Who The F*ck Do You Want to be When You Grow Up?

Jessica Lee

The podcast that cuts through the fluff to get to the good stuff of all things self-improvement. Where I share the tools I use, the experiences and realizations I've had from that work, and have the honest real conversations to keep you accountable to being Who The F*ck You Want to be When You Grow Up

  1. 12/17/2025

    Ep. 34: How Manifestation Works - The 3 Steps That Create Real Change

    Manifestation isn’t about hoping harder or waiting longer — it’s about removing what’s in the way and stepping into who you already know you’re meant to be. In this episode, we talk about how manifestation actually works when it’s rooted in clarity, self-trust, and aligned movement forward. This is about becoming the version of you that makes what you want inevitable. In this episode, we cover To Be Magnetics 3 steps of manifesting: Unblocking - how to spot and rewire your limiting beliefsExpanders - find the people that make you see to believe your manifestation is possibleAligned Action - the energy you put into the path you're going, is the start of everything If you’ve been “trying to manifest” but keep hitting the same ceiling, this episode will shift how you see the process — and yourself. Because once you understand how manifestation really works, you stop just trying to think positive and start becoming the version of you that naturally attracts them. Human Design Channel of the Week: Channel 41-30 Everything we talk in today's episode comes from: To Be Magnetic If you have any questions that you'd like advice, please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.    Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck   Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee   Podcast Editor: @mollysmithpiro   Get Your Human Design Chart     Membership link and my Discount Code for TBM  JESSICA6850 - 15% off for up to 1 yearTo Be Magnetic - Membership    Coupon code for $50 off a Human Design Reading: PODCAST50 Scheduling: DM the podcast page

    43 min
  2. 12/10/2025

    Ep. 33: Forgiveness - The Truth About Shame, Self-Abandonment, and Healing

    This week’s episode dives into what real forgiveness looks like — not the surface level kind, the kind that  restores self-trust, actually sets you free, and breaks lifelong patterns.    Jessica talks about how staying after cheating can lead to deep self-abandonment, why shame becomes the glue holding old cycles together, and keeps us stuck in versions of ourselves we’ve outgrown. This is the episode that brings you back to yourself. In this episode we cover: Why staying after betrayal erodes self-trust deeplyHow self-abandonment hurts more than heartbreakThe way shame forms from childhood forwardHow your nervous system keeps old stories aliveSelf-forgiveness as the bridge to your evolutionForgiving others and forgiving ourselvesIf you’ve ever stayed too long, blamed yourself too hard, or carried shame for things you did to survive — this one is for you. Tune in to release the weight, remember who you are, and start walking into 2026 lighter and so much more in your power. Human Design Channel of the Week: Channel 54-32 HD Authority Episode: Human Design Authority Episode Referenced experts and podcasts: Dr. Robert Enright - International Forgiveness InstituteSarah Baldwin - Nervous System EssentialsIf you have any questions that you'd like advice, please send a DM to the podcast instagram page.    Podcast Instagram: @whothef.ck   Podcast host: @jess.ica.lee   Podcast Editor: @mollysmithpiro   Get Your Human Design Chart     Membership link and my Discount Code for TBM  JESSICA6850 - 15% off for up to 1 yearTo Be Magnetic - Membership    Coupon code for $50 off a Human Design Reading: PODCAST50 Scheduling: DM the podcast page

    47 min
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The podcast that cuts through the fluff to get to the good stuff of all things self-improvement. Where I share the tools I use, the experiences and realizations I've had from that work, and have the honest real conversations to keep you accountable to being Who The F*ck You Want to be When You Grow Up