The How You Breathe Is How You Live Podcast

Jake Parent
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How You Breathe Is How You Live is a podcast about the profound connection between breath, self-awareness, full potential, transformation and transcendence. Hosted by Jake Parent, a breathwork expert and self-actualization coach, Co-hosted by Riley and Josh, this show explores breathwork and plant ceremonies shapes your mind, emotions, and life. Through insightful conversations, science-backed wisdom, and a playful yet deep approach, you’ll discover how to harness your breath for more clarity, confidence, and fulfillment. Whether you’re a high-performing entrepreneur, a seeker of inner peace, or just curious about unlocking your potential, this podcast will help you breathe better—and live better.

  1. Sep 23

    Am I Doing Breathwork Right?

    One of the biggest reasons people stop practicing breathwork isn't because it doesn't work. It's because they become convinced they're doing it wrong. In this episode, we break down the ten most common beginner mistakes and show you how to avoid them without chasing perfection. You'll learn why there's no right or wrong way to practice—only more and less skillful approaches—and how small improvements, repeated consistently, create lasting transformation.

  2. Sep 16

    Their Reaction Is Not Your Emergency; Boundaries and Breathwork

    Free Boundaries Workbook: https://breath.energy/boundaries/ Join us for Conscious Connected Breathwork: https://breath.energy/start-here/ Then tell me in the comments: The boundary I'm setting is __________. No backstory required. Just name the line. Because you don't set boundaries to avoid life. You set boundaries so you can participate in it without abandoning yourself. How you breathe is how you live. Knowing you need a boundary and holding one when someone pushes back are two completely different skills. In Part 2 of our conversation on boundaries, Jake and Josh get into what happens after you finally draw the line—when your boss piles more work on your desk, your family expects you to keep playing your old role, someone you love is disappointed in you, or you realize a relationship only worked because you kept abandoning your own needs. We explore State → Clarify → Enforce, the difference between consequences and punishment, compassion versus enabling, boundaries at work and with family, why you need boundaries with yourself, and the grief that can come when a healthy boundary changes a relationship. We also look at why knowing how you should respond isn't enough. Conscious Connected Breathwork helps develop the capacity to stay present under emotional pressure so someone else's anger doesn't automatically become your emergency. Because boundaries aren't about keeping people out. They're about creating enough space for the right people—and the real you—to safely exist in your life. How you breathe is how you live.

  3. Sep 9

    The Beginner's Guide to Breathwork Safety

    Is breathwork safe? The answer isn't simply yes or no. Safety isn't just about the breathing technique—it's about preparation, facilitation, communication, and developing the capacity to listen to your body. In this Fundamentals episode, Jake Parent explores the myths surrounding breathwork safety, explains why intensity isn't the goal, and shows how learning to trust yourself creates a safer and more effective practice. Whether you're considering your first breathwork session or refining an existing practice, this episode provides a practical framework for approaching breathwork with confidence.

  4. Sep 4

    How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Like a Villain: Boundaries & Breathwork, Part 1

    FREE BOUNDARIES WORKBOOK: https://breath.energy/boundaries/ The workbook includes the pause-before-the-yes exercise, boundary scripts, the clarity framework, and exercises integrating Conscious Connected Breathwork into the process. JOIN ME FOR BREATHWORK: https://breath.energy/start-here/ Three group sessions each week are available, along with private one-on-one sessions. You know you need boundaries. So why does setting one make you feel guilty, selfish, or afraid you've done something wrong? The difficult part of boundaries isn't knowing the words to say. It's developing the internal authority to say them, tolerate someone else's disappointment, and remain connected to yourself when they push back. In this episode, we explore the difference between healthy, porous, and rigid boundaries; why shame and guilt make boundaries so difficult; how to distinguish a boundary from an attempt to control someone else; and why a strong "no" usually requires a bigger "yes." We also explore how Conscious Connected Breathwork helps develop the emotional capacity underneath healthy boundaries through two Breath.Energy frameworks: Calm → Connection → Clarity and Feel → Notice → Choose Because knowing you should have boundaries isn't particularly useful. Becoming someone who can actually live them is. How you breathe is how you live.

  5. Aug 26

    What Actually Happens During a Breathwork Session? (A Beginner's Guide)

    Most people aren't afraid of breathwork. They're afraid of the unknown. What if nothing happens? What if I cry? What if I do it wrong? In this episode, Jake walks through exactly what happens before, during, and after a Breath.Energy breathwork session so you can arrive knowing exactly what to expect. You'll discover why there is no right or wrong way to breathe, what physical and emotional experiences are common, why integration matters, and how breathwork becomes a skill that grows with practice. Whether you're preparing for your first session or simply curious about breathwork, this episode removes the mystery so you can focus on the experience itself.

  6. Aug 19

    Why You Never Share the Thing You Made 54

    You can create something beautiful and still be terrified to let anyone see it. Why? Because creating something and sharing something require two very different things. In this episode, Jake sits down with therapist and author Richard for a conversation about creativity, storytelling, vulnerability, identity, and the fear of being seen. Richard's experience writing a mythological fantasy novel becomes the starting point for a much larger question: What happens to the creative, playful parts of us as we become adults? They explore why constant consumption can crowd out creativity, how adulthood teaches us to become increasingly safe and predictable, why authentic expression makes rejection feel more personal, and how creativity can reconnect us with parts of ourselves we've stopped expressing. They also unpack a simple framework: Creation requires imagination. Publishing requires courage. Promotion requires self-worth. The conversation eventually goes beyond creativity into healing itself—and why healing should restore our capacity to live rather than become an identity we carry forever. If there's something you've been creating privately but haven't had the courage to put into the world, this episode is for you.

  7. Aug 12

    2 How Breathwork Works: The 5 Pathways That Change Your Mind and Body

    Why can something as simple as breathing create profound changes in how you think, feel, and perform? If you've ever wondered whether breathwork is real or just another wellness trend, this episode is for you. In this second episode of the Fundamentals of Breathwork series, we explore the five core pathways through which breathwork creates change—from your physiology and nervous system to your attention, awareness, and long-term personal growth. You'll learn why breathing is much more than moving oxygen, why your nervous system is constantly listening to your breath, and why lasting transformation starts by changing your internal state rather than forcing external results. Whether you're looking for better emotional regulation, clearer thinking, reduced stress, or greater self-awareness, understanding these mechanisms will help you get far more out of every breathwork session. In this episode: Why breathwork works even though you've been breathing your whole life The five pathways that create transformation How your nervous system uses breathing as a safety signal Why awareness doesn't happen by force A simple experiment you can try immediately If this episode helped you see breathwork differently, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who has always wondered if breathwork actually works. How you breathe is how you live.

  8. Aug 5

    53: Why You Can't Let Go: The Story Isn't Finished

    Why can something that happened years ago still feel emotionally alive today? Maybe it's a relationship, betrayal, rejection, loss, embarrassing moment, or conversation you've replayed a hundred times. You understand what happened. You've analyzed it. You've told yourself you've moved on. And yet your mind keeps going back. In this episode, Jake explores a different possibility: the event ended, but the emotional story never did. You'll learn why time alone doesn't resolve emotional pain, why understanding something isn't the same as finishing it, how resistance turns pain into struggle, and why the mind can keep rehearsing experiences the body hasn't finished processing. You'll also learn how conscious connected breathing can become a practice for building the emotional capacity to stay present with discomfort rather than immediately suppressing, analyzing, distracting, or escaping from it. Because the goal isn't to forget what happened. The goal is to finish. How you breathe is how you live.

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How You Breathe Is How You Live is a podcast about the profound connection between breath, self-awareness, full potential, transformation and transcendence. Hosted by Jake Parent, a breathwork expert and self-actualization coach, Co-hosted by Riley and Josh, this show explores breathwork and plant ceremonies shapes your mind, emotions, and life. Through insightful conversations, science-backed wisdom, and a playful yet deep approach, you’ll discover how to harness your breath for more clarity, confidence, and fulfillment. Whether you’re a high-performing entrepreneur, a seeker of inner peace, or just curious about unlocking your potential, this podcast will help you breathe better—and live better.

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