WTF is Business Casual

Rise Human Resources

Buckle up for real HR stories that'll make you laugh, cringe, and thank your lucky stars you're not that guy. WTF is Business Casual is the HR podcast where two seasoned consultants—Sarah Bursten and Jenny Lavey, co-founders of RiseHR—dish on wild workplace fails, toxic bosses, employee drama, and leadership gone wrong. With 35+ years of combined experience in HR, leadership development, and people management, they offer surprisingly useful advice wrapped in real talk and hilarious storytelling. If you’re an HR professional, small business owner, people manager, or just someone who’s survived office politics, this show is for you. Subscribe to WTF is Business Casual—because work is weird, leadership is messy, and people always be peopling. Hosted by Sarah Bursten & Jenny Lavey | RiseHR www.risehumanresources.com

  1. JAN 28

    Cussing at Work: Where “Authentic” Meets “HR Nightmare”

    Send us a text  This week, Jenny and Sarah tackle a topic that somehow manages to be both extremely relatable and extremely lawsuit-y: swearing at work. It starts with a law update that made both of them do a double take. Turns out, “letting an F-word fly” at work is no longer just a culture question. In some cases, it is a legal one. And in 2024 and 2025, the courts made that line a lot thinner than it used to be. What’s inside this episode: [05:32] Why swearing can make you seem more authentic and more trustworthy, according to research [12:17] Why that same swearing can still get your company sued [14:56] The court cases that changed the rules around hostile work environment claims [15:55] Why one single comment can now be enough to trigger serious legal trouble [25:09] The difference between swearing at the printer and swearing at a person [17:17] Why gender-specific and identity-based slurs are basically a career-ending choice [18:13] How different industries and different countries treat workplace language very differently [28:31] The impossible spot employers are in between the EEOC and the NLRB [34:25] Why “that’s just how our industry is” is not a legal defense [35:48] What new grads and early-career employees should do about swearing at work (hint: don’t) [39:03] How much these lawsuits actually cost companies when things go wrong [40:30] Why culture always starts at the top, for better or worse Jenny and Sarah are not here to pretend nobody ever swears. They are here to explain why the workplace is a different arena, why intent does not protect you from impact, and why “we’ve always done it this way” is a very expensive strategy. Hit play for some uncomfortable truths, a few wild stories, and a very clear explanation of why the law does not care how authentic you feel.  Visit our website: RISE Human Resources Book a call: 30 Min HR Consultation Follow us on Instagram: WTF is Business Casual

    42 min
  2. JAN 14

    The Workplace Is Tired: The Darker Side Of Modern Work

    Send us a text This week, Jenny and Sarah start the year by doing what they do best: collecting a pile of workplace nonsense from the internet and asking the uncomfortable question. Why are we still building work like people are machines? They bounce through everything from four-day workweek studies to open offices, from job hunting on dating apps to LinkedIn slowly becoming Facebook with certificates. Somewhere in the middle, they land on the real issue: work keeps taking more, and nobody seems able to say “that’s enough.” This episode is a grab bag of trends, but the throughline is simple. We are tired. And the system is pretending that’s a personal problem instead of a design flaw. What’s inside this episode: Why working less shouldn’t just make you a better worker, but a better humanThe real reason open offices exist and why nobody can focus in themWhy people are using dating apps to find jobs nowHow LinkedIn lost the plotWhat “ghost promotions,” “career shrekking,” “midlife collision,” and “culture rot” actually meanWhy some countries are making after-hours work illegalThe uncomfortable conversation about unions and power at workWhy “just set boundaries” sounds great and works terribly in real lifeJenny and Sarah don’t pretend there’s an easy fix. They do argue that modern work is slowly eating everything else and calling it ambition. If you’ve ever looked at your job and thought, “This is too much, but I don’t see a way out,” this one will feel uncomfortably familiar. Hit play. Then go close your laptop. Visit our website: RISE Human Resources Book a call: 30 Min HR Consultation Follow us on Instagram: WTF is Business Casual

    54 min
  3. 12/17/2025

    Performance Reviews Are Broken (Part 2): Why Development Planning Keeps Missing the Point

    Send us a text Development planning is the most ignored, and most misunderstood, part of performance management. In this episode of WTF is Business Casual, HR consultants Jenny Levy and Sarah Burston break down why development planning deserves its own lane and why bundling it into performance reviews quietly wrecks employee growth, engagement, and retention. This is Part Two of their performance management series, focused on the forward-looking side of work. What’s inside this episode: Why development planning deserves its own conversation separate from performance reviewsWhy tying development to compensation creates false expectationsWhat Individual Development Plans are supposed to do versus what they usually becomeWhy training is the smallest piece of real developmentHow on-the-job learning actually builds skills leaders care aboutThe problem with leaders deciding career paths without asking employees what they wantWhy succession planning often ignores human realityHow lateral moves develop people without inflating titlesWhy growth doesn’t look the same in every season of lifeWhat leaders owe employees when they say they “care about development”Listen to Part 1: Performance Reviews Are Broken (Part 1): The Messy Reality of Workplace Evaluation Want Practical Tools Without Corporate Jargon? Jenny and Sarah also share details about upcoming free HR training sessions through Rise HR, focused on continuous feedback, development tools, and modern performance management for small and mid-size businesses. Visit our website: RISE Human Resources Book a call: 30 Min HR Consultation Follow us on Instagram: WTF is Business Casual

    40 min
  4. 12/03/2025

    Performance Reviews Are Broken (Part 1): The Messy Reality of Workplace Evaluation

    Send us a text This week, Jenny and Sarah drag the workplace ritual everyone hates: performance reviews. They open with a simple truth HR has known forever. Nobody likes them, nobody trusts them, and nobody thinks they actually work. Managers dread writing them. Employees dread reading them. Yet here we are, still clinging to a system that feels older than a fax machine. And yes, they get into the cultural shift that has managers terrified to say anything direct, the rise of “triggered” responses in the workplace, and the confusion leaders feel when employees treat normal feedback like a personal attack. The conversation gets honest about accountability, psychological safety, and why discomfort is not the same as danger. What’s inside this episode: Why everyone complains about performance reviews but nobody changes themThe four pieces of performance management that companies mix up constantlyWhat continuous feedback actually looks like when it’s not performative nonsenseWhy managers need to stop blending praise, coaching, and conflict into one chaotic meetingThe problem with leaders who want to fire someone but never documented a thingWhen corrective action is appropriate — and why clarity matters more than comfortThe real difference between doing your job and “going above and beyond”Why market adjustments, merit, promotions, and bonuses should never be lumped togetherHow generational shifts and therapy language have changed workplace conversationsWhat managers owe employees, what employees owe themselves, and what HR is tired of explainingJenny and Sarah don’t pretend performance reviews are going anywhere tomorrow. But they do challenge the entire way we think about them, and push for a version that’s clearer, kinder, and way less convoluted. Hit play for unfiltered HR truth, some laughs, and the reassurance that if you hate performance reviews, you’re not alone, and you’re not wrong. Visit our website: RISE Human Resources Book a call: 30 Min HR Consultation Follow us on Instagram: WTF is Business Casual

    53 min
  5. 11/19/2025

    Sick at Work: Why You Showing Up Is Everyone’s Worst Nightmare

    Send us a text Cold and flu season has arrived, and Jenny and Sarah have officially reached their breaking point. This week, they break down the circus of people dragging themselves into the office sick, logging onto Zoom while sweating through a fever, or insisting it’s “just allergies” in the middle of December. From vomiting kids to adults powering through meetings mid-retch, this episode gets blunt about how unhinged workplace culture has become around “pushing through.” The hosts explain why showing up sick isn’t brave, why it’s often selfish, and why everyone else is tired of catching your germs. This week’s chaos includes: A car ride that felt like a biohazard eventA client who tried to finish a Zoom call while actively throwing upKids who refuse to drink water and are confused when their throat hurtsAdults claiming “winter allergies” while running a feverJenny’s emergency plan for vomiting during a video call (step one: slam laptop shut)How France sees working sick as selfish while the U.S. calls it dedicationThe badge-of-honor culture that keeps people working when they should be in bedThe germ gauntlet of parenting small childrenPeople with paid sick leave who refuse to take itA reminder that potluck food handled by children should be illegalJenny and Sarah say it plainly: If you're too sick to be in the office, you're too sick to “just check email.” Take the day. Drink some water. Stop distributing your germs like confetti. Key takeaways: Your company can replace you faster than it can fix your immune system.Rest is essential, not optional.No one is impressed when you show up sick.Closing your laptop immediately removes you from a Teams call. Use that information wisely.Listen in for an unfiltered breakdown of why sick-at-work culture makes no sense, why boundaries matter, and why rest is part of being a functioning adult human. Visit our website: RISE Human Resources Book a call: 30 Min HR Consultation Follow us on Instagram: WTF is Business Casual

    44 min
  6. 10/29/2025

    Please Stop Hugging Me (and Other Workplace Crimes)

    Send us a text Welcome back to WTF is Business Casual, where HR consultants Jenny Levy and Sarah Bursten roast, rant, and reality-check the weird stuff that somehow passes for “normal” in the workplace. This week we’re calling out all the things people still think are fine at work, but absolutely aren’t. From awkward hugs to speakerphone oversharers, cubicles that look like dorm rooms, and the office “Happy Birthday” song no one actually enjoys, Jenny and Sarah break down what’s WTF-acceptable and what’ll get you side-eyed by HR. WTF Moments & Hot Takes: Hugging at work. Friendly or lawsuit waiting to happen? (Hint: keep your hands to yourself.)Cubicle clutter. Your desk isn’t a daycare or a personal museum.Being BFFs with your boss. How “we’re just friends” turns into “why did HR call me in?”Reply All crimes. Stop hitting that button, Sally. Just. Stop.Forced birthday singing. Why workplace celebrations feel more like hostage situations.Speakerphone culture. If we can hear your conversation, it’s already gone too far.The unspoken workplace rules. The stuff you’ll never find in an employee handbook (but should).Jenny and Sarah also unpack how corporate culture has shifted from “we dealt with it” to “I’m reporting you,” and why that might be both progress and a buzzkill. Because let’s be honest. We can’t have nice things anymore. Visit our website: RISE Human Resources Book a call: 30 Min HR Consultation Follow us on Instagram: WTF is Business Casual

    46 min
4.8
out of 5
17 Ratings

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Buckle up for real HR stories that'll make you laugh, cringe, and thank your lucky stars you're not that guy. WTF is Business Casual is the HR podcast where two seasoned consultants—Sarah Bursten and Jenny Lavey, co-founders of RiseHR—dish on wild workplace fails, toxic bosses, employee drama, and leadership gone wrong. With 35+ years of combined experience in HR, leadership development, and people management, they offer surprisingly useful advice wrapped in real talk and hilarious storytelling. If you’re an HR professional, small business owner, people manager, or just someone who’s survived office politics, this show is for you. Subscribe to WTF is Business Casual—because work is weird, leadership is messy, and people always be peopling. Hosted by Sarah Bursten & Jenny Lavey | RiseHR www.risehumanresources.com