people may look fine on the outside, but they may be struggling in ways no one can see. Checking in, listening well, and creating real support systems can make a life-changing difference. Key Topics * Suicide prevention in the workplace * Mental health and safety culture * De-escalation and grounding techniques * Supporting employees after a crisis * Training, follow-up, and open communication Notable Takeaway A strong safety culture protects more than bodies—it protects people’s lives, families, and futures. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit scottrxperformance.substack.com
Aug 26

The Heart of Zen Recovery with Carl Harman

This episode is a candid conversation about addiction, recovery, Buddhism, and learning how to meet suffering with compassion instead of resistance. Scott Martin and Hillary Martin are joined by Carl Harman, who shares his personal story of alcoholism, spiritual awakening, and the practices that helped him build a more peaceful life.We discuss Carl’s new book, his path from anger and drinking to sobriety, and how mindfulness, surrender, and the Noble Eightfold Path shaped his recovery. The conversation is both personal and practical, with clear takeaways for anyone working through trauma, resentment, or the challenge of being present. Action items * Practice pausing before reacting when stress or resentment shows up. * Start with small irritations, like missing a bus, before trying to process larger wounds. * Use gratitude as a daily reset to notice real conditions of happiness. * Try speaking to your suffering with kindness instead of fighting it. * Focus on the breath when you need to return to the present moment. * Look for places where compassion, not criticism, can soften old patterns. * If Carl’s story resonates, read The Heart of Zen Recovery and work through the practices, not just the ideas. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit scottrxperformance.substack.com
Aug 19

Surviving Life’s Pickles - A family check-in on joy, sobriety, and slowing down

Scott Martin is joined by his wife, Hillary, for a more personal check-in episode of Surviving Life’s Pickles. They reflect on gratitude, 12 years of sobriety, and why slowing down long enough to ask better questions can change both safety and quality of life.We discuss how a simple self-check can improve mental health, physical safety, parenting, and decision-making. The conversation also covers the couple’s summer reset, a nonprofit rebrand, and what’s coming next for their community work. Key topics * In this episode, Scott opens with gratitude for joy, describing it as the ability to fully feel life, including emotional moments that once felt out of reach. * Hillary shares that she is grateful for 12 years of sobriety, reflecting on how far she has come from a time with no joy and heavy numbing. * The conversation centers on a simple internal check-in: * How does your body feel? * How is your mind? * Are your tasks organized? * Scott connects that check-in to workplace safety, especially the idea of pausing before entering a situation, even if it seems small or routine. * They talk about the fear of asking questions and how shame can keep people from speaking up when they are unsure. * Hillary and Scott emphasize that nobody knows everything, and asking questions is safer than pretending to understand. * They discuss their training concept, “mental health safety is physical safety,” and how it applies well beyond construction and mining. * The episode highlights the importance of feeling emotions instead of staying too busy to process them. * Scott and Hillary reflect on parenting, especially with both boys entering middle school and the speed at which kids seem to grow up. * They share how they intentionally slowed down over the summer, focusing more on family, camping, biking, and being present rather than chasing growth nonstop. * The couple explains a nonprofit shift away from the previous identity and into a new direction under the name You’re a Big Dill Recovery Foundation. * Hillary shares why expanding access to treatment and support resources matters deeply to her, especially after having lived through financial and recovery hardship. * They preview upcoming community involvement, including recovery days in Utah County and an annual meeting for supporters. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit scottrxperformance.substack.com
Aug 12

Shame vs Guilt, Recovery, and Reclaiming Your Values with Jennifer Peterson

This episode centers on Jennifer Peterson’s personal recovery story and the difference between shame and guilt. Scott and Hillary guide a wide-ranging conversation about how shame can shape identity, how guilt can be used constructively, and why understanding the difference matters in recovery, parenting, and everyday life. Jen brings both lived experience and professional insight as the program director of an outpatient treatment center and medical detox. Her story is practical, personal, and deeply rooted in the idea that healing starts when you stop treating a mistake like an identity. Key topics * Jen shares how growing up in an addicted household shaped her early coping patterns, including survival mode, emotional silence, and low self-worth. * She explains how shame took root long before drug use, through messages like “shame on you” and being told to be ashamed for mistakes. * Jen breaks down the difference between guilt and shame: * Guilt is about what you did * Shame is about who you believe you are * She describes her current work as program director of an outpatient treatment center and medical detox, and how it gives her a chance to support people in early recovery. * The conversation explores how addiction often magnifies shame, but does not create it from nothing. * Jen explains how she began rebuilding confidence by taking small risks and refusing to let fear control her decisions. * She shares how public speaking, workshops, and helping others became part of her healing process. * The episode digs into parenting, including Jen’s experience regaining the privilege of being a mother after addiction. * Jen and the hosts discuss how values can be lost, buried, or replaced in active addiction, and why reconnecting with your core values matters. * The conversation closes with a broader reflection on compassion, human connection, and showing up for strangers in small but meaningful ways. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit scottrxperformance.substack.com
Aug 5

Recovery, Mental Health, and the People Who Lift Us Up w/ Joe Ivey

In this episode of Surviving Life’s Pickles, Scott Martin, Hilary, and Joe Ivey reconnect for an honest, thoughtful conversation about recovery, sponsorship, mental health, and the power of community. The episode opens with gratitude and quickly moves into a deeper reflection on how connection helps people heal, grow, and stay grounded through life’s hardest seasons.Joe shares more of his personal story, including his upbringing, addiction history, and the turning points that helped him build a sober life. A major theme of the conversation is sponsorship — what it is, what it isn’t, and why it matters. The group explores how a sponsor can serve as a guide, accountability partner, and source of support without taking over someone else’s life.The discussion also expands beyond recovery into mental health, family, service, and the everyday acts that keep people connected. From gardening and parenting to helping strangers in need, the episode shows how small acts of service can create real change. Topics Covered * Starting with gratitude and setting the tone * Joe’s recovery journey and what changed his life * The role of Albert and the impact of one person’s support * What sponsorship means in practice * Why community matters for sobriety and mental health * Service as a path to healing and connection * Finding the right people to support your growth * How small acts of kindness can change someone’s day This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit scottrxperformance.substack.com
Jul 29

Surviving Life's Pickles: Jay Gould's Journey of Recovery and Service

In this episode, Jay Gould shares his inspiring recovery story, highlights the importance of community and consistent connection, and details the impactful work he’s involved with in Utah’s homeless and at-risk populations. His experiences remind us all of the power of kindness, resilience, and service in transforming lives. Main Topics Covered: * Jay Gould’s personal journey through addiction and recovery, including key turning points and lessons learned * How community service and helping others have become vital components of Jay’s recovery process * The various programs and initiatives Jay supports, such as Care Cuts, Soap for Hope, and community outreach efforts * The significance of staying connected with loved ones and maintaining gratitude through life’s challenges * Stories of impactful moments serving the homeless and marginalized populations in Utah This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit scottrxperformance.substack.com
Jul 22

Standout w/ Ben Kjar

In this episode of Surviving Life’s Pickles, Host’s Scott & Hillary Martin sit down with guest Ben Kjar to discuss Ben’s inspiring journey living with Crouzon syndrome, the importance of resilience, and the philosophy of 3XSC (three times state champion). They explore the significance of setting goals, the impact of kindness and sportsmanship, and the lessons learned from failure. Ben emphasizes the need for confidence and the importance of showing children how to handle challenges in life. Takeaways * One of the most insidious forms of child neglect is parents not living their dreams. * Life’s going to be tough, but you have to get up and go. * You have to put an expiration date on your goals. * Confidence and kindness are incredibly attractive traits. * It’s okay to fail, but it’s important to get back up. * Show your kids that you don’t win all the time. * You weren’t created to be normal; embrace your uniqueness. * Call your shot and let others know your goals. * Life’s pickles are when you’re not progressing towards your goals. * The way you react in tough times defines your legacy. Standout The Ben Kjar Story www.survivinglifespickles.com This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit scottrxperformance.substack.com

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Navigating Lifes Challenges Together! On our podcast we share our stories along with our guests stories to help the community with the everyday sweet and sour pickles (challenges) we go through in life. We want to connect with everyone on a very real and human level by turning our pain into purpose and sharing our knowledge we have gained along the way! scottrxperformance.substack.com

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Navigating Lifes Challenges Together
Years Active

2025 - 2026
Episodes

94
Rating

Explicit
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© Scott Martin
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