Curveball with Scott Reich

Scott Reich

Life confronts us with the unexpected. Curveball is about facing an unimaginable life event and the human experience of responding to it—and how we can all hit life’s curveballs. Host Scott Reich was dealt a huge curveball when his infant son, Eli, was diagnosed in 2019 with a rare brain disorder called FOXG1 syndrome. Eli cannot walk, talk, or do anything independently while suffering seizures and other medical challenges. In response to Eli's diagnosis, Scott immediately launched a global nonprofit, Believe in a Cure, which is changing the future landscape of this disease while supporting the broader rare disease community. Scott's journey with Eli inspired this journey as the host of Curveball where Scott speaks to people whose lives were upended by unexpected challenges. New episodes drop every Tuesday.

  1. 16h ago

    #77 Breaking the Cycle: Navigating Youth Mental Health and Family Challenges with LCSW Kathy Rivera

    Welcome back to Curveball. In this episode, host Scott Reich sits down with Kathy Rivera, a licensed clinical social worker with decades of experience working with children and families, to tackle the ever-evolving mental health challenges facing American youth. Together, they explore the alarming rise of anxiety and depression among young people, the generational cycles of trauma and stress, and the pressures created by our hyper-structured, curated childhoods. With both professional insight and personal experience, Kathy shares strategies for parents to recognize signs of struggle, break patterns within families, and build resilience in children navigating today’s digital, fast-paced world. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or you simply care about the next generation, this conversation offers fresh perspectives and practical tools for supporting mental health. Kathy is the Executive Director & CEO of North Shore Child & Family Guidance Center in New York. Listeners Will Learn: Kathy identifies anxiety, depression, and substance use as some of the most common mental health challenges facing American youth today.Generational trauma and repeated family patterns play a significant role in contributing to mental health struggles in young people, as explained by Kathy. Social media and digital technology have exacerbated mental health issues for both children and their families. Families often seek help only when problems become critical, and Kathy emphasizes that stigma and fear are major barriers to early intervention or preventative mental health care.The highly structured and curated nature of children’s schedules today, unlike in previous generations, has a significant impact on their overall well-being and development.Recognizing what is “normal” versus a warning sign of distress in children’s behavior is a challenge for parents, and Kathy offers concrete signs for parents to monitor.Overprotection and the curation of childhood can prevent children from developing important skills for handling risk and failure, presenting a dilemma for today’s parents, as discussed by Scott. To break harmful generational cycles, Kathy advocates for family-based approaches that include naming and understanding patterns, assessing readiness for change, and building ecosystem-level awareness and skills.When parents sense that something is not right with their child’s mental health, Kathy advises them to trust their instincts and initiate open, ongoing conversations regardless of initial reassurances.Kathy’s two closing self-reflection prompts—considering how a reaction serves you in the moment and whether it will strengthen or weaken a relationship—offer valuable guidance for families facing mental health challenges. Key Moments: (00:00) Mental health challenges in youth (05:46) Family therapy and patterns (07:23) Navigating kids' tech and social pressures (11:58) Observing and communicating with kids (16:57) Parental pressures in youth sports (19:32) Parents shielding children from challenges (23:27) Embracing failure and variety (26:25) Navigating shared struggles (28:35) Reflecting on personal growth and change (31:18) Self-reflection and relationship advice

  2. Sep 29

    #76 How Betsy Kaplan Builds Grief Support Networks One Workout at a Time

    Welcome to Curveball. In this episode, host Scott Reich sits down with Betsy Kaplan, founder of Grief, Sweat & Tears—a unique, community-centered fitness experience for people navigating grief and loss. After losing her father, Joel, to suicide in 2018, Betsy struggled to find connections with others going through similar journeys. Inspired by the benefits she found in movement and fitness, she launched Grief, Sweat & Tears as a space where people can come together, work out, and support each other—no explanations needed. Through candid conversation, Betsy shares how she’s turned her pain into purpose, what radical acceptance means to her, and how building community has transformed her own grief journey—and the lives of hundreds of others. Tune in for an honest discussion about loss, healing, and the power of simply showing up. Listeners Will Learn: Betsy uses fitness and movement as a way to process grief, suggesting that physical activity can be a powerful tool for navigating loss.The community element of Grief, Sweat & Tears offers a different experience from traditional support groups or therapy, focusing on informal connection and shared activity rather than clinical or structured discussion.Allowing people to define their own grief experiences is essential, as Betsy believes there is no single way to grieve or to experience loss.The concept of “radical acceptance” involves accepting what cannot be changed and learning to move forward, even if relationships or circumstances are not as one wished.Grief journeys can often be isolating, underscoring the importance of community and the need for better societal support for individuals experiencing loss.Social media plays a significant role in building communities around grief, providing opportunities for connection but also presenting challenges such as comparison and misunderstandings.Betsy experienced the harm of rumors and misinformation following her father’s death by suicide, highlighting the importance of sensitivity and respect in how communities respond to personal loss.Asking about who someone lost and what they loved about them, rather than focusing on the circumstances of death, can create a more supportive and respectful environment for those grieving.Working with grieving children at Experience Camps deeply shaped Betsy’s understanding of resilience and community, lessons she now applies in supporting adults through grief. Key Moments: (00:00) Hosting popular grief community events (03:55) Discussing grief and loss conversations (09:32) Coping with her father's death (13:16) Building community through grief classes (16:44) Building a supportive grief community (19:27) Journey through grief camp leadership (20:59) Reflecting on leaving program director role (24:19) Finding community after loss (28:13) Supporting friends processing loss

  3. Sep 22

    #75 From Crisis to Purpose: Award-winning journalist Mariana Atencio’s Journey from Venezuela to the American Dream

    Welcome to Curveball. In this episode, host Scott Reich sits down with award-winning journalist and author Mariana Atencio, whose personal journey from Venezuela to the United States paints a portrait of resilience, reinvention, and finding one’s true voice in a rapidly changing world. From harrowing experiences with violence and upheaval in her homeland to building a career bringing underrepresented stories to light, Mariana shares what it means to fight for the American dream and the values that bind us—even in times of profound division. Join us for an honest and inspiring conversation about authenticity, overcoming adversity, and the pursuit of purpose, both professionally and personally. Listeners Will Learn: Mariana’s experience growing up in a prosperous Venezuela, followed by political turmoil and decline, deeply shaped her career path and core values as a journalist.A life-changing encounter with violence prompted Mariana to leave Venezuela, which profoundly influenced her view on personal safety and the pursuit of new opportunities.Mariana describes the United States as a beacon of hope while acknowledging the increasing challenges immigrants face today, illustrating how her background shapes her distinct perspective on America.The conversation highlights that media and political structures often amplify social divisions.Mariana emphasizes the dangers of social media silos and encourages individuals to actively engage with those who have different perspectives, fostering open dialogue and genuine connection.The story of her father’s death during Venezuela’s humanitarian crisis exposes systemic failures in governance and healthcare, powerfully impacting her personally and professionally.She shares her journey through divorce and personal upheaval, drawing connections between her ability to overcome adversity in her personal life and to navigate professional curveballs.Authenticity, for Mariana, is central both in her reporting and her personal relationships, serving as a guiding theme in how she approaches her work and builds meaningful connections.Mariana reflects on her drive to live “the big life,” and sees fulfilling one’s potential as requiring alignment with one’s inner purpose and core values, encouraging others to pursue what excites and uplifts them.Mariana Atencio challenges Scott to use more positive and intentional language in self-reflection, highlighting the impact of gratitude and reframing on optimism and resilience, even in difficult moments. Key Moments: (00:00) Surviving a terrifying ordeal at age 23 (06:46) Discussing political division in America (08:55) Discussing socioeconomic challenges (11:04) Importance of dialogue and connection (17:11) Covering global disasters and crises (18:39) Dad's health crisis and preventable death (23:13) Dealing with life's curveballs (27:22) Aligning life with core values (30:33) Motivation and personal responsibilities (32:54) Discussing personal truths and fears (37:43) Personal growth and life challenges

  4. Sep 15

    #74 Rachel Uchitel Reflects on 9/11, Grief, and Creating a Life Beyond Tragedy

    In this powerful episode of Curveball, Scott Reich sits down with Rachel Uchitel, the host of the podcast "Miss Understood," as she reflects on losing her fiancé, Andy O’Grady, during the September 11th attacks and the impact it has had on her life over the past 25 years. Rachel shares her firsthand account of that tragic day, the collective grief of a nation, and the deeply personal journey of moving forward through heartbreak, reinvention, and motherhood. Through candid conversation, she opens up about how tragedy shaped her search for stability, her experiences with love and loss, and the enduring power of vulnerability and connection. Join us as we honor Andy’s memory and explore how resilience emerges from unimaginable adversity. Listeners Will Learn: Rachel Uchitel's personal story of loss on 9/11 offers both unique and universal elements that parallel and contrast with the experiences of others during that national tragedy.According to Rachel, the country felt more united after 9/11, and she observes a stark difference in the sense of unity when compared to the current social climate.Her experience of having her grief captured in an iconic photograph highlights both the supportive and challenging implications of making one’s loss public.The relationships and marriages Rachel pursued after 9/11 illustrate her search for stability and comfort in the aftermath of trauma.Rachel emphasizes that vulnerability is essential for forming deep connections with others, especially when sharing stories of personal tragedy.The ongoing media attention from both national and international outlets significantly influenced Rachel’s grieving process and her journey toward moving forward.In the wake of immense public and personal trauma, Rachel found certain coping mechanisms helpful but also faced considerable challenges as she worked to rebuild her life.Community and shared experiences played a crucial role in Rachel’s grieving process, particularly during her interactions with other people affected by 9/11.Rachel’s trauma led her to form boundaries and prioritize stability, which in turn shaped her approach to future relationships and major life choices.She shares that withholding judgment and practicing empathy are vital, asserting that understanding the deeper stories behind people's choices brings us closer to one another and fosters compassion. Key Moments: (00:00) Searching for loved ones at Armory (04:46) Coping with loss after 9/11 (07:08) Meeting someone inspiring like Andy (11:46) Coping with 9/11 grief (16:22) Spontaneous wedding night decisions (18:09) Seeking stability after loss (20:57) Witnessing chaos on Park Avenue (23:38) Talking to Andy during 9/11 (27:18) Witnessing the tower collapse (30:47) Lesson on vulnerability and empathy

  5. Sep 8

    #73 Overcoming Curveballs: Hall of Famer Chris Carrino on Resilience, Broadcasting, and Muscular Dystrophy

    On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich talks with legendary sports broadcaster and philanthropist Chris Carrino for an inspiring and deeply personal conversation. Known for his iconic voice in the booth and his tireless advocacy for muscular dystrophy research, Chris opens up about his journey from sports-obsessed childhood to a Hall of Fame broadcasting career—all while living with FSHD muscular dystrophy. Chris discusses the challenges he’s faced since his diagnosis at age 23, the reality of adapting to life in a wheelchair, and the emotional complexities that come with being both the person living with a disability and a loved one affected by it. With honesty and heart, he shares how his experiences have strengthened his relationships, driven him to found the Chris Carrino Foundation for FSHD, and motivated him to use his platform to inspire others. Join us as we explore the curveballs life throws our way, the power of resilience, and the ways in which our deepest challenges can forge unexpected strength, empathy, and purpose. Listeners Will Learn: Chris’ childhood experiences with sports broadcasting greatly influenced his resilience and approach to life's challenges. The baseball analogy of "hitting mistakes" is used by Chris to illustrate his philosophy on recognizing and seizing opportunities when facing adversity. The gradual progression of FSHD muscular dystrophy profoundly impacted Chris’ personal life, career, and the way he navigates challenges. Chris’ initial reluctance to share his diagnosis publicly gave way to greater openness and advocacy through founding his own foundation, which changed how he connected with others. Family, friends, and colleagues are essential to Chris’ ability to pursue his career and advocacy work, providing both support and deeper connections. Chris defines inspiration from disability as something that should spark positive action or empathy in others, while also acknowledging the disabled community's discomfort with being seen only as "inspirational." Chris’ condition has brought greater depth and meaning to his relationships with his wife and son, shaping family dynamics in unique and powerful ways. The conversation between Scott and Chris brings to light the many "invisible burdens" that individuals with disabilities and their families carry, which are often overlooked or misunderstood by others. Chris’ perspective both challenges and expands societal attitudes toward people with disabilities, inspiring empathy while discouraging pity or condescension. Chris highlights the importance of mindset, supportive relationships, and embracing adaptation as ways to find happiness and joy despite physical challenges. The challenges Scott faces caring for his son Eli, who cannot walk, talk, or perform basic activities independently, illustrate the profound logistical, emotional, and physical challenges families experience alongside disability. Scott’s admiration for Eli’s perseverance during therapies and daily struggles shapes his own sense of responsibility, motivating him to find purpose and productivity by drawing inspiration from his son’s efforts. Key Moments: (00:00) Dealing with life's unexpected challenges (03:25) Dealing with a muscular dystrophy diagnosis (07:46) Starting The Chris Carino Foundation (11:40) Commending Chris for public courage (14:39) Dealing with personal hardships (17:12) Reflecting on personal achievements and relationships (20:32) Finding inspiration in others (23:08) Parenting and Eli's influence (27:42) Reflecting on resilience in adversity (29:26) Finding happiness despite challenges

  6. Sep 3

    Special Episode of Curveball: Remembering Gloria Steinem

    Gloria Steinem died yesterday at the age of 92. Journalist. Writer. Organizer. Feminist icon. And, for generations of women, a voice who helped change what was possible. In this special episode of Curveball, Scott Reich looks back on his deeply personal conversation with Gloria Steinem—an extraordinary interview that, to our knowledge, was among the last she gave. Recorded in the spring of 2025, the conversation takes on new meaning now. Gloria spoke with the wisdom, warmth, humor and candor that defined her remarkable life. She reflected on the experiences that shaped her, the people who influenced her, the movements she helped build, and the lessons she had learned about resilience, equality, and human connection. Gloria spoke openly about growing up with a mother who struggled with mental illness and about the loneliness and absence of female role models she experienced as a young woman. She remembered finding inspiration in the books of Louisa May Alcott at a time when there were few women visible in journalism or public life. She recalled entering a male-dominated media world where women were often assigned stories based on their gender—stories about pantyhose rather than politics—and how those experiences helped propel her toward a different kind of journalism and, ultimately, the creation of Ms. Magazine. She became a writer because she was terrified of public speaking, she shared. Gloria talked about the power of community, describing human beings as “communal animals,” and reflected on the movements that changed America, from Civil Rights and the anti-Vietnam War movement to the women’s movement and MeToo. She spoke with particular wonder about the global reach of MeToo and about the ways social upheaval, while painful and frightening, can also create extraordinary progress. She also reflected on a deeply personal turning point: having an abortion in London at 22. She spoke candidly about how access to reproductive freedom gave her the ability to pursue the life and work she wanted—a reminder that the freedoms we debate politically can profoundly shape the course of an individual life. Throughout the conversation, Gloria returned to a simple but powerful idea: connection matters. She spoke about the danger of allowing differences to isolate us, the importance of finding common ground, and the extraordinary things people can accomplish when they refuse to be divided by “otherness.” Now, with Gloria gone, her words feel both intimate and timeless. This is a conversation about a life spent challenging the boundaries placed around women—and about the empathy, courage, community and imagination required to change the world. It is also a rare opportunity to hear Gloria Steinem in her own words, reflecting on the life she lived and the future she hoped we would build. We are honored to share it as a special episode of Curveball and as a remembrance of Gloria Steinem. What Listeners Will Hear:Gloria reflecting candidly on her mother’s struggle with mental illness and the profound influence it had on her childhood.Why Louisa May Alcott became an early source of inspiration when there were so few visible female journalists or public role models.The creation and significance of Ms. Magazine and its role in the women’s movement.Her experiences navigating a male-dominated media industry—including being assigned stories because she was a woman.Why Gloria believed community was essential to resilience and social change.Her reflections on the extraordinary global impact of the MeToo movement.Why periods of social turmoil, including the Civil Rights and anti-Vietnam War movements, can become catalysts for progress.Her experience having an abortion in London at 22 and why reproductive freedom allowed her to pursue her life's work.Her enduring belief in connecting across differences and resisting the isolation of “otherness.”Gloria’s wisdom on resilience, leadership, empathy, and finding strength through other people. Key Moments:(00:00) — Growing Up With Her Mother’s Struggles (03:09) — Gender Bias and Finding Encouragement (09:09) — The Power of Collective Action (09:59) — Resilience in the Face of Criticism (14:45) — The Magic of Reading and Self-Discovery (17:18) — Political Division and Societal Fear (22:37) — Progress Outpacing Representation (26:08) — Love, Connection and a Life of Global Perspective (30:05) — The Leaders Who Will Shape the Future (30:54) — Why Human Connection Matters (35:36) — Building Community Through Connection

  7. Sep 1

    #71 What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully with Hospice and Death and Dying Expert Eric Horwith

    On this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich sits down with Eric Horwith—a seasoned hospice care leader, educator, and author—to explore what it means to live meaningfully in the shadow of mortality. Death is no longer the taboo subject it once was. As more people actively seek community, language, and practical guidance around mortality, conversations about dying, caregiving, and loss are moving into the mainstream. Drawing from his personal journey, decades working in end-of-life care, and teaching at the University of Pittsburgh, Eric challenges us to rethink how we talk about death, confront our fears of regret, and find purpose in everyday life. He shares intimate insights about grief, legacy, and the search for peace at the end of life—inviting us to reflect on our own beliefs, hopes, and what it truly means to have a “good death.” Whether you’re grappling with loss, planning for the future, or simply curious about life’s ultimate transition, this is a conversation you won’t want to miss. Listeners Will Learn: Eric emphasizes that working in end-of-life care is less about death itself and more about making the most of life; facing mortality can greatly influence our daily choices and sense of purpose.“Terror management theory” helps explain society’s reluctance to discuss death and dying; fear and regret are powerful forces that shape this avoidance.Mindfulness serves as a vital tool in preparing for end-of-life, and cultivating a purposeful life is a recurring theme in this episode.Eric draws meaningful parallels between running a marathon and experiencing grief and loss, highlighting how endurance and unpredictable terrain are shared elements that can help people process grief.People at the end of their lives often focus more on ensuring their loved ones will be okay rather than dwelling on their own fears or regrets, according to Eric.Anecdotes of people “waiting” for a loved one before dying are common and suggest that emotional closure plays a significant role in the process of dying.Media portrayals can glamorize or misrepresent the true experiences of dying, which in turn shapes and sometimes distorts our societal attitudes toward death.The concept of a “good death” is described as one filled with chosen sights, sounds, people, and feelings, and individuals are encouraged to work toward achieving these for themselves or their loved ones.Eric’s personal experience with his mother’s death profoundly influences his understanding of grief and demonstrates that the sense of loss is significant regardless of age or circumstances.Eric suggests that doing “me-search”—personal exploration of end-of-life preferences—is crucial and goes beyond simply researching general information. Key Moments: 00:00 Eric's interest in studying death 05:55 Struggling with life's purpose 07:24 Discussing views on legacy and death 13:34 Believing in afterlife experiences 15:14 Questioning the meaning of existence 18:46 Discussing loss and its impact 21:16 Writing a guide on grief 24:41 Discussing end-of-life education 28:55 End-of-life decision-making

  8. Aug 25

    #70 Bestselling Author Xochitl Gonzalez on the Changing American Dream: Opportunity, Belonging, and the Next Generation

    What happens when the American dream feels out of reach? In this episode of Curveball, host Scott Reich sits down with bestselling author and Pulitzer Prize finalist Xochitl Gonzalez, whose life and work explore the meaning of opportunity, class, and belonging in an ever-changing America. Raised by her immigrant grandparents in South Brooklyn, Xochitl brings an unfiltered perspective on the power of optimism, the legacy of the “greatest generation,” and the current challenges facing upward mobility. From her journey through event planning and writing, to her reflections on cultural decline, civic engagement, and generational shifts, Xochitl asks the questions at the heart of today’s American identity: Who gets ahead? Who gets left behind? Join us as we explore the curveballs life throws—and what it takes to move forward when the rules of the game keep changing. Listeners Will Learn: Xochitl Gonzalez describes how being raised by her grandparents deeply influenced her personal values, instilling in her old-fashioned “greatest generation” ethics, patriotism, and civic engagement.The decline of shared cultural experiences, such as affordable moviegoing, is framed by Xochitl and Scott as a marker of diminishing unity and prosperity in America, contributing to social fragmentation.Scott and Xochitl explore the widening wealth gap between the affluent and the poor is closely linked to weakened civic life and growing threats to democracy, with the episode offering examples like exclusion from communal events and sports.Optimism and opportunity are portrayed as central elements fueling the “American dream,” while concerns are raised about recent college graduates facing underemployment and a generational loss of hope.Xochitl emphasizes forms of wealth beyond the material, highlighting the richness found in community, family traditions, and the dignity of shared experience, which shaped her worldview and writing.The decline of civic institutions, such as libraries and public gathering spaces, is discussed as a root cause of social disconnection and the narrowing of personal and collective purpose in modern America.Historical models of philanthropy and civic responsibility among the wealthy are contrasted with the current era, where high-profile leaders are seen as less engaged in public life and investment.The episode draws clear parallels between the economic disparities of the Gilded Age and today, noting similar risks of social instability and the need for visionary public and private leadership.Xochitl expresses hope that revitalizing civic education and public engagement—especially for younger generations—can help rebuild community bonds and a sense of shared responsibility.The episode invites a redefinition of the “American dream,” shifting focus from pure material advancement to broader ideas of access, belonging, optimism, and genuine opportunity. Key Moments (00:00) Family dinners and career beginnings (04:43) Transitioning to professional writing (08:27) Importance of civic engagement (12:16) The decline of affordable moviegoing (13:27) Measuring quality of life (18:14) Disparity's impact on democracy (21:10) Navigating financial struggles and resilience (26:05) Discussion on physical gatherings (28:55) Decline in philanthropic leadership (31:30) Restraint of monopolies and labor laws (35:27) America's frontier spirit and legacy

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Life confronts us with the unexpected. Curveball is about facing an unimaginable life event and the human experience of responding to it—and how we can all hit life’s curveballs. Host Scott Reich was dealt a huge curveball when his infant son, Eli, was diagnosed in 2019 with a rare brain disorder called FOXG1 syndrome. Eli cannot walk, talk, or do anything independently while suffering seizures and other medical challenges. In response to Eli's diagnosis, Scott immediately launched a global nonprofit, Believe in a Cure, which is changing the future landscape of this disease while supporting the broader rare disease community. Scott's journey with Eli inspired this journey as the host of Curveball where Scott speaks to people whose lives were upended by unexpected challenges. New episodes drop every Tuesday.

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