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Brenda Kennison - Mind Renewal, Recovery & Spiritual Coach
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The Day One of Sobriety podcast helps you renew your mind so you can live healed, whole, and confident in Christ. Each bite-sized episode blends biblical truth with brain science to help you break destructive habits, calm the chaos, and build the mindset God designed you to carry. You’ll learn practical tools you can apply right away—because knowledge fills you up, but application transforms you. If you’re ready to break free from toxic thoughts and walk boldly in your God-given identity and purpose, this is your weekly home for hope, healing, and real change. Connect and find encouragement in our Mind Renewal Solutions Made Simple Facebook Community. Become a Day One of Sobriety Insider and receive our weekly email newsletter. Links below! Website:  day1ofsobriety.org Become an Insider: https://bit.ly/4hEYsI4 Mind Renewal Community: https://bit.ly/3ESyCBL

  1. 4d ago

    69. How to Calm Anxiety in the Moment: 3 Steps to Interrupt Anxious Thought Patterns

    What do you do when anxiety rises before you have had time to think clearly? Maybe you immediately start analyzing the situation, searching for reassurance, trying to solve the problem, or reacting to a conclusion that has not actually been confirmed. EP69 is the Application Episode that follows last week’s teaching on anxiety, faith, and identity. This week, we move from understanding anxiety to practicing what to do when your body reacts and your mind begins building a fearful story. You will learn a simple three-step process: Regulate the body. Evaluate the thought. Challenge the pattern. The goal is not to deny anxiety or force yourself to become perfectly calm. It is to create enough space between the anxious signal and your response so you can separate what actually happened from what fear is predicting and choose your next response more intentionally.   IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER Why trying to “think your way out” of anxiety may not be the most helpful first step How to use a brief pause to help your body settle before evaluating the situation How to separate a fact from the anxious story your mind attaches to it Why learned beliefs can make certain situations feel threatening before you have enough information How to challenge “What if?” thinking with an “Even if” response grounded in truth and trust in God   SCRIPTURE AND MIND RENEWAL In 2 Corinthians 10:5, Paul speaks about confronting arguments and thoughts that set themselves against the knowledge of God and bringing them into obedience to Christ. In an anxious moment, that gives us an important question: Does the conclusion my mind is making agree with what is actually true and with what Christ says is true? Mind renewal does not require pretending the feeling is not real. It gives us a way to examine the conclusion attached to the feeling and decide whether we want that conclusion directing our response. This is where faith and participation meet. We bring the anxious pattern into awareness, invite the Holy Spirit into the process, and practice responding to truth rather than automatically following fear. YOUR RENEWAL PRACTICE: REGULATE BEFORE YOU EVALUATE This week’s companion resource, Regulate Before You Evaluate: A 3-Step Practice for Responding to Anxiety in Real Time, was created to help you carry the episode teaching into real-life anxious moments. The goal is to give you a simple visual reminder you can return to when anxiety rises and clear thinking feels harder. Rather than trying to remember every point from the episode, use the resource to help you pause, recognize what is happening, and practice a more intentional response over time. You can access the weekly resource in two ways: Join the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community https://bit.ly/mindrenewalsolutions Join the Day One Insider to receive the weekly resource and Friday Renewal Practice by email https://bit.ly/Join-Day-One-Insiders Repeated practice matters. The resource is designed to support that process, not to create pressure to “get it right” in every anxious moment.   CONNECT WITH DAY ONE OF SOBRIETY 🗞️ Join the DAY ONE INSIDER for weekly encouragement and practical tools for mind renewal: https://bit.ly/Join-Day-One-Insiders   💬 Connect with the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/mindrenewalsolutions   🌐  Learn more about Day One of Sobriety Ministries: https://day1ofsobriety.org/   📖 Explore Brenda Kennison’s book, Trapped in Your Thoughts: https://a.co/d/0b03SCtb   Ready to begin a relationship with Jesus? https://tryjesuschallenge.com/   ⚠️ DISCLAIMER The Day One of Sobriety podcast is for educational and spiritual growth purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy, counseling, or medical treatment. If you are experiencing significant emotional distress, please seek help from a licensed mental health professional.

  2. Sep 23

    68. Does Anxiety Mean You Lack Faith? Why Christians Can Love God and Still Struggle

    If you really trusted God, would you still feel anxious? Many Christians quietly ask that question when fear, worry, or an anxious response shows up again. The anxiety itself can be difficult, but the shame and spiritual judgment attached to it can create an entirely different struggle. In this Core Episode, Brenda explores the relationship between anxiety and faith and explains why feeling anxious does not automatically mean your faith is weak. Through Scripture, mind renewal, a personal story, and an accessible look at learned brain and body responses, you will begin separating what anxiety feels like from what it actually says about who you are. The goal is not to pretend anxiety is irrelevant or accept worry as your permanent identity. It is to understand what is happening accurately so you can bring it to God and increasingly respond from truth instead of shame.   IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER Why anxiety does not automatically mean that your faith has failed The difference between experiencing a feeling and allowing that feeling to define what is true Why salvation gives you a new identity while mind renewal remains an ongoing process How learned associations can cause your brain and body to react quickly to familiar situations Why a familiar pattern is not the same thing as your God-given identity   SCRIPTURE AND MIND RENEWAL Philippians 4:6-8 does more than tell believers not to live in anxiety. Paul gives us a response. We are invited to bring what troubles us to God through prayer and thanksgiving and then become intentional about what we allow our minds to dwell on. That brings together relationship with God and mental participation. Proverbs 3:5-6 adds another important truth: trust does not require us to stop thinking. It means we refuse to treat our own limited understanding as the final authority. You can acknowledge what you feel, bring it honestly to God, and still choose to lean into what He says is true.     YOUR RENEWAL PRACTICE: SEPARATE THE SIGNAL FROM YOUR IDENTITY Spend some time this week becoming more aware of how anxiety shows up for you. When it does, consider two questions: What am I making this anxiety mean about me, God, or my faith? Has anxiety started becoming part of the way I describe myself? Maybe you have been thinking, “I should be further along by now,” or you hear yourself saying, “I am just a worrier.” Pause before accepting that conclusion. You may have practiced worry for years, but worry does not get to define you. Awareness does not complete the renewal process, but it gives you a place to begin. We will keep building on this topic inside the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community and through the Day One Insider Newsletter, where you will receive continued encouragement, reflection, and practical application. Links to both are included below.     CONNECT WITH DAY ONE OF SOBRIETY 🗞️Join the DAY ONE INSIDER for weekly encouragement and practical tools for mind renewal: https://bit.ly/Join-Day-One-Insiders 💬Connect with the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/mindrenewalsolutions 🌐 Learn more about Day One of Sobriety Ministries: https://day1ofsobriety.org/ 📖 Explore Brenda Kennison’s book, Trapped in Your Thoughts: https://a.co/d/0b03SCtb Ready to begin a relationship with Jesus? https://tryjesuschallenge.com/   DISCLAIMER The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any mental-health condition or replace professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic care.

  3. Sep 16

    67. Choosing Rest Without Guilt: A Real-Life Mind Renewal Moment

    After two weeks of teaching about physical, soul, and spiritual rest, Brenda recognized that God was not only speaking through her to the listeners. He was also speaking directly to her. Months of writing, publishing, podcasting, coaching, conferences, and ministry preparation had left her tired and off balance. She could push herself to produce another regular episode, but at what cost? In this short, personal episode, Brenda shares the conversation that helped her recognize when commitment had crossed into internal striving. You will hear how she used the Faith-Rest Reset to make a real-time decision and why choosing rest does not mean you are irresponsible, abandoning your commitment, or failing to show up. Sometimes mind renewal means receiving the same truth you would lovingly offer someone else.   IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER Why knowing what you need and permitting yourself to receive it can be two different things How a sincere commitment can quietly become pressure to keep producing at any cost Why choosing rest does not mean that you are irresponsible or have stopped caring How Brenda applied the Faith-Rest Reset to her own schedule and ministry Why rest may be the next faithful step when continued effort comes with an unnecessary cost SCRIPTURE AND MIND RENEWAL EP65 and EP66 explore the biblical foundation for physical, soul, and spiritual rest, including the teaching in Hebrews 4. Biblical rest does not require us to become passive or neglect what God has entrusted to us. It teaches us to act faithfully while trusting God with what only He can carry. EP67 shows what that truth looks like in real life. Brenda could have continued pushing herself to maintain the expected schedule. Mind renewal helped her pause and reconsider the belief that faithfulness always required producing one more episode. Choosing a different response did not weaken her commitment to the ministry. It allowed her to honor what God was showing her about balance, surrender, and receiving rest. YOUR RENEWAL PRACTICE: RECEIVE YOUR OWN COUNSEL Consider one area where you feel pressure to keep pushing. Ask yourself: What has God actually given me to do? What outcome am I trying to manage or guarantee? What would I advise someone I love if that person were carrying the same level of pressure? What is my next faithful step? Your next step may involve completing something important. It may also involve asking for help, postponing something, changing your expectations, or allowing yourself to rest. You do not have to abandon every responsibility to create a healthier rhythm. Begin by becoming honest about the cost of continuing to push and whether every demand you feel is something God has actually asked you to carry. CONTINUE THE JOURNEY This personal episode is a real-life application of the teaching and resources introduced in EP65 and EP66. EP65: Feeling Overwhelmed? How to Find Rest & Reduce Stress in a Busy Season (Part 1) Learn why physically stopping and internally resting are not always the same thing. Explore physical, soul, and spiritual rest and use the Rest Audit to identify which area may need greater care. 🎧 Listen: https://bit.ly/FeelingOverwhelmed-FindRest ▶️ Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/K-8FmpcJUU8 EP66: Feeling Overwhelmed? How to Find Rest & Reduce Stress in a Busy Season (Part 2) Learn how responsibility can quietly cross into control and use the Faith-Rest Reset to identify what belongs to you, release what does not, and take your next faithful step. 🎧 Listen: https://bit.ly/FaithRest ▶️ Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/mX4kqwmvTsM     CONNECT WITH DAY ONE OF SOBRIETY 🗞️Join the DAY ONE INSIDER for weekly encouragement and practical tools for mind renewal: https://bit.ly/Join-Day-One-Insiders 💬Connect with the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/mindrenewalsolutions 🌐 Learn more about Day One of Sobriety Ministries: https://day1ofsobriety.org/ 📖 Explore Brenda Kennison’s book, Trapped in Your Thoughts: https://a.co/d/0b03SCtb Ready to begin a relationship with Jesus? https://tryjesuschallenge.com/   DISCLAIMER The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any mental-health condition or replace professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic care.

  4. Sep 9

    66. Feeling Overwhelmed? How to Find Rest and Reduce Stress in a Busy Season (Part 2)

    Have you ever prayed about a situation, placed it in God’s hands, and then spent the rest of the day mentally trying to solve it yourself? You may care deeply, want to act responsibly, and genuinely desire to do the right thing. But when you begin rehearsing conversations, predicting problems, or trying to guarantee an outcome, responsibility may have quietly crossed into control. In this Application Episode, Brenda explains why your mind may remain on duty even when there is nothing more you can responsibly do. Through Hebrews 4 and the three-part Faith-Rest Reset, you will learn how to identify what God has entrusted to you, release what was never yours to control, and take one faithful step with the Holy Spirit.   IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER Why physically stopping and internally resting are not always the same thing How faithful responsibility can quietly become internal striving and control What Hebrews 4 teaches about faith, obedience, and entering God’s rest How to distinguish what belongs to you from what belongs to God, another person, or a future moment A three-part mind-renewal practice for releasing the outcome and choosing your next faithful step     SCRIPTURE AND MIND RENEWAL Hebrews 4 points to something deeper than physical relaxation or emotional relief. It describes the rest God makes available to those who respond to Him in faith. God’s rest does not call us to become passive or careless. We remain faithful to what He has given us to do while trusting Him with what only He can do. Hebrews 4:10–11 brings these truths together. We are invited to rest from our works as God rested from His, while also making every effort to enter that rest. That effort is not striving to create a restful feeling. It is intentionally choosing faith and obedience when fear tempts us to take control. Mind renewal happens as we recognize the old pattern and practice a different response. We can care deeply without assuming responsibility for how the entire story unfolds.   YOUR RENEWAL PRACTICE: THE FAITH-REST RESET Use the Faith-Rest Reset when you notice pressure building, your thoughts circling, or your mind trying to manage an outcome. This two-page resource includes a concise reference guide and a reusable worksheet to help you apply the three-part practice to one situation that is keeping your mind on duty. The Faith-Rest Reset is available inside the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community and is also being shared with Day One Insiders.  Links to join are listed below.     CONNECT WITH DAY ONE OF SOBRIETY 🗞️Join the DAY ONE INSIDER for weekly encouragement and practical tools for mind renewal: https://bit.ly/Join-Day-One-Insiders 💬Connect with the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/mindrenewalsolutions 🌐 Learn more about Day One of Sobriety Ministries: https://day1ofsobriety.org/ 📖 Explore Brenda Kennison’s book, Trapped in Your Thoughts: https://a.co/d/0b03SCtb Ready to begin a relationship with Jesus? https://tryjesuschallenge.com/   DISCLAIMER The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any mental-health condition or replace professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic care.

  5. Sep 2

    65. Feeling Overwhelmed? How to Find Rest and Reduce Stress in a Busy Season (Part 1)

    You finally sit down after a long day, but the pressure does not stop. Your mind continues reviewing what happened, preparing for tomorrow, and reminding you of everything that remains unfinished. Physically stopping and internally resting are not always the same thing. Learned beliefs about productivity, responsibility, and control can make rest uncomfortable. Your body’s stress response may also remain active even after the immediate demands have ended. This Core Episode will help you understand why rest can feel difficult and introduce three interconnected types of rest: physical, soul, and spiritual. You will also begin a simple Rest Audit to identify where you may need greater care without turning rest into another task to complete perfectly.   IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER How learned beliefs can make rest feel lazy, unsafe, or irresponsible Why your internal stress response may remain active after you stop moving The difference between physical, soul, and spiritual rest How Jesus’ invitation to rest includes relationship and dependence How to identify one area of rest that may need greater attention   SCRIPTURE AND MIND RENEWAL Genesis 2 shows that rest was part of God’s design from the beginning. God did not rest because He was depleted. He ceased from His completed work and established a rhythm of work and rest within creation. In Matthew 11:28–29, Jesus invites weary and burdened people to come to Him, take His yoke, and learn from Him. He does not promise a life without responsibility. He offers a different way to carry responsibility under His leadership and in relationship with Him. Mind renewal helps us recognize the beliefs beneath our patterns. When the Holy Spirit brings an old belief about rest to the surface, we can ask whether it agrees with God’s truth and the way He designed us to live.   YOUR RENEWAL PRACTICE: THE REST AUDIT Consider three areas of rest: Physical rest: Where might your body be asking for greater care or recovery? Soul rest: What thoughts, emotions, or sources of input may be keeping your internal engine revving? Spiritual rest: Where might God be inviting you to receive from Him and depend on Him more deeply? Do not try to correct everything at once. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you which area needs your attention right now. Awareness gives you a place to begin.   CONNECT WITH DAY ONE OF SOBRIETY 🗞️Join the DAY ONE INSIDER for weekly encouragement and practical tools for mind renewal: https://bit.ly/4hEYsI4 💬Connect with the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/mindrenewalsolutions 🌐 Learn more about Day One of Sobriety Ministries: https://day1ofsobriety.org/ 📖 Explore Brenda Kennison’s book, Trapped in Your Thoughts: https://a.co/d/0b03SCtb Ready to begin a relationship with Jesus? https://tryjesuschallenge.com/   DISCLAIMER The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any mental-health condition or replace professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic care.

  6. Aug 26

    64. What Are You Agreeing With? An Identity Reset

    Have you ever dismissed an opportunity because one thought immediately told you, “You are not qualified,” “You will fail again,” or “Someone else could do it better”? A thought entering your mind does not automatically mean you agree with it. An agreement begins forming when you repeatedly accept that message as a reliable description of who you are, what you should expect, or what is possible for your future. In this Application Episode, you will move from awareness to action through the five-step Identity Reset. You will learn how to recognize one practiced message, uncover the agreement beneath it, compare it with God’s truth, and choose one faithful action that keeps the old agreement from making the decision for you. Originally created as part of the EPIC Women’s Conference collection, this practical teaching is for anyone ready to stop allowing an old message to define their identity or limit their next step.   IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER The difference between experiencing a thought and agreeing with it How a present limitation can become an identity statement and a verdict about your future Why “I do not know how to do this yet” is different from “I am incapable” How the five-step Identity Reset supports Christian mind renewal Why one faithful action can begin reinforcing a response aligned with God’s truth   SCRIPTURE AND MIND RENEWAL In Judges 6, Gideon responded to God’s calling by describing himself according to his history: his clan was the weakest, and he was the least in his family. God did not ask Gideon to manufacture confidence in his natural abilities. He gave Gideon a greater truth: “I will be with you.” Ephesians 2:10 reminds us that we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works He prepared for us to do. Our confidence does not have to rest entirely on our past, present skill level, or ability to feel qualified. Mind renewal helps us recognize where an old agreement conflicts with what God has said. Through Scripture and the guidance of the Holy Spirit, we can practice responding from our God-given identity rather than allowing fear, shame, or self-disqualification to choose for us.   YOUR RENEWAL PRACTICE: THE IDENTITY RESET Choose one message that tends to become louder when you consider moving toward something God has placed on your heart. Use the five-step Identity Reset: Recognize: What are the exact words of the message? Reveal: What have you come to believe about yourself because of it? Examine: What has this agreement been producing in your choices? Realign: Where does the agreement conflict with God’s Word? Reinforce: What is one faithful action that agrees with God’s truth? Your action does not need to commit you to the entire opportunity. It might mean praying, gathering information, scheduling a conversation, or researching the preparation you would need.   Identity Reset Companion Guide Use the five-step framework and seven-day practice to work through one message and reinforce your new agreement.  👇Download it below: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1lkaa4k2_XBAiPD2Pd_-wSTlDPt5_GMSX/view?usp=sharing   Mindset Reset Series, EP35 through EP38 Explore how broader mindsets are formed and how they influence identity and behavior. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLqMFhVmBFotxSb45ZNmCpLHWghChIoSfy&si=qLZX_IwIOg5brAWb   CONNECT WITH DAY ONE OF SOBRIETY 🗞️Join the DAY ONE INSIDER for weekly encouragement and practical tools for mind renewal: https://bit.ly/4hEYsI4 💬Connect with the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/mindrenewalsolutions 🌐 Learn more about Day One of Sobriety Ministries: https://day1ofsobriety.org/ 📖 Explore Brenda Kennison’s book, Trapped in Your Thoughts: https://a.co/d/0b03SCtb Ready to begin a relationship with Jesus? https://tryjesuschallenge.com/   DISCLAIMER The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any mental-health condition or replace professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic care.

  7. Aug 19

    63. When Your Past Speaks Louder Than Your Purpose

    Sometimes the loudest voice competing with your purpose comes from something that happened years ago. You may love God, know you are forgiven, and believe His Word, yet still hear familiar messages saying you are unqualified, permanently damaged, or destined to fail again. Those messages can quietly influence how you interpret opportunities, relationships, and your future. Originally created for the EPIC Women’s Conference, this foundational episode is now being shared with the full Day One of Sobriety community because the struggle to separate identity from history affects people of every age and background. Through personal testimony, the story of Gideon, biblical truth, and a practical understanding of learned thought patterns, you will discover why familiar does not always mean true. Your past may explain some of the patterns you developed, but it does not have the authority to define your identity or determine your purpose.   IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER Why Christians can know they are forgiven and still feel stuck in an identity shaped by shame How past experiences can become a lens, produce an identity label, and create a limit Why an old protective pattern can interfere with growth in a new season What Gideon’s response to God reveals about history, confidence, and calling How awareness helps separate a practiced message from the truth God is speaking   SCRIPTURE AND MIND RENEWAL Ephesians 2:10 tells us that we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus for the good works He prepared for us. Our history does not cancel that identity or remove us from God’s purpose. Gideon struggled to see himself according to God’s calling. When God called him a mighty warrior, Gideon answered through the lens of his family history and perceived inadequacy. God responded with a greater truth: “I will be with you” (Judges 6). Romans 12:2 shows us how we begin living from the identity we have received in Christ. Transformation involves the renewing of our minds. Salvation establishes our identity, while mind renewal teaches us to think, choose, and live from it.   YOUR RENEWAL PRACTICE: NOTICE THE MESSAGE When you imagine taking a step toward healing, growth, or something God has placed on your heart, notice what message from your past becomes louder. Ask yourself: “When I begin moving toward God’s purpose, what message from my past tries to stop me?” Write down the first message that comes to mind. It might sound like: “I will fail again.” “I am not qualified.” “I have waited too long.” “My voice does not matter.” Do not argue with the message or try to solve it yet. Simply name it. An old thought surfacing does not mean you have failed or that the message is true. Awareness helps you recognize the difference between a thought you have practiced and the identity God has given you.   CONTINUE THE JOURNEY This Core Episode provides the foundation for EP64, What Are You Agreeing With? A Guided Identity Reset. In the Application Episode, you will learn how to recognize one message from your past, reveal the agreement beneath it, examine what it has produced, realign it with God’s truth, and reinforce that truth through one faithful action.   CONNECT WITH DAY ONE OF SOBRIETY 🗞️Join the DAY ONE INSIDER for weekly encouragement and practical tools for mind renewal: https://bit.ly/4hEYsI4 💬Connect with the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/mindrenewalsolutions 🌐 Learn more about Day One of Sobriety Ministries: https://day1ofsobriety.org/ 📖 Explore Brenda Kennison’s book, Trapped in Your Thoughts: https://a.co/d/0b03SCtb Ready to begin a relationship with Jesus? https://tryjesuschallenge.com/   DISCLAIMER The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any mental-health condition or replace professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic care.

  8. Aug 12

    62. How to Defuse Anger: The R.U.L.E. Method

    You recognize the tightening in your jaw or the heat rising in your chest. Maybe you feel yourself beginning to shut down and pull away. You know anger is taking over, but you still do not know what to do next. Awareness matters, but awareness alone does not change a your response. You need a practical off-ramp between recognizing the signal and automatically exploding, withdrawing, or saying something you regret. This Application Episode introduces the R.U.L.E. Method: Recognize, Understand, Loosen, and Engage. You will learn how a small physical action can help your reasoning brain rejoin the moment so you can respond from truth instead of autopilot. You do not need to practice every step perfectly. This week begins with one manageable response that can help you stay present when the anger alarm fires.   IN THIS EPISODE, YOU’LL DISCOVER Why recognizing an anger signal does not automatically change your response How anger can temporarily move faster than your reasoning and decision-making Why the R.U.L.E. Method begins by working with your body The difference between suppressing anger and ruling over your response How one slow breath or loosened muscle can create space for a wiser choice   SCRIPTURE AND MIND RENEWAL In Genesis 4, God warns Cain that sin is crouching at his door and desires to have him, but Cain must rule over it. God does not tell Cain to pretend the anger is not there. He calls Cain to remain in authority over what he does with it. Ruling over anger does not mean suppressing the emotion or allowing it to control your words and actions. It means recognizing what is happening and yielding your response to God. Galatians 5 identifies self-control as fruit produced by the Holy Spirit. This means you are not left to manage anger through willpower alone. As you yield to the Holy Spirit and participate in the renewal process, you can practice a different response. When anger has already led to harmful words or disconnection, Ephesians 4:26 reminds us not to allow anger to remain unresolved. Returning to repair what was damaged is also part of ruling over anger.   YOUR RENEWAL PRACTICE: LOOSEN THE ALARM The complete R.U.L.E. Method includes four steps: Recognize the signal Understand what may be underneath it Loosen the physical tension Engage from truth instead of autopilot This week, do not pressure yourself to use all four steps perfectly. Choose one situation where you commonly feel anger rise or feel the urge to shut down. When you notice the first signal, practice Loosen: Unclench your jaw Drop your shoulders Uncross your arms Plant both feet on the floor Take one slow breath Name one thing you can see in the room If needed, say, “Give me one second,” before responding. This small physical action helps communicate to your nervous system that you are safe enough to remain present. It creates space for the reasoning part of your brain to participate in what happens next. You may remember the practice after the moment has passed. That does not mean you failed. Repeatedly recognizing and practicing the response helps strengthen a healthier pathway over time.   CONTINUE THE JOURNEY EP62 is the Application Episode that builds upon EP61: Anger: Why We Explode or Shut Down. EP61 explains why anger can appear as either an explosion or a shutdown and introduces Signal Awareness. Listening to that Core Episode will help you recognize the earliest signs of anger before applying the R.U.L.E. Method.   DAY ONE MINDSET SERIES: Episodes 50 through 52 explain why mind renewal matters and introduce the complete DAY and ONE frameworks. Trapped in Your Thoughts: Why Mind Renewal Matters EP50: https://bit.ly/MindRenewalMatters Saved But Still Struggling? The Critical Steps of Mind Renewal EP51: https://bit.ly/CriticalSteps The Day One Mindset: How Christians Build Lasting Transformation EP52: https://bit.ly/BuildLastingTransformation   CONNECT WITH DAY ONE OF SOBRIETY 🗞️Join the DAY ONE INSIDER for weekly encouragement and practical tools for mind renewal: https://bit.ly/4hEYsI4 💬Connect with the Mind Renewal Made Simple Facebook Community: https://bit.ly/mindrenewalsolutions 🌐 Learn more about Day One of Sobriety Ministries: https://day1ofsobriety.org/ 📖 Explore Brenda Kennison’s book, Trapped in Your Thoughts: https://a.co/d/0b03SCtb Ready to begin a relationship with Jesus? https://tryjesuschallenge.com/ 🤩 If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who may be carrying shame about anger or struggling with a pattern of exploding or shutting down.   DISCLAIMER The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or treat any mental-health condition or replace professional medical, psychological, or therapeutic care. If anger is placing you or someone else in danger, or if it involves threats, violence, or abuse, seek qualified professional help and appropriate emergency support.

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The Day One of Sobriety podcast helps you renew your mind so you can live healed, whole, and confident in Christ. Each bite-sized episode blends biblical truth with brain science to help you break destructive habits, calm the chaos, and build the mindset God designed you to carry. You’ll learn practical tools you can apply right away—because knowledge fills you up, but application transforms you. If you’re ready to break free from toxic thoughts and walk boldly in your God-given identity and purpose, this is your weekly home for hope, healing, and real change. Connect and find encouragement in our Mind Renewal Solutions Made Simple Facebook Community. Become a Day One of Sobriety Insider and receive our weekly email newsletter. Links below! Website:  day1ofsobriety.org Become an Insider: https://bit.ly/4hEYsI4 Mind Renewal Community: https://bit.ly/3ESyCBL

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