I Guess I’m an Adult Now...

Chizi
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  • SOCIETY & CULTURE

If you’ve ever felt like you’re just winging this whole “being an adult” thing… same. In a digital landscape filled with perfectly curated content, join Chizi Duru as she unpacks the messy, hilarious, and sometimes chaotic realities of growing up. From the lies we were told about adulthood to the sneaky ways trauma shows up in everyday life, nothing is off-limits. Expect deep convos, unfiltered rants, words of faith, wisdom, and the occasional mental breakdown (because, let’s be real we’ve all been there).  Hit play, and let’s figure it out together.

  1. 4D AGO

    Sex, Faith & Marriage: An Honest Conversation on Abstinence as a Christian Woman - Ep 23

    Text us and share your adulting stories! Get Sade’s book: Ready. Set. Wait: http://amzn.to/3EcRpD4 Imagine being single and abstinent for 13 years. No situationships. Just you, God, and a promise you’re still waiting to see come to pass. That’s exactly where Sade Turner found herself for 13 years, trusting God with her love life. In this episode, Sade gets honest about what that journey actually looked like. The slip-ups, the seasons of anger at God, and the moment she almost settled with an atheist. She also shared what happened when she finally stopped trying to help God and let him do the work for her. If you’re a woman in your waiting season, or you just need proof that God hasn’t forgotten you, this episode is for you. Follow Sade:  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sheissadeturner  Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/sheissadeturner Chapters 00:00 — Introducing Sade Solomon-Turner 03:51 — Her Coming to Faith Story 10:04 — Why She Committed to Abstinence 14:13 — What Waiting Actually Cost Her 19:03 — Allowing God to take charge 25:12 — The Temptation to Settle 29:34 — The Counterfeit Right Before Her Husband 32:34 — The Slip-Ups, The Shame & Coming Back 37:53 — How to Abstain Without Shame 41:11 — The Real Consequences of Premarital Sex 44:18 — How to Actually Hear God’s Voice 50:51 — What Faith Looks Like After Years in the Walk with God 52:13 — When God’s Promise Doesn’t Come in Your Lifetime 54:49 — Praying for Healing That Never Came Subscribe and join the community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Watch / Listen and don't forget to subscribe for more honest conversations on adulthood. Let's Be Friends! Instagram➟  https://www.instagram.com/chiziduru https://www.instagram.com/iguessimanadultnowpod Tiktok➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiziduru Pinterest ➟ https://www.pinterest.com/chiziduru/ TheDuruFamily TikTok ➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@thedurufamily?lang=en The DuruFamily IG ➟ https://www.instagram.com/thedurufamily_/ Business Inquiries? Music Submissions?  info@chiziduru.com (SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY)  Subscribe now and join our community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Watch Video Podcasts  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuru Follow 'Chizi Duru' Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwi7l0PwfZ/

    1h 7m

  2. APR 23

    How Tiffany Aliche Rebuilt Her Finances and Became a Millionaire in 7 Years - Ep 22

    Text us and share your adulting stories! Get Tiffany’s book, Get Good with Money ➡ https://getgoodwithmoney.com/ _____________________________________________________ She was $300K in debt, sleeping in her middle school bed at 30, no job, and 7 years later, she was a millionaire. Now, she runs an 8-figure business and has helped over 2 million women reach financial wholeness. In this episode, Chizi sits down with Tiffany Aliche, The Budgetnista, New York Times bestselling author of “Get Good With Money" and guest expert on Netflix’s “Get Smart With Money”, for one of the most honest, funny, and genuinely life-changing money conversations we’ve had on this podcast. If you’ve ever felt behind, ashamed of where you are financially, or just confused about what to actually do with your money,  this episode is for you. Follow The Budgetnista (Tiffany Aliche): Youtube ➡  ⁨@Thebudgetnistablog⁩   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebudgetnista/  ____________________ You can also listen on: Apple:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-guess-im-an-adult-now/id1810057948  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RTnICKr8KoafopcFoOLqR?si=ef446f1c3802432e  Catch up on: The very first episode of Season 1 ⬇️ I’m Starting Life Over at 29 - Ep 01  https://youtu.be/rucAJBDkc3c You might like the Previous Episode ⬇️ My Weightloss Journey, Pregnancy, & Starting a GLP-1 - Ep 21 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KVbDH6wpzpU I was Diagnosed with ADHD at 29: My Experience - Ep 18 - https://youtu.be/LJw2Hsg_GgQ?si=XVZiqZuZ0jfafcWS  She was Fired, Found God, and made $150k in 30 days. Meet Cedoni Francis - Ep 17 - https://youtu.be/3H8G-9qcRJA?si=mR5VS-j96uVuJ3FX Abstinence, Sexuality, & Dating At 30 as a Christian - Ep 16 https://youtu.be/9ZiruNLbnq8?si=NUOwA_zNB5GU0ZTB Let's Be Friends! Instagram➟  https://www.instagram.com/chiziduru https://www.instagram.com/iguessimanadultnowpod Tiktok➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiziduru Pinterest ➟ https://www.pinterest.com/chiziduru/ TheDuruFamily TikTok ➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@thedurufamily?lang=en The DuruFamily IG ➟ https://www.instagram.com/thedurufamily_/ Business Inquiries? Music Submissions?  info@chiziduru.com (SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY) Subscribe now and join our community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Watch Video Podcasts  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuru Follow 'Chizi Duru' Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwi7l0PwfZ/

    49 min

  3. APR 2

    My Weightloss Journey, Pregnancy, & Starting a GLP-1 - Ep 21

    Text us and share your adulting stories! Let BetterHelp connect you with a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home.  Visit my sponsor https://betterhelp.com/chizi and enjoy a special discount on the first month! If you have any questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are licensed, their privacy policy, or the therapist compensation model, check out this FAQ: https://www.betterhelp.com/faq  _________________________ Nobody warns you about the moment you see yourself in a photo and barely recognize the person looking back. In this episode, I'm getting completely unfiltered about my body — the weight gain cycles, a sugar addiction that nearly tipped me into pre-diabetes, and the honest conversation I had to have with myself before anything actually changed. This isn't about chasing a body type or caving to outside pressure. It's about getting real with yourself, understanding your body, and building habits that actually stick. If you've ever felt stuck in the same cycle with your weight, your cravings, or your relationship with food — this one is for you. Subscribe and join the community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Chapters 00:00 - Introduction: 01:47 - External Pressure: Nigerian Culture & Body Commentary 02:35 - Reframing Your Mindset Around Body Image 05:19 - What Do You Actually Want For Your Body? 08:17 - The Pregnancy Planning That Changed Everything 09:54 - Finding Your Own “Why” For Fitness 10:33 - Safety & Survival As A Fitness Motivator 13:43 - My Weight Loss Journey Through The Years 17:03 - My Sugar Addiction Problem 20:29 - What Is A GLP-1 & How It Works 26:50 - My Current Fitness Routine (Trainer, Boxing, Barre & Lifting) 30:12 - My Current Nutrition Approach (Meal Prep, Protein & Fiber) 34:00 - Final Thoughts & Key Takeaways ____________________  Watch more on Video:  The very first episode of Season 1 ⬇️ I’m Starting Life Over at 29 - Ep 01  https://youtu.be/rucAJBDkc3c You might like another episode ⬇️ Abstinence, Sexuality, & Dating At 30 as a Christian - Ep 16 https://youtu.be/9ZiruNLbnq8?si=NUOwA_zNB5GU0ZTB An Honest Conversation with my African Dad on Addiction - Ep09 https://youtu.be/_j8TtWodLcc There's more for Season 2⬇️ Am I still Christian? Navigating Religion as an Adult - Ep 12 https://youtu.be/ahU5uaDd7DM?si=PNVY2iRoYlYmFn_d Should you be a Content Creator in 2025? - S2 Ep 11 https://youtu.be/xymT216OLOE?si=cjGS2QQXJjPBkB5- Let's Be Friends! Instagram➟  https://www.instagram.com/chiziduru https://www.instagram.com/iguessimanadultnowpod Tiktok➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiziduru Pinterest ➟ https://www.pinterest.com/chiziduru/ TheDuruFamily TikTok ➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@thedurufamily?lang=en The DuruFamily IG ➟ https://www.instagram.com/thedurufamily_/ Business Inquiries? Music Submissions?  info@chiziduru.com (SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY) Subscribe now and join our community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Watch Video Podcasts  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuru Follow 'Chizi Duru' Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwi7l0PwfZ/

    35 min

  4. MAR 12

    African Parents React to My Weed Addiction, Marriage & Parenting - Ep 20

    Text us and share your adulting stories! In this episode, I finally sit down with both of my Nigerian parents together for the first time, and we get into all of it. My mom's reaction to finding out I was getting high as a kid. The love story between my parents that involved a 9-year separation, exchanged letters, and governors asking for her hand in marriage. What growing up in poverty in Nigeria taught them about adulthood — and why my 30 looks nothing like theirs did. How parenting in America forced them to make sacrifices they didn't see coming. And the question every African parent eventually circles back to... you already know. If you've ever felt the gap between how you grew up and how your parents did — or you're still trying to close the distance with your family — this one is for you. Subscribe and join the community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Resources for mental health: https://www.cdc.gov/mental-health/caring/index.html Find a therapist: https://providers.therapyforblackgirls.com https://www.psychologytoday.com/us Watch / Listen and don't forget to subscribe for more honest conversations on adulthood. ____________________ Chapters  00:00 - Meet my parents 04:00 - When did my parents first feel like an Adult? 10:00 - Growing up in Nigeria 16:00 - How 30 looks different across generations 21:00 - How my parents met & fell in Love 34:00 - The 9-Year separation & governors asking for my mother's hand 40:00 - Would my parents change anything about their parenting style? 47:00 - Quality time & raising kids in America 52:00 - Mom's reaction to my weed addiction episode 57:00 - What was Chizi like as a kid? 1:02:00 - The ADHD conversation & is it hereditary? 1:04:00 - The Marriage Question (You Already Know) ____________________ You can also listen on: Apple:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-guess-im-an-adult-now/id1810057948  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RTnICKr8KoafopcFoOLqR?si=ef446f1c3802432e  Catch up on: The very first episode of Season 1 ⬇️ I’m Starting Life Over at 29 - Ep 01  https://youtu.be/rucAJBDkc3c You might like the Previous Episode ⬇️ Escape your 9-5 Job, Date Intentionally, and Build Wealth in your 20s ft. Caitlyn Kumi - Ep 19 - https://youtu.be/JSZtVyHFK_Y I was Diagnosed with ADHD at 29: My Experience - Ep 18 - https://youtu.be/LJw2Hsg_GgQ?si=XVZiqZuZ0jfafcWS  She was Fired, Found God, and made $150k in 30 days. Meet Cedoni Francis - Ep 17 - https://youtu.be/3H8G-9qcRJA?si=mR5VS-j96uVuJ3FX Abstinence, Sexuality, & Dating At 30 as a Christian - Ep 16 https://youtu.be/9ZiruNLbnq8?si=NUOwA_zNB5GU0ZTB There's more for Season 2⬇️ An Honest Conversation with my African Dad on Addiction - Ep09 https://youtu.be/_j8TtWodLcc Am I still Christian? Navigating Religion as an Adult - Ep 12 https://youtu.be/ahU5uaDd7DM?si=PNVY2iRoYlYmFn_d Should you be a Content Creator in 2025? - S2 Ep 11 https://youtu.be/xymT216OLOE?si=cjGS2QQXJjPBkB5- Let's Be Friends! Instagram➟  https://www.instagram.com/chiziduru https://www.instagram.com/iguessimanadultnowpod Tiktok➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiziduru Pinterest ➟ https://www.pinterest.com/chiziduru/ TheDuruFamily TikTok ➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@thedurufamily?lang=en The DuruFamily IG ➟ https://www.instagram.com/thedurufamily_/ Subscribe now and join our community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Watch Video Podcasts  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuru Follow 'Chizi Duru' Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwi7l0PwfZ/

    54 min

  5. FEB 26

    Escape your 9-5 Job, Date Intentionally and Build Wealth in your 20s ft. Caitlyn Kumi - Ep 19

    Text us and share your adulting stories! What does it really take to walk away from Google at 26 and take a bet on yourself as an entrepreneur? In Episode 19 of I Guess I’m an Adult Now, I sat with Caitlyn Kumi — ex-Google Marketing Manager, Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree, founder of Miss Empower Her, and a finance-focused creator to unpack a career pivot most people are too afraid to make. From leveraging content to land a role at Google, to building a brand that empowers thousands of women to take control of their money, Caitlyn breaks down the strategy behind every move. We talk about first-gen upbringing, immigrant work ethic, elite spaces, and how early exposure shaped her standards around wealth, relationships, and long-term security.  She shares her honest take on dating as a high-earning woman, having real conversations about credit scores and debt, planning for kids before engagement, and building generational wealth with intention. If you have ever felt torn between ambition and stability… If you’re navigating your 20’s while building career, money, and identity at the same time… If you’re trying to grow without shrinking yourself… This episode is for you. Watch / Listen and don't forget to subscribe for more honest conversations on adulthood. Connect w/ Caitlyn Kumi ➟  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/caitlynkumi/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@caitlynkumi?lang=en  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/caitlynkumi/ Follow Miss EmpowHer ➟  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/missempowher/?hl=en  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/missempowher TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@missempowher?lang=en Newsletter - https://missempowher.beehiiv.com/  ____________________ You can also listen on: Apple:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-guess-im-an-adult-now/id1810057948  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RTnICKr8KoafopcFoOLqR?si=ef446f1c3802432e  Catch up on: The very first episode of Season 1 ⬇️ I’m Starting Life Over at 29 - Ep 01  https://youtu.be/rucAJBDkc3c You might like the Previous Episode ⬇️ I was Diagnosed with ADHD at 29: My Experience - Ep 18 - https://youtu.be/LJw2Hsg_GgQ?si=XVZiqZuZ0jfafcWS  She was Fired, Found God, and made $150k in 30 days. Meet Cedoni Francis - Ep 17 - https://youtu.be/3H8G-9qcRJA?si=mR5VS-j96uVuJ3FX Abstinence, Sexuality, & Dating At 30 as a Christian - Ep 16 https://youtu.be/9ZiruNLbnq8?si=NUOwA_zNB5GU0ZTB There's more for Season 2⬇️ An Honest Conversation with my African Dad on Addiction - Ep09 https://youtu.be/_j8TtWodLcc Am I still Christian? Navigating Religion as an Adult - Ep 12 https://youtu.be/ahU5uaDd7DM?si=PNVY2iRoYlYmFn_d Should you be a Content Creator in 2025? - S2 Ep 11 https://youtu.be/xymT216OLOE?si=cjGS2QQXJjPBkB5- Let's Be Friends! Instagram➟  https://www.instagram.com/chiziduru https://www.instagram.com/iguessimanadultnowpod Tiktok➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiziduru Pinterest ➟ https://www.pinterest.com/chiziduru/ TheDuruFamily TikTok ➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@thedurufamily?lang=en The DuruFamily IG ➟ https://www.instagram.com/thedurufamily_/ Business Inquiries? Music Submissions?  info@chiziduru.com (SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY) Subscribe now and join our community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Watch Video Podcasts  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuru Follow 'Chizi Duru' Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwi7l0PwfZ/

    1h 13m

  6. FEB 12

    I was Diagnosed with ADHD at 29: My Experience - Ep 18

    Text us and share your adulting stories! At 29 years old, I was diagnosed with ADHD. As a high-achieving Black woman, entrepreneur, and Christian, ADHD was never something I thought applied to me. I did well in school. I built a business. I was “fine.” But behind the scenes, I struggled with focus, organization, finishing projects, and constantly feeling like I just wasn’t living up to my full potential. In Episode 18 of I Guess I’m an Adult Now, I open up about being diagnosed with inattentive ADHD at 29 — the signs I missed as a child, how depression and anxiety masked it for years, and what finally pushed me to get tested. Watch / Listen now and don’t forget to subscribe. CHAPTERS 00:00 – I Was Diagnosed with ADHD at 29 01:05 – What ADHD Actually Is (Inattentive Type) 05:30 – Why Women Are Often Underdiagnosed 06:35 – Childhood Signs I Didn’t Recognize 09:40 – Entrepreneurship, Burnout & Losing Confidence 12:50 – Hitting a Depressive Low 14:25 – Therapy & Getting Tested 17:30 – My Official Diagnosis Results 19:50 – Starting Medication (Adderall Experience) 21:30 – Dopamine, Hyperfixation & Creativity 22:30 – The Grief of a Late Diagnosis 26:20 – “This Podcast Exists Because I’m on Meds.” 27:25 – Telling My Nigerian Mom 29:00 – Religion, Prayer & Mental Health 31:10 – Medication Crashes & Drug Holidays 32:15 – Renewed Hope & Confidence 33:00 – You’re Not Lazy. You Might Need Support. You can also listen on: Apple:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-guess-im-an-adult-now/id1810057948  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RTnICKr8KoafopcFoOLqR?si=ef446f1c3802432e  Catch up on: The very first episode of Season 1 ⬇️ I’m Starting Life Over at 29 - Ep 01  https://youtu.be/rucAJBDkc3c You might like ⬇️ An Honest Conversation with my African Dad on Addiction - Ep09 https://youtu.be/_j8TtWodLcc There's more for Season 2⬇️ Am I still Christian? Navigating Religion as an Adult - Ep 12 https://youtu.be/ahU5uaDd7DM?si=PNVY2iRoYlYmFn_d Should you be a Content Creator in 2025? - S2 Ep 11 https://youtu.be/xymT216OLOE?si=cjGS2QQXJjPBkB5- Let's Be Friends! Instagram➟  https://www.instagram.com/chiziduru https://www.instagram.com/iguessimanadultnowpod Tiktok➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiziduru Pinterest ➟ https://www.pinterest.com/chiziduru/ TheDuruFamily TikTok ➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@thedurufamily?lang=en The DuruFamily IG ➟ https://www.instagram.com/thedurufamily_/ Business Inquiries? Music Submissions?  info@chiziduru.com (SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY) Subscribe now and join our community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Watch Video Podcasts  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuru Follow 'Chizi Duru' Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwi7l0PwfZ/

    35 min

  7. FEB 4

    She was Fired, Found God, and made $150k in 30 days. Meet Cedoni Francis - Ep 17

    Text us and share your adulting stories! Let BetterHelp connect you with a therapist who can support you - all from the comfort of your own home.  Visit my sponsor https://betterhelp.com/chizi and enjoy a special discount on the first month! If you have any questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are licensed, their privacy policy, or the therapist compensation model, check out this FAQ: https://www.betterhelp.com/faq  _________________________ How does a Trinidad-born, NYC-raised child go from a Political Science major at Vanderbilt to a Marketing manager at Google, to  Culture shifting Influencer with over 300k followers, to Mba at Columbia Business School.   In Episode 17 of I Guess I’m an Adult Now, we sit down with Cedoni Francis — ex-Google employee, Columbia Business School MBA student, and content creator — to unpack a journey that doesn’t follow the usual creator playbook. This conversation also dives deep into upbringing, education, immigrant parents, elite schools, scholarships, and how early exposure and discipline shaped her mindset around success, money, and independence. If you’ve ever felt caught between ambition, stability, and purpose — this episode is for you Watch / Listen now and don’t forget to subscribe. Episode Chapters  00:00 – Intro Welcome to Episode 17 + meeting Cedoni Francis 03:40 – Who Cedoni Is Ex-Google employee, creator, and Columbia MBA student 06:30 – Creating While Working at Google How content creation started inside corporate life 10:45 – Corporate Burnout & Workplace Reality Overwork, HR issues, and being stretched too thin 15:20 – Finding Out You’re Laid Off via TikTok The moment Cedoni realized she was laid off from Google 20:30 – Choosing Not to Rush Into Full-Time Influencing Why business school made more sense than chasing virality 25:40 – How Her TikTok Career Actually Began Campus brand reps, early TikTok programs, and consistency 32:10 – Going Viral After Graduation The Vanderbilt graduation video that changed everything 38:45 – “If You Want to Be an Influencer, Don’t Try to Be One” Why organic growth beats chasing algorithms 45:30 – Growing Up Caribbean in NYC Identity, culture, and navigating different worlds 52:20 – Education, Immigrant Parents & Expectations Why college was the bare minimum in her household 1:00:40 – Private School vs Public School Experiences How environment shaped confidence and work ethic 1:12:30 – Scholarships, Posse Foundation & Vanderbilt How she secured a debt-free college education 1:22:10 – Career Strategy From a Young Age Targeting high-paying jobs and long-term thinking 1:30:45 – Lessons on Ambition, Stability & Purpose What adulthood really looks like when plans change 1:35:30 – Final Thoughts & Takeaways Betting on yourself without losing your footing ____________________ You can also listen on: Apple:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-guess-im-an-adult-now/id1810057948  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RTnICKr8KoafopcFoOLqR?si=ef446f1c3802432e  Catch up on: The very first episode of Season 1 ⬇️ I’m Starting Life Over at 29 - Ep 01  https://youtu.be/rucAJBDkc3c You might like the Previous Episode ⬇️ Abstinence, Sexuality, & Dating At 30 as a Christian - Ep 16 https://youtu.be/9ZiruNLbnq8?si= Subscribe now and join our community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Watch Video Podcasts  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuru Follow 'Chizi Duru' Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwi7l0PwfZ/

    1h 12m

  8. 12/18/2025

    Abstinence, Sexuality, & Dating At 30 as a Christian - Ep 16

    Text us and share your adulting stories! Dating at 30 as a Christian comes with its own set of challenges, especially when abstinence, desire, and faith collide. In this episode, I open up about breaking a three-year abstinence pact, the lessons I learned from dating again, and why knowing your values matters more than chemistry. This is an honest, vulnerable conversation about sexuality, faith, alignment, and learning to trust yourself again. CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS 0:00 Dating Again at 30 & Breaking Abstinence 1:00 Why I’m Sharing This Story 2:00 My Dating History & Patterns 4:30 2020, Self-Worth & Slowing Down 7:00 My Spiritual Shift in 2022 8:30 Lust, Sexuality & Being Honest as a Woman 11:30 Why Abstinence Wasn’t Just Religious 14:00 Sex, Biology & Healthy Sexual Mindsets 16:00 Dating Again as a Christian Woman 17:30 Hormones, Ovulation & Real Struggles 18:30 Meeting Him & Immediate Chemistry 20:00 Values vs. Boundaries Explained 21:30 Why Misalignment Always Shows Up 23:00 Shame, Grace & Running Back to God 25:00 Lesson #1: Your Values Are Everything 27:30 Actions vs. Words 29:00 Communication & Emotional Maturity 30:30 Standards, Solitude & Singleness 31:30 Final Reflections on Dating at 30 Watch Video Podcasts YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuru You can also listen on: Apple:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-guess-im-an-adult-now/id1810057948  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6RTnICKr8KoafopcFoOLqR?si=ef446f1c3802432e  Catch up on: The very first episode of Season 1 ⬇️ I’m Starting Life Over at 29 - Ep 01  https://youtu.be/rucAJBDkc3c You might like ⬇️ An Honest Conversation with my African Dad on Addiction - Ep09 https://youtu.be/_j8TtWodLcc There's more for Season 2⬇️ Am I still Christian? Navigating Religion as an Adult - Ep 12 https://youtu.be/ahU5uaDd7DM?si=PNVY2iRoYlYmFn_d Should you be a Content Creator in 2025? - S2 Ep 11 https://youtu.be/xymT216OLOE?si=cjGS2QQXJjPBkB5- Let's Be Friends! Instagram➟  https://www.instagram.com/chiziduru https://www.instagram.com/iguessimanadultnowpod Tiktok➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@chiziduru Pinterest ➟ https://www.pinterest.com/chiziduru/ TheDuruFamily TikTok ➟ https://www.tiktok.com/@thedurufamily?lang=en The DuruFamily IG ➟ https://www.instagram.com/thedurufamily_/ Business Inquiries? Music Submissions?  info@chiziduru.com (SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY) Subscribe now and join our community as we figure out this adulting thing together, one conversation at a time. Watch Video Podcasts  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@ChiziDuru Follow 'Chizi Duru' Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/p/DIwi7l0PwfZ/

    31 min
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If you’ve ever felt like you’re just winging this whole “being an adult” thing… same. In a digital landscape filled with perfectly curated content, join Chizi Duru as she unpacks the messy, hilarious, and sometimes chaotic realities of growing up. From the lies we were told about adulthood to the sneaky ways trauma shows up in everyday life, nothing is off-limits. Expect deep convos, unfiltered rants, words of faith, wisdom, and the occasional mental breakdown (because, let’s be real we’ve all been there).  Hit play, and let’s figure it out together.

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    Chizi
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    24
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