PerformWell Podcast

PerformWell Podcast
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Performance isn't one thing. It's how you train, recover, think, and show up - every single day. PerformWell brings you straight-talking conversations with coaches, athletes, and experts who actually live this stuff. No fluff. No filler. Just what works.

  1. 3d ago

    He Jumped Off This Bridge. Now He Walks Over It Every Day.

    DeeDee jumped off Southampton's Itchen Bridge and survived. In this episode he opens up about that night, getting sober, and how movement gave him a reason to keep going. This is an honest conversation about men's mental health, suicide, recovery and finding purpose. ⚠️ Content warning: this episode includes discussion of suicide, a suicide attempt, self-harm and addiction. Please take care while watching. You are not alone, and free confidential support is listed at the bottom of this description. 🔴 STRONGER THAN THE SILENCE We're taking on a full Ironman this August for CALM, raising money for men's mental health. Every pound helps, please donate here: https://www.justgiving.com/page/stronger-than-the-silence After two near-fatal incidents and years of using alcohol as a mask, DeeDee got sober and rebuilt his life with purpose. He founded The Big Movement to get men moving and talking for their mental health, he talks people down from the same bridge he jumped from, and this year he ran a marathon over it. We talk about rock bottom, sobriety, loneliness, bullying, self-worth and the small daily habits that brought him back. It's raw, it's hopeful, and it's exactly why we make this show. If you're a man sitting in silence, or you love someone who is, this one is for you. GUEST: DeeDee Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dannydcrook/ 🎙️ Hosted by Nick & Grant. Nick: https://www.instagram.com/getfitbynick Grant: https://www.instagram.com/coach_grantmcdonald/ 📲 Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/performwellpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@performwellpodcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@getfitbynick   SUPPORT (UK, free and confidential) Samaritans: call 116 123, any time, day or night CALM: call 0800 58 58 58, 5pm to midnight, or webchat at thecalmzone.net Shout: text SHOUT to 85258 In an emergency, call 999 CHAPTERS   00:00 Why we're raising for CALM this year 00:55 His first ever half marathon (and the sub 2 hour finish) 02:16 The Big Movement: getting men moving for their mental health 03:48 Why "movement" really means dance (and why men resist it) 06:10 The clap game: how ten strangers connect in a room 08:03 The dancer who said "I'm not depressed any more" 09:36 Lifting, boxing and the anger you have to release 11:17 Running a marathon over the bridge he nearly died on 13:09 What rock bottom actually looked like 15:53 Two bridges, a coma, and the drinking underneath it all 19:19 Getting sober: 18 months, 0% beer and beating the triggers 23:08 "It was a rebirth": finding purpose on the other side 24:22 Why he talks strangers down from the bridge 27:48 How bullying follows you into adulthood 32:34 The mirror exercise that changed everything 34:05 Gratitude, journaling and the books that helped 35:13 Why he goes back to that bridge every single day 38:02 The next marathon, and why the suffering is the point 40:50 What does it actually mean to perform well? 43:28 Where to find DeeDee and The Big Movement   #MensMentalHealth #MentalHealthAwareness #StrongerThanTheSilence #ItGetsBetter #PerformWell

    46 min

  2. Jun 23

    He Conquered Britain. It Nearly Broke Him.

    It's Men's Mental Health Month and I'm taking on an Ironman to raise money for men's mental health.   If this episode hits home, please donate or share.   Stronger Than The Silence: https://www.justgiving.com/page/stron...   Adam Blackwell cycled from Land's End to John O'Groats and climbed Snowdon, Ben Nevis and Scafell Pike on the way. 900 miles, three mountains, thirteen days, and one knee that nearly ended the whole thing near a sheer drop on Ben Nevis with no crampons, no path and snow coming in. But this is not just a story about physical suffering. With it being Men's Mental Health Month, Adam and Jay from GBHQ get honest about why men push themselves to the edge, what self-worth actually is, the story you tell yourself, and why the answer is not always talking more, it is sometimes doing hard things in good company. Having ridden Land's End to John O'Groats myself, this is two endurance lads comparing notes for real. Built. Challenged. Real. Hosted by: PerformWell Podcast:   / performwellpodcast   Nick:   / getfitbynick   Grant:   / coach_grantmcdonald     Guests: Adam Blackwell:   / adamblackwellpt   Jay Buck:   / thejayybuck   GBHQ:   / thegbhqtour     00:00 Welcome back: the dynamic duo return 00:36 What Adam actually did: LEJOG plus the 3 Peaks 02:13 Planning the route and the brutal Cornwall hills 03:41 The real mileage: 900 miles, around 100 a day 06:47 Every weather system in one day 09:56 Ben Nevis: snow, no crampons and snow blindness 12:33 The worst moment: his legs give out near the edge 14:43 The most frustrating moment on the bike 17:35 Cycling vs running: which one actually hurts more 19:00 Why do this to yourself? 23:27 Doing it as a dad of two 25:42 Childhood, worthiness and the drive to prove it 26:53 Men's Mental Health Month: purpose over pressure 29:18 What is self-worth, really? 31:46 Masculinity: the constructive side no one talks about 33:07 The two men who are the same person 34:23 The Gap and the Gain 37:05 Nick's jog, food poisoning and a hard lesson 39:26 The mountains don't fix anything 45:03 The knee that nearly ended it 48:03 Strength vs endurance and battling yourself 51:37 The support crew behind every big feat 56:48 What does it mean to perform well? 59:20 Plugs, the documentary and a final word If you are struggling, talk to someone. Comment below, we read them all.   #PerformWell #LEJOG #ThreePeaks #Endurance #MensMentalHealth #MensMentalHealthMonth #HybridAthlete #CyclingUK #BenNevis #MentalHealthMatters #FitnessPodcast #enduranceathlete   Credits: Music: Infinite by Soundridemusic Link to Video:    • No Copyright Epic Intense Teaser Trailer B...

    1h 1m

  3. Jun 14

    234kg to 97kg: He Lost 21 Stone Without a Single Weight-Loss Jab

    A doctor told Mark he'd be in his coffin by 40. Two years later, he's 137kg lighter — and he never touched a weight-loss jab. No Ozempic. No surgery. Just the most honest transformation we've ever filmed. Mark went from 234kg (34 stone) to 97kg in two years — the natural way. He sits down with Nick, Grant and Gemma to talk about the GP appointment that scared him straight, what he was really eating at his heaviest, the sepsis scare that nearly ended it all, and the day he deadlifted the exact weight he'd lost. We go deep on the stuff nobody talks about honestly: the weight-loss jab debate (when they help and when they don't), emotional eating, loose skin, body dysmorphia, why the scales lie, and the mindset that got him through the bad days. Built. Challenged. Real. 👉 Interested in the coaching programme Mark followed? Reach out via the links below. — FOLLOW MARK — Instagram: @https://www.instagram.com/windsorpolo25/ 🎙️ Hosted by Nick, Grant & Gemma. Nick: https://www.instagram.com/getfitbynick Grant: https://www.instagram.com/coach_grantmcdonald/ Gemma: https://www.instagram.com/gemmapaddy82/ 📲 Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/performwellpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@performwellpodcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@getfitbynick — CHAPTERS — 00:00 Intro 00:45 Welcome & meet Mark 01:41 "I'd be dead by 40" — the doctor's prognosis 03:05 Caring for mum & the moment he decided to act 04:37 Being judged & made to feel invisible 06:39 What he was really eating (10–15lb of sweets a day) 09:05 234kg: the daily reality at his heaviest 09:59 The sepsis scare that nearly ended it 11:40 The numbers: 234kg → 97kg 12:07 Deadlifting the 120kg he lost 14:21 Fibre, fullness & gut health 15:05 Before vs now: the food breakdown 17:39 Self-loathing & "I don't deserve to look after myself" 19:01 Relapses & why a gain isn't failure 21:55 Why he refused the weight-loss jabs 22:42 The big Ozempic debate 24:30 Emotional eating 27:54 "Start where you are" — advice for big beginners 30:20 The carb myth 34:24 Good foods vs bad foods 34:59 Walking: the #1 thing that actually worked 36:37 The 3 levels of transformation 38:00 Loose skin & "I'd rather live" 38:40 Body dysmorphia & the comfort blanket 39:26 The best reaction from a stranger 40:30 The loose-skin surgery injustice 42:15 Why he said no to a gastric bypass 43:25 Mental resilience: "the power is within" 45:14 Why the scales lie 46:15 How often you should actually weigh yourself 50:24 His message to anyone starting today 51:20 What "performing well" really means 52:03 Wrap & where to follow Mark   #WeightLossTransformation #WeightLossJourney #NoOzempic #PerformWell #FatLoss

    55 min

  4. Jun 7

    Science-Based Lifting Is Lying To You (15 Years of Coaching Says So)

    Is "science-based lifting" actually making you better - or just making you train like a robot with a foam roller through your arm? In Episode 146, Nick and Grant break down where evidence-based training earns its place and where the internet took it way too far. Bluetooth handles, lengthened partials, 3 reps-in-reserve, mouth guards mid-set - we get into all of it. Two coaches, 15 years each, 30,000+ hours on the gym floor, calling it straight. We cover why Jeff Nippard's own lengthened-partials research landed back at "just do the full rep," why the bench press got unfairly cancelled, why mechanical tension and hard effort beat perfect form on a spreadsheet, and the simple form → time-under-tension → weight framework we use with every client. Science is a tool, not a religion. It's a way - not the only way. ────────────────────────────────── 🎙️ Hosted by Nick & Grant. Nick: https://www.instagram.com/getfitbynick Grant: https://www.instagram.com/coach_grantmcdonald/ 📲 Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/performwellpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@performwellpodcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@getfitbynick ────────────────────────────────── Chapters: 00:00 Is science-based lifting worth it? 01:30 What science-based training really means 03:00 Full range vs partial reps 04:00 Why old-school bodybuilders still got huge 05:20 When data ruins training 06:00 Knees-over-toes & flawed science 08:00 Jeff Nippard, Israetel & online lifting culture 08:30 Lengthened partials vs full reps 11:00 Coaching experience vs studies 12:00 Reverse-banded hack squats 14:35 Bench press vs dumbbell press 16:30 Mechanical tension & chest growth 18:10 Which is safer? 20:30 Final verdict on science-based lifting 22:10 The movement patterns that matter 22:50 Why training hard still wins 23:30 Form, tension & progressive overload 24:35 Drop sets and plateau breakers 25:30 It’s a way, not the only way   #sciencebasedlifting #hypertrophytraining #buildmuscle #strengthtraining #performwellpodcast Credits: Music: Infinite by Soundridemusic Link to Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VZwcnKbRBpo&list=PLyuakwzSUr6DM1YqTg65HiWG0UrmxdOFk

    26 min

  5. May 31

    Pole Fitness Fixed My Body Dysmorphia | Beccie Dunn

    Most people think pole fitness is a party trick. Beccie Dunn thought it looked cool in a photo and couldn't even walk into a class alone. Then it fixed her. Beccie spent years trapped in body dysmorphia — eating 900 calories a day, training like a bodybuilder, desperate to be as small as possible. Pole fitness broke that cycle. When she saw how much strength, muscle and proper nutrition it actually took to get good, everything changed. Now she runs Dynamic Aerial Academy in Southampton and has built one of the most empowering fitness communities in the UK. In this episode we tried pole for the first time (and got absolutely humbled), then sat down to talk about everything the fitness industry doesn't say loudly enough. We cover: How pole fitness rewired Beccie's relationship with food, her body and strength Why she was eating 900 calories while training a full-body skill sport The eating disorder, the body dysmorphia, and the exact moment the switch flipped Breaking her foot mid-session — and teaching the rest of the class on it Training kettlebells on the day she went into labour (waters broke that night) Why pole is one of the hardest skill sports you can do — and why that's the point Sleep, REM cycles and what's actually killing your recovery Raising strong kids in a world obsessed with junk food Building community, handling online hate, and staying in your lane This one's for anyone who's ever punished their body trying to look a certain way — and needed someone to show them a better reason to train. 🔔 Subscribe for new episodes weekly 📍 Dynamic Aerial Academy, Southampton 📸 Follow Beccie:  @becciedunnfitness  https://www.instagram.com/becciedunn/ 📌 Chapters 00:00 - Intro & Welcome to Dynamic Aerial 00:17 - What Pole Fitness Actually Is 01:43 - How Beccie Got Into Pole & Built Her Academy 02:13 - Bodybuilder Training vs Performance Training 03:31 - Eating 900 Calories While Training Pole 05:14 - The Turning Point: Strong & Sexy Is Born 07:00 - Why Pole Is Closer to Gymnastics Than the Gym 08:47 - She Broke Her Foot and Still Taught That Night 10:00 - Managing Tendonitis & Injuries in Pole 11:04 - Kettlebells: The Most Transferable Tool to Pole 13:00 - How Long Does It Take to Get Good at Pole? 14:00 - Building Community From Day One 19:00 - Social Media, Followers & Mental Health 21:57 - How to Handle Online Hate 26:20 - Who Is Pole Fitness For? (Everyone) 31:00 - Competition vs Social Media in the Pole World 33:00 - What to Expect in Your First Pole Class 35:39 - Why Sleep Is Your #1 Performance Tool 37:00 - Deep REM, Sleep Data & Evening Routines 40:00 - Perimenopause, HRT & Sleep 40:38 - Training Through Pregnancy Up to Labour 44:22 - Raising Kids on Real Food 51:44 - What Does It Mean to Perform Well? 53:42 - Find Beccie & Dynamic Aerial Academy ────────────────────────────────── 🎙️ Hosted by Nick, Grant & Gemma. Nick: https://www.instagram.com/getfitbynick Grant: https://www.instagram.com/coach_grantmcdonald/ Gemma: https://www.instagram.com/gemmapaddy82/ 📲 Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/performwellpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@performwellpodcast YouTube:  @getfitbynick    #PoleFitness #BodyDysmorphia #EatingDisorderRecovery #StrengthTraining #PerformWellPodcast #FitnessWomen #StrongAndSexy #PodcastFitness #WomensHealth #FitnessMotivation

    55 min

  6. May 24

    Don't Start Your Summer Diet Until You've Watched This

    Everyone's telling you to start your summer diet. We're telling you to stop. Nick, Grant & Gemma have a combined 40+ years of PT experience — and their biggest lesson isn't about what to eat or how much cardio to do. It's this: the body you're chasing for summer probably isn't worth the cost of getting it. In this episode of The Performwell Podcast, Gemma opens up about the psychological fallout of getting shredded, Nick breaks down why chasing a physique goal is like thinking school is your whole life, and Grant shares the clients who got the body — and still weren't happy. From crash diet culture and body dysmorphia, to steroids hiding in plain sight on Instagram, to how Gemma's testosterone and HRT journey became the most sustainable thing she's ever done — this is the conversation you need before you start cutting for summer. If you've ever crash dieted before a holiday, compared yourself to someone online, or wondered why getting lean still didn't feel like enough — watch this first. WHAT WE COVER: → Why 6–8 week summer transformations usually backfire → The psychological damage of extreme dieting and photo shoot prep → Body dysmorphia — and why even the fittest people aren't immune → What actually is a healthy body fat % for men and women → The steroid problem hiding in plain sight on your Instagram feed → Why the body you can't sustain isn't worth chasing → Gemma's HRT and testosterone journey — and how it changed everything → How to shift your mindset from "summer body" to something that actually lasts ────────────────────────────────── 🎙️ Hosted by Nick & Grant, with special guest Gemma. Nick: https://www.instagram.com/getfitbynick Grant: https://www.instagram.com/coach_grantmcdonald/ Gemma: https://www.instagram.com/gemmapaddy82 📲 Follow us: nstagram: https://www.instagram.com/performwellpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@performwellpodcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@getfitbynick ────────────────────────────────── 0:00 – Intro: The Problem With Summer Diets 0:53 – Why 6–8 Week Transformations Are a Mistake 3:29 – The Psychological Fallout of Getting Shredded 4:02 – Body Dysmorphia — Does Anyone Actually Escape It? 7:03 – Photo Shoots, Bodybuilding & Knowing Your Limits 12:10 – What's Actually a Healthy Body Fat % for Men & Women? 19:20 – The Steroid Problem Nobody's Talking About 21:40 – Gemma's HRT & Testosterone Journey — And How It Changed Her Life   #SummerDiet #HolidayPrep #FitnessPodcast #SummerBody #BodyDysmorphia #DontStartYourDiet #PerformwellPodcast #FitnessTruth #SustainableFitness #GymCultureUK #HRTWomen #TestosteroneWomen #GetLeanForSummer #CrashDiet #MentalHealthFitness

    23 min

  7. May 17

    Why You Need A Fitness Goal That Scares You

    Most people are waiting to feel ready before they commit to a goal. The problem? That moment never comes. In this episode, we sit down with Grant to talk about why having a concrete event — whether it's a photo shoot, marathon, Ironman, or white-collar boxing match — is one of the most powerful tools for transforming your fitness AND your mindset. Nick shares how he went from his lowest point post-COVID to stepping into a boxing ring in front of 1,000 people, and we break down why purpose is the antidote to depression, why your first event just needs to be DONE (not perfect), and the framework that helps you find the REAL reason you want to change. If you've ever said "I'll start when I'm ready" — this conversation is for you. WHAT WE COVER: → Why challenges give you purpose (and why purpose fights depression) → The personal challenge framework — marathons, photo shoots & comps → How Grant went from his lowest point post-COVID to boxing in front of 1,000 people → Why your first event just needs to be DONE — not perfect → The fear of failure that stops people committing (and how to flip it) → The 5 Whys — finding the REAL reason you want to change → Why we're doing Ironman Leeds on August 16th   🔗 Sponsor our Ironman for CALM (Campaign Against Living Miserably): https://www.justgiving.com/page/stron... CALM supports men under 50 — the biggest demographic affected by suicide worldwide. Please donate if you can. ────────────────────────────────── 🎙️ Hosted by Nick & Grant. Nick:   / getfitbynick   Grant:   / coach_grantmcdonald   📲 Follow us: Instagram:   / performwellpodcast   TikTok:   / performwellpodcast   YouTube:    / @getfitbynick   ────────────────────────────────── 0:00 – Intro 1:22 – Why do events at all? 7:48 – Purpose is the antidote to depression 13:44 – Fear of failure & why we train to failure 18:40 – The 5 Whys framework live demo 22:00 – Outro & Ironman charity link #PerformWellPodcast #GoalThatScaresYou #FitnessMotivation #Ironman #PhotoShootPrep #FearOfFailure #PurposeOverDepression #MensMentalHealth #CALM #FitnessMindset

    23 min

  8. May 10

    Breaking The Generational Cycle of Trauma | Matt Harris

    ⚠️ CONTENT WARNING This episode contains honest discussion of sexual abuse, violence, murder, drug addiction, and grief. Listener discretion is advised. ────────────────────────────────── Matt Harris was born into a generational cycle of violence, abuse, and silence. By the time he was 13, he had survived sexual abuse from a family member, witnessed his brother commit murder, had his identity changed by deed poll, and been moved between hostels to escape the people hunting his family. This is the story of how one man decided the cycle ends with him. In this episode of The Former Podcast, Matt opens up about generational trauma, breaking the cycle of abuse, and what it actually takes for a man to heal — not just cope, not just survive, but break the pattern so it doesn't pass to the next generation. If you've ever thought "I don't want to become my father" or "something in my family has to stop with me" — this conversation is for you. WHAT WE COVER: → How generational trauma gets passed down through families → The two "fractures" that defined Matt's childhood → Why he used drugs daily for 3 years to numb the pain → How fitness became both a lifeline AND another form of avoidance → Breaking his silence publicly in 2018 → Walking 105 miles of the South Downs Way to process his sister's death → What it means to be "The Unhealed Man" → How any man can start breaking his own generational cycle today Matt is currently writing his book, The Unhealed Man. 📸 Follow Matt: https://www.instagram.com/healingwithmatt If this episode resonated with you, share it with a man who needs to hear it. ────────────────────────────────── 🎙️ Hosted by Nick & Grant. Nick: https://www.instagram.com/getfitbynick Grant: https://www.instagram.com/coach_grantmcdonald/ 📲 Follow us: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/performwellpodcast/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@performwellpodcast YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@getfitbynick ────────────────────────────────── 0:00 – Intro 0:44 – Meet Matt Harris: The Man Behind the Name Changes 1:53 – Born Into a Fractured Family: Generational Trauma Explained 4:53 – Growing Up With Violence: What "Normal" Looked Like 7:44 – The First Fracture: Sexual Abuse at 12 Years Old 8:46 – The Second Fracture: His Brother Commits Murder 10:16 – Prisoners in Their Own Home: Life After the Murder 12:10 – A New Identity: Name Changes, Relocating & Starting Over 13:56 – School, Paranoia & Being Terrified People Would Find Out 15:14 – How He Found Drugs — And Why It Made Perfect Sense 18:02 – 3 Years of Daily Drug Use: Masking the Pain 19:38 – Running From the Truth: Breaking Silence in 2018 21:05 – How Fitness Found Him (And Became Another Escape) 26:33 – Steroids, Obsession & Losing Himself in the Sport 28:22 – The Absent Dad: Repeating the Cycle He Swore He'd Break 33:38 – Self-Worth: What It Really Means for the Unhealed Man 36:30 – The Unhealed Man: Why He's Writing the Book 38:54 – Pathways to Healing: What Actually Worked for Matt 43:10 – 105 Miles for His Sister: Processing Grief Through Movement 48:26 – His Sister Speaks to Him on the Trail (Most Emotional Moment) 51:15 – Doing Hard Things From Love, Not Hate 54:08 – What It Means to "Perform Well" 56:10 – Final Message: It Ends With Him 57:28 – Outro #TheFormerPodcast   instagram: / infractionimhere spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/7qlhXQA7QMXRwHtfTcQoyJ   #ItEndsWithMe #GenerationalTrauma #MensMentalHealth #BreakingTheCycle #MattHarris #MensPodcast #TheUnhealedMan

    56 min
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    2025 - 2026
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