What if peace doesn’t come from pushing harder, but from feeling safe enough to stop performing? In this episode of Be Still and Live, we sit with identity and legacy coach Brandy Graham for a deeply grounding conversation about safety, belonging, and the freedom that comes when we slow down enough to listen inward. Together, we explore why safety, not striving, is the true doorway to peace, and how stillness can become the most forward-moving force in your life. Brandy shares the wake-up moments that changed everything: a kitchen trash can crawling with maggots after months of depletion, and a terrifying ambulance ride with her heart racing past 200 beats per minute. These moments marked the end of pushing through and the beginning of a new kind of authority - one rooted in breath, presence, and truth-telling. From that place, she developed the SAFE method she now guides others through: See, Allow, Free, Embody. We reflect on how to gently notice survival patterns without judgment, why image is not identity, and what it means to live congruent on the inside and the outside. Brandy offers simple, accessible practices to help you return to yourself, wherever you are, including a hand-to-heart 4-2-6 breath, morning light to support your natural rhythms, and micro-gratitude to shift from scarcity to sufficiency. This conversation also touches on boundaries without guilt, the courage to say no, and how to hear your inner voice beneath the noise of screens, schedules, and constant proving. If you’ve ever felt like you have to hold it all together to be worthy, let this be your permission to exhale. You don’t have to earn your way back to yourself, you already belong. Connect with Brandy Graham on LinkedIn and Instagram to learn more about the SAFE method and her work. And if this episode offered you a moment of calm, clarity, or reconnection, consider subscribing, sharing it with someone who needs it, and leaving a review to help others find their way back to stillness. Connect with Brandy: Instagram LinkedIn Website New here? Start with episodes 1-3: “Take Back Your Life”, "From Hustle to Healing", and “5 to Thrive.” *Start Fog to Freedom Here* Rate, Review, & Follow on Apple Podcasts If this conversation brings you a breath of calm, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a quick review to help others find their own rhythm to thrive. Your feedback helps me reach more people who need this message too. It’s easy - just click here, scroll to the bottom, tap those five stars, and hit “Write a Review.” I’d love to know what resonated most with you in this episode! And don’t forget to hit that follow button if you haven’t already! There’s plenty more coming your way - practical tips, inspiring stories, and tools to help you live a life you love. You won’t want to miss out! Let's Connect on Instagram sileocoaching.com Free Guided Fog to Freedom Meditation ...