September: A Podcast For Loveships

Alexis Pauline Gumbs
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September is a weekly podcast for Loveships. It explores the tools and technologies that build and sustain life-changing love relationships. Hosted by writer and facilitator Alexis Pauline Gumbs and artist and entrepreneur Sangodare Wallace, this intimate show draws on their 17-year partnership built on the premise of Loveship as a spiritual practice and Loveship as a resource in community. From conflict and contrast, responsibility and repair, to emotional intimacy and navigating the ever-changing seasons of life, Alexis and Sangodare share insights that nurture not only couples but also families, friends, and communities. Tune in each week for heartfelt conversations that honor relationships as sacred ground—an offering to ourselves, our people, our ancestors, and spirit.

  1. 5D AGO

    17. Turning Towards Love: Embracing Levity in Relationship Challenges

    In this heartwarming and insightful episode, Alexis and Sangoare highlight the philosophy of 'staying in the ship' despite disagreements and hardships. It includes a hilarious anecdote involving nature and it’s wild things, a powerful insights from Bayard Rustin about the enduring power of love and a listener’s question about self-acceptance and readiness for partnership. This question initiates a thoughtful discussion on the importance of being present, loving, and having faith in the unpredictable journey of life and love.  The power of levity: keeping things light and connected in moments of panicReadiness for partnership: faith, worthiness and growing together For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship For this episode we especially recommend “Sustaining Sweetness”: https://sangodare.podia.com/sustaining-sweetness-a-practice-for-loveships To go deeper into your self-love journey access the replay of Alexis’s “I Love Your Face” writing workshop for your youngest wisest self:  https://sangodare.podia.com/i-love-your-face-a-writing-workshop-for-your-smallest-most-expansive-self Or the Inner Child Summer School Practice space: https://sangodare.podia.com/inner-child-summer-school Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    18 min

  2. JAN 4

    16. Loveship Is and Loveship Ain't

    How do you reconcile a childhood vision of knights, white horses, and Babyface soundtracks with the reality of queer love and liberation? To kick off the new year, Sangodare circles back to a foundational conversation about the definition of Loveship. While technically still on hiatus (Alexis returns next week!), this episode bridges the gap between Sangodare’s childhood "hopeless romantic" past and the liberative, spiritual partnership practiced today. Sangodare and Alexis break down the distinction between a relationship of convenience and a true spiritual partnership, a Loveship. Tune in to learn why Loveship is a vehicle, not just a ride; a co-creation, not just cohabitation; and a joyful work, not suffering nor compromise. In this episode, we explore: The Vision vs. The Reality: Moving from fairy tale proposals to intentional partnership.Loveship Defined: Why it is a vehicle for living out one’s highest spiritual purpose.What Loveship Ain't: A candid look at why Loveship is not just "loving the one you're with" or "complacent cohabitation."Inclusivity: How this terminology honors the expansive creativity of relationships, regardless of titles (spouses, partners, baes, or otherwise).For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship To go deeper into your self-love journey access the replay of Alexis’s “I Love Your Face” writing workshop for your youngest wisest self:  https://sangodare.podia.com/i-love-your-face-a-writing-workshop-for-your-smallest-most-expansive-self Or the Inner Child Summer School Practice space: https://sangodare.podia.com/inner-child-summer-school Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website

    12 min

  3. 12/28/2025

    15. Calling Us All Home

    In this episode, Sangodare weaves today's conversation with an archived conversation wherein hosts Sangodare and Alexis reflect on the power of one's call to support us to find home in our own bodies. The hosts draw insight and inspiration from Bayard RustinFannie Lou HamerJames Baldwinand ancestral legacies.For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship To go deeper into your self-love journey access the replay of Alexis’s “I Love Your Face” writing workshop for your youngest wisest self:  https://sangodare.podia.com/i-love-your-face-a-writing-workshop-for-your-smallest-most-expansive-self Or the Inner Child Summer School Practice space: https://sangodare.podia.com/inner-child-summer-school Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com

    24 min

  4. 12/21/2025

    14. Balancing Boundaries and Blessings in Community

    In this episode, hosts Sangodare and Alexis reflect on the intertwined nature of boundaries and blessings in personal and communal relationships. The discussion includes practical advice on setting boundaries while maintaining community connections, supported by an awesome listener question and personal anecdotes. The hosts emphasize the importance of honest communication, creative solutions, and mutual support. They conclude by encouraging listeners to share the episode and use it as a tool for initiating meaningful conversations in their own lives. Reflecting on Boundaries and BlessingsPersonal Experiences with BoundariesExploring the importance of Setting Boundaries in Relationships through a listener questionThe stories we tell about boundaries and the language we use to set boundariesFinal Thoughts and Farewell For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship To go deeper into your self-love journey access the replay of Alexis’s “I Love Your Face” writing workshop for your youngest wisest self:  https://sangodare.podia.com/i-love-your-face-a-writing-workshop-for-your-smallest-most-expansive-self Or the Inner Child Summer School Practice space: https://sangodare.podia.com/inner-child-summer-school Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    18 min

  5. 12/14/2025

    13. Vision and Possibility: Honoring Heritage and Embracing Expansion

    In this episode, hosts explore the themes of vision and possibility. The discussion includes creative processes for visioning, such as making vision boards and asking generative questions, inspired by Zora Neale Hurston's concept of “organized curiosity.” The hosts offer three 'North Stars' for expanding vision and conclude by promoting their audio course 'Wide Futures'. Vision and PossibilityVision Board Practices, Rituals and TechniquesNorth Stars for VisioningConclusion and Resources For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship For some generative questions check out Alexis’s Audre Lorde-inspired audio four WIDE FUTURES: https://sangodare.podia.com/wide-futures-a-nine-day-clearing-in-honor-of-audre-lorde Or the Inner Child Summer School Practice space: https://sangodare.podia.com/inner-child-summer-school Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    12 min

  6. 12/07/2025

    12. I Love Myself Enough

    In this episode, hosts Alexis and Sangodare discuss the continuous journey of self-discovery and self-love, drawing inspiration from Essex Hemphill's ceremony of affirmation in the face of external and internalized oppression. They share personal experiences of self-realization, touching on the challenges and triumphs of understanding one's identity. The hosts outline three 'North Stars' to guide listeners on their journey, and address a listener's question about cultivating patience while seeking a divine partner. The conversation underscores that the path to self-awareness and love is ongoing and multi-faceted.  Exploring Self-AwarenessThe Journey of Self-DiscoveryWisdom from Essex HemphillPersonal Anecdotes about GrowthNorth Stars for Self-LoveListener Questions and AdviceManifesting Your Desires For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship To go deeper into your self-love journey access the replay of Alexis’s “I Love Your Face” writing workshop for your youngest wisest self:  https://sangodare.podia.com/i-love-your-face-a-writing-workshop-for-your-smallest-most-expansive-self Or the Inner Child Summer School Practice space: https://sangodare.podia.com/inner-child-summer-school Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    18 min

  7. 11/30/2025

    11. Partner and Parent Patterns!

    In this episode, Alexis and Sangodare reflect on the impact of family-of-origin dynamics on how we love romantically. With a grounding sacred text from Audre Lorde's essay “Eye to Eye”, they reveal how recognizing these patterns can lead to healing and liberation. The episode emphasizes intentionality in relationships, the importance of community support, and celebrates the love and influence of family, exemplified by a super special listener testimonial. The session concludes by inviting listeners to embrace these insights for personal transformation. Navigating Relationships and Family Dynamics Personal Reflections and Breakthroughs North Stars for Healing and Growth A special listener testimonial For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship The mother ourselves manifesta is here: https://blackfeministmind.wordpress.com/2011/01/16/motheringourselves-manifest/ To access Repetition is Sacred: Practicing Seven Generations (the course Alexis mentioned) go to: https://sangodare.podia.com/repetition-is-sacred-practicing-seven-generations Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    14 min

  8. 11/23/2025

    10. AffOrmations: The Answer is in the Question

    In this solo episode, Sangodare unpacks afformations (not to be confused with affirmations) and their transformative power in all areas of life. Sangodare explores their learnings from the book ‘Afformations: The Miracle of Positive Self-Talk’ by Noah St. John, emphasizing the importance of belief, generative practices, and asking the right questions. They highlight how altering self-talk can create new possibilities and enrich the relational experience while addressing the challenges of balancing self-love and community engagement. Affirmations vs. AfformationsExploring Afformations and Self-TalkThe Science Behind Afformations (Brain Science)Practical Application of AfformationsListener Question: Balancing Boundaries and Community For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/ alexispauline.com sangodare.com CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    16 min
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September is a weekly podcast for Loveships. It explores the tools and technologies that build and sustain life-changing love relationships. Hosted by writer and facilitator Alexis Pauline Gumbs and artist and entrepreneur Sangodare Wallace, this intimate show draws on their 17-year partnership built on the premise of Loveship as a spiritual practice and Loveship as a resource in community. From conflict and contrast, responsibility and repair, to emotional intimacy and navigating the ever-changing seasons of life, Alexis and Sangodare share insights that nurture not only couples but also families, friends, and communities. Tune in each week for heartfelt conversations that honor relationships as sacred ground—an offering to ourselves, our people, our ancestors, and spirit.

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  • Creator
    Alexis Pauline Gumbs
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 September: A Podcast For Loveships
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