Come Talk with Aimee: Sex, Intimacy, and Conversations Worth Coming Back To

Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee brings sex out of the shadows and into a hot pink spotlight. Hosted by Aimee, a nurse, public health professional, and certified embodied intimacy and relationship coach, this is where we have the candid conversations about sex, intimacy, pleasure, and relationships we should all be having. From shame and desire to orgasms, kink, dating, relationships, and everything delightfully in between, Aimee goes there with bold guests, unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and plenty of laughs. No shame. No scripts. No pretending we already know it all. And this season, we’re all about play: getting curious, breaking out of autopilot, and exploring what becomes possible when pleasure gets a little more room to breathe. Because “we don’t talk about that” is exactly why we’re talking about it. Come for the sex talk. Stay for the conversations that feel a little dangerous, and a lot liberating.

  1. 5d ago

    Desire Is Embodied Wanting: How to Reclaim Your Pleasure with Shadeen Francis

    Shadeen Francis helps people get clear on what they actually want. In this episode, she shares how to reconnect with your desire, why play matters to our nervous system and capacity for pleasure, and what might be getting in the way of knowing what you want. Shadeen Francis is a licensed psychotherapist, certified sex therapist, and cultural strategist who helps people understand their desires, deepen their relationships, and create more space for peace and pleasure. She’s also the president of AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), and she brings a deeply embodied approach to the question at the heart of this episode: What do you actually want? This week on Come Talk with Aimee, we’re getting into the science and psychology of desire, why “I don’t know what I want” may be more complicated than it sounds, and how play can help expand our capacity for pleasure. Shadeen also walks us through her Desire Style Quiz, a tool for exploring the different ways we experience and express desire. We talk about: What it means to say “desire is embodied wanting” Why your relationship to desire affects every connection you have Shadeen’s Desire Style Quiz and what it can reveal about how we experience desire in the current moment  The story arc of desire: who, what, where, when, why, and how How AI is impacting our relational skills, connection, and desire Why it can be especially difficult for moms and people of color to name their own desires How play connects to our nervous system and our capacity for pleasure The role of vulnerability in experiencing desire  Why orgasm is all about surrendering  If you've ever felt disconnected from your desires, wondered why "fun" feels so hard, or wanted to bring more play into your life and your pleasure, this episode is your invitation to start exploring. Take Shadeen’s Desire Style Quiz: https://shadeenfrancis.com/quiz Connect with Shadeen Francis:  https://shadeenfrancis.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/shadeenfrancis/  https://www.instagram.com/shadeenfrancis  Get Aimee’s Free Workbook: Reclaim Your Pleasure Power: https://cometalkwithaimee.myflodesk.com/claimyourpleasurepod  Join Aimee on Substack: https://open.substack.com/pub/cometalkwithaimee  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Desire Is Embodied Wanting: How to Reclaim Your Pleasure with Shadeen Francis

  2. Sep 24

    Your Vulva is Normal: The Body Literacy We Were Never Taught with April of Haus of Vagina

    April Davis of Haus of Vagina has spent years teaching people about vulva anatomy and body literacy. Today, she's here to tell you why your vagina is normal. This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with April Davis, a sex and menstrual cycle educator, founder of Haus of Vagina, and host of the Haus of Vagina Podcast. We get into what body literacy means and how the lack of it leads people to labiaplasty, vaginal bleaching, and a lifetime of shame about bodies that were never abnormal to begin with. We also dive into period sex, tampons, free bleeding, and why prioritizing pleasure is just as worthy as every diet you've ever tried. We also dive into:  The difference between the vulva and the vagina Vulva myths about smell, tightness, and appearance Tampons vs. cups vs. discs vs. free bleeding Why prioritizing pleasure is a worthy pursuit How to talk to your kids about anatomy and protect them from grooming Why you should never fake an orgasm again If you've ever worried about how your vulva looks, smells, or functions, this episode is your permission slip to let that go and learn what you were never taught. Connect with April Davis http://www.instagram.com/hausofvagina Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Your Vulva is Normal: The Body Literacy We Were Never Taught with April of Haus of Vagina

  3. Sep 17

    Size vs. Skill: What Actually Matters in Bed | A Quickie Episode with Aimee

    Let's settle this once and for all: does size actually matter? Find out in this episode!  Welcome back to Come Talk with Aimee. This season, we're bringing you a Q&A series for our quickies, and for the first one, I went straight to Instagram to find out what you wanted to talk about. The top question? Does size matter? I'm taking that question to Reddit, to the research, and into the exam room for a vital sign check. We're looking at the anatomy of both penises and vaginas, what the science actually says about length versus girth, and the 4 techniques that over 3,000 women that identified they use to make penetration more pleasurable!  I also talk about:  The pleasurable techniques: angling, rocking, shallowing, and pairing Why the 2022 literature review found limited and inconsistent evidence on size The public health issue hiding underneath the size question Why technique, arousal, communication, and anatomy matter more than size The better question to ask: what are you doing with what you've got? If you've ever wondered whether size really matters, or if you've been anxious about it, this episode is your vital sign check. Let's break down the myths and get to the truth. Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

  4. Sep 10

    Put a Ring On It: The Science of Better Erections and Longer Sex with Dr. Elliot Justin

    Dr. Elliot Justin is on a mission to get men to finally listen to what their erections are telling them. If I were you, I’d better start listening. This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Dr. Elliot Justin, CEO and founder of FirmTech, a sex tech company that's revolutionizing men's sexual and cardiovascular health. Dr. Justin is an emergency medicine physician who has spent years developing a wearable device that tracks nocturnal erections, providing a leading indicator of cardiovascular and sexual health. We get into the science behind nocturnal erections, why they're a vital sign men need to pay attention to, and how the data from his device has already helped thousands of men avoid unnecessary procedures and optimize their performance.  We talk about:  Why nocturnal erections are a leading indicator of cardiovascular health How the FirmTech device tracks duration, firmness, and frequency Why erectile dysfunction has been misdiagnosed for decades The difference between physical and psychogenic ED How performance anxiety can impact erection quality Why most men benefit from wearing a ring How the ring keeps you hard longer and deepens intimacy If you've ever wondered what your morning wood is really telling you, or if you want to optimize your sexual performance and health, this episode is for you. Connect with Dr. Elliot Justin  https://www.instagram.com/myfirmtech/ https://www.youtube.com/@myfirmtech https://www.tiktok.com/@myfirmtech https://myfirmtech.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Put a Ring On It: The Science of Better Erections and Longer Sex with Dr. Elliot Justin

  5. Sep 3

    Squirting 101: Skill, Surrender, and the Science of Pleasure with Kenneth Play

    Kenneth Play has taught millions of people how to squirt. Today, he's sharing his best techniques with you. Welcome to season two of Come Talk with Aimee. This season is all about play, pleasure, and reconnecting with your most alive self. And who better to kick things off than Kenneth Play, named by GQ as the world's greatest sex hacker. Kenneth is a sex educator, author of "Beyond Satisfied," and the creator of the world's most viewed squirting workshop with over 70 million views. He joins us to break down the science of squirting, the difference between ejaculate and the splash show, and why most people can learn to squirt with the right technique. We talk about:  What squirting is and what it isn't How skill development leads to flow state How to create a "play lab" with your partner Communicating about squirting without awkwardness Why psychological arousal is the ultimate foreplay The emotional release and healing that can come with squirting If you've ever been curious about squirting, wanted to improve your sexual skills, or wondered how to bring more play into the bedroom, this episode is your invitation to explore. Connect with Kenneth Play  https://kennethplay.com/ https://www.instagram.com/kenneth_play/ https://kennethplay.com/book/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Squirting 101: Skill, Surrender, and the Science of Pleasure with Kenneth Play

  6. Aug 27

    An Orgasm A Day with Jennifer Kaylo and Natty Frasca (The Open Bedroom Podcast)

    What if daily orgasms were the productivity hack that you've been missing? This week's episode is a podswap with Jennifer from the Open Bedroom Podcast, where she sits down with midlife reinvention coach Natty Frasca from The Feminine Rebellion to talk about the power of pleasure, daily orgasms included, and how high-functioning women can unhook from burnout and step into embodied, turned-on living. This conversation is the perfect way to kick off our countdown to season two, which is all about play, pleasure, and reconnecting with your most alive self. Jennifer and Natty dive into why pleasure isn't selfish, it's fuel, and how scheduling joy, practicing pleasure, and learning to receive can transform your life. They also talk about:  Why pleasure is the productivity hack high-achieving women need Why receiving compliments is a form of self-worth practice Why pleasure compounds and becomes a non-negotiable habit Overcoming shame around masturbation and pleasure How embracing pleasure makes you more magnetic and creative If you've ever felt like you're running on empty, performing instead of living, or wondering where your desire went, this episode is your permission slip to put pleasure back on the calendar. Connect with The Open Bedroom Podcast https://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast/ https://open.spotify.com/show/1EmsUcd7s9n4HNNR0LDyG5 Connect with Natty Frasca https://thefemininerebellion.com/podcast Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    An Orgasm A Day with Jennifer Kaylo and Natty Frasca (The Open Bedroom Podcast)

  7. Aug 20

    After Hours with Candace Johnson: Touch, Truth, and Human Connection

    What if you could build deeper connection and intimacy just by asking the right questions and matching them with touch? Welcome to another bonus episode of Come Talk with Aimee. This week, we're revisiting a playful and deeply connective conversation with Candace Johnson, creator of the Touchy Feely Game. We sit down and play a round of the game, which pairs emotionally vulnerable questions with physical touch based on how open and authentic your answers are. We dive into level two and level three questions, rate each other's answers, and match them to touch actions like kissing your shoulder, caressing your chin, or giving yourself a hug. If you've ever wanted a tool to deepen connection with a partner, friend, or even yourself, this episode is your invitation to play. Watch the full episode with Candace here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/4biQeLDmicU03kl5b1JV46?si=fwRqZbi9SYiPS2VTdHlHfQ Connect with Candace Johnson: Website: ⁠touchyfeelygame.com⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/touchyfeelygame/⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@touchyfeelygame⁠ LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/company/touchyfeelygame/ Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    After Hours with Candace Johnson: Touch, Truth, and Human Connection

  8. Aug 13

    After Hours with Bre Geen: Sensation Play and Sensory Deprivation 

    What happens when you take away one sense and heighten all the others? Pure pleasure. Welcome to another bonus episode of Come Talk with Aimee. This week, we're revisiting a playful conversation with Bre Green, a sensation play advocate who believes in tapping into your erotic self through touch, texture, and sensory exploration. In this short but delicious episode, Bre and I put on blindfolds and play a game of Guess The Sensation. We take turns feeling different items, describing the textures and temperatures, and trying to figure out what they are. From floggers and massage oils, we explore how sensory deprivation can heighten every touch and make pleasure feel more intense. Watch the full episode with Bre Green here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3g8dvU7Ip3252EEAaPuDlX?si=dA9KjlIVSjehxvREeyCxng Connect with  Bre Greeen:  Website: asesexualwellness.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bre.ase/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@bre_ase Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    After Hours with Bre Geen: Sensation Play and Sensory Deprivation 
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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee brings sex out of the shadows and into a hot pink spotlight. Hosted by Aimee, a nurse, public health professional, and certified embodied intimacy and relationship coach, this is where we have the candid conversations about sex, intimacy, pleasure, and relationships we should all be having. From shame and desire to orgasms, kink, dating, relationships, and everything delightfully in between, Aimee goes there with bold guests, unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and plenty of laughs. No shame. No scripts. No pretending we already know it all. And this season, we’re all about play: getting curious, breaking out of autopilot, and exploring what becomes possible when pleasure gets a little more room to breathe. Because “we don’t talk about that” is exactly why we’re talking about it. Come for the sex talk. Stay for the conversations that feel a little dangerous, and a lot liberating.

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