Talk AB It Podcast

Annabelle Wiskus

Talk AB It is an honest and relatable podcast that dives into the ups and downs of navigating life post-graduation in your 20s. Hosted by Annabelle Wiskus, each episode explores what it means to live authentically-- whether it's tackling career decisions, relationships, mental health, or personal growth. With raw conversations, insightful stories, and guest appearances, Talk AB It is a space to reflect, laugh, and connect as we all figure out what is means to be true to ourselves during one of the most transformative decades of our lives.

  1. 6d ago

    Not Everyone Needs Access to You.

    Just because someone wants access to your life doesn't mean they deserve it. In this week's episode, we're talking about one of the biggest lessons you can learn in your twenties: being intentional about who gets your time, energy, and attention. From friendships that no longer serve you to people who only seem to care when you become unavailable, we're unpacking the difference between being missed and being valued. Because sometimes people don't actually miss you — they miss the access they once had to you. We're diving into why history doesn't guarantee someone a place in your future, the importance of protecting your peace, and why setting boundaries doesn't make you selfish. We'll also talk about embracing privacy in a world where everyone knows everyone's business, letting go of people-pleasing, and how you can love others while still honoring your own needs and your relationship with God. Consider this your reminder that you can have a soft heart and strong boundaries, and you don't owe everyone a front-row seat to the life you're building. Access to you is a privilege, not an entitlement.

    Not Everyone Needs Access to You.

  2. Oct 21

    You’re Allowed to Become Someone Your Old Self Wouldn’t Recognize.

    Have you ever looked back at who you used to be and realized how much you’ve changed? In this episode, we’re talking about the beauty, discomfort, and freedom of becoming someone your younger self might not even recognize. From outgrowing friendships and old habits to changing your priorities, setting boundaries, and letting go of the life you once thought you wanted, we’re diving into why growth doesn’t mean you’ve lost yourself. Sometimes it means you’re finally discovering who you’re meant to be. We’ll talk about releasing the pressure to stay the same, giving yourself permission to change your mind, and trusting God when He leads you toward a version of yourself you never expected. But we’re also talking about the importance of holding onto the best parts of the girl you used to be—her joy, her dreams, her softness, and everything that made her her. Because becoming a better version of yourself doesn’t mean you have to abandon who you were. It means learning what to carry with you and what to finally let go of. If you’ve been feeling like you’re changing, outgrowing things, or stepping into an unfamiliar season of life, this episode is your reminder that you don’t owe your past self the life she planned. You’re allowed to grow, evolve, and become someone new while still loving the girl who got you here. And maybe one day, your younger self won’t recognize everything about you—but I hope she recognizes the heart that was always there.

    You’re Allowed to Become Someone Your Old Self Wouldn’t Recognize.

  3. Oct 14

    You’re Not Confused. You Just Don’t Like the Answer.

    Have you ever found yourself saying, “I just don’t know what to do,” when deep down, you might already know the answer? In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between genuine confusion and resisting an answer we don’t want to accept. Whether it’s a friendship, a relationship, a dream, or a version of life you thought you’d have, sometimes we hold on so tightly to what we want that we struggle to accept what’s right in front of us. We overthink, search for more signs, and convince ourselves we need more time when what we might really need is the courage to move forward. We’ll talk about why clarity doesn’t always feel peaceful, how fear can keep us stuck in situations we’ve outgrown, and why the right decision doesn’t always feel good right away. Through the lens of faith, we’ll explore what it looks like to stop asking God to change the answer and start asking Him for the courage to accept it. Because you can love something and still let it go, feel scared and still trust, and grieve a decision while knowing it’s the right one. If you’ve been overthinking something lately, this is your reminder to stop asking yourself what you should do and start asking yourself what you already know. Maybe you’re not confused. Maybe you just don’t like the answer—and maybe your next chapter begins when you finally stop negotiating with it.

    You’re Not Confused. You Just Don’t Like the Answer.

  4. Oct 7

    Stop Making Everything Mean Something.

    What if not everything that happens in your life actually means something? We spend so much time interpreting everything around us — the text that went unanswered, the invitation we didn’t get, the friendship that feels different, the job we didn’t get, the person who seems distant — and turning it into a story about ourselves. But sometimes, things just happen. Not every change is rejection, not every bad day means you’re off track, and not every situation needs to be analyzed until you find an answer. In this episode, we’re talking about the freedom that comes from letting things be what they are instead of constantly searching for a deeper meaning. Because maybe you don’t need to take everything personally, figure everything out, or turn every moment into a reflection of your worth. Sometimes you can simply let it happen, let it go, and keep living your life.

    Stop Making Everything Mean Something.

  5. Sep 30

    I DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP!

    This episode is for the girls who genuinely don’t want a relationship right now — and are completely okay with that. In a world where being in a relationship can feel like the ultimate goal, we’re talking about what it looks like to actually love your life single. I don’t want to be tied down, compromise my morals, make excuses for someone’s immaturity, or feel like I have to shrink the life I’m building. I want the freedom to say yes, experience new things, focus on my goals, and become the woman I’m meant to be. But this isn’t about wanting to date around or never settle down. It’s about wanting the one — someone who adds to my life rather than takes away from it. Someone who inspires me, challenges me, supports my dreams, and makes the sacrifices that come with a relationship feel insignificant because of who I’m making them for. Until then, I want to experience everything God has for me, build healthy habits, surrender more of my life to Him, and become the healthiest version of myself mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally. So no, I don’t want a boyfriend… I want a relationship that makes my life fuller, not smaller — and until that person comes along, I’m pretty happy right where I am.

    I DON'T WANT A RELATIONSHIP!

  6. Sep 23

    Stop Living In Other Peoples Timelines.

    It’s so easy to look around and feel like you’re falling behind — watching other people get into relationships, land their dream jobs, move to new places, or reach milestones you thought you would have reached by now. But the more time we spend comparing our lives to everyone else’s timeline, the more we lose sight of our own. This episode is a reminder to stop rushing your life just because someone else’s looks different. There is so much beauty in getting to know yourself, enjoying where you are, and trusting that what’s meant for you doesn’t need to happen on someone else’s schedule. Because the moment you stop appreciating your own life, you start wanting what other people have instead of recognizing what’s already being created for you. Your life doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s to be exactly where it’s supposed to be.

    Stop Living In Other Peoples Timelines.

  7. Sep 16

    “Don’t Forget To Have Fun!”

    I think we could all use a little more fun in our lives. In a world where everything can feel so serious, productive, and constantly on display, it’s easy to forget to do things simply because they make us happy. This episode is a reminder to romanticize your life a little more, say yes to the spontaneous plans, pick up the hobbies you love, try something new, and make memories that don’t necessarily have a purpose beyond the fact that they bring you joy. And maybe not everything needs to be shared. There’s something so special about having little parts of your life that belong only to you — the things you do for fun, the places you go, the memories you make, and the parts of yourself you don’t feel the need to explain or post. We talk about why having a life outside of productivity and social media is so important, and why sometimes the best moments are the ones you get to keep entirely for yourself. Because life is meant to be lived, not just documented.

    “Don’t Forget To Have Fun!”

  8. Sep 9

    Things I Wish I Knew Going Into College:

    College teaches you a lot—but sometimes the biggest lessons have nothing to do with what happens in the classroom. In this episode, we’re talking about the things we’ve learned along the way: why having more friends doesn’t always mean you’re happier, why quality will always matter more than quantity, and why growing as a person doesn’t mean you have to completely change who you are. We also dive into making mistakes, navigating friendships, and learning that one bad decision doesn’t make you a bad person. Plus, we talk about why “I’m in college” doesn’t have to be an excuse to party, drink, or become someone you don’t recognize. Ultimately, what you put into your life is what you’ll take away from it. Every decision, mistake, friendship, and experience shapes you into who you become—and there’s no perfect way to get there.

    Things I Wish I Knew Going Into College:
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Talk AB It is an honest and relatable podcast that dives into the ups and downs of navigating life post-graduation in your 20s. Hosted by Annabelle Wiskus, each episode explores what it means to live authentically-- whether it's tackling career decisions, relationships, mental health, or personal growth. With raw conversations, insightful stories, and guest appearances, Talk AB It is a space to reflect, laugh, and connect as we all figure out what is means to be true to ourselves during one of the most transformative decades of our lives.

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  • Creator
    Annabelle Wiskus
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    75
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Annabelle Wiskus
  • Show Website
    Talk AB It Podcast

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