When did schools become the parents? James “Girl Dad” joins me on the Be Great Podcast to explain why a classroom assignment led him to contact his daughter’s school—and what he says happened next.James describes a ninth-grade activity that, according to his account, asked students to imagine being gay or lesbian and beginning a coming-out journey. We discuss the principal’s response, parental rights, school transparency, and whether families should opt in to lessons involving sex and gender.We also get into Gavin Newsom, California politics, homelessness, online threats, and James’s experience with Meta moderation. Our rapid-fire round covers parental consent, gender identity in schools, women’s sports, feminism, masculinity, and free speech.Where should schools make the call, and where should parents have the final say? Let me know in the comments.Subscribe to Be Great with Bruce Colero for more conversations on parenting, culture, politics, and personal responsibility.Full podcast on BEGREAT.PODCAST. Available on YouTube and Spotify.SPONSOR — MAIMONE LEGALThank you to Maimone Legal for supporting this episode.Thinking about expanding your business into the United States? Learn more about Maimone Legal and their free, no-obligation, 20-minute introductory call:movetotheusa.ca/BruceTimestamps: 00:00 Preview: the classroom assignment James questioned00:39 James “Girl Dad” and his daughter’s ninth-grade assignment01:11 Contacting the school and the principal’s response03:08 Should parents opt in to lessons about gender?04:33 How the school dispute started James’s online platform05:53 Sponsor: Maimone Legal — U.S. business expansion07:02 What James says happened after he contacted the school08:00 Political violence, disagreement and cancel culture09:39 What living in San Diego is really like10:48 James’s criticism of Gavin Newsom12:00 California’s homelessness and public safety debate14:45 California taxes, plastic bans and everyday costs16:24 Online threats, doxxing and the cost of speaking out17:30 Meta moderation: why James disputes his violations19:03 James describes the drop in his social media reach20:00 Followers, recommendations and accusations of censorship22:53 Is social media making America look worse than it is?23:32 Why James shares positive stories about police24:25 Rage bait, viral content and Josh Seiter26:23 Children, gender debates and the influence of media28:28 Labels, disagreement and street interviews30:08 Personal safety and James’s concealed-carry experience31:45 Family protection and James’s Belgian Malinois33:33 Michael Gates and the debate over self-defense laws34:46 TikTok bans and earning a living as a creator36:40 Political influencers: conviction, money and authenticity40:48 Why James keeps his daughters off social media42:50 Creator burnout and posting what you enjoy43:26 James’s wrestling background and Bruce’s martial arts experience45:14 Primal, Masters of the Universe and movie nostalgia46:45 Robert Downey Jr., Marvel and what movie fans want48:35 Comedy, dark humor and taking offense50:48 Political disagreement within communities53:23 Marvel trailers, content research and their dogs55:25 Rapid fire: youth gender care and parental consent56:51 How James would respond to his child questioning gender57:42 Feminism, women’s sports and James’s wrestling family59:49 Should schools notify parents about gender identity?1:00:59 Masculinity, chivalry and modern feminism1:02:40 James’s expectations for the U.S. midterm elections1:03:36 Gender, identity labels and the social construct debate1:05:44 Political violence and reactions to street interviews1:07:11 Parenting boundaries, peer influence and accountability1:08:24 James’s criticism of college culture1:09:14 Free speech: telling the truth versus causing offense1:10:30 James challenges messaging about gender identity1:11:25 How will society judge today’s youth gender debate?