Come Talk with Aimee: Sex, Intimacy, and Conversations Worth Coming Back To

Aimee Latta, RN, MSc | Sex Educator | Intimacy and Relationship Coach
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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee is here to bring sex out of the shadows and into a hot pink spotlight. It’s time to shatter your awkward silences and toss the rulebook straight out the window. We're diving headfirst into the juicy, hilarious, and oh-so-real conversations about sex and intimacy we should all be having. With bold guests, no shame, and plenty of laughs, Aimee turns "we don't talk about that" into "why aren't we talking about that?" Get ready for unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and the kind of honest talks that feel a little dangerous - and a lot liberating.

  1. 1d ago

    Kink Safety 101: How to Explore Risk, Consent, and Aftercare Safely with Rae Szereszewski

    Kink isn't just the hardcore stuff you see online. It's also sensation play, power dynamics, and deep trust. And with the right tools, it can be safe, sexy, and transformative. This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Rae Szereszewski, a certified sex educator, former latex designer, and former event coordinator at Oasis Aqualounge, a lifestyle club in Toronto. We get into how to assess physical and emotional risk, how to vet a kink partner, what green and red flags look like, and why aftercare and check-ins are non-negotiable.  We also talk about: The importance of small moments of consent The difference between aftercare and check-ins How to identify your own aftercare needs What to do when something goes wrong in a scene How to stay safe with pickup play at parties Practical first steps for kink-curious beginners Why kink can be soft, gentle, and deeply connecting If you've ever been curious about kink but didn't know where to start, or if you've wondered how to stay safe while exploring your desires, this episode is for you. Connect with Rae Szereszewski https://www.tiktok.com/@wifebaerae https://www.instagram.com/wifebaerae https://www.instagram.com/sharewithrae https://www.sharewithrae.com/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Kink Safety 101: How to Explore Risk, Consent, and Aftercare Safely with Rae Szereszewski

  2. Jul 16

    Non-Coming Practices: Find Pleasure Without the Finish Line with Nathalie Dewalhens

    What if orgasm wasn't the goal? What if pleasure was allowed to just be? This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Nathalie Dewalhens, a certified somatic intimacy coach, author, and creative force helping people reconnect with desire, pleasure, and their most authentic selves. We get into non-coming practices, how our goal-oriented approach to sex has turned orgasm into a finish line, and why slowing down, savoring, and staying present can transform your erotic life.  We also talk about: How goal-oriented sex turns pleasure into a task The difference between rushing to orgasm and staying in the room longer Reclaiming sensuality and desire after menopause The "sensual crone" archetype and why aging can deepen eroticism Why we live in an oversexualized and under-sensualized society Practical tips for reconnecting with your body Nathalie's upcoming retreat for post-menopausal women in Spain  If you've ever felt like sex has become a task with a destination, this episode is your invitation to slow down, savor, and stay in the room longer. Connect with Nathalie Dewalhens https://www.nathaliedewalhens.com/ https://instagram.com/nathaliedewalhens https://mybook.to/thesensualcrone Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Non-Coming Practices: Find Pleasure Without the Finish Line with Nathalie Dewalhens

  3. Jul 9

    Owning Your Orgasm: Why Your Pleasure Is Your Responsibility with Brooke Bralove

    Women are taught to prioritize everyone else's pleasure in the bedroom and out of it. But what happens when you finally stop performing and start taking charge of your own orgasm? This week on Come Talk with Aimee, I'm sitting down with Brooke Bralove, an AASECT-certified sex therapist with over 20 years of experience helping individuals, couples, and throuples heal from trauma and build deeply satisfying sex lives. We get into the biggest myths about female orgasm, why only 13% of women orgasm from penetration alone, and why taking responsibility for your own pleasure is the most empowering thing you can do.  We also talk about: How Hollywood and media shape our expectations Why masturbation is the foundation of great sex How to talk to your partner about what you want How to give feedback with curiosity, not criticism How unresolved trauma can impact desire and how to heal Why pleasure is your birthright If you've ever wondered why orgasm feels complicated, why you're performing instead of enjoying, or how to finally take charge of your pleasure, this episode is for you. Your orgasm is yours to own. Connect with Brooke with Bralove  www.brookebralove.com https://www.facebook.com/brookebralovepsychotherapy/ https://www.instagram.com/brookebralovepsychotherapy https://www.tiktok.com/@bbralovepsychotherapy https://www.linkedin.com/in/brookebralovepsychotherapy/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Owning Your Orgasm: Why Your Pleasure Is Your Responsibility with Brooke Bralove

  4. Jul 2

    Why ADHD Brains Crave Intensity: Sex, Kink, & Intimacy with Tarah Sykes

    What does ADHD have to do with kink? This episode explains why neurodivergent brains crave intensity, how to navigate desire discrepancies, and why your needs aren't the problem.  This week on Come Talk with Aimee, sexologist Tarah Sykes is breaking down why neurodivergent brains work differently when it comes to intimacy, desire, and pleasure. We get into the neuroscience of it all: dopamine, oxytocin, and why intensity can actually create calm. She also explains why traditional sex can feel like trying to listen to someone whisper in a crowded room for ADHD brains, and how kink, power dynamics, and sensory play can provide the strong signal they need to finally drop in and be present. Because when your brain is finally getting enough input, that executive function hamster wheel stops spinning, and you can actually enjoy yourself. We also talk about: how ADHD brains process desire and intimacy differently why traditional sex can be challenging for neurodivergent people how kink and BDSM provide the strong signal ADHD brains crave why intensity creates calm for neurodivergent nervous systems how shame from being "too much" or "not enough" shows up in the bedroom navigating intimacy when one partner is neurodivergent and the other isn't why curiosity over correction is a game changer for relationships and why your needs have never been the problem If you've ever felt broken for needing more intensity, more structure, or more novelty in the bedroom, Tarah wants you to know something: your brain isn't the problem. It's just different. And when you stop fighting how you're wired and start working with it, pleasure becomes possible in ways you might never have imagined. Connect with Tarah Sykes: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/forbiddenxfound/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@forbiddenxfound?lang=en Website: https://www.forbiddenandfound.com/ Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Why ADHD Brains Crave Intensity: Sex, Kink, & Intimacy with Tarah Sykes

  5. Jun 25

    Desire Does Not Expire: Sex and Intimacy at 80 with Linda

    Sexual intimacy does not end when you turn 80, and Linda is living proof. This week at Come Talk with Aimee, Linda talks about sex and intimacy after 80 and why desire never expires no matter what stage you are in life. Linda is an author, intimacy and relationship coach, and the unapologetic voice behind the fast-growing digital talk series Next with Linda. She shares her own love story, including falling head over heels at 80, how women can shed the “stinking thinking” that tells them their best days are behind them, and why sexual health and desire look different, and often better, with age. We also talk about: why desire and desirability do not have an expiration date what changes about sex as you age and how intimacy can actually get better how menopause affects the body and the practical ways to work around it why self-pleasure matters for your sexual health at every age the conversations around aging and desire that women over 60 are rarely given space to have how to stop apologizing for who you are and reclaim what you still want If you have ever told yourself that sex and intimacy are no longer for you, this episode is your permission slip to think again. Linda is 83, still open to desire, and she wants every woman to know it is your turn. Connect with Linda Next with Linda: https://www.nextwithlinda.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nextwithlinda/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nextwithlinda TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nextwithlinda YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@nextwithlinda Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Desire Does Not Expire: Sex and Intimacy at 80 with Linda

  6. Jun 18

    Throw Out the Script: Neuroqueer Sex, Desire & Intimacy with Emily Zawadzki

    The script you were handed about sex and relationships was never written for you. And if you are neuroqueer, it probably never even came close. In this episode, I sit down with Emily Zawadzki, also known as Emily Zed Sex Ed, a Canadian queer sex educator, coach, and support worker with over 10 years of experience supporting kinky neuroqueer folks. We talk about what it means to be neuroqueer, how social conditioning shapes the way we think about sex and relationships long before we even start having them, and how masking shows up in the bedroom in ways we might not even recognize. Emily also shares how her wife's ADHD diagnosis transformed the way they communicate and connect, and why redefining what intimacy looks like is one of the most liberating things a neuroqueer person can do. We also talk about: how to tell the difference between a genuine desire and an inherited cultural script why sensory accommodations can actually create more eroticism, not less why sexual confidence is not about experience but about self-awareness and having your own sexy toolkit the huge overlap between neurodivergence and kink what neurotypical partners can do to show up better for their neuroqueer loves If you have ever felt like you were performing in your relationships, or wondered why the standard relationship script never quite fit, this episode is your permission slip to throw it out and write your own. Connect with Emily Zawadzki  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilyzedsexed/ Website: https://www.emilyzedsexed.com/ From Awkward to Assured Webinar: https://www.emilyzedsexed.com/neuroqueer-webinar Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    Throw Out the Script: Neuroqueer Sex, Desire & Intimacy with Emily Zawadzki

  7. Jun 11

    The Art of Receiving: Somatic Healing and Expanding Your Pleasure Threshold with Lorina Manzanita

    What if the reason you struggle to receive pleasure has everything to do with how your nervous system was wired? In this episode, I sit down with Lorina Manzanita, somatic intimacy coach, somatic experiencing trauma resolution practitioner, author, and educator with over 25 years of experience in the healing arts. We get into why so many empaths, caregivers, and people pleasers have a hard time receiving, how your nervous system sets your pleasure threshold, and how to expand your capacity for pleasure, intimacy, and connection through somatic practices. Lorina also introduces us to the savoring practice, the Wheel of Consent, and her own framework called the Four Rs of Fulfillment, all of which are practical tools you can start using right now. We also talk about: how self-abandonment shows up in intimate relationships, from tolerating touch you do not love to overgiving financially and emotionally why receiving a compliment, touch, money, or pleasure can feel physically uncomfortable the savoring practice and how mindfully luxuriating in good feelings rewires your nervous system why grief is a common response when people finally begin to receive how advocating for your pleasure becomes even more important as your body and desires change over time If you have ever deflected a compliment, tolerated less than you deserve, or felt uncomfortable the moment things started to feel really good, this episode is your permission slip. You do not have to nibble on scraps. The full course meal is available, and you are allowed to receive it. Connect with Lorina Manzanita Website: https://www.lorinamanzanita.com/ Held and Fulfilled: A 6-week small group program for professional empaths who struggle with owning our desires & boundaries: https://integratingeros.com/ Nourished: The Neuroscience of Receiving Beautifully http://www.integratingeros.com/nourished-mini-course Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimee YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    The Art of Receiving: Somatic Healing and Expanding Your Pleasure Threshold with Lorina Manzanita

  8. Jun 4

    After Hours with Steph Zapata

    How well do you know your finger techniques?  In this second anniversary episode, I’m sharing another After Hours moment with you! This time, it’s with Steph Zapata, sexual health educator, anti-colonial organizer, and the visionary behind SLAM, a groundbreaking conference centering sex, liberation, and movement work. We kick things off with a game called Fingering It Out, where Steph schools us on fingering techniques, erogenous zones, and why lube is always the answer. Then we get real and go deeper into Steph's personal journey from years of shame and disconnection to reclaiming their body, their pleasure, and themselves.  We also talk about: how shame shows up in the bedroom and what to do instead of fighting it reclaiming your identity and body as home through sex education how to live from your heart instead of your anxiety-riddled mind using dirty talk to turn intrusive thoughts into real-time communication with your partner why imposter syndrome and fear do not have to hold you back from showing up If you have ever felt disconnected from your body, stuck in your head during sex, or like pleasure is something you have to earn, this episode is your reminder that becoming whole is a process, shame is not yours to keep, and dirty talk might just be the hack that changes your sex life. Connect with Steph Zapata  https://www.instagram.com/risewsteph/ https://www.tiktok.com/@risewsteph https://linktr.ee/RISEwSteph Use code WELCOME for 10% off your first order https://motherlode-market.com/ Download your FREE Pleasure Power Workbook: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com/pleasurepowerguide Elevate Your Intimacy with Lubify Lux lube. Use code AIMEE25 to get 25% https://ilubify.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorPNdYi9J1NN0TWDq4iO8PYcwNxzwi5nmACAU2aseFBxVms8RO6  Become a FirstComer on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/14753586/join Stay Connected with Come Talk with Aimee: Website: https://www.cometalkwithaimee.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cometalkwithaimee TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cometalkwithaimeeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@cometalkwithaimee

    After Hours with Steph Zapata
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Think sex is too taboo to talk about? Think again. Come Talk with Aimee is here to bring sex out of the shadows and into a hot pink spotlight. It’s time to shatter your awkward silences and toss the rulebook straight out the window. We're diving headfirst into the juicy, hilarious, and oh-so-real conversations about sex and intimacy we should all be having. With bold guests, no shame, and plenty of laughs, Aimee turns "we don't talk about that" into "why aren't we talking about that?" Get ready for unfiltered stories, spicy insights, and the kind of honest talks that feel a little dangerous - and a lot liberating.

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