We Ain't Dead Yet

Constance Bauer and Lori Dube
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Lori Dube and Constance Bauer, long time friends, embark on an intimate journey chronicling their deep conversations about life, love, and aging.  As her cover picture surely attests, Constance is more "furious" with the aging process and the way women in their third act are ghosted by society, and Lori is more "curious" about how she can lean into and learn from this aging process. In this podcast we will unpack issues that are impacting the hearts and souls of women over 60, as we walk together into the unknown of what lies ahead for us all. We hope you will join us on this journey. Lyrics to our Theme Song, "Woman," composed by Julia Fortman   You can’t break me down, ‘cause I’m a woman. Strong and powerful, just like I should be. Try to cut me out, I’d like to see you try. We may not be young, but we’re still kicking. Out and having fun, cause life’s worth living. I’m not sitting down…you’ll see me eye to eye. I’ll be here and relevant ‘til the day I die.

  1. Sep 28

    Looking Back, Moving Forward: Celebrating WADY's First Year

    Join us in celebrating our podcast's one-year anniversary, as we reflect on our personal and professional growth. We highlight the many challenges we’ve faced, from learning new technology to navigating our collaborative dynamics. We examine how the creative process has broadened our perspectives and connections. We share our favorite episodes, some funny moments, and our most cherished memories. And, best of all, you’ll get to hear Lori sing, again :) We would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments to:  Email Us: WeAintDeadYetPod@gmail.com Follow the show on Facebook Visit our Website Listen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts). Subscribing to WADY is a free, quick way to ensure new episodes are automatically delivered to your device. Just click "Subscribe" or "Follow" in whichever app you use to listen.     Send us Fan Mail Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

  2. Sep 14

    You Can't Be What You Don't See!

    Today, we talk about a superpower that society often tries to strip away from those of us in our 60s and beyond – the power of being seen. Our guest, Stephanie O'Dell spent years styling over 6,000 women for brands like Athleta. In her 50s, she decided to completely reinvent her career and herself. With no prior experience running a talent agency, she launched Celebrate The Gray—a modeling and consulting agency that now represents over 400 silver-haired women who are redefining beauty.  Join us for real talk about trying new and hard things in your older years, anti-ageism, how to make yourself visible again, how AI is impacting the movement to age naturally, and real ways that you and I can play an important part in the campaign for ads depicting real, aging women.  We end with a fun rapid-fire round of questions about Stephanie's favorite silver celebrities, best color for women over 60, and more.  SHOW NOTES Celebrate the Gray Instagram Upcoming: Stephanie will be an Expert Panelist for a Sacntuary-Sponsored Screening of "Your Roots Are Showing"   (This amazing documentary was produced by Ilise Harris, who will be a guest on our podcast in a few weeks, and the panelists include a former guest of ours, the inimitable Jacqui Getz).  We would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments to:  Email Us: WeAintDeadYetPod@gmail.com Follow the show on Facebook Visit our Website Listen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts). Subscribing to WADY is a free, quick way to ensure new episodes are automatically delivered to your device. Just click "Subscribe" or "Follow" in whichever app you use to listen. Send us Fan Mail Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

    You Can't Be What You Don't See!

  3. Sep 1

    We May Be Retired, But Our G******s Are Not

    Today we venture back into the bedroom. Society loves to tell us that once we hit a certain age, our desires are supposed to just fade into the background. Well, today's guest says hell no to that! Dubbed the 'wrinkly sex kitten' by the media, Joan Price is a powerful advocate for ageless sexuality. Join us in this unfiltered conversation about finding your own “inner sex kitten,” confronting the “ick factor” of seeing older adults as sexual beings, learning to love our naked bodies at any age, redefining what “good sex” looks like, and understanding the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire. We’ll also get the inside scoop on Joan’s famous “Cow Bell” erotic ritual and her "sex baskets." Finally, you’ll learn practical tips for solo and self-pleasure, the best lubes and sex toys for our age group, and juicy recommendations for connecting with your own sensuality. Meow!  And don’t forget to hang around for our “After Thoughts” where Lori and Constance unpack the episode and chat about our thoughts on what we heard, and where we have started “Listener Shout-Outs,” and episode-based Challenges for our listeners.  SHOW NOTES Joan's Website. You can buy autographed copies of all of Joan's books here, including the 15th Anniversary Edition of Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex All of Joan's Books Joan's Senior Sex Blog Wicked Sensual Care Simply Timeless Lube  We-Vibe Melt 2  (Best Senior Vibrator) Joan's Upcoming Documentary or https://joanprice.com/films/ask-joan Joan's Sex Toys Reviews  (keep scrolling - there are many of them!) Joan's Free Newsletter   For senior sex news and views, subscribe to Joan’s newsletter. Pleasurewave Arousal Lotion (reviewed and recommended by Constance, not Joan or Lori) We would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments to:  Email Us: WeAintDeadYetPod@gmail.com  Follow the show on Facebook  Visit our Website Listen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts). Subscribing to WADY is a free, quick way to ensure new episodes are automatically delivered to your device. Just click "Subscribe" or "Follow" in whichever app you use to listen. Send us Fan Mail Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

    We May Be Retired, But Our G******s Are Not

  4. Aug 18

    The Blessings and B******t of Getting Old

    Do you want to live life more boldly? Tune in as we get real with the "Queen of Elderstack," the powerhouse journalist, creator of the acclaimed [B]OLD AGE Substack -- Debbie Weil.  Debbie has been leading discussions about Aging and Reinvention for years. In this rambling and REAL conversation about the ups, downs and uncertainties that define getting older, Weil sheds light on the problem with toxic positivity when it comes to talking about aging, moving from "doing" to "being," and her desire to continue to live boldly into her 90s. We delve into the complexities of the mother-daughter relationship, ones that still reverberate for Weil even after losing her mother a few years ago, and the challenges of acceptance and slowing down in the decades ahead.  SHOW NOTES Debbie's Website  [B}OLD AGE Substack (Former) [B]old Age Podcast  Debbie's Husband Sam Harrington's Book: At Peace: Choosing a Good Death After a Long Life Substack Post about Debbie's Mother  We would love to hear from you! Do you have ideas for future podcasts? Want to be a guest on our podcast? Have you tried one of our challenges and want a Shout Out? Please send your comments to:  Email Us: WeAintDeadYetPod@gmail.com Follow the show on Facebook Visit our Website Listen Here! (Our linktree will direct you to Spotify, Apple Podcasts, GoodPods, and Pocket Casts). Subscribing to WADY is a free, quick way to ensure new episodes are automatically delivered to your device. Just click "Subscribe" or "Follow" in whichever app you use to listen.     Send us Fan Mail Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

    The Blessings and B******t of Getting Old

  5. Jul 14

    Getting Underneath the Clothes We Wear

    Ladies let's open our closets! In this fun and funny episode we talk with Jacqui Getz, a New York based stylist who helps women in midlife translate who they are becoming into what they wear. Who do we get dressed for in the morning? Why do we buy the clothes we buy? And how can we add creativity and zing to our lives just by getting more intentional about what we choose to wear? We get into it all, and we go deep as Jacqui shares her personal journey of grieving the loss of her husband just weeks ago, and how she is finding strength in getting dressed, and defining who she wants to be in this new chapter of her life. Join us for an oh-so-relatable conversation about what we wear and what it says about how we feel about ourselves, who we are, and who we might want to become at this time in life.  SHOW NOTES Substack- https://substack.com/@jacquigetz Instagram: instagram.com/@thedetailsofstyle.com Website- detailsofstyle.com https://www.ageist.com/profile/jacqui-getz-64-pro-age-style/ We also do a quick check-in with Suzanne Newman, Image Consultant, Chicago. Suzanne shares a few quick tips for reinventing your wardrobe and updating your look. https://findfashionhappiness.com/about-suzanne-newman-image-consultant/ Send us Fan Mail Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

    Getting Underneath the Clothes We Wear

  6. Jul 2

    The Silver Bullet for Your Health: The Science of Friendship

    Join us as we chat with Jaimie Krem, friendship scientist and founding director of the UCLA Center for Friendship Research. We discuss how friendship is a “silver bullet” in terms of the many health benefits it brings, including improvements in cardiovascular health, sleep, immune function, and reduced risk of mental illness and dementia. Jaimie describes how venting to your friends can be a manipulative, but effective social strategy. We contemplate the differences between men’s and women’s friendships, ponder what to call the process of “friend flirting or dating,” and examine the importance of intergenerational friendships. Finally, for those more wonkily inclined, Jaimie discusses her fascinating research on the neuroscience of friendship.  And don’t forget to hang around for our “After Thoughts” where Lori and Constance unpack the episode and chat about our thoughts on what we heard.  SHOW NOTES Jaimie's TedX Talk on Friendship UCLA Social Minds Lab UCLA Center for Friendship Research  NYT Article About The Benefits of Age-Gap Friendships  The Friendship Advice Experts Swear By, NYT Send us Fan Mail Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

    The Silver Bullet for Your Health: The Science of Friendship

  7. Jun 27

    Navigating the Hard Stuff Together

    Join Constance and Lori for a personal catch-up episode, after a short podcasting break. They discuss recent health challenges, grandchildren, and grief. As always, expect some laughter and some tears as they explore themes of aging, the complex nature of caregiving, and maintaining connections with deceased loved ones. Please join us for this intimate discussion. And, please reach out to us with your own stories about these topics. We'd love to hear the good, the bad and they ugly. Let us know if you'd like us to shout out your story during the next episode.  Send us Fan Mail Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

  8. Jun 9

    Friendship Isn't Optional, It's Essential

    Tips for making new friends aren't just for kids! In this fun and friendly episode, Constance and Lori explore the topic of friendship with expert Dr. Eileen Kennedy-Moore. We talk about the importance of friendship, and the value of developing new friendships as we age. We explore the reasons that it might be easier for us as 60-somethings to make friends, than it was when we were younger. Eileen gives concrete tips for how and where to make friends at this stage in life, and explains the role that caretaking and conflict play in establishing and maintaining long-term connections. We delve into that age-old question: are old friends better than new friends? Bonus: 4 of Constance's college friends make cameo appearances to weigh in on this question. Trigger Warning: Get your earplugs out, as Constance and Lori can't resist breaking into friendship-related songs 🤣 And don’t forget to hang around for our “After Thoughts” where Lori and Constance unpack the episode and chat about our thoughts on what we heard.  SHOW NOTES:  The Friendship Advice Experts Swear By, NYT Eileen Kennedy Moore's Website  Eileen's Friendship Podcast Eileen's TedX Talk: Is it Bullying or Ordinary Meanness? (has over 1M views!) Send us Fan Mail Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art. Eleanor Roosevelt

    Friendship Isn't Optional, It's Essential
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4.9
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Lori Dube and Constance Bauer, long time friends, embark on an intimate journey chronicling their deep conversations about life, love, and aging.  As her cover picture surely attests, Constance is more "furious" with the aging process and the way women in their third act are ghosted by society, and Lori is more "curious" about how she can lean into and learn from this aging process. In this podcast we will unpack issues that are impacting the hearts and souls of women over 60, as we walk together into the unknown of what lies ahead for us all. We hope you will join us on this journey. Lyrics to our Theme Song, "Woman," composed by Julia Fortman   You can’t break me down, ‘cause I’m a woman. Strong and powerful, just like I should be. Try to cut me out, I’d like to see you try. We may not be young, but we’re still kicking. Out and having fun, cause life’s worth living. I’m not sitting down…you’ll see me eye to eye. I’ll be here and relevant ‘til the day I die.

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  • Creator
    Constance Bauer and Lori Dube
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    28
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 We Ain't Dead Yet
  • Show Website
    We Ain't Dead Yet

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