September: A Podcast For Loveships

Alexis Pauline Gumbs
  • 4.9 (27)
  • Relationships
  • Updated Weekly

September is a weekly podcast for Loveships. It explores the tools and technologies that build and sustain life-changing love relationships. Hosted by writer and facilitator Alexis Pauline Gumbs and artist and entrepreneur Sangodare Wallace, this intimate show draws on their 17-year partnership built on the premise of Loveship as a spiritual practice and Loveship as a resource in community. From conflict and contrast, responsibility and repair, to emotional intimacy and navigating the ever-changing seasons of life, Alexis and Sangodare share insights that nurture not only couples but also families, friends, and communities. Tune in each week for heartfelt conversations that honor relationships as sacred ground—an offering to ourselves, our people, our ancestors, and spirit.

  1. 2d ago

    38. An Unreasonable Love (Go Knicks!)

    On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis celebrate the New York Knicks winning their first NBA championship in 53 years, and how sports and fandom connects to the legacy of collective love and teamwork. Using Alexis’s Dad’s Knicks loyalty as a metaphor, they offer three north stars about how love is it’s own reason and answer a listener question about whether or not it makes sense to have a goal oriented approach to relationships. Love UnreasonablyLessons From Knicks FandomChrysalis Purpose Roadmap If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.  For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 And connect with us on the channels below! RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/  alexispauline.com  sangodare.com  CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    20 min

  2. Jun 14

     37. Urgent versus Important

    On this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis distinguish what is urgent (time-based) from what is important (value-based) amid capitalist pressures. Using experiences around Black Feminist Film School production and podcast scheduling, they emphasize that clarity about the important attracts community support, while urgency can undermine rest and presence. They invite listeners to a virtual Juneteenth Patreon date night and take a listener question on addressing a loved one dating someone potentially harmful. Urgent vs Important ExplainedScarcity and Stolen TimeRest, Boundaries and ‘Passing It On’ For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship Because love is living with purpose join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 If you are in Durham, join us for Black Feminist Revival services the last Sunday of the month at Northstar Church of the Arts. Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/  alexispauline.com  sangodare.com  CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    29 min

  3. Jun 9

    36. We Go Together (Announcement)

    If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 Join before June 19th (Juneteenth!) to be at our first virtual hangout session. #datenight You can also send us a tax-deductible donation via “text to give."   Send a text to this number: 53-555.  All you have to put in your message is “September.” Then press send. You will get a text back from Black Feminist Film School which is helping us make this and all our production more sustainable for us and consistent for you.  For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 And connect with us on the channels below! RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/  alexispauline.com  sangodare.com  CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    6 min

  4. May 17

    35. Love To Shake It Up

    In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis define what it does and doesn’t look like to spend intentional time together. They distinguish vacations, staycations and jaunts and how they draw distinction and boundaries between these experiences and work and family trips. They recount a recent jaunt involving deep conversations, play, and a near–EV battery mishap and cite Gwendolyn Brooks on blooming in the whirlwind. They answer a listener question about play and how levity builds agility, flexibility, and rediscovery.  Jaunt Vacation StaycationCalendar BoundariesAnniversary Jaunt ReflectionsAnnouncements and Farewell If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/  alexispauline.com  sangodare.com  CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    19 min

  5. May 10

    34. I Love Every Age Of You

    In this episode hosts Sangodare and Alexis explore non-linear time, queer time, and the practice of loving every age of oneself and one’s partner. Using a conflict about an expensive pillow after mattress shopping, they discuss feeling unseen, re-parenting each other, and how multiple selves show up in adult life, while clarifying boundaries and rejecting any justification of harm to minors. They offer three “North Stars” and answer a listener question about date night as ritual. They announce a May 24 Revival service in Durham and June cohort registration for Chrysalis Life Purpose Roadmap. Love Every AgeTimeless Love LessonsIntergenerational OrientationBoundaries and Date Night as Ritual If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/  alexispauline.com  sangodare.com  CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    25 min

  6. May 3

    33. Love to Hold It Down

    In a live episode at North Star Church of the Arts in Durham, Sangodare and Alexis use a seafaring metaphor to explore what it means to be “anchored in love”. They unpack how preparation, resourcing and kindness can keep a “love ship” steady through change. They discuss identifying resilience strategies before you need them, discerning when to move versus be still, and remind us that being able to access our tools matters as much as the tools themselves. Anchoring in Love and ForgivenessStress Responses and ResourcingWhat’s Shared and What’s Kept Sacred If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship Because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/  alexispauline.com  sangodare.com  CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    25 min

  7. Apr 26

    32. Love Through The Dark

    In this episode hosts Alexis and Sangodare explore the idea of the “dark night of the soul,” through poetry and a very literal dark-night story of their own. They offer three “North Stars” to help listeners return to love even through the darkness, and answer a listener question about a time they each had to “compost” habits and beliefs that did not serve their highest purpose. Navigating spiritual Darkness with graceElks and Motel MadnessComposting Limiting Beliefs and Behaviour If you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/  alexispauline.com  sangodare.com  CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    25 min

  8. Apr 19

    31. Love To Be Late

    Hosts Sangodare and Alexis reflect on time as a social construct and discuss their contrasting time styles. They share time keeping systems that have worked for them and illustrate how shared practices can align intentions, remembering that ultimately, love is always on time. A listener question prompts discussion of repetition, purpose, and consistent relationship practices. They close with announcing the next live taping on April 24th 2026 at North Star Church of the Arts in Durham, and Sunday School on April 26th Love Beyond TimeHow to approach differing relationships to to timeWe are what we PracticeIf you want to support this podcast and have access to monthly live sessions with us and other goodies, join us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/did-i-mention-we-159287534 For more on our coaching and community building offerings, Click Here https://www.mobilehomecoming.org/loveship And because love is living with purpose, join us for our first Chrysalis Cohort! More info here: https://luma.com/chrysaliscohort1 Let us know what you think through the social channels below, and please leave a review so that like-minded people can find us.  RESOURCES  https://sangodare.podia.com/  alexispauline.com  sangodare.com  CONNECT WITH US Facebook Instagram Website Produced by Wowow Podcasts

    23 min
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September is a weekly podcast for Loveships. It explores the tools and technologies that build and sustain life-changing love relationships. Hosted by writer and facilitator Alexis Pauline Gumbs and artist and entrepreneur Sangodare Wallace, this intimate show draws on their 17-year partnership built on the premise of Loveship as a spiritual practice and Loveship as a resource in community. From conflict and contrast, responsibility and repair, to emotional intimacy and navigating the ever-changing seasons of life, Alexis and Sangodare share insights that nurture not only couples but also families, friends, and communities. Tune in each week for heartfelt conversations that honor relationships as sacred ground—an offering to ourselves, our people, our ancestors, and spirit.

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  • Creator
    Alexis Pauline Gumbs
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 September: A Podcast For Loveships
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