Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey

Lisa Harper
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Helping to change the conversations we have with our loved ones about aging and life decisions. Each episode contains information to help you and your family work through the "not ready yet" conversation of aging.

  1. 1D AGO

    Interview with Heather Clark, Financial Advisor and Founder of Next Step Wealth Management

    In this episode, Heather Clark shares practical, compassionate guidance on how to navigate financial planning for aging parents, without waiting for a crisis. From starting the often-avoided money conversation to building trust across generations, Heather breaks down how families can approach finances with clarity and confidence. We explore why early planning matters, how to address long-term care considerations, and what it takes to create a strategy that supports both aging parents and the next generation. Whether you're unsure how to begin or looking to strengthen your current plan, this conversation offers actionable insights to help you move forward. In this episode, you’ll learn: • How to start the conversation about money with aging parents • Why trust and connection are essential in financial planning • Key considerations for long-term care planning • Strategies for intergenerational wealth transfer • How to take a proactive (not reactive) approach to aging finances This is the conversation every family needs—but few know how to start. Key Takeaways: • The best time to talk about money is before it’s urgent • Trust is the foundation of every successful financial conversation • Small, consistent conversations are more effective than one big talk • Planning for long-term care protects both finances and relationships • A clear plan reduces stress and prevents family conflict • Financial transparency supports smoother transitions across generations  Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Financial Clarity 02:37 Overcoming Financial Overwhelm 05:23 Finding a Trusted Financial Advisor 07:32 The Importance of Relationships in Financial Planning 10:24 Generational Financial Planning 13:08 The Reality of Social Security 15:02 Understanding Family Financial Dynamics 17:15 Simplifying Financial Management 19:36 Quality of Life and Financial Decisions 21:21 Planning for Future Care Needs 23:51 Engaging in Community Living 26:51 Navigating Family Conversations about Finances 33:43 Navigating Caregiver Overwhelm 36:01 The Importance of Open Conversations 37:01 Blind Spots in Aging and Caregiving 41:11 Starting Difficult Family Conversations 42:29 Understanding End-of-Life Wishes 47:25 Planning for Financial Longevity 53:14 The Need for Professional Guidance Resources Website: https://www.nextstep4you.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/NextStepWealthManagement LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heatherclarknextstep4you/  © 2025-2026 Lisa M. Harper. All rights reserved. “Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey” is a trademark of Lisa M. Harper.

    56 min

  2. APR 21

    Interview with Helen Burns of Naborforce

    Many families assume caregiving means doing everything themselves, it doesn't. Sometimes the right support looks like a trusted neighbor showing up. In this episode, I sit down with Helen Burns from Naborforce to explore how neighborly support helps older adults stay independent, connected, and safe at home. We discuss how community-based assistance can ease the burden on family caregivers while improving quality of life for aging loved ones. Whether you're caring for aging parents, noticing early signs they may need extra help, or simply planning ahead, this conversation offers practical guidance and reassurance that you don't have to navigate this alone. In This Episode, We Discuss:  The origin story of Naborforce and its mission  How neighbors are recruited, screened, and vetted  Services available to support older adults at home  The critical role of social connection in preventing loneliness  Signs it may be time to bring in additional support  How adult children can access and coordinate help for their parents Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Neighbor Force and Its Mission 02:06 Understanding Neighbor Force's Services 04:29 The Origin Story of Neighbor Force 07:22 Becoming a Neighbor: Recruitment and Safety 10:01 Neighbor Force's Geographic Reach 12:04 The Role of Adult Children in Caregiving 17:04 Navigating Caregiving Responsibilities 19:52 Identifying Signs for Extra Support 19:58 Recognizing Signs for Extra Help 22:11 The Loneliness Epidemic 26:29 Understanding Available Resources 29:07 Navigating Aging Conversations 30:58 The Importance of Decluttering Resources Naborforce Official Website - https://naborforce.com Guest Link LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/helen-burns-bb85b448/  © 2025-2026 Lisa M. Harper. All rights reserved. “Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey” is a trademark of Lisa M. Harper.

    35 min

  3. APR 7

    Interview with Carly Ebenstein, Long- Term Care Insurance Expert

    In this insightful interview, Carly Ebenstein shares her expertise on long-term care insurance, clarifying common misconceptions, discussing optimal timing for purchasing coverage, and emphasizing the importance of planning ahead for aging and caregiving. This conversation provides practical advice for families to make informed decisions and start vital conversations about aging and care. Key Takeaways Timing for long-term care insurance purchaseDifferences between Medicare, Medicaid, and long-term care insurance Activities of Daily Living (ADLs) and cognitive health in care needsFlexible benefits of hybrid long-term care policiesPlanning conversations and legal documents for agingHow long-term care insurance can save your family from crisisChapters 00:00 Introduction to Long-Term Care Insurance 01:43 Carly's Journey into Long-Term Care 03:59 Understanding Medicare vs. Long-Term Care 09:18 The Importance of Planning for Long-Term Care 10:29 When to Consider Long-Term Care Insurance 13:31 Protecting Options for the Future 16:45 The Role of Caregivers in Long-Term Care 19:03 Understanding Long-Term Care Insurance 20:27 The Importance of Home Care Options 21:27 Navigating Benefits and Payment Structures 24:37 The Role of Caregivers in Long-Term Care 25:14 Creating a Plan for Care 26:25 Resources and Educational Offerings 27:40 Challenging Assumptions About Long-Term Care 29:38 Starting the Conversation About Care Plans Resources Carly Ebenstein's Website Long-Term Care Start Here Webinar San Francisco Library Event CJB Insurance Services YouTube Channel Cost of Care Calculator Printable Plan of Care Document Carly Ebenstein's LinkedIn Profile  © 2025-2026 Lisa M. Harper. All rights reserved. “Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey” is a trademark of Lisa M. Harper.

    35 min

  4. MAR 24

    Interview with Dr. David Ajibade, Physician, Brain Health Pioneer, Global Health Leader, Founder, Brain and Body Foundation

    In this powerful and practical conversation, Dr. David Ajibade shares a hopeful, prevention-focused approach to brain health and aging. Rather than waiting for symptoms to appear, he encourages individuals and families to take early, proactive steps to support cognitive health through nutrition, lifestyle choices, and targeted medical testing. Dr. David explains the deep connection between the brain and the rest of the body—highlighting how gut health, vitamin levels, hearing, and social engagement all play a role in maintaining cognitive function. He challenges common myths about aging and dementia, offering science-backed strategies that can help reduce risk and support long-term brain vitality. Listeners will walk away with actionable guidance on the key tests to request from their doctor, the role of nutrient-dense foods like eggs and red meat, and why addressing issues such as hearing loss and vitamin deficiencies early can make a meaningful difference. Most importantly, this episode reinforces a message of hope: there are steps we can take today to protect brain health and age with intention. Key Takeaways  Brain health is deeply connected to overall body health—including nutrition, gut health, and hearing.  Early testing for vitamin and metabolic levels can help identify risks before symptoms appear.  Nutrient-dense foods and targeted supplementation may support cognitive function and reduce dementia risk.  Social engagement, sunlight exposure, and physical activity are essential components of brain health.  Prevention is possible—and individuals have more influence over their cognitive future than they may realize.Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Brain Health and Aging 01:07 Dr. David's Journey into Brain Health 02:51 Understanding Brain Needs and Dementia 03:52 Preventing Dementia: Key Insights 07:50 Framework for Dementia Prevention 13:05 The Importance of Gut Health 17:22 Nutrition and the Laws of Life 19:27 The Nutritional Power of Red Meat 21:55 The Importance of Supplements 25:08 Understanding Nutraceuticals 27:39 The Impact of Hearing on Brain Health 31:06 Hope and Agency in Dementia Care Resources Dr. David Ajibade's Website - https://drdavidajibade.com Brain and Body Foundation - https://brainandbodyfoundation.org Guest Links Website - https://drdavidajibade.com Instagram - https://instagram.com/drdavidajibade Facebook - https://facebook.com/drdavidajibade  © 2025-2026 Lisa M. Harper. All rights reserved. “Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey” is a trademark of Lisa M. Harper.

    36 min

  5. MAR 10

    Interview with Beth Bedore, Occupational Therapist, Senior Home Coach™ and REALTOR®

    Beth Bedore, a Senior Home Coach™ and Occupational Therapist with nearly 30 years of experience, shares insights on how housing decisions impact health and independence as we age. The conversation covers universal design, proactive home modifications, and planning for aging in place to support safe, accessible, and beautiful homes for all ages. Takeaways Universal Design principles for all agesImportance of proactive home modificationsHow housing impacts health and independenceBuilding and renovating for aging in placeMulti-generational living and accessibilityChapters 00:00 Introduction to Aging Conversations 01:07 Beth's Journey into Occupational Therapy 02:58 Understanding Occupational Therapy 04:22 Housing Decisions and Health Outcomes 06:59 The Importance of Universal Design 09:30 Building with Universal Design in Mind 12:40 Cost-Effectiveness of Universal Design 14:44 Proactive Planning for Aging 17:23 The Consequences of Waiting 19:08 Market Trends in Accessible Housing 20:26 Innovative Products for Aging in Place 21:52 The Joy of Cooking and Aging in Place 22:13 Technology and Home Safety 23:17 Essential Features for Aging in Place 26:16 Safe Home Checklist for Seniors 29:38 The Impact of Stairs on Aging in Place 30:09 Planning for Aging and Home Modifications 32:50 Lightning Round: Quick Insights on Home and Aging  Resources Universal Design Principles - https://www.universaldesign.com CAPS - Certified Aging in Place Specialist - https://www.nahb.org/advocacy/industry-advocacy/certified-aging-in-place-specialist Occupational Therapy Resources - https://www.aota.org Guest Resources LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/bethbedore Website - https://bethbedore.com  © 2025-2026 Lisa M. Harper. All rights reserved. “Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey” is a trademark of Lisa M. Harper.

    38 min

  6. FEB 24

    Interview with Chris Moore, Author of Age Out Loud and Founder of Senior Remodeling Experts

    In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages in a profound conversation with Chris Moore, author of Age Out Loud and founder of Senior Remodeling Experts, about challenging the stereotypes associated with aging. Chris shares his journey from building wheelchair ramps to advocating for a new narrative around aging that emphasizes vitality, purpose, and wisdom. The discussion highlights the cultural perceptions of aging, the importance of mindset, and the dynamics of family conversations regarding aging. Chris emphasizes the need for education and open dialogue to empower individuals and families to navigate the aging process positively. In this conversation, Chris Moore and Lisa discuss the importance of finding peace and authenticity in life, the lessons learned from suffering, and the seven pillars of ageless vitality. They emphasize the significance of living life to the fullest, practicing gratitude, and questioning assumptions about aging. The discussion also highlights the power of kindness and community in enhancing our lives. Takeaways Aging is often viewed negatively due to cultural narratives.People often say 'I'm not ready yet' when facing aging decisions.Changing the perception of aging can lead to better choices.Education is critical for making informed decisions about aging.Family dynamics play a significant role in aging conversations.Expectations shape our experiences and outcomes in aging.Time is more valuable than money; we must cherish it.Conversations about aging should focus on wisdom and vitality.Elders should be seen as sources of wisdom, not burdens.Connection and communication are essential in navigating aging. Finding peace and authenticity is essential for personal growth.Suffering teaches us valuable lessons about appreciation and resilience.Childlike wonder is key to maintaining vitality as we age.Living life to the fullest means embracing experiences without fear of failure.Gratitude should be a daily practice to enhance happiness.Questioning our assumptions can lead to a more fulfilling life.Acts of kindness create a ripple effect in the community.Nurturing relationships is crucial for personal and communal growth.Aging out loud means actively engaging in life rather than fading away.Helping others can lead to greater personal satisfaction and joy.Chapters 00:00 Challenging Aging Stereotypes 07:29 The Cultural Narrative of Aging 14:52 Mindset and Aging 22:30 Family Dynamics in Aging Conversations 29:56 The Value of Time and Connection 30:41 Finding Peace and Authenticity 32:03 The Gift of Suffering 34:51 The Seven Pillars of Ageless Vitality 37:12 Aging Out Loud: Living Life to the Fullest 42:50 The Power of Gratitude 44:56 Questioning Assumptions and Embracing Kindness Resources Age Out Loud book website Home Remodeling in Salem VA | Senior Remodeling Experts  Aging in Place is a Team Sport | Podcast on Spotify  Senior Remodeling Experts - YouTube CAPS teaching website is Age In Place Specialists - CAPS Classes  © 2025-2026 Lisa M. Harper. All rights reserved. “Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey” is a trademark of Lisa M. Harper.

    47 min

  7. FEB 10

    Interview with Nicole Ramer, Author, Certified Professional Organizer®, Certified Senior Move Manager® & Chronic Disorganization Specialist®

    In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages in a heartfelt conversation with Nicole Ramer, a Senior Home Coach™, Certified Professional Organizer®, Certified Senior Move Manager® & Chronic Disorganization Specialist®. They discuss the emotional and physical challenges of aging, clutter management, and the importance of supportive family dynamics during transitions. Nicole shares her insights on the role of a Senior Move Manager®, the significance of space planning, and the complexities of chronic disorganization and hoarding. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and proactive planning in the aging journey, encouraging families to have open discussions about their loved ones' needs and desires. Takeaways Space planning is crucial for a successful transition to a new home.What the role of a Senior Move Manager® is.Clutter often represents deeper emotional issues for seniors.Family dynamics can complicate the process of aging and moving.It's essential to ask seniors what they want for their next chapter.Emotional attachments to belongings can hinder the decluttering process.Chronic disorganization is often misunderstood and requires specialized support.Hoarding behaviors can stem from cognitive decline and should be approached with care.Education and support are vital for families navigating aging challenges.Proactive planning can alleviate stress and create a smoother transition for seniors.Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Aging Conversations 01:30 The Role of a Senior Move Manager 04:11 Understanding Clutter and Safety 07:14 Navigating Family Dynamics in Aging 10:42 Planning for the Next Chapter 14:35 The Importance of Space Planning 17:29 Emotional Attachments and Letting Go 21:10 Chronic Disorganization and Its Challenges 24:14 The Misunderstanding of Hoarding 27:44 The Need for Support and Education 30:05 Personal Stories and Lessons Learned 34:40 Final Thoughts and Advice Resources https://organizedhaven.com/ https://www.challengingdisorganization.org/ https://www.youtube.com/@organizedhaven https://www.safemovesforseniors.org/lakeland Keywords aging, senior move management, clutter, family dynamics, emotional support, space planning, chronic disorganization, hoarding, caregiving, transitions  © 2025-2026 Lisa M. Harper. All rights reserved. “Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey” is a trademark of Lisa M. Harper.

    44 min

  8. JAN 27

    Interview with Nicole Johnson, Estate Attorney

    In this episode of Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey, Lisa Harper engages with estate planning attorney Nicole Johnson to discuss the critical aspects of estate planning, including the importance of powers of attorney, wills, and trusts. They explore the emotional dynamics of family discussions around these topics, the implications of cognitive decline, and the necessity of having essential documents in place to ensure that individuals' wishes are honored. The conversation emphasizes the need for proactive planning and open communication within families to navigate the complexities of aging and legacy management. Takeaways Estate planning is about honoring people's wishes and legacies.Powers of attorney are crucial for managing affairs while alive.Having essential documents in place prevents others from controlling your assets.Probate serves as an oversight to ensure proper handling of estates.Trusts provide privacy and can help avoid probate.Planning ahead can save families from emotional and financial strain.Legal capacity is essential for making decisions about estate planning.Open conversations about estate planning can ease family tensions.Understanding the tax implications of estate planning is vital.Proactive planning is better than waiting for a crisis.Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Estate Planning and Its Importance 02:32 Understanding Powers of Attorney 04:54 The Role of Wills and Probate 06:56 Exploring Trusts and Their Benefits 09:41 The Importance of Pre-Planning 11:28 Navigating Family Dynamics in Decision Making 13:57 Addressing Cognitive Decline and Planning Ahead 16:08 The Role of HIPAA in Estate Planning 18:00 Cost Considerations for Estate Planning 18:35 Understanding Estate Planning Essentials 21:04 Navigating Property and Financial Decisions 25:07 Legal Capacity and Dementia 26:58 The Importance of Proactive Planning 29:17 Myths and Misconceptions in Estate Planning Keywords estate planning, powers of attorney, wills, trusts, healthcare decisions, cognitive decline, family dynamics, legal capacity, estate attorney, planning for aging Resources Garrity & Gossage, LLP  © 2025-2026 Lisa M. Harper. All rights reserved. “Not Ready Yet: Curating Conversations for the Aging Journey” is a trademark of Lisa M. Harper.

    33 min
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