Hope Beyond Betrayal: Healing from Porn Addiction & Infidelity

Eileen & David Posadny
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You've just uncovered a painful truth about your partner's porn addiction or infidelity — and it's devastating. So, where do you go from here? How can your marriage survive the shock and betrayal? This podcast offers hope, healing, and practical steps for couples navigating the fallout of porn use and betrayal. We dive into the damaging effects of porn on the brain, explore how boundaries can help restore intimacy, and share a powerful path to recovery. Through our own journey of healing, we reveal how our marriage not only survived but was transformed into something stronger and more connected than ever before. Tune in for stories of resilience, insight, and expert advice on how to overcome betrayal and rebuild the trust and intimacy you deserve.

  1. 3D AGO

    #33 - The Problem Isn't Just Porn—It’s the Hidden Heart

    Ask Us a Question! ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal In this Episode, Eileen and David discuss some of the patterns they have seen in the time they have been couples coaching. One of the biggest patterns? A hidden heart that is shielded due to fear or rejection or pain. They discuss their own story of how this came about in their lives and the journey of recovery they went on to find each others heart in the midst of intense betrayal and pain. As they peel back the areas of hope, the answer reveals something very valuable. A safe place for each person to fully share themselves, heal and be healed. Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at contact@hopebeyondbetrayal.com to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal ---------------------------------------------------- Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation. Support the show

    34 min

  2. JAN 28

    #32 - What Does God Have to do With Porn Recovery, Anyway?

    Ask Us a Question! ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal In this Episode, Eileen and David discuss a common question people encounter when they get into recovery: why is God mentioned so much in this? Why is submitting to God a necessary step? Can't I just skip this part? David and Eileen discuss at length why surrender (and why it's hard) are incorporated and necessary elements of healing. They also take time to discuss the trap of men who put on religion as another mask to avoid accountability or intimacy/truth. How this is another avoidant tactic and keeps us from God's purpose of healing and recovery also.  Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at contact@hopebeyondbetrayal.com to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal ---------------------------------------------------- Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation. Support the show

    43 min

  3. JAN 21

    #31 - When His Porn Recovery Is Going Well…Why Do I Still Feel Angry, Afraid, and Paranoid?

    Ask Us a Question! ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal In this Episode, Eileen and David discuss a listener question pertaining to paranoia and anger surrounding recovery. What if he is doing everything "right" after betrayal? Shouldn't I be happy? Why is there so much anger and sadness? Why is it so hard to communicate these feelings? Eileen has 4 helpful tips, a testimony and an analogy involving a cave, glass and what forgiveness is and is not! Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at contact@hopebeyondbetrayal.com to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal ---------------------------------------------------- Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation. Support the show

    51 min

  4. JAN 14

    #30 - Accountability, Community and Transparency (ACT) after Betrayal - with guest Andres

    Ask Us a Question! ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal In this Episode, David invites his guest Andres to share his testimony and some wisdom learned along the way. Andres takes time to share some lessons he learned in affair recovery and how that has helped shaped him into the thought process of A.C.T Accountability Community Transparency Together, they discuss why this is important, and the ways that couples (and men who are in recovery) can utilize it. Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at contact@hopebeyondbetrayal.com to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal ---------------------------------------------------- Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation. Support the show

    38 min

  5. JAN 7

    #29 - 5 Unexpected Discoveries We Found Together in Porn Addiction Recovery

    Ask Us a Question! ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal →https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal In this Episode, Eileen and David dive into 5 unexpected things that showed up as they navigated betrayal trauma. They talk about finding unexpected joy in various discussion, finding out that they could navigate instead of just survive, discovering kindness, finding authenticity as well as finding new ways to navigate difficult discussions. Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at contact@hopebeyondbetrayal.com to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal ---------------------------------------------------- Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation. Support the show

    29 min

  6. 12/31/2025

    #28 - 3 Denials the Betrayed Carry After Porn Discovery

    Ask Us a Question! ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal In this Episode, Eileen and David dive into the difficult topic of ways that denial can seep into the lives of the betrayed. How pain can block the reality of the situation (believing easily what we want to hear vs seeing reality), desire to believe words over action and how long healing is actually going to take. While no one wants to have to think about these things while they are recovering from shock, Eileen talks about how it can delay healing as a betrayed partner and offers hope. Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at contact@hopebeyondbetrayal.com to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal ---------------------------------------------------- Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation. Support the show

    46 min

  7. 12/24/2025

    #27 - How Denial Delays Healing in Porn Addiction Recovery

    Ask Us a Question! ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal In this Episode, Eileen and David discuss the difficult obstacle in recovery work of denial. What is denial? How does it hinder progress, and what are steps we can take to confront it? In this first conversation of two on the subject, David and Eileen talk about the ways this presents itself in sneaky manners, and how you can start to really overcome it for the good of everyone around you. Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at contact@hopebeyondbetrayal.com to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal ---------------------------------------------------- Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation. If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours Support the show

    48 min

  8. 12/17/2025

    #26 - Five Ways to Help Your Grieving Partner After Porn Betrayal

    Ask Us a Question! ⛓️‍💥  Try the Ever Accountable App and save 20% with Hope Beyond Betrayal → https://everaccountable.com/hopebeyondbetrayal/ BE A GUEST ON THE PODCAST https://stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/podcast-guest-request-sc3pg7ye WORK WITH DAVID & EILEEN 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with Eileen → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/call-with-eileen 💻 Book a 1:1 Call with David → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/coaching-call-with-david ❤️ Book a Marriage Coaching → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/introductory-11-marriagecouple-coaching-call GROUPS ⛓️‍💥 Join David’s Breaking Chains from Porn Group (Men only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-my-membership-oc2un ❤️‍🩹 Join Eileen’s Hope Beyond Betrayal Healing Group (Women only) → https://stanwith.me/hopebeyondbetrayal/p/join-eileens-support-coaching-group Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hopebeyondbetrayal Follow us on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@HopeBeyondBetrayal Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/hopebeyondbetrayalcoaching Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@hopebeyondbetrayal In this Episode, David expands on his and Eileen's conversation from episode #23 on betrayal trauma recovery through the holidays. He tackles 5 additional helpful tools that the betrayer can work on themselves to remember and practice when moving from a place of being the person who hurt, to the person who helps protect: 1. Adjust expectations on what a good day looks like 2. Happy memories are sometimes a trigger themselves 3. Anticipate triggers instead of being surprised by them 4. Take responsibility without making It about your shame 5. Prioritize healing over traditions Have a question you want answered on the podcast? Interested in being a guest? Reach out to us at contact@hopebeyondbetrayal.com to sign up or submit. You can also work with us 1:1 by scheduling a call at stan.store/hopebeyondbetrayal ---------------------------------------------------- Welcome to a raw, honest, and hope-filled podcast where we share our journey of healing after the devastation of porn addiction and infidelity. We’ve walked through betrayal, broken trust, and deep pain—but we also found redemption, restoration, and real transformation. If you’ve ever wondered if a marriage can truly recover from this kind of trauma, you're not alone—and the answer is yes. Through candid conversations, faith-based insight, and practical tools, we’ll guide you through what it takes to rebuild trust, set healthy boundaries, and heal together. This is our story—and it might just help you write yours Support the show

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You've just uncovered a painful truth about your partner's porn addiction or infidelity — and it's devastating. So, where do you go from here? How can your marriage survive the shock and betrayal? This podcast offers hope, healing, and practical steps for couples navigating the fallout of porn use and betrayal. We dive into the damaging effects of porn on the brain, explore how boundaries can help restore intimacy, and share a powerful path to recovery. Through our own journey of healing, we reveal how our marriage not only survived but was transformed into something stronger and more connected than ever before. Tune in for stories of resilience, insight, and expert advice on how to overcome betrayal and rebuild the trust and intimacy you deserve.

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