What if everything you were taught about sex, desire, and women’s bodies was incomplete — or flat-out wrong? In this powerful live podcast event, Inside the Well Space host Cathy O’Brien sits down with Dr. Chris Creatura, MD, one of the nation’s leading experts in female sexual medicine, for a candid, science-backed conversation about women’s sexual health, pleasure, pain, and the cultural scripts that shape our experiences. With over four decades of clinical experience, Dr. Creatura breaks down why women’s pleasure has been historically understudied, how culture impacts desire, and what actually happens to our bodies during perimenopause, menopause, aging, illness, and recovery. Together, Cathy and Dr. Creatura explore: - What a “sexual script” is — and how to rewrite your own - Why pain during sex is common but not normal - The truth about the orgasm gap - Why “vaginal dryness” is an oversimplification - How hormones, blood flow, nerves, and culture affect arousal - What women should know about estrogen, testosterone, and menopause care - Why women are often told to “just live with it” — and why that’s wrong - How knowledge, anatomy, and advocacy empower better care Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome & live event setup 10:00 Introducing Dr. Chris Creatura, MD & her work in female sexual medicine 15:00 What is sex? Defining pleasure, consent, and personal meaning 20:00 Sexual scripts: how culture shapes women’s sexuality 25:00 Why women center partners first when talking about sex 30:00 The orgasm gap explained — and why it exists 35:00 Gender gaps, race, culture, and whose pleasure is prioritized 40:00 Vaginal dryness vs. sexual pain: what doctors often miss 45:00 Blood flow, hormones, and why “just use lube” isn’t enough 50:00 Anatomy lesson: the clitoris, arousal, and erased biology 55:00 Why women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone — myth busting 1:00:00 Pain during sex, pelvic floor dysfunction, and injury 1:10:00 Masturbation, vibrators, and reclaiming pleasure 1:15:00 Desire, aging, menopause, and changing sexual needs 1:20:00 Hormones 101: estrogen, testosterone, and menopause care 1:30:00 Porn, culture, and how women learn about sex 1:35:00 Attachment, desire, and emotional vs physical arousal 1:40:00 Botox, PRP, lasers & trendy treatments — what actually works 1:50:00 Final takeaways: rewriting your sexual script About the Guest: Dr. Chris Creatura, MD is an OB/GYN surgeon, menopause specialist, and the first and only full-time gynecologist certified by the International Society for Women’s Sexual Health as a Fellow in Female Sexual Medicine. She is an Assistant Professor at Weill Cornell Medical College and a nationally recognized expert in sexual pain, desire disorders, and menopause care. Subscribe to Inside the Wellspace: YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/@UC13tfnPU0OHsNxmMXSs6saw Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2TQtov8ByjgieslPS5B1IM Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/inside-the-wellspace-women-wellbeing-wisdom-with/id1812799800 Visit The Well Space for Women: https://www.insidethewellspace.com/ Follow along on Instagram: @thewellspaceforwomen https://www.instagram.com/thewellspaceforwomen/