Not so Christian Brothers

🎙️ Welcome to the Not So Christian Brothers Podcast!  New episodes every Thursday @ 6 PM IST | Weekend "After Show" every Sunday @ 8 AM IST. Meet veteran Irish radio broadcaster Colm Hayes (RTÉ, FM104, Ireland’s Classic Hits) and his brother, renowned high-performance coach, psychologist, and entrepreneur Justin Caffrey. They might share the same DNA, but they couldn’t be more different.  Together, they host Ireland's most candid podcast on modern masculinity, mental health, business strategy, and lifestyle. No topics are off-limits. From sobriety, marriage, and grief to fatherhood, business failures, global politics, and Dublin childhood memories—they take the sacred cows of modern life and give them a good old-fashioned grilling.  Every 30-minute episode tackles burning listener DMs with zero filter, sharp Irish wit, and plenty of banter. Then, on Sundays, they are joined by their fearless producer Rebecca Horan and "Terry Tech" for a loose, unscripted After-Show where they pull back the curtain on the chaos, call out contradictions, and share unfiltered lifestyle and health optimization hacks. Unscripted. Unpolished. Unholy. But always worth tuning in.  🔔 Subscribe for your weekly dose of authentic Irish comedy and raw conversation! 🔗 CONNECT WITH US: 🌐 Website: notsochristianbrothers.com #NotSoChristianBrothers #IrishPodcast #Masculinity #MentalHealth #ColmHayes #JustinCaffrey #IrishHumor #HighPerformance Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 4d ago

    31 Weddings in One Year, The Jacksons Tour, & Big Life Milestones

    How many weddings is too many in a single year? In this Sunday After-Show, Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Terry Tech react to the mind-boggling reality of modern 20-somethings attending upwards of 31 weddings in twelve months—complete with destination trips, pizza vans, and two-day celebrations. On a personal note, Colm reflects on his son Alex’s wedding, sharing bittersweet family memories, origin stories behind the name, and what it feels like watching the next generation step into married life.The lads also talk music nostalgia, covering the Jacksons touring Ireland alongside Sister Sledge, Nile Rogers, and memories of iconic live gigs. Plus, Justin debates whether expensive African safaris are worth it when you can watch David Attenborough in 4K, and the team unearths the wild story behind the 2013 Liberace biopic Behind the Candelabra!🍞 TEFAL TOASTER GIVEAWAY UPDATE! 🍞The nationwide Tefal toaster giveaway continues! We are giving away top-of-the-range Tefal toasters worth over €100 each. To make sure you are entered in the upcoming draws, like this episode, subscribe to the channel, and tag a friend in our social media comments!Catch a brand new episode of the Not So Christian Brothers twice a week:Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6:00 PMThe After-Show: Every Sunday @ 8:00 AMChapters00:00 - The 31 Weddings Craze: Modern Hipster & Destination Marriage Culture01:07 - The Jacksons & Sister Sledge Live at the 3Arena04:05 - Seeing Music Legends Live vs. Watching Gigs on DVD04:26 - Safaris, Serengeti Photos, & Why Justin Prefers David Attenborough06:22 - Garth Brooks & His Secret 1999 Alter Ego Album (Chris Gaines)07:29 - Movie Retrospective: Behind the Candelabra & Raising Pre-Production Money11:25 - Bittersweet Milestones: Colm Reflects on His Son Alex’s Wedding Day14:21 - Tuscany Honeymoons, Two-Day Wedding Afters, & Food Trucks18:00 - Wrap-Up, Channel Subscriptions, & Tefal Giveaway Details Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  2. 6d ago

    Are Big Money & Billionaires Ruining Modern Sport?

    Has modern sport completely lost its soul to mega-wealthy owners and corporate money? In this week's episode of the Not So Christian Brothers, Colm Hayes and Justin Caffrey unpack the dramatic shift in professional football. From rumours of Jeff Bezos targeting major club acquisitions to tickets soaring out of reach for ordinary fans, the brothers explore whether the magic of the game is officially gone.The debate turns local as Colm expresses his discomfort with English Premier League teams playing pre-season matches inside GAA headquarters at Croke Park, sparking a wider talk on Irish sporting history and the unexpected resurgence of the League of Ireland.Plus, Colm recounts a hilariously awkward exchange with a new barber who claimed he had "the hair of a scientist," leading to an honest chat about small talk, social boundaries, and why barbers now offer "silent cuts"!🍞 NATIONAL TEFAL TOASTER GIVEAWAY CONTINUES! 🍞Following our recent announcements, we still have top-of-the-range Tefal toasters up for grabs! To enter the upcoming draws, make sure you like this episode, subscribe to the channel, and tag a friend in our social media comments.Catch a brand new episode of the Not So Christian Brothers twice a week:Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6:00 PMThe After-Show: Every Sunday @ 8:00 AMSubscribe today and share this episode with a friend!Chapters00:00 - Carnivore Diets & Saving Money on Toilet Paper01:54 - Colm’s Barber Story: "You Have the Hair of a Scientist"03:44 - Small Talk vs. Silent Haircuts: Are We Obligated to Chat?07:00 - Jeff Bezos, Billionaires, & The Death of Ticket Accessibility10:48 - Whatever Happened to Underdog Stories in Modern Sport?14:00 - Do Astronomical Player Salaries Change the Game?18:53 - English Premier League Teams Playing in Croke Park: Right or Wrong?24:03 - The Resurgence of the League of Ireland & Local Football Culture28:40 - Wrap-Up, Channel Subscriptions, & Tefal Toaster Details Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  3. Aug 9

    How Manifestation Works & The Great Toaster Debate

    Can writing down your goals actually change your reality, or is it just a glorified to-do list? In this Sunday After-Show, Justin Caffrey, Colm Hayes, and Terry Tech dive into the mechanics of manifestation. Justin shares his non-airy-fairy, pragmatic 26-step morning routine, explaining how establishing a clear "North Star" aligns your focus and actions. Meanwhile, Colm reflects on breaking out of life's repetitive roundabouts and putting together a concrete life plan following a year of massive personal change.The lads also look at Lucy Kennedy’s new chat show Unfiltered, debate classic TV hosts from Parkinson to Dame Edna, and walk down memory lane with their very first record purchases. Plus, Justin reports back from his new home in Malta, where the kitchen layout finally settles the viral debate over where Catholics and Protestants store their bread-toasting appliances!🍞 TEFAL TOASTER GIVEAWAY UPDATE! 🍞The team announces the second winner of the premium Tefal toaster giveaway, Sharon McGinty! If you are Sharon McGinty or our week one winner Eleanor Wood, please get in touch via DM or the comments so we can arrange delivery. We still have ONE Tefal toaster left to give away in our upcoming draw!Catch a brand new episode of the Not So Christian Brothers twice a week:Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6:00 PMThe After-Show: Every Sunday @ 8:00 AMChapter Timings00:00 - TV Chat Shows: Lucy Kennedy’s Unfiltered, Parkinson, & Dame Edna04:47 - Malta Property Update & The Great Tefal Toaster Debate06:14 - Tefal Toaster Winner Announcements & Contact Info07:27 - Calvinism, Toaster Placement, & Household Habits09:20 - Practical Manifestation: Goal Setting vs. Airy-Fairy Dreams13:05 - The "I Am" Philosophy & Setting Your North Star18:50 - Colm’s Life To-Do List & Breaking Out of Repetitive Cycles24:03 - First Albums, Music Nostalgia, & Walkmans from the 80s & 90s29:20 - Wrap-Up & Tefal Giveaway Details Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  4. Aug 6

    Is It Time to Move On? Overcoming Life’s Biggest Decisions

    Making life-altering decisions is never easy. In this week's episode of the Not So Christian Brothers, Justin Caffrey dials in from a sweltering hotel room in Malta to explore why so many people get trapped in indecision. What starts as a debate on business choices turns into a deeply personal conversation when Colm Hayes reveals he is facing a massive crossroads: deciding whether to sell his family home in South County Dublin.Together with Terry Tech, the brothers discuss the heavy emotional weight attached to property, navigating grief, and managing room-by-room triggers after losing a loved one. Justin offers sharp, psychology-backed advice on why holding back often does more harm than good, while Colm weighs the bittersweet memories of his house against the promise of a fresh start. Plus, Justin and Colm end up unofficially putting both of their homes on the market live on air!🍞 THE NATIONAL TEFAL TOASTER GIVEAWAY CONTINUES! 🍞Following the announcement of our first winner, Eleanor, we still have TWO top-of-the-range Tefal toasters left to give away! To enter the upcoming draws, make sure you like this episode, subscribe to the channel, and tag a friend on our social media channels.Catch a brand new episode of the Not So Christian Brothers twice a week:Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6:00 PMThe After-Show: Every Sunday @ 8:00 AMSubscribe today and share this episode with someone facing a big life choice!Chapter Timings00:00 - Broadcasting from Malta: Humidity & Irish Sunburns03:25 - The Trap of Indecision: Why Waiting Holds You Back05:56 - Colm’s Dilemma: Head vs. Heart in Major Life Choices10:05 - Can Waiting for "The Right Moment" Be a Mistake?13:42 - Selling the Family Home: Emotional Baggage vs. Bricks and Mortar16:30 - Processing Grief, Room Triggers, & Carrying Memories Forward18:38 - Terry’s Experience Buying & Selling His Own Childhood Home21:30 - Moving On After Loss: When Is the Right Time to Change Your Environment?25:14 - Live Property Pitch: Greystones vs. Blackrock Townhouses27:32 - Wrap-Up & T-fal Toaster Giveaway Updates Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  5. Aug 2

    Toaster Winner Revealed, TikTok Interlining, and The Great Inheritance Let-Down

    It is time to announce our very first Tefal toaster winner! In this week's After-Show, Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Terry Tech reveal the lucky Dublin listener taking home a brand-new top-of-the-range toaster worth over €100. But do not worry if you missed out—there are still TWO more premium T-fal toasters left in the studio giveaway!The conversation kicks off with family memories, as the brothers recall an eccentric uncle who promised an inheritance for fifty years, only to leave behind a pair of driving gloves. They explore the strange phenomenon of naming all your children the same name, before shifting to modern technology and interrailing across Europe.Justin shares how his son navigates major European cities using TikTok as a real-time Lonely Planet guide, leading to a debate on why younger generations prioritise experiences over buying physical items. Plus, the lads review Season 5 of The Bear, discuss restaurant culture, and address the podcast's rapidly growing male viewership!🎁 THE NATIONAL T-FAL TOASTER GIVEAWAY CONTINUES! 🎁We still have TWO Tefal toasters to give away over the next two Sundays!To enter, make sure you like this show, subscribe to the podcast, share the episode, and tag a friend in the comment section!Catch a brand new episode of the Not So Christian Brothers twice a week:🎙️ Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6:00 PM🎤 The After-Show: Every Sunday @ 8:00 AMHit follow, leave a rating, and share this episode with a friend today!Chapter Timings00:00 - Baby Names: Tyson Fury & The Prince Trend00:30 - Announcing Our First T-fal Toaster Winner!02:30 - How to Enter for the Remaining Two Toaster Giveaways03:38 - Godfather Duties & Family Inheritance Stories05:51 - Uncle Arthur’s Will: £500 Sterling vs. A Pair of Driving Gloves07:53 - Adult Subscription Platforms & Social Media Trends10:34 - Inter-railing in 2026: Using TikTok as the New Lonely Planet12:45 - How TikTok Search Works for Travel, Coffee, & Restaurants15:46 - TV Review: The Bear Season 5 & The Realities of Hospitality18:00 - Behind the Scenes in TV Writing Rooms: Why Shows Flag & Recover20:38 - Wrap-Up: Growing Audience Statistics & Sunday Farewell Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  6. Jul 30

    Keto Breath, Bolt-Cutter Blunders, and What Happens When the Kids Leave Home

    What happens when your bike lock jams outside the 40 Foot and you have to walk back through Woody's with a pair of bolt cutters while wearing a helmet so you don't look like a thief? Colm Hayes opens this week's main show with another classic "Larry David moment," while Justin Caffrey details his week of extreme ketogenic eating—which involved eating nothing but sardines for three days straight.The conversation quickly shifts to music nostalgia, covering Stevie Nicks’ iconic guitar riff on Edge of 17, Beth Orton's emotional new release The Ground Above, and the legendary studio documentary detailing how Fleetwood Mac made Rumours.Later, the lads address a viral LinkedIn post written by Justin about raising children and navigating the "empty-nest" transition. When your kids leave for university, do you sit around waiting for them to visit, or do you completely reinvent your life and your marriage? The team dives into relationship dynamics, the myth of chasing non-stop happiness, and why living strictly "in the moment" might actually be overrated.🎁 THE NATIONAL TEFAL TOASTER GIVEAWAY IS STILL ON! 🎁Tefal was so impressed with the community response that they offered to send a 40-foot lorry of toasters! We are giving away THREE top-of-the-range Tefal toasters (worth over €100 each). To enter, like this video, subscribe to the channel, share the episode, and tag a friend in the comment section below. Winners will be announced on the first Sunday in August!Catch a brand new episode of the Not So Christian Brothers twice a week:🎙️ Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6:00 PM🎤 The After-Show: Every Sunday @ 8:00 AMHit follow, leave a rating, and share this episode with a friend today!Chapter Timings00:00 - Non-Judgmental Thinking: Spoons vs. People00:30 - Tefal Toaster Giveaway & Ketogenic Diet Progress01:48 - The 3-Day Sardine Cleanse: Toilet & Breath Warnings02:36 - Colm’s Bike Lock Jam & Buying Bolt Cutters in Woody's04:11 - The Beating Heart of Larry David: Spanish Airport Suit Carrier Disaster05:46 - Music Magic: Stevie Nicks, Beth Orton, & Madonna's Return10:42 - Behind the Scenes: Rolling Stones & Fleetwood Mac Studio Documentaries13:25 - Terry’s Barefoot Shoes & The YouTube Comment Conspiracy Theories17:45 - Are We Being Judged? Social Anxiety & Public Perceptions19:29 - Empty-Nest Syndrome: What Happens When Kids Go to University?21:32 - Relationship Maintenance: Making Time Together & Apart23:25 - The Constant Search Elsewhere: Travel vs. Home Comforts24:32 - Chasing Happiness & The Myth of Strict Mindfulness27:44 - Wrap Up: Toaster Giveaway Reminder & Sunday After-Show Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  7. Jul 26

    Terry’s Secret Foot Fans, Vatican II Rules, and The High-Roller Faith Bet

    Could Terry’s narrow feet be the next viral sensation? In this week’s after-show, Colm Hayes, Justin Caffrey, and Terry "Twinkletoes" Tech return for an unfiltered Sunday morning session. The studio kicks off with a hilarious look at Terry’s growing fanbase—complete with a live foot inspection, discussions on shoe sizes, and an unexpected proposal to launch a dedicated foot-focused channel!The conversation then takes a nostalgic turn back to North Dublin. The brothers recall running cross-country at Santry Stadium, surviving physical training sessions, and getting chased through the woods by local Christian Brothers clad in full religious habits. Terry reveals he almost pursued the priesthood himself, sparking a sharp debate on church rules, Anglican loopholes, and the historical impact of Vatican II when Latin mass was phased out for local dialects.Later, the lads dissect high-profile public figures turning to faith during public scandals, billionaire "hedging" bets on the afterlife, and why psychological research suggests that regular quiet reflection and prayer can actually improve mental health and longevity.🎁 THE NATIONAL TEFAL TOASTER GIVEAWAY IS STILL ON! 🎁Don't forget that we are giving away THREE top-of-the-range Tefal toasters (worth over €100 each)! All you have to do to enter is like, subscribe, tag a friend in the comments, and share the show. The lucky winners will be announced on the first Sunday in August!Catch a brand new episode of the Not So Christian Brothers twice a week:🎬 Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6:00 PM🚪 The After Show: Every Sunday @ 8:00 AMHit follow, leave a rating, and share this episode with a friend today!Chapter Timings00:00 - Stand-up Comedy Standouts: Shane Gillis & Kevin Hart’s Netflix Hit00:52 - Welcome Back: The "Second Coming" of Our Podcast Community01:21 - Terry’s Growing Fanbase & The Foot Stream Proposal02:53 - Live Studio Foot Inspection: Dainty Size 7s vs. Lopsided 12s04:12 - Santry Stadium Memories: North Dublin School Competitions04:42 - Cross-Country Training: Getting Chased by Habits in the Woods05:37 - Dermot Morgan & Father Ted: Unpacking Christian Brother Nuances06:40 - Terry’s Priesthood Ambitions & Considering the Anglican Route07:47 - Misconceptions & Church Rules: Celibacy vs. Chastity08:14 - Vatican II Changes: Phasing Out Latin Mass for Local Dialects11:00 - Public Figures & Finding Faith: Celebrities Under Pressure12:00 - Legal Defences & Appeals: Spiritual Rebrands and Right-Wing Backing13:27 - Youthful Bargains: Promising Mass Attendance for Football Wins14:44 - The Billionaire’s Bet: Why Successful People Hedge on the Afterlife15:45 - Mental Health & Longevity: Psychological Benefits of Daily Reflection17:34 - Envy & Sanctuary: Finding Quiet Reflection in Empty Spaces18:54 - Internal Quietness: Breaking Away from the Busyness of Modern Life20:05 - Toaster Giveaway Reminder: Entering Before the August Deadline Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  8. Jul 23

    World Cup Chaos, Airport Survival Hacks, and The National Toaster Giveaway

    Why are simple kitchen habits still dividing households across the country? In this week's main show, Colm Hayes and Justin Caffrey return to tackle the ongoing cultural fallout from their viral toaster debates. To help smooth things over, their friends at T-fal have stepped in with an incredible giveaway, offering listeners a chance to win one of three premium, state-of-the-art toasters worth over one hundred euros each! The lads break down the simple steps to enter before the winners are announced on the first Sunday in August.The studio then dives straight into the dramatic final match of the World Cup. From the intense, defensive tactics that neutralised the game to the hilarious antics of global leaders celebrating on stage behind bulletproof glass, Colm and Justin give their honest, unfiltered review of the tournament’s conclusion. Tech-man Terry questions the rule changes, while the brothers debate whether the over-the-top halftime show performance actually missed the mark for traditional football fans.Finally, as summer holiday season peaks, Justin shares his expert travel wisdom as a seasoned international commuter. Learn the exact lane shortcuts to take at security, how to master airport "slipstreams" to bypass slow queues, and why investing a few extra euros in premium terminal services will completely transform your travel experience.Catch a brand new episode of the Not So Christian Brothers twice a week:🎙️ Main Show: Every Thursday @ 6:00 PM🚪 The After-Show: Every Sunday @ 8:00 AMHit follow, leave a review, and make sure to enter the toaster giveaway on our social channels today!Chapter Timings00:00 - The Tefal Giveaway: Resolving the Great Toaster Controversy01:19 - Left Footers vs. Right Footers: Do Denominations Butter Bread Differently?02:00 - Nostalgia Corner: Central Heating, Colour TV, and Our Very First Grill02:24 - Giveaway Deadline: Entering Before the First Sunday in August03:10 - Football Final Review: Spain’s Defensive Blanket vs. Argentina04:41 - Historical Realities: Comparing International Team Aggression05:37 - Stage Antics: Public Figures, Celebrations, and Bulletproof Glass06:42 - Corporate Influence: Debating Leadership Decisions in Global Football07:47 - Travel Warnings: Business Partners and International Entry Restrictions08:02 - Halftime Show Analysis: Pre-recorded Sets and Pulse-Racing Performances09:40 - Television Standards: How Classic Children's Broadcasts Changed Titles10:40 - Looney Tunes Realism: Bugs Bunny, Tom & Jerry, and Cartoon Logic11:55 - 1970s Television Subtext: The Strange Behind-the-Scenes Writing13:25 - Character Tropes: Cross-dressing and Repression in Classic Media14:00 - The Seasoned Traveller: Why Justin Can't Stay in One Place15:00 - Airport Survival: Managing the Stress of the Terminal Gates15:24 - Dublin Airport Hacks: Security Time-Savers and Lane Upgrades16:47 - Queue Etiquette: Navigating the Rollercoaster of Security Paths18:14 - The Racing Slipstream: Following Organised Business Travellers19:20 - Mid-Terminal Sprint: Navigating Flight Gates in Malta and Rome20:28 - Meticulous Packing: Using Vacuum Pumps and Organised Luggage21:27 - New Scanner Technology: The Evolution of Liquid and Electronic Checks22:34 - Terminal Lounges: Evaluating the Best Value Experiences in Europe23:37 - Duty-Free Strategy: Avoiding Sample Sprayers and Turning Right24:24 - Final Reminder: How to Secure Your Premium Tefal Entry Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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🎙️ Welcome to the Not So Christian Brothers Podcast!  New episodes every Thursday @ 6 PM IST | Weekend "After Show" every Sunday @ 8 AM IST. Meet veteran Irish radio broadcaster Colm Hayes (RTÉ, FM104, Ireland’s Classic Hits) and his brother, renowned high-performance coach, psychologist, and entrepreneur Justin Caffrey. They might share the same DNA, but they couldn’t be more different.  Together, they host Ireland's most candid podcast on modern masculinity, mental health, business strategy, and lifestyle. No topics are off-limits. From sobriety, marriage, and grief to fatherhood, business failures, global politics, and Dublin childhood memories—they take the sacred cows of modern life and give them a good old-fashioned grilling.  Every 30-minute episode tackles burning listener DMs with zero filter, sharp Irish wit, and plenty of banter. Then, on Sundays, they are joined by their fearless producer Rebecca Horan and "Terry Tech" for a loose, unscripted After-Show where they pull back the curtain on the chaos, call out contradictions, and share unfiltered lifestyle and health optimization hacks. Unscripted. Unpolished. Unholy. But always worth tuning in.  🔔 Subscribe for your weekly dose of authentic Irish comedy and raw conversation! 🔗 CONNECT WITH US: 🌐 Website: notsochristianbrothers.com #NotSoChristianBrothers #IrishPodcast #Masculinity #MentalHealth #ColmHayes #JustinCaffrey #IrishHumor #HighPerformance Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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