Dating After Divorce | Christian Dating, Codependency, Dating with Kids, Narcissist, Trauma Healing, Divorce Recovery, Dating

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I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord.. For years, I believed ”love wasn’t in the cards for women like me” and I attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best. Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter. Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts. Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings! Schedule Your FREE Discovery Call  - HERE Pre-register for the upcoming women's retreat in Orange County, CA - Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist   Join our Facebook group - Dating After Divorce

  1. 6D AGO

    40| Being Selective Isn't Bad, It's Biblical

    This episode is perfect for: Women who feel guilty about having standards Women told they're "too picky" Women who need biblical validation to maintain boundaries Women tempted to settle out of loneliness   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the link below and send me a DM for more information about my Membership Dating After Divorce and receive 50% OFF for life, but please do it asap before this offer closes. LINK 🔗 https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women   Similar episodes EP 37| How To Turn Your Divorce Into Your BIGGEST Dating Advantage EP 32| Rewriting Your Love Story in 2026

    14 min

  2. FEB 10

    39| Valentine's Day as a Single Woman: How to Thrive While Single on Valentine's Day

    Your divorce gave you something priceless: wisdom, clarity, and zero tolerance for BS. That's not baggage—that's your superpower. Shift your mindset from "I'm damaged" to "I'm refined." You're not starting over; you're starting from a place of experience and strength. Use your divorce as a filter. The right man will see your past as proof of your courage and depth, not as a red flag. Date with boundaries and standards. You know what you don't want, so you can be clear about what you DO want without apology. You survived the end of a marriage. That makes you brave, resilient, and ready for a love that actually deserves you   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes. LINK 🔗 https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women   Similar episodes EP 37| How To Turn Your Divorce Into Your BIGGEST Dating Advantage EP 36| Don't Settle Out of Fear: Waiting for God's Best After Divorce

    15 min

  3. FEB 5

    38| Here Is Why You Need To Pray For Your Future Husband

    Praying for someone you know might feel weird. But that is how you make it real.   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes. LINK 🔗 https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women

    3 min

  4. FEB 3

    37| How To Turn Your Divorce Into Your BIGGEST Dating Advantage

    Divorced women have something that women who've never been married don't have. Experience. Wisdom. Zero tolerance for nonsense. You've been through the fire. You know what a relationship looks like from the inside—the good, the bad, and the "oh heck no."! And that makes you dangerous. In the best possible way.   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible.   Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes. LINK 🔗 https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women   Similar episodes EP 36| Don't Settle Out of Fear: Waiting for God's Best After Divorce EP 32| Rewriting Your Love Story in 2026

    14 min

  5. JAN 27

    36| Don't Settle Out of Fear: Waiting for God's Best

    Afraid of being alone after divorce? Learn why settling for less out of fear of missing out keeps you from the incredible relationship God has planned for you. Discover how to overcome loneliness and trust God's timing in your dating journey.   Ready to stop guessing and start dating with confidence? Because you deserve a love that honors you—and it's time to believe that's possible. Click the link below and send me a DM for more information, but please do it asap before this offer closes. I AM INTERESTED!  🔗 https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach4women   Similar episodes Ep 27| Your Person Exists - What To Do In The Waiting Season EP 29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment EP 6| God's Timing vs Your Loneliness

    8 min

  6. JAN 20

    35| How to Unblock Your Blessings

    HOW TO UNBLOCK YOUR BLESSINGS: A Path Back to Love 💕 Feeling like love has passed you by? Wondering if you're too broken, too damaged, or too late for the blessings God has in store? This episode is your reminder that your blessings aren't lost - they're just waiting for you to clear the path. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF: You're divorced, separated, or healing from heartbreak You feel unworthy of love or happiness You're ready to stop blocking your own blessings You want to step back into your power and prepare for love   Be a founding member for Dating After Divorce for Christian Women What you get: 50% off, locked in for life (even when prices increase) Early access to everything A real voice in what we create together This is just the beginning. The best content will come from you and the founding group as we refine and build side by side. Interested? DM me "READY" to my Instagram account within 24 hours and I'll send you the details. @relationshipcoach4women    List similar episodes EP 27| Your Person Exists - What To Do In The Waiting Season EP 23| What Single Moms Should Know When Dating EP 17| Unashaming Divorce - Regaining Your Worth

    12 min

  7. JAN 13

    34| Stop Over-Explaining Yourself: What James 5:12 Teaches About Boundaries

    Are you struggling with setting healthy boundaries as a Christian? Do you feel guilty saying no or find yourself people-pleasing instead of being honest? In this episode, we dive deep into James 5:12—'Let your yes be yes and your no be no'—to discover what the Bible really says about healthy boundaries in relationships.   Join my membership Dating After Divorce for Christian Women and go  FROM:  A divorced Christian woman over 40 who is wounded, isolated, and paralyzed by fear—carrying shame about her past, believing she's unworthy or "damaged goods," convinced good men don't exist or won't want her, second-guessing her standards, afraid to trust herself picker or date again.  Although she “believes” that there is someone out there for her, she feels hopeless and exhausted at times and doubts that God's plan includes real love for her at this stage of life. TO:  A healed, confident woman who knows and owns her worth in Christ, clearly understands what she wants in a relationship without apology.  Has shifted her limiting beliefs about men, dates with discernment and boundaries (not desperation or fear), and she engages in faith-based dating while continuing her growth, and trusts both herself and God's timing to bring the right man to her.  She is patiently waiting for the right person. If you join me as a founding member, you’ll get first access and a seriously discounted  50 % discounted locked-in for life! rate—even when the price increases later. DM me @relationshipcoach4women on Instagram for more information

    16 min

  8. JAN 6

    33| Stop Hiding Your Body & Trying to Control Everything - Part 4 The Wound of Humiliation & Injustice

    HUMILIATION WOUND -THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS: What Actually Happened to You: INJUSTICE WOUND - THE CHILDHOOD TRAUMA THAT CREATED THIS: What Actually Happened to You: listen to the full episode to find out if you need to heal from these traumas and how they are affecting your current adult life in general, not only your love life.   If you’d like to schedule a FREE discovery call with me click the link below: I AM INTERESTED!  🔗  https://forms.gle/LoB9CRzbNEUvPY7e8     Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist   🔗   https://forms.gle/SZ2aGP2xUxoutpCR7 Join our Facebook group Dating After Divorce 🔗https://www.facebook.com/groups/1765979270789001/people Similar episodes   EP 31| Why You Can't Trust Good Men - Part 3 The Wound of Betrayal  EP 30| Stop Shape-Shifting Into Who He Wants- Part 2 The Wound of Rejection EP 29| Your Childhood Trauma Is Ruining Your Love Life - Part 1 The Wound of Abandonment

    20 min
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I’m Patty Martin-Guerra, and this podcast proves that your greatest love story is coming, I found love at nearly 50 – not by luck, but by surrendering myself to the Lord.. For years, I believed ”love wasn’t in the cards for women like me” and I attracted toxic relationships because my wounded inner voice believed I deserved less than God’s best. Everything changed when I embraced Matthew 6:33 says, ”But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” When I stopped chasing love and started pursuing wholeness, letting God heal my past traumas, everything shifted. If I found an incredible, healthy, God sent love at nearly 50, having two kids and a complicated past, so can you. Age isn’t your enemy. Your children aren’t obstacles. Your divorce isn’t a scarlet letter. Every Tuesday, we meet in this space where divorced women become whole, and broken hearts become wise hearts. Sister, your love story isn’t over – it’s just getting to the good part. Subscribe and leave a review so this message reaches more women who need to hear it. Blessings! Schedule Your FREE Discovery Call  - HERE Pre-register for the upcoming women's retreat in Orange County, CA - Women’s Retreat 2026-Waitlist   Join our Facebook group - Dating After Divorce

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