The Backdoor Podcast

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The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities. Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says. Because sometimes, the real talk happens through the backdoor. NEW episodes Monday & Thusdays.

  1. 1d ago

    The Truth About Why People Cheat

    In this episode of the backdoor podcast we talk about cheating. We dive into our opinion on cheating, the reason people do it and if a relationship can recover from someone cheating. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    25 min

  2. 3d ago

    Being Creators Together: The Relationship Side No One Sees | Ep. 60

    What happens when your relationship becomes part of your business? In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like being creators together while trying to maintain a healthy relationship. From content creation and online attention to boundaries, burnout, and balancing work with real life, we’re sharing the side people rarely see. Being creators as a couple comes with opportunities, but it also comes with challenges that can impact communication, intimacy, trust, and connection. In this episode we discuss: The realities of working together as a couple How content creation affects relationships behind the scenes Managing online attention, validation, and boundaries The pressure of turning your life into content How we protect our relationship while building a business together If you've ever wondered what it's actually like to navigate love, content creation, and a public-facing relationship, this episode gives an honest look at the highs, lows, and lessons we've learned along the way. Real conversations about relationships, content creation, intimacy, communication, and the realities of building a life together online — no filters. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    33 min

  3. May 28

    The Things Couples Notice... But Pretend Don't Matter | Ep. 59

    Every couple notices the little things… they just don’t always admit how much they actually matter. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re talking about the subtle behaviors, energy shifts, and small changes people pretend don’t bother them — even though they slowly affect attraction, connection, and the overall relationship over time. From social media habits and communication changes to effort, affection, and emotional distance, we’re breaking down the things couples quietly keep track of but rarely talk about openly. In this episode we discuss: The subtle shifts people notice when relationships start changing Why “small things” become emotional over time How effort, attention, and energy affect attraction The unspoken scorekeeping couples secretly do Why people stay silent until resentment builds If you’ve ever felt like something was “off” but couldn’t fully explain why, this episode dives into the hidden dynamics that slowly shape relationships behind the scenes. Real conversations about love, attraction, communication, and the little things couples don’t always say out loud — no filters. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    21 min

  4. May 21

    Watching Porn: Harmless or a Relationship Killer? | Ep. 58

    In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we dive into one of the most debated topics in modern relationships: is watching porn harmless entertainment, or can it slowly damage intimacy, trust, and attraction between couples? We unpack relationship boundaries, emotional disconnect, addiction concerns, unrealistic expectations, and how porn consumption can affect communication, loyalty, and long-term relationships in today’s dating culture. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    28 min

  5. May 18

    Why Couple Slowly Stop Sharing With Each Other | Ep. 57

    In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re diving into the quiet shift that happens in many relationships — when couples slowly stop opening up, sharing thoughts, and communicating on a deeper level. It’s not always intentional… and it usually doesn’t happen all at once. From feeling misunderstood and avoiding conflict to emotional exhaustion and disconnection, we’re breaking down why people start keeping things to themselves — and how that silence can slowly create distance in a relationship. In this episode we discuss: Why couples stop sharing the little (and big) things The difference between communication and emotional connection How feeling unheard or misunderstood leads to silence Where people start turning instead of their partner How to rebuild trust, openness, and emotional safety If you’ve ever felt like something changed in how you and your partner communicate — or noticed yourself holding things in — this episode dives into the real reasons why. Real conversations about love, communication, emotional intimacy, and the things couples don’t always say out loud. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    28 min

  6. May 14

    The Small Habits That Quietly Kill Attraction | Ep. 56

    Attraction doesn’t disappear overnight… it fades through small habits most couples don’t even notice. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we’re breaking down the everyday behaviors that slowly kill attraction in relationships — from lack of effort and constant criticism to emotional distance, routine, and feeling taken for granted. It’s not one big mistake… it’s the little things that add up over time. In this episode we discuss: The subtle habits that turn partners off without realizing it How comfort can quietly replace attraction Why effort, respect, and emotional connection matter more than people think The role of routine in killing chemistry How to rebuild attraction before it’s too late If you’ve ever felt the spark shift or wondered why things don’t feel the same anymore, this episode dives into the real reasons attraction fades — and how to bring it back. Real conversations about love, intimacy, communication, and the hidden dynamics that shape long-term relationships — no filters. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    27 min

  7. May 11

    Would You Stay or Leave? Real Relationship Scenarios That Get Messy | Ep. 55

    In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we react to messy real-life relationship scenarios and debate the ultimate question: would you stay or leave? From cheating, double standards, toxic behavior, and emotional manipulation to loyalty, boundaries, and modern dating struggles, we break down the kinds of situations couples face every day. If you’re into relationship debates, dating psychology, viral couple discussions, and unfiltered conversations about love and trust, this episode is for you. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    22 min

  8. May 7

    How Money Affects Your Relationship and Lifestyle | Ep. 54

    Money changes more than your bank account — it changes relationships, priorities, attraction, pressure, and the way people move through life. In this episode of The Backdoor Podcast, we talk about how money can strengthen a relationship or quietly destroy it. From lifestyle inflation and financial stress to dating standards, ambition, gender roles, and the pressure to “keep up,” this conversation gets real about the emotional side of money that people rarely explain out loud. Whether you’re building together, struggling financially, or trying to figure out if success changes people, this episode breaks down the hidden ways money affects love, loyalty, confidence, and everyday life. The Relationship Reset Blueprint: https://stan.store/stephandkayls Follow us on social media: https://link.me/thestephandkayls Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    25 min
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The Backdoor Podcast with Steph & Kayls is where no question is off-limits. The viral duo behind TikTok’s hit “question series” take their raw, hilarious chemistry to the mic — diving deep into relationships, social media, and the realities of being viral creators, parents, and OnlyFans personalities. Expect unfiltered conversations, hot takes, and the kind of honesty everyone thinks but never says. Because sometimes, the real talk happens through the backdoor. NEW episodes Monday & Thusdays.

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  • Creator
    thebackdoorwithsk
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    61
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Copyright 2025 All rights reserved.
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    The Backdoor Podcast

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