Do You Feel That? | A Couples Intimacy & Sex Podcast

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Do You Feel That? is a couples intimacy and sex podcast about love, connection, desire, and building a stronger relationship in and out of the bedroom. Hosted by Scott and Brittney, a married couple exploring modern intimacy, each episode blends honest conversations, personal stories, and practical tools to help couples improve communication, deepen emotional connection, and create better sex in long-term relationships. We talk about: • Marriage and intimacy • Sexual communication • Desire differences • Erotic exploration • Guided audio intimacy • Confidence in the bedroom • Reigniting passion after kids • Sex toys, play, and connection • Building emotional safety • Strengthening relationships through intentional intimacy Whether you’re navigating mismatched desire, looking to improve your sex life, or simply wanting to feel closer to your partner, Do You Feel That? offers grounded, real-world conversations to help couples grow together. New episodes every week.

  1. 4H AGO

    The 5 Love Languages — But Make It Spicy

    You know your love language. But do you know what it looks like in bed? In Episode 31, Scott and Brittney take Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages — one of the most widely recognized relationship frameworks in the world — and translate each one specifically into what it looks like during intimacy. Not in general. In the bedroom. Because there's a massive gap between knowing your love language and knowing what your partner actually needs sexually. This episode closes that gap. They walk through all five — words of affirmation, quality time, physical touch, acts of service, and receiving gifts — with specific, honest translations for each one. Then they share their own love languages and what they look like in their intimate life. This one is practical, a little spicy, and gives you something to talk about with your partner before the episode ends. In this episode: Why knowing your love language is just the starting point — not the answerWords of affirmation: why silence reads as absence, and what verbal intimacy actually sounds likeQuality time: why presence during sex matters more than durationPhysical touch: why HOW you touch matters as much as THAT you touchActs of service: the most underappreciated love language in the sexual contextReceiving gifts: why it has nothing to do with money and everything to do with thoughtfulnessScott & Brittney share their own love languages — and what they look like during intimacyRemember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here:  Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/download  Book a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    41 min

  2. MAY 5

    Would You Rather — The Couples Intimacy Edition

    No research drops. No homework. Just a game — and a surprisingly revealing one. In Episode 30, Scott and Brittney play Would You Rather: Couples Intimacy Edition. Fifteen questions, real-time answers, zero prep — and more than a few moments where one of them surprises the other. Would you rather have amazing sex once a month or good sex three times a week? Would you rather know every fantasy your partner has ever had — or have them know all of yours? Would you rather spend the rest of your relationship never talking about sex — or talking about it so openly it occasionally gets uncomfortable? This one is meant to be listened to together. Pause after each question. Answer out loud. See what comes up. In this episode: 15 Would You Rather questions across four rounds — warm up, spicy, revealing, and the final threeScott & Brittney's live, unscripted answers — including the ones that actually surprised each otherWhy forced-choice questions surface preferences that open-ended ones never doThe one thing to do after the episode endsRemember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here:  Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/download  Book a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    49 min

  3. APR 28

    The Female Orgasm — What Most Men Still Don't Understand

    The orgasm gap is one of the most documented — and least honestly discussed — realities in sexual research. In heterosexual sex, men orgasm 95% of the time. Women? 65%. And that gap isn't a body problem. It's an information and attention problem. In Episode 29, Scott and Brittney tackle the female orgasm head-on — covering the anatomy most couples were never taught, the research on what actually works, and the conversation most heterosexual couples have never had. Scott shares what changed when he actually understood the anatomy. Brittney shares what it felt like before and after those conversations happened. This is the episode for every man who thought he understood this — and every woman who has spent years feeling like her pleasure was optional. In this episode: The orgasm gap by the numbers — and why the lesbian orgasm rate reveals everythingThe full anatomy of the clitoris — why it's nothing like what most people were taughtLess than 10% of women orgasm from penetration alone — what that means for your sex lifeThe four research-identified clitoral stimulation techniques most couples have never triedWhy faking orgasm guarantees the gap continues — and what to do insteadThe specific behaviors most strongly associated with female orgasmThe conversation every couple needs to have — and how to start it tonightRemember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here:  Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/download  Book a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    39 min

  4. APR 21

    The Intimacy Bucket List — 10 Sexual Experiences Every Couple Should Try

    We made our actual Intimacy Bucket List. Then we told you which ones we've done. In Episode 28, Scott and Brittney get personal with 10 sexual experiences every couple should try at least once — and instead of keeping it theoretical, they share exactly where each item lands for them personally. Done it? Haven't gotten there yet? One of them more into it than the other? You're getting the real answers. From outdoor sex and blindfold and temperature play, to restraint, anal play, mirror sex, a nude getaway, and the one experience that should belong only to the two of you — this list is spicy, honest, and built for couples who want to keep their sex life genuinely alive, not just functional. Fair warning: you're going to want to pause this episode and text your partner at least twice. In this episode: Why long-term couples stop exploring — and what novelty actually does to attraction10 bucket list experiences ranging from vulnerable to boldScott & Brittney's honest, specific answers for each one — done it or not, and what the story isHow to share this list with your partner without making it feel like a performance reviewWhy finding the "easiest yes" together is the smartest starting pointRemember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here:  Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/download  Book a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    49 min

  5. APR 15

    10 Intimacy Myths We Believed (And Had to Unlearn)

    Where did you learn about sex and intimacy? Movies? Church? A locker room? A well-meaning friend who was just as clueless as you? Most of us absorbed our earliest beliefs about intimacy from sources that were wrong, incomplete, or actively harmful — and we've been quietly running on those beliefs ever since. In Episode 27, Scott and Brittney get personal and a little vulnerable as they walk through the top 10 intimacy myths they actually believed — and what it took to unlearn them. From the spontaneous passion myth and the mind-reading expectation, to performance pressure, purity culture messaging, and the idea that wanting more means something is wrong with you — this episode names the scripts most couples are still running on without realizing it. It's lighter than it sounds. There's humor, honesty, and more than a few moments where Scott and Brittney share the personal cost of believing something that was never true. In this episode: Why unconscious myths do more damage than obvious onesThe spontaneous passion myth — and what responsive desire actually looks likePerformance myths about duration and frequency that were never based in realityHow purity culture messaging shows up in adult relationships long after you've left the churchThe movie version of sex vs. the real, awkward, actually intimate versionThe common thread across all 10 myths: they were all designed to make you smallerRemember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here:  Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/download  Book a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    58 min

  6. APR 8

    Anal Sex for Beginners — What Nobody Tells You But Everyone Wants to Know

    One of the most searched, least honestly discussed topics in couples' intimacy — and we're going there. In this episode, Scott and Brittney tackle anal sex for beginners: the real statistics, the anatomy you actually need to understand, a practical step-by-step guide for couples who want to explore it safely, and the emotional conversation that most how-to guides skip entirely. Whether you're curious and don't know where to start, one partner has brought it up and the other isn't sure how to respond, or you've tried it and felt like something was off — this episode gives you the honest, judgment-free information and perspective most people never get. In this episode: The actual prevalence data — it's more common than the silence around it suggestsAnatomy basics: why the anus requires different preparation than vaginal sexThe prostate and why anal pleasure is an anatomy thing, not an orientation thingA practical step-by-step guide: lube, pacing, prep, safety, and what "go slow" actually meansHow to bring it up with your partner — and how not toWhat to do if one partner is interested and the other isn'tThe trust component — and why that's the real prerequisiteRemember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here:  Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/download  Book a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    43 min

  7. MAR 31

    The Intimacy Audit — How Connected Are You Really?

    How connected are you — really? Not how connected you used to be. Not how connected you intend to be. Right now, today — how well do you actually know what your partner is carrying, what they need, and how satisfied they are? In Episode 25, Scott and Brittney do something a little different: they walk through a 7-question Intimacy Audit live — answering each question honestly, reacting to each other's answers in real time, and inviting you to sit with your own answers as you listen. These aren't trick questions. They're the ones most couples never think to ask — until the drift has already happened. Questions about initiation, laughter, the things you haven't said, how seen your partner feels, and whether you actually know the answers or just think you do. This is a lighter episode — fun, honest, a little revealing — but don't be surprised if it opens a conversation you didn't know you needed. In this episode: Why slow drift is more dangerous than a big fight — and how to catch it early7 audit questions that reveal more than you expectScott and Brittney answer live — including the ones that hit hardestWhat to do with what you discover — without turning it into a grievance listHow the audit connects back to the daily practices from Episode 24Remember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here:  Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/download  Book a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    56 min

  8. MAR 24

    The 10-Minute Intimacy Reset — Small Rituals That Keep Couples Close

    You don't need a weekend retreat to feel close again. You need six seconds. In Episode 24, Scott and Brittney break down the research-backed micro-rituals that keep connected couples close — and that disconnected couples have quietly stopped doing. These aren't elaborate date nights or weekend getaways. They're small, repeatable practices that take ten minutes or less, and the science behind them is hard to argue with. From Dr. John Gottman's famous 6-second kiss (built from 30 years of research on over 3,000 couples) to the 20-second hug that actually lowers your blood pressure, the daily appreciation practice that predicts next-day satisfaction, and the non-sexual touch reset most couples have forgotten — this episode gives you a practical toolkit you can start using tonight. Scott and Brittney also get honest about why couples stop doing these things — and it's rarely about being too busy. They talk about how emotional distance makes small rituals feel awkward, why that's the exact moment to lean in anyway, and how consistency is what turns a simple practice into real intimacy. In this episode: The science behind why small moments matter more than big gesturesThe 6-second kiss — what it is, why 6 seconds, and what it does to your brainThe 20-second hug and its measurable effects on stress and connectionThe daily appreciation practice that boosts next-day satisfaction for both partnersA no-phone check-in ritual and why "how was your day?" is the wrong questionThe sensory slow-down: non-sexual touch that actually rebuilds desireWhy couples stop doing these things — and how to start again even when it feels awkwardRemember — intimacy is not automatic... it's guided. Couples Intimacy Resources Looking to improve your sex life, strengthen your marriage, or deepen intimacy in your relationship? Download Coelle, our guided audio intimacy app for couples, designed to strengthen communication, build confidence, and support emotional and physical connection. For personalized support, Scott offers Sex & Intimacy Coaching focused on marriage, desire differences, and building stronger sexual confidence. Explore both here:  Download the App: https://www.coelle.app/download  Book a Free Discovery Call: https://www.coelle.app/sex-intimacy-coaching

    34 min
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Do You Feel That? is a couples intimacy and sex podcast about love, connection, desire, and building a stronger relationship in and out of the bedroom. Hosted by Scott and Brittney, a married couple exploring modern intimacy, each episode blends honest conversations, personal stories, and practical tools to help couples improve communication, deepen emotional connection, and create better sex in long-term relationships. We talk about: • Marriage and intimacy • Sexual communication • Desire differences • Erotic exploration • Guided audio intimacy • Confidence in the bedroom • Reigniting passion after kids • Sex toys, play, and connection • Building emotional safety • Strengthening relationships through intentional intimacy Whether you’re navigating mismatched desire, looking to improve your sex life, or simply wanting to feel closer to your partner, Do You Feel That? offers grounded, real-world conversations to help couples grow together. New episodes every week.

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